Testimonials
- The Flow
- Mastery Methods & Mindsets
- 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend
- Dating Power
- Confessions of a Natural: Interviews
- Dating Stories
- The Ultimate Guide to Conversation
The Flow
"The girl I've liked from work is now my girlfriend..."
“I read your book The Flow because I wanted to know how an alpha male talked to women to get them interested. Amazing stuff man...I used your funny lines and alpha techniques and the girl I've liked from work (for the last year!) is now my girlfriend..." Sam, NY, USA
"Easy to understand..."
“Very well done. Your techniques are fresh, intelligent, sincere and written in a easy to understand casual way - real life. Your 3 second look up and down followed by "Your pretty and I like your style" comment is great. I'll be using that one tonight at a party I'm attending..." Lee, Canada
"I've got a date lined up...this week"
“It’s painful to admit, but I now acknowledge that I’ve wasted a good 15 years of my life doing the wrong things. I am so glad to have found this material…I’ve got a date lined up with a hottie this coming week...” Michael, NSW, Australia
"I was like a fish out of water"
“...but when it came to getting a girlfriend, I was like a fish out of water. Since reading your book and applying the methods over the past 2 months, that has now changed.
I am in a relationship now with a girl that turns heads wherever we go...thank you!" Andrew, London, England
"Five stars"
“After years of enduring on with the odd bit of luck – I’m now having sex with new girls all the time, which is what I want because I think I deserve to have enjoy this before settling into a relationship. The flow ebook was a total bargain and I can’t thank you enough for the clarity of the examples and instructions you provided…five stars from me.” Brian, NY, U.S.A.
"I often ended up being seen as the friend"
"I recently got dumped after dating a girl for over 6 months. It left me devastated; partly because she suddenly left me for reasons that I could not understand (I now understand that was because I stopped 'maintaining interest' and lost my unpredicatability/mysteriousness)
Luckily, it did not kill my confidence, so there was no problem there. The problem was more to do with my inability to flirt/create sexual tension, and thus I often ended up being seen as 'the friend.'
My above relationship happened more because of lucky chance than my ability with women. After reading your book, I have learnt some of the more important flirting/attraction techniques; (as well as boosted my already decent confidence levels) and thus have managed to attract a number of ladies =)
I've got a new beautiful girlfriend, and I could say I have another 3 in the pipeline/waiting list :p It was absolutely wonderful to actually be able to CHOOSE a girl, rather than relying on luck! Thanks" Patrick R, London, UK
"Reading it was like flicking a switch in my head..."
“…By the time I got to page 40, I had already broken the ice with a girl I had never even been able to get a smile out of. Reading it was like flicking a switch in my head that changed my mindset straight away. I can only imagine how much easier things are going to get once I start really start to follow the techniques fully." P, Melbourne, AUS
"This is awesome!"
“Fantastic! Absolutely eye-opening. Dan – your ability to take the reader through the ‘process’ of a natural courtship, while making it all so simple is amazing.
The results speak for themselves – I can actually walk up to girls now and chat to them confidently. It’s only been a week and a half and I’ve gotten 3 phone numbers …this is awesome!” Steve, CA, U.S.A.
"I used to have this 2 month curse when it came to women"
First of all THANK YOU SO MUCH, Dan!! You have helped me SIGNIFICANTLY with my life when it comes to women!
I have been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months, and I used to have this 2 month curse when it came to women.
I never really was all that bad with women to begin with, but I had a horrible problem of trying to hard with them (like trying to impress them) and with falling in love with them too quickly.
Because of your book, I have learned what I need to change in my life to get the results that I want out of life!
Thanks to your book, I have got this girl to go from "let's just be friends" to "when are we gonna hang out again?" if you know what I mean. ;) Anyway, thanks again, Dan! You are a LIFESAVER! Sincerely, Drew, Alabama, USA
"I felt like I was never being my true self..."
“...I also hated that I was so shy around women and suppressed by a fear of rejection. I felt like I was never being my true self, which made me feel like a phony, or an outsider when I was around people. That has all changed now - not only have I been having sex with new women that I've met over the past couple of months, but I have new friends and brighter outlook on life. I'm so glad I got your book...who knows where I'd be if I didn't." Peter, Alabama, USA
"She was shocked..."
“...Well, after reading your guide, I listened to what it said and followed it almost 100%. I mostly tried to remain calm, cool and collect. Today was valentines day, and I thought that i would shock/ surprise the girl ive liked for months now. She was shocked.
Though she knew that I liked her, she didn't know how much i did. I asked her to hang out with me sometime. I get the feeling that this could evolve into a relationship, and a very good one. With great thanks..." David, USA
"Changed my dating big time..."
“...Hey Dan. I read the flow, its simple straight forward but man is it accurate. its changed my dating big time, thanks for your directions, its been great so far!" Tom, Ireland
"She quickly texted me back..."
“Hi Dan, I bought 'the flow' a few weeks ago and it rationalized for me the now obvious things I was getting wrong. Particularly chatting the right way at a first meet in different situations.
Anyway, I was in a crowded bar with some pals, trying to get served. I was next to a really hot girl, who was also out with her pals. I started chatting to her about how its great fun bumping into people while getting served. She chatted and joked and by the time we both got served I had moved the conversation on to all sorts of more flirty stuff. She was too.
We both went back to our pals but I could see her glancing at me across the bar. When she went to the bar again I made a point of standing next to her and the conversation got real fun and flirty and lots of laughs.
She put her no. in my phone and I said she was cool but I was with my pals, so I'd be in touch. The next day I texted her and she quickly texted me back. We exchanged texts for a few days then I arranged dinner. The date went well, lots of fun and things have moved on well, so we see one another regularly. She is 26 and I'm 56.
I'm so grateful to the 'Flow' as it prevented me from chickening out after the first chance encounter and helped with the correct approach for a 'bar' situation.
Yours, Grahame”
"Absolutely incredible!"
“...Just wanted to drop you guys a quick line and let you know that your book in absolutely incredible! Not a month after reading your book, I went out to the bar with some friends.
Well, in the past I would have hung out with my friends and thought "If I talk to anyone else aside from my friends, I'm going to get ridiculed" I decided that, no matter how much I might trip over myself and goof things up because I'm not used to going up to strangers and striking up a conversation, I would do it that night, and let me tell you....Its amazing how much different things were just taking some of your tips on just projecting confidence and not slinking away at first sign of resistance. Your book is like my bible now!
To this day, being Wednesday, it has been 4 days since I was out with those friends, and I have phoned a couple of the numbers, didn't go fishing for a date, actually never asked for one in the first phone call, and THEY called ME back asking me to meet up for coffee or drinks.
I just have one word left for you guys....THANKS!" Jeff, Winnipeg, Canada
"We even had sex on the same night!"
“ I used your tips and I got a kiss and we even had sex the same night!" Joseph, New York, USA
"I have been a pussy when it comes to women..."
“After reading your e-book I realise I have been a pussy when it comes to women. Especially my fiance' after 8 years of her being mostly the boss around the house." Ted, England
"Literally begging me into the bedroom..."
“Hi Dan
I know you deal with mainly single guys, but here is some encouragement for any married guys who need to sharpen up on their relationship skills.
I have read and listened to just about all of your material. While I was already familiar with much of what you teach out of having had to get my own masculine act together the hard way, your work has filled in a number of important gaps for me and has inspired me to be much more proactive in my relationship with my wife.
Flirting, being risque, being unpredictable, being sexually adventurous, being the higher status person and so on, has my wife clawing at my clothes and literally begging me into the bedroom every night.
I can say from direct experience as a happily married man, that what you and your team teach, has great implications for married men as well as single ones.
My wife will be the first person to back me up on this.
Regards" Richard L, QLD, Australia
"Amazing how easy it is..."
“I wish I ordered your ebook earlier. I just met this lady online and spoke to her over the phone, we hit it off very well and we decided to meet half way from where we live. We live 4 hours apart. Amazing how easy it is when you know what to do..." Anonymous, USA
"You're right on point!"
“...I ordered the e-book Flow, figuring I'd blow $50 taking a girl to dinner, so what the hey. You're right on point! Thanks so much." Bob in Santa Monica
"In 3 months, I'd already had 8 dates..."
“...After a lifetime of women basically 'ignoring' me and seeing me only as a friend, I read your book and in 3 months I'd already had 8 dates.
Its mindblowing how well your stuff works...I ended up choosing one of the best women out of those 8 and she's now my girlfriend. Couldn't have done it without your techniques, so thank you!" Evan, USA
Mastery Methods & Mindsets
"We are meeting for a date this Tuesday night..."
“Hello, I was just listening to the Methods section, and at the end, you said, ' Just enjoy your time around women '
I think this is the most important factor of the whole course, for if you enjoy your self, then you give out positive vibes, and generally will relax and make the women have a good time.
Apologies if you know this (which im sure you do), but i just thought i might just say this for it was what you said at the end and in a offhand way, so i was not sure if you might realise the significance.
And, Thankyou so much for the advice that you have given me, my confidence is back up to and at unprecedented levels and its nice to be playing with the women just in the street. I got a phone number yesterday in front of my friends and they were like WTF? I texted her later and now we are meeting for a date this Tuesday night...loving it! " Luke from England
"Ended up kissing a girl within 30 minutes..."
“I listened to your program on Thursday day, then went out with a friend to a bar on Friday night and ended up kissing a girl within 30 minutes. I am still amazed at how much I've changed. Later than night, I got 2 other phone numbers, so I am going to date those girls as well...thanks a lot Modern Man - your stuff works!" Richard, New York
"Something has finally worked for me!"
“I reckon I have tried just about everything to get better with the ladies, as they say...but, every thing I did made practically no difference - I'd always end up falling back into the same old rut. Not this time. The Mastery Methods program has finally given me the advice I so desperately needed! To my great relief, I can now say that something has finally worked for me!
Get this - a female friend of mine who only ever saw me as a friend is now sleeping at my house twice a week! She just came on to me one night, while I was using your attraction techniques. I also got a number on the first night I went out since getting your program, but I haven't called her yet because I'm enjoying the time with my female friend turned girlfriend!!!" Alan, Sydney, Australia
"My confidence has gone through the roof..."
“I actually didn't think it would be possible to listen to what you guys had to say and then have my confidence improve so much. I am not kidding you when I say my confidence has gone through the roof. I feel like a new man! I had been reading up on other sites trying to find something that would work for me, but the advice was just too basic. You guys have really pushed the limits with this. In my opinion this is 5-star quality information.
I know it works because my ex-girlfriend is now attracted to me again...and the women I've met in bars lately are texting me and acting real keen. Thanks a lot - I am so glad that I bought your product and I just thought I'd let others know what it has done for me" Hugh, Canada
"I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't done it myself..."
“I was searching a long time to find the solution to my problems with women and I knew instantly that this stuff was it.
Since I started applying the techniques and mindsets you show, I've gotten a lot more confidence with not just women but all the other areas of my life. I now I ask more for what I want and I usually get it. Like last night at the clubs, I started talking to a beautiful girl near the bar and 10 minutes later, I said "We should talk again, give me your number" and gave her my phone. She put the number in and said 'Cool, call me - I'd like to catch up sometime"
I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't done it myself.
Also, I think I had the nice guy mentality from being duped by all the movies and books out there that depict relationships and how guys should act in the wrong way than they actually are. So, I always just played the Mr. Polite Guy and got nothing.
The mindsets aspect is amazing, because I never understood positive thinking until you talked about negative dialogue going on in your head. Well, i've been able to improve on that a lot! It wasn't that i never heard it before to be positive, but the way you guys explained it in such great detail while still being easy to understand is a really a rare thing.
Thanks a lot guys - I'm now back in the game and kicking ass!" D, CA, USA
"She's coming over to my house on Thursday..."
“For what I’ve got from your Mastery program already, I think it’s a bargain and easily the best thing I’ve ever bought. I actually work as a cleaner, so I had to save a while for this! Anyway, since listening to your advice I have never been so confident in all my life, nor did I think I’d ever be.
People now respect me and women just instantly get attracted to me because of my confidence. I’m dating a chick I met at the mall 2 weeks ago who I previously would’ve avoided because of her beauty. She’s coming over to my house on Thursday night to cook dinner with me, so I think I'll be gettin some lovin if you know what I mean! Thanks for making it all so simple...I used to see chicks as hard work, but I get it now. Also your confidence advice is rock-solid, I feel like I’ve finally become a man with all this...” Tyrone, NY
21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend
"I'm actually going on a date tomorrow night!"
“I’ve been using the 30 day challenge for two weeks now...I’m halfway there and have scored to 2 numbers. In the beginning I thought I wasn’t getting anywhere because the challenges were pretty easy, but now I see why they are set up like that…by the time I got to getting numbers it was easy as well, whereas I previously would have choked in that situation. It helped knowing what to say by using the conversation examples you guys provide in 21 ways.
I’m actually going on a date tomorrow night with one of the girls and just wanted to let you guys know and say thanks!!” Brian, San Diego
"She came home with me that same night"
“I got to a point where I thought I was hopeless with women.
I was frustrated and finally asked out a girl I had some rapport with. I thought just having the balls to ask her would make her want to date me. She turned me down.
I was living with three guys who got a TON of girls and thought there was something wrong with me and I didn't know how to fix it. I searched the internet for advice and eventually got 21 Ways. I listened to everything over and over for three days.
That week I woke up, put on a nice outfit and was brimming with confidence. I made eye-contact with everyone I saw and felt great and people could tell by how I was smiling and carrying myself. I could feel people viewing me in a new way.
I was waiting in a cafe before class and made eye contact and playful facial expressions with everyone (about a weird guy who seemed drunk at 9am) especially with this one girl. I recognized her as one of the girls on campus that every guy knew because she was that incredibly hot.
I didn't think twice about it and just went through the day doing what I was doing. I felt great! The next night I saw that hot girl at a bar.
She seemed to be all over my radar, trying to get me to notice her. Finally, she got a mutual friend to introduce us and we had a nice, fun conversation. She was chasing me!
When I could tell things were getting really interesting I said, "It's been nice talking to you. I'm gonna go get back to my friends and get a drink."
She was shocked! I saw her later on and got her number...she came home with me that same night...and we are now dating. You guys rock - thanks for everything...” John, Brooklyn, NY, 21
"I'd always chat to girls and never get anywhere"
“I've always been very chatty, funny and a extrovert, so no issues there but i NEVER knew how to flirt, I'd always chat to girls and never get anywhere.
Within 2 weeks of me listening to your advice i've introduced flirting and ended up with a seriously HOT girl last weekend. This is only the beginning and i'm starting to view rejection differently as well, no more despair - more like let's try again!!" Gary F, Melbourne, Australia
"The first time I used them [the techniques] I got a number"
“Hi Dan, now i know what i have been doing wrong all this time and that is being too nice,but now using the techniques i feel much more confident in approaching top class women.
The first time i used them i got a number in a bookstore and am working on getting lots more. the examples you guys provide are amazing...it really helps now that i have things to SAY to women when i talk to them" Chris, Australia, 29 years
"Was able to take them back to my place"
"I was at a movie theater with my friend John recently. We saw some girls and I was able to walk up to them, start a conversation and it just so happened we were going to the same movie. Perfect I know. Hung out with them after the Movie and was able to take them back to my place for some wine and some clean fun.
This has been the best investment i have ever made and have never been happier or more optimistic about my life and my future with women. " Bill D.C
"This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around"
“Before I got 21 Ways, I was not good socially. I would try to be nice to girls, and approach very few of them.
I would always let other people take the lead in social situations, and later when they would be with the girl, I found sit in the background.
Now, I understand how I should treat girls, make them laugh, lead them, etc. And my social life (and as a result my dating life) have all picked up to the point where I've slept with a good amount of women and it fun (not difficult or scary) to approach and meet now.
I've also made a heap of new friends now that I'm getting invited to house parties, using the tips you guys have given me. This has boosted my confidence and self-esteem all-around. Thanks guys! " Jack Cedar Rapids, MO. Age 25
"I've already got 2 phone numbers ..."
“I've only had this program for a week and I've already got 2 phone numbers. For me that's a lot because I've always been to shy to meet women (especially during the day).
Using your conversation examples, I met one girl when I was buying some lunch during my break and another on the train..I've decided to date both of them and then work out which one I like best. Been chatting on the phone to train girl and went on a date with lunch girl last night (kissed her at the end). I can't thank you guys enough..." David, CA, USA
"Now I have a girlfriend..."
“When i found your audio program I thought "Okay here's something to take me in the right direction".
I'm not interested in just sleeping with girls, but now I have a girlfriend of 2 weeks and she is absolutely stunning. Best girl I have ever met, and I can be myself around her and be confident in such a way that I think this relationship is really going somewhere good." Will, Ohio
"I got four phone numbers in two hours..."
“I've always wanted to know how to get the hot chicks in shopping malls - especially the ones who work in the clothing stores.
Well, after listening to your program, I listened to what it said and followed the steps and get this - I got FOUR phone numbers in TWO hours. 2 of the girls were super hotties (one in a clothing store and one in a jewelry store), and the other two I met in the food court...so as you can imagine - I am absolutely over the moon with this!
To date in my life, I have NEVER been with a hot girl. Now, I have FOUR numbers...FOUR girls to choose from...this is insane and my friends cannot believe the change in me. I can't thank you guys enough for your expertise on this...I feel like a totally different man and finally feel like I have CONTROL in this area of my life!" PK, USA
"We ended up spending the day together..."
“I met a woman who was listed in the top ten in an online dating site just using the ideas from the online dating section in your program. She actually said she was really anticipating my visit and we ended up spending the day together" K, England
"I know I can get her..."
“I have vastly improved both my friendships with women and my romantic relationships as well. Now when I find a woman I am interested in and I know she is single, I know I can get her” Justin R Fort myers, FL, USA
"Approaching women during the day is easy now..."
“Since listening to your audio training I've got phone numbers 3 girls during the day. One in a mall, another who is a a waitress in a cafe near my work and the other when I was waiting in line at a juice bar.
I honestly can't believe that it's this easy now...seriously, it's like I'm living in a completely different world, where girls are as scary as they used to be...like, it's all no big deal. Seriously man, approaching women during the day is easy now...where as I used to always stumble, use a crap line and then run out of things to say...and it would quickly get awkward because I didn't know how to handle the situation. You guys deserve a medal or something. Big ups to y'all...” Ricky, Louisiana
"Got a date lined up with a beautiful Russian girl this week..."
“Not only have I got a date lined up with a beautiful Russian girl this week, but I've also made heaps of new friends by using your techniques. My sister commented the other day that I seem so confident these days and asked me where I was meeting all the women I had been telling her about. My reply? Everywhere!" Ethan, Ireland
"I have a girlfriend thanks to you guys... "
"I have a girlfriend thanks to you guys and I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate it. Your guidance is so specific and well presented and when I met her during the day at my local mall (I originally just went to get some groceries!), it felt like the most natural and easy thing to do thanks to you
Your conversation examples made me feel more confident, because I would have otherwise run out of things to say. My girlfriend is the most beautiful person I have ever met and she also happens to be an easy 9/10...thanks again" S.L, Alabama, USA
Dating Power
"Unlike anything else I’ve seen before..."
“Informative knowledge that is innovative, dynamic and unlike anything else I’ve seen before. The guys are brilliant in their insights into interacting with women with knowledge that can help every guy out there." Justin, VIC, Australia, 25 years old
"Practical and real"
“I really liked the content and the delivery style as it didn’t seem canned and cheesy, rather more practical and real. I liked the inner game concepts taught by Dan. I liked the Body Language demonstrations and knowledge from Ben. Also liked the Transaction/Interaction concept delivered by Stu. You guys are the best in the world at this for sure.” Ian, QLD, Australia. 32 years old
"FANTASTIC"
“Excellent. Dan, Ben and Stu are obviously very dedicated, excellent communicators and thoroughly knowledgeable, in particular their ability to communicate at a level to help beginners. Of particular benefit has been their discussion of presence and breaking difficult concepts to simple examples while emphasizing adaptation. FANTASTIC SEMINAR!" John N, VIC, Australia, 27 years old
"The guys...definitely knew their stuff"
“The guys were great and definitely knew their stuff. Enjoyable seminar presented well. Cheers guys.” Leigh, VIC, Australia, 33 years old
"You blew away any doubt that success is possible for me"
“When you said that success with women begins with the right information, you blew away any doubt that success is possible for me. Also, learning to ‘love women for who they are’ is something I’ve never heard or thought of and I thank you for teaching it as I know it will make an immense difference." JD, SA, Australia, 21 years old
"Awesome...dynamic"
“My hand didn’t stop! I was jotting down notes the whole time. Ben, Dan and Stu are awesome. Content and explanation was dynamic. The guys looked down to earth and very genuine. Definitely worth the trip to Melbourne!” Patrick, NSW, Australia, 23 years old
"Very professional"
“Awesome, you guys put on a great show. Jam packed with great information and tips, not tricks or cheesy methods just great down-to-earth advice. I feel empowered and confident to approach women. You guys are very professional. I will attend more seminars if offered.” Lloyd, VIC, Australia, 30 years old
"Essential foundation for success with women"
“Very good breadth and depth of information and a great and essential foundation for success with women. Thankyou.” John, VIC, Australia, 51 years old
"Highly recommended"
“Very informative, highly recommended – can’t wait to put what I have learned into practice!” Simon, VIC, Australia, 32 years old
"Women...are now pouring into my life..."
“I wasn’t sure what to anticipate from the seminar, I half expected to hear a live version of the Modern Man E-book. What I received however, was far from it.
After that one day, I feel like the flood gates have opened and the women who’ve been waiting patiently are now pouring into my life. What’s more, I can even see the turning points in other people’s interactions and know exactly where they will end based on the guy's behavior.
Without giving away too much, the biggest thing to help me was the section on ‘Loving women for who they are’.
Without knowing it, I’d been suppressing all the behavior in me that creates success and thinking I was some sort of gentleman for doing it. I have also been blown away by the reactions I get from women when I use the ‘Power Moves’ they gave us.
In all honesty I was afraid that being ‘The Man” meant I would have to be the one to take control and make decisions. But from the moment I took their words to heart and put their teaching into practice, I haven’t EVER looked back.
I don’t just feel in control with women, I feel in control in every area of my life now.
I used to go out with my mates and watch them get up and dance with strangers and feel frozen. Or spend my whole night trying to talk myself into going over and talking to this one girl I couldn’t stop staring at but end leaving and feeling angry at myself for the rest of the week. Now…things have changed.
That’s another thing, I was surprised by the magnitude of the results compared to how simple and tangible the things we were taught to do were. Everything they taught was pure and uncomplicated.
They teach you how to be yourself, and that’s not something a person can fully understand until they’ve come out of the seminar.
Best way to sum it up, it’s like that saying: “Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime" Jack D, SA, Australia, 21 years old
"It all seems a bit too easy now..."
“Hey Dan,
A lot has happened since the seminar. I have gone out with a few girls since, and have currently got a girlfriend. Let me give you the info….
About three weeks after the seminar I picked up a girl at a nightclub and ended up having a one-night stand with her. That's as far as it went, as I very soon found out that she had emotional problems which I decided were not worth getting involved in.
After that hiccup, I went out with three more girls and did not really get anywhere with them but did see common traits in each of these girls which made me feel more comfortable, as I could at least see patterns in their behavior which gave me confidence in dealing with other girls.
One of the things at the seminar which really helped me was Ben's explanation of being present i.e. being focused on a girl, paying attention to what she says and how she says it with her body language. I made an effort to look at the signals that she was giving out, and instead of getting frustrated with not understanding what these signals meant, I stored them in the memory bank and kept an eye out for similar signals with other girls that I talked to.
Slowly but surely I could see what signals or words a girl would use to either continue or terminate a conversation.
Now let me tell you about how I met my current girlfriend…
I was at the "Mind, body and spirit" section of the Borders bookshop at Jam factory, and I noticed her looking at a book I had seen earlier. I made a casual remark about the book to her, established rapport, and from there we just hit it off really well.
We had a coffee afterwards, and then planned to meet up for a date. We went on about 3 dates together before things got intimate, and we have been going steady since then. It all seems a bit too easy now, but only time will tell.
I am still going out with my mates to the nightclubs, acting as their wingman for women that they are interested in, and it gives me good practice in talking/flirting with girls. As always, I am still learning about the different signals they give off and how to read them.
Cheers” Jim, VIC, 30 years old
"I'm dating a few great women now..."
“Hi Dan,
Since the seminar I have approached far more women in the last few months, using the tools from the course, than I have for the whole of last year.
It was tough at first, but the more I did it the easier it got. Now its like, if the girl shows no interest, I move on to the next one, doesn't bother me, it's not personal. But before, after one knock back, that would have been it for the night.
I'm coming across more confident, not desperate like I used to be. I'm dating a few great women now and I can't thank the modern man guys enough.
The question I have is, is it better to stick to the one girl when I am talking with her for the first time if everything is going well? Or get her phone number and move on to the next one? Only problem I see is if she sees me with the other girls, I may come across as a player. What do you think?
Cheers" Peter, VIC, 27 years old
"Within two months we were living together..."
“Hey guys
Firstly, following the seminar my confidence in approaching women improved a little - and then improved dramatically as I put your teachings into practice.
I was able to speak with women very easily, and see amazing success - from having never been able to approach women I went to being able to approach, flirt with and usually take it a bit further any time I wanted to literally in the space of a couple of weeks.
So, very quickly finding myself dating several different women at any given time.
Now I've settled on one - gorgeous ex-model, originally from South America (Still has the accent - I love the imports!) and within two months we were living together and haven't looked back.
What did work? There is far too much to list, but the single most important thing I learned - and practiced - was attitude. How to appear and act as an alpha male, and how to literally not attach value to the outcome of any situation.
But, the best thing wasn't actually in dating - the boosted confidence and ability to present myself well has got me in a new (and significantly higher paying) job, which I love.
All I can say is thanks! (And I can't say it enough!)
Cheers!” John, Melbourne, 33 years old
"Best investment I've ever made..."
“This is the best investment I've ever made in myself. I've already dated 3 women in the 3 weeks and am now getting quite serious with one girl who is 'the pick of the bunch'. Can't thank you guys enough - great work." Christopher, England
"Now have a sexual relationship..."
“I have been studying the dating power seminar and have achieved great results in less than a month!!! I met a cool gal last week, followed your steps and techniques, and now have a sexual relationship.
My ex-girlfriend whom I am friends with, all of a sudden notices a good change in me, and wants to catch up with me on the weekend. Both gals are paying for stuff and can't get enough of me it seems.
Thanks Dan, Ben, and Stu, your teachings on approaching, flirting, and then taking the lead have led me to impressive results." Eric from San Francisco, CA
"It worked right away"
I watched Dating Power 2 months ago and everything has changed for me now. At the start I was a little apprehensive to use your stuff, but when I did I was amazed to see that it worked right away and that built my confidence immediately.
A few weeks ago I met a girl at the grocery store, we chatted for a few mins and I took down her number. Now she is the hottest girl I’ve ever had sex with, but that’s not the point I want to tell you guys…what I want to tell you the most is that I think she already loves me. She calls me every 2 days and wants to see me and tomorrow she’s coming over to cook me dinner - just like you said would happen if I asked.
Thanks guys – you’ve really helped me change and become the guy I knew I could be. Prior to all this, I was starting to think that I was doomed for life, but you’ve made it all so simple and easy for me. Thanks!” Peter, New Jersey
Confessions of a Natural: Interviews
"She hasn't stopped calling me since..."
“These interviews taught me that my current self is valuable to women and that boosted my confidence greatly. I approached a woman 3 weeks back at a local bar near me and had her home with me in under 2 hours...I couldn’t believe it!
I must say, sex isn’t the only thing I’m after though...I’m now dating a woman I met through a mutual friend and we’re taking it a bit slower...thanks to what I learned from these interviews she woman was attracted to me the moment she met me and she hasn’t stopped calling me since!
Thanks for getting the naturals to reveal their secrets, now I know that I have the ultimate advantage over other guys. This stuff works like magic – thanks a lot!” Danny, Chicago
"I really like this girl..."
“I finally did it! There’s a girl I’ve known for the last 2 years through friends and she’s only ever treated me like a friend. All that changed last night because she slept at my house! Haha...I finally did it. I really like this girl and she said to me that she’s liked me all along and was waiting for me to do something. The stuff that you guys teach is the best advice on the internet for sure. The changes I made and the things you suggested to say to her made all the difference. I’m just so happy about this I could keep writing about it for hours! All the best to you guys – keep on doing what you’re doing” Ryan K, Melbourne, Australia
"I can actually be a nice guy and still pick up women..."
“Wicked fun listening to this stuff! You guys are funny as hell. I now understand how I can be a nice guy and still pick up women like anyone else...it was awesome to hear that the naturals are actually just nice, regular guys. I’ll be using these new techniques on Friday at a party I’m going to – should be a blast!” Anthony P, Phoenix
"Now I'm dating one of them..."
“Just thought I’d let you guy know that I used the advice 2 weeks ago on a couple of women I speak to regularly through work...now I’m dating one of them and she really likes me. I didn't realize it would work as well as it did!” E, Canada
Dating Stories
“I’d always struggled to try and put what I learn into practice”
“Great insights guys. I’d always struggled to try and put what I learn into practice, but hearing you guys explain how you actually do things in real life situations with women has made all the difference. Now, instead of worrying if I’m doing the right thing – I basically try what you guys do…and I’m getting great results! So far, I’ve been able to kiss one girl at a local bar and this week I’m going on a date with another girl I met (and attracted!) at a party.” B, MI, USA
“I now have a girlfriend!”
“I realize now that my bad luck with women hasn’t been my fault – I just didn’t have the right info. You guys have informed me on everything I needed to know and more...and I now have a girlfriend!”Andrew, Oklahoma
“I slept with a woman I’ve known for a while”
“What has happened in the last 2 weeks has been amazing. To summarize: I slept with a woman I’ve known for a while because I finally learnt how to attract her. Next, I was out with my bros on a Saturday night and took a woman home within about an hour of meeting her….and to top it off: My ex-girlfriend has noticed the change in me and now wants me back! Thanks for the advice guys – you rock!” Pete, Hearst, Canada
“It’s starting to happen to me!”
“What you guys share in this audio recording is priceless! This is the stuff that guys who are good with women never tell guys like me…now I am finally up to speed on what guys actually say and do around women to be the type that women swoon over. I know this now because it’s starting to happen to me! My friends have been like WTF? I haven’t told them that I’ve learnt from you guys, but I will one day” K, Sydney, Australia
The Ultimate Guide to Conversation
"It worked!"
"Just a quick note to you guys as I know you get a lot of emails! Anyway, I used the tips from your conversation program to FINALLY talk to a woman I've liked for about 6 months...I know her through a friend. I'd always been too shy to talk to her and worried about stuffing up because I didn't really know what to say and how to ask her out.
Well, I said what you guys recommended to say and it worked! We went out on a date last night and it ended with a passionate kiss next to her car. The conversation on the date was exciting, interesting, funny and her eyes were basically popping out of her head with excitement. Was so cool! She texted me this morning saying she had a great time! Unbelievable result! Thanks guys - couldn't have done it without your guidance..." PJ, Liverpool
"The best part...is the amount of examples of what to say"
"Awesome guys! You've really done it this time. Your info on approaching women is stellar and has helped me get dates, but I have to admit that I've been struggling with keeping conversations going and keeping them interesting - and that has been holding me back from really achieving what I want with women. The best part of this program so far as I can judge is the amount of examples of what to say. I feel like I am ready for battle this weekend for sure!" Chad, MI, USA
"Loving the program!"
"hey guys, loving the program! the things that are really standing out for me and are really helpful are: conversation jam session, fixing women's problems, listening, fears and frustrations, questions to keep conversations going. you covered all the questions i needed answering about difficult women which is what i was looking for!!!
when stu said if a woman is giving 20% you gotta give 80% and so on really helped, cause i felt if a woman isnt giving much, it is wrong to do this cause conversation feels forced, but now i know its the right thing to do! also when you were talking about ASH and if woman doesnt like him " well she's boring, she doesnt deserve my time and effort, bad luck for her".
i started to look that way too, but hearing it from some one else made me think im really on the right track. go out and have fun, and bring women into your good nite. if they dont want a bar of it, well shes boring, go find someone else who is up for a good time. THATS the key!" Dilmah, Sri Lanka
"This has just upped my game so much"
"I've just recently bought the conversation product, I'm on chapter 6 and it's brilliant. Mate I've always been good with conversation, been a good listener and able to connect but this has just upped my game so much. I feel that it's improved the quality of my conversational ability ten fold ... I've already put some of it into practice and I'm consciously seeing some of the things I was oblivious to or naturally doing." Michael, South Africa
"She turned to me and said I love you"
"I got your conversation program 1.5 months ago and got a girlfriend within 2 weeks of using the material (I met this girl at the cafe she works at). Now, I haven't had a proper girlfriend for 7 years prior to this, so you can imagine the boring life I've been living. Anyway, I just wanted to write you and say thanks for teaching us guys this stuff, because I am now in a loving relationship with an amazing, loving and caring woman who is also beautiful. On the weeknd when she was staying over my place, we were lying in bed in the morning and she turned to me and said I love you. Man, I can't tell you how good that made me feel!
I feel like a new man and I owe a lot of thanks to what I got from your conversation program...it really helped me bring out the more interesting side to my personality. Other women often found me boring when I talked to them, so they would lose interest pretty quickly. Now people love talking to me and I feel like I'm really being my true self these days...and that makes me feel so good as a person. I also no longer feel awkward when talking to people I don't know or to beautiful women who used to made me feel nervous - now I just speak with confidence and ease, which as I say - makes me feel so good as a person. Plus, girls at work are now treating me with more respect. I can't thank you guys enough - keep up the great work!" Paul Hatson, New Jersey, USA
"I am glad with my purchase"
"I would also like to congratulate you for the quality of the content of the material. You are really professional and I am glad with my purchase. " Fabrico, Brazil
"I'm going to give it a try tomorrow"
"...have only listened to about 2 hours so far and I'm smiling ear to ear. I've been wondering how to talk to a girl I like at work and now I have the answers...I'm going to give it a try tomorrow. Wish me luck!" P. Hudson, London
"It is what I need the most"
"I skipped straight to the part on flirting because it is what I need the most. When girls talk to me they get the idea that I'm just 'too nice' and there's no spark or anything between us...I've tried to flirt before but couldn't get it to work. Thanks a bunch for all the flirting examples fellas - I'll be using this stuff on Friday night at my local pub... Gary, Sydney, Australia