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The Flow

The Flow teaches you how to follow the ‘natural flow of a sexual courtship’. It’s about approaching women, getting them interested in you immediately, keeping conversations going and progressing to a phone number, kiss, date, sex and relationship.

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The problem

A lot of modern men simply don’t know what women want in a man. Unknowingly, these men go against the ‘natural flow of a sexual courtship’ and end up turning women off from the very first moment.

Their lack of success with women often leads to them losing confidence, developing fears of rejection and also avoiding opportunities to talk to women and ‘ask them out’. Unfortunately, this then leads to months or years of being alone and frustrated.


The solution

The Flow will take you on a journey along the natural flow of a sexual courtship, explaining exactly how to:

  • Approach women and get them interested in you immediately.
  • Start and continue conversations in a natural, fun and interesting way.
  • Keep a woman interested, by using flirting, humor and other attractive behavior.
  • Progress to a phone number, kiss, date and relationship.
  • Maintain a woman’s interest in a relationship.

How it works

The eBook starts off by teaching you about what women really want in a man, as well as how you can quickly get the results that you want with women. You will then learn how to use ‘The Flow’. The Flow is our revolutionary, 4-step process that causes women to automatically feel attracted to you and want to get to know you more.

Following that, Dan explains exactly how to master each of the 4 steps of The Flow so you can smoothly move from a conversation to a phone number, to a date. As you read through The Flow, you will come across many word-for-word conversation and flirting examples, as well as critical perspective shifts and insights about success with women.


What you will learn

Here are just some of the juicy secrets you will learn by reading The Flow.


  • How to instantly create fun & interesting conversations that women love to talk about. You'll never be stuck for something to say, ever again.
  • 27 funny things you can say to a woman that will make her love and enjoy being around you, so much more than any other guy. These word-for-word examples are provided throughout the entire book in relevant sections (e.g. first meeting, when she's back at your place, on the phone, on a date, etc).
  • All of the mistakes that you need to avoid with women, if you want your interactions to easily lead to dates, and your dates to easily lead to sex and relationships. Knowing this will ensure that you are no longer left thinking, "But, what did I do wrong??" Instead, you can simply enjoy your dates & relationships with women because you will know the RIGHT things to do, each step of the way.
  • My own word-for-word conversation & flirting examples that will make women see you as a potential boyfriend or lover, rather than "Just a friend".
  • The 3 stages of interest that a woman will go through when interacting with you. Use this guide to know when a woman is interested, so you don't get rejected when trying to make a move.
  • 100's of things you can do that will make women ADDICTED to being around you. Use these so women remain interested in you.
  • 15 things you can do to get women 'in the mood' for sex, when they are at your place for the first time.
  • 11 ways to make yourself feel less nervous in any social situation, so you can enjoy life in the moment, rather than being held back by unnecessary fears, shyness or anxieties.
  • A proven 10-point 'Approaching Checklist', so you can approach a woman, have her become interested right away, enjoy a great conversation and then walk away with her phone number in minutes.
  • 18 body language and status cues that attract women. Use these as your new secret weapons for instantly getting women interested and maintaining their interest. Others guys will wonder how you do it, but they won't be able to work it out.
  • How to keep a woman interested once you've started dating her. Use these techniques and women will become addicted to being around you.
  • How to easily get phone numbers from women and avoid rejection. Includes tips on what to say, which almost guarantee she will give you the number.
  • 6 reasons a woman might respond unfavorably to you when you approach her. Use these to avoid being rejected and losing your opportunity.
  • The secrets to having composure and attractive confidence when interacting with women. Use these techniques to avoid looking or feeling nervous around women.
  • How to finally get rid of your fear of rejection and get what you want from your dating & relationship life with women.
  • How to overcome any initial barriers of interest, so women are interested right away and feel a strong, sexual attraction for you.
  • How to bring more adventure into your life so you become a fun and interesting person that women want to be around.
  • Why a woman will often decide to ‘cheat’ on a man and how you can avoid it happening to you. In fact, she will never want to leave you and will be worried that you might leave her if she doesn’t keep impressing you.
  • What to do when you kiss a woman on a first date that will ensure she wants more.
  • 4 things you can do while interacting with a woman to increase your sexual vibe. Very important if you don't want women to see you as 'just a friend'.
  • The fastest way to get a girlfriend. This will surprise you.
  • The right and wrong way to compliment a woman. Do this wrong and she will most likely lose interest.
  • 7 ways to easily create ‘one on one’ time with a woman in bars, clubs and party environments. Use these to get to know women better or to move things towards kissing, phone number or even sex on the first night. Your choice.
  • Tested phone techniques that make women want to keep talking to you...and hanging out for you to call again.
  • Why 'bad boys' attract women more than 'nice guys' and how you can beat the bad boys at their game, while still being a good guy.
  • How to rapidly develop the type of confidence that allows you to approach women whenever you want.
  • The exact wording to use when starting conversations with women – includes 10 conversation starters that you can use right away.
  • Learn the little-known, ‘innocent’ yet powerful way to connect with any woman and have her become relaxed around you like you’ve known each other for years.
  • How to handle a woman canceling a date with you. Mess this up and you may well have ruined all of your hard work to get it to that point. Here I reveal how to handle this tricky situation with class, ensuring that you can reorganize a date with ease.
  • 8 nervous behaviors that absolutely kill a woman's attraction for you and how to eradicate them.
  • How to initiate touch between you and a woman you’ve just met – doing so opens up the doors to ‘other things’ and helps her see you as a potential lover or boyfriend, rather than just a friend.
  • How to take things to the next level (e.g. phone number, kiss, sex). Here I reveal everything you need to know to move things from one step to the next...
  • The 9 personality traits and behaviors that attract women and how to you can display them so you can get results now, not next year.
  • How to quickly change your situation with women, so you can begin choosing the women you meet and date - rather than relying on luck.
  • What women really think when men attempt to impress them. Plus how you can be super impressive, without really having to do much at all.
  • Plenty of examples of how to avoid ruining a woman’s feelings for you, so she remains interested.
  • How to talk to women in a way that makes them instantly feel comfortable around you. No more of those awkward moments when you first start chatting to a woman you like.
  • A vocal training exercise that will create a deeper, more powerful voice, and improve your ability to spark attraction with women.
  • The right way to make eye contact with a woman. Do this wrong and you could ruin your chances completely.
  • How to be the guy who others look to as an alpha male. This will not only improve your results with women, but will gain you more respect amongst guys, friends, family, workmates, etc.
  • How to ensure that you have the power in the interaction/relationship. Use these techniques to avoid being used, manipulated or dumped by women.
  • The right and wrong body language to use when you are in social situations like parties, bars, clubs, bookstores, etc. Do this wrong and you will look awkward and unattractive to women.
  • Something that women really love about guys…yet, you probably won’t ever hear it mentioned in conversation because women are embarrassed to admit it.
  • How to make a woman feel truly happy with you as her man. This is very important if you want your relationships to last.


Benefits

  • Get started: The Flow is perfect for beginners. It includes 100s of techniques that you can use immediately for approaching, attracting and dating women. You’ll also get to know the basics, such as: What to say to a woman that will make her give you her phone number and want to go on a date with you.
  • Identify where you’re going right and wrong: While reading The Flow, you will quickly discover what you’ve been doing right and wrong when it comes to women. Just knowing what you’re doing right boosts your confidence. From there, you will be armed with the correct techniques for approaching, attracting, talking to and dating women.
  • Hold her attention: If you can’t firmly hold a woman’s attention for at least 5 minutes, then your chances of getting her phone number are lost. The Flow provides you with ready-to-use techniques for sparking a strong sexual attraction inside of a woman, without her knowing what you’re up to. In seconds, you’ll notice that her eyes light up, she turns to you and becomes fully engaged in what you’re saying. You’ll have to experience it for yourself to see!
  • Get up to speed: You could waste the next 5 years reading 100s of books (and never find what you need to know about attracting and talking to women), or you could just read one book today that has ALL the answers. The Flow provides a summary of the main concepts that we teach here at The Modern Man. While not as advanced as our other programs, it will allow you to quickly get up to speed on what you need to know to be successful with women.
  • Get what you want from women: You know what you want from women. Sex, love, attention, affection and relationships…but, they’re not giving it to you. You are being ignored, left out and it’s starting to get really annoying. Today is the day to change that. You will notice that as soon as you start using The Flow in your interactions with women, you will get completely different responses from women. You will get phone numbers, you will get dates and you will get sex.

FAQ



What is The Flow about?

The Flow teaches you how to follow the ‘natural flow of a sexual courtship’. It’s about approaching women, getting them interested in you immediately, keeping conversations going and progressing to a phone number, kiss, date or sex.


Who should buyThe Flow?

The Flow is perfect for you, if you want to:


  • Approach new women, get dates and get a girlfriend.
  • Attract a woman you already know and turn her into a girlfriend or lover.
  • Build more confidence.
  • Improve your overall ‘dating skills’.
  • Understand what women really want from you as a man.
  • Get better at making conversation with women.
  • Learn how to flirt and spark a woman’s sexual desire for you.
  • Understand how to meet, attract and date modern women.
  • Learn how to maintain a woman’s interest in a relationship.

Who shouldn’t buy The Flow?

Guys who:


  • Don’t believe it’s possible to improve their skills with women.
  • Think they can only succeed with women if they’re tall, dark and handsome...or rich and famous.
  • Believe that buying an expensive car to try and impress women is better than spending a small amount of money to learn how to impress women with their personality.
  • Hope that a beautiful, intelligent and interesting woman will simply land in their lap one day…after they’ve been single, alone and frustrated for most of their life.
  • Really want to have beautiful, intelligent and interesting women in their lives but aren’t prepared to improve and learn the techniques required to attract and maintain the interest of these women.
  • Don’t mind living a life of disappointment and regret, feeling left out and unloved by women and the world.
  • Would rather sit at home alone, than enjoy the company of a beautiful woman as well as having lots more loving, cool friends that last a lifetime.
  • Are afraid to take a chance when they see a great opportunity right in front of them.

How is The Flow different to other Modern Man products?

The Flow mainly focuses on the ‘natural flow of a sexual courtship’, as well as approaching women and getting dates. Other programs focus on different areas. For example: Mastery Methods & Mindsets is more about confidence and taking your success with women to the highest level.

Here is a quick summary of the different focuses of each Modern Man product:


  • The Flow: Is perfect for beginners. It’s the essential ‘starter guide’ guide for approaching women & getting dates in the modern world. A ‘must read’ for any man who is interested in improving his success with women.
  • Confessions of a Natural: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu interview ‘Naturals’ (guys who are naturally good with women) and get them to reveal their rarely-known dating techniques and strategies for success with women.
  • 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: Is about approaching & meeting women in different places, using customized techniques & strategies for each situation. Instead of wasting time with one or two ways to meet women (e.g. bars on weekends), you can now quickly find your ideal girlfriend and enjoy a relationship with her, or start meeting, dating and having sex lots of women immediately.
  • Mastery Methods & Mindsets: Is about taking your confidence & success with women to the mastery level. The ‘Mindsets’ eliminate any fear, nervousness or anxiety that you may feel around women and replace it with unstoppable confidence. The ‘Methods’ are things for you to do that push you ‘outside your comfort zone’ and into sex and relationships with beautiful women.
  • Dating Power: Is the complete, start-to-finish guide from approach, to sex, to first phone call, to date, to the bedroom and into a relationship. The techniques work by getting a woman to chase you, rather than you trying to ‘pick her up’.  Recorded in front of a live audience, Dating Power also includes important body language demonstrations and audience questions.
  • Dating Stories: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu share the many lessons they’ve learnt along the way when approaching, dating and being in relationships with modern women. These priceless insights allow you to then avoid making common mistakes that lead to rejection, break-ups and women losing interest. Armed with the techniques revealed in this program, women won’t want you to leave and will work hard to maintain your interest during conversations, on dates and in relationships. Secret Stories also explains how to use the Dating Power techniques in many real-life situations with women.

What are the unique benefits of The Flow?


  • Get started: The Flow is perfect for beginners. It includes 100s of techniques that you can use immediately for approaching, attracting and dating women. You’ll also get to know the basics, such as: What to say to a woman that will make her give you her phone number and want to go on a date with you.
  • Identify where you’re going right and wrong: While reading The Flow, you will quickly discover what you’ve been doing right and wrong when it comes to women. Just knowing what you’re doing right boosts your confidence. From there, you will be armed with the correct techniques for approaching, attracting, talking to and dating women.
  • Hold her attention: If you can’t firmly hold a woman’s attention for at least 5 minutes, then your chances of getting her phone number are lost. The Flow provides you with ready-to-use techniques for sparking a strong sexual attraction inside of a woman, without her knowing what you’re up to. In seconds, you’ll notice that her eyes light up, she turns to you and becomes fully engaged in what you’re saying. You’ll have to experience it for yourself to see!
  • Get up to speed: You could waste the next 5 years reading 100s of books (and never find what you need to know about attracting and talking to women), or you could just read one book today that has ALL the answers. The Flow provides a summary of the main concepts that we teach here at The Modern Man. While not as advanced as our other programs, it will allow you to quickly get up to speed on what you need to know to be successful with women.
  • Get what you want from women: You know what you want from women. Sex, love, attention, affection and relationships…but, they’re not giving it to you. You are being ignored, left out and it’s starting to get really annoying. Today is the day to change that. You will notice that as soon as you start using The Flow in your interactions with women, you will get completely different responses from women. You will get phone numbers, you will get dates and you will get sex.

Dan Bacon, Founder, The Modern Man

Hey – it’s Dan here.

Here’s the story of why The Flow was written and how the information contained within it was developed...

Basically, I’d gotten to a point in my life where I was sick and tired of not experiencing the kind of success with women that I wanted to. When out into public places, I would see other guys with beautiful girlfriends on their arm and wonder, “Why can’t I get that?”

I usually spent my weekends alone, or catching up with a friend to just talk and hang out. I wanted to meet women, but the idea of approaching and talking to women was something that made me feel pretty nervous. This was mainly because I didn’t really know what to say and feared the possibility of being rejected by women.

I realized that I was going to have to do something about it, or suffer the consequences: Miss out on enjoying women, lose more confidence, spend more time alone and never become a real man.

I decided to commit to going out to bars and approaching women every weekend until I overcame my fears and worked out the secrets to success with women. Luckily, I had a friend who was willing to come along each weekend and approach women with me so he could learn too.

I also began to keep ‘notes’ on all the things I was learning. My aim was to write up my own personal ‘game plan’ for success with women, so I had something to follow that would work for the rest of my life.

Initially, I struggled to get any results when I approached because I was being too much of a ‘nice guy’ and would often run out of things to say. Eventually however, I began to discover techniques that AUTOMATICALLY caused women to feel attraction for me and want to keep talking to me. I also started experimenting with using different types of humor and flirting.

This is where I started to make some real progress. Now that the women were interested, all I needed to learn now was how to progress things to a phone number, kiss, date or even sex that night.

Months later, after a lot of trial and error, I began to work out the right words to say and the right moves to make, so a woman would give me her phone number and want to go on a date with me. Fast forward a full 1.5 years into the experiment and I had achieved total success with women & dating...

I was dating and having sex with beautiful women like it was the most natural and easy thing in the world. Best of all, I was being myself and women loved me for it. The only difference was that I was now an improved version of myself.

It was at this point that I stopped to take a look at all the notes I’d been keeping. I was amazed to discover that it was full of techniques, ideas, perspectives and strategies that most men were unaware of.

I realized that I was ‘being myself’, but I was also using subtle techniques that made me stand out from all the other guys. I was using flirting, humor and body language techniques that caused women to automatically feel attraction for me. From there, the women would then fall in love with me as a person.

In the past, all I could manage to do was get most women to ‘like’ me as a person. This was different. Women were now attracted to me, as well as liking me as a person. (There’s a big difference between the two and I will explain it all throughout The Flow).

Over the next year, I tidied up the ‘notes’ I’d been keeping and put them into the format you will be reading today in The Flow. To make sure it worked for other guys first, , I passed the draft version of The Flow on to some friends (including Ben and Stu who are now a part of The Modern Man) and they were amazed.

The friends who were struggling with women immediately started using the techniques and got right into dating and having sex with women. Some of the guys quickly found girlfriends and - at the time of writing this - are still with to this day.

As for Ben and Stu, they were already good with women by that point. Miraculously, we managed to find each other at a point where we were all enjoying easy success with women. I told Ben and Stu about what I’d discovered and how I wanted to share this information with other guys, by starting The Modern Man.

They agreed and so it began.

Now, for the first time – you are being let in on the secrets to success with women that most men simply do not know about. I am about to share what took me literally thousands of hours of research and practice to work out.

What you learn in The Flow will allow you to approach, attract, date and get into relationships with women. Your journey to success will be faster to mine, because you won’t have to spend years trying to work out what to do. Simply use the techniques I provide in The Flow and you will walk straight into success with women.

I’ve heard back from readers who’ve used The Flow on the same day they read it and gotten phone numbers or set up dates. For some guys it takes weeks because it feels like a big change for them to start interacting with women in the ways I advise.

Whatever your case, I hope that you are ready to put this stuff into action as quickly as possible. You simply need to believe in yourself and trust that you can do this. It’s easy once you begin.

FAQ: Payments

1. What payment options do you offer?
2. Will any tax or hidden fees be added to my purchase?
3. Do you have a refund policy?

FAQ: Purchasing

4. Do you offer a guarantee?
5. Can I buy The Flow eBook from a bookstore in hard copy (paper) format?
6. Are your products available in my country?
7. How much are your products in my currency?
8. Will anything be sent to me via postal mail?
9. Will my name be kept confidential after purchasing?
10. Is it safe and secure to shop at TheModernMan.com?
11. What will the purchase show up as on my credit card?
12. Which Modern Man product should I buy first? Which one is perfect for me?




FAQ: Payments


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2. Will any tax or hidden fees be added to my purchase?

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3. Do you have a refund policy?

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If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, you can ask for a full refund within 30 days of your purchase.


FAQ: Purchasing


4. Do you offer a guarantee?

Yes.

We offer a 30-day, money-back guarantee on all products purchased from The Modern Man.


5. Can I buy The Flow eBook from a bookstore in hard copy (paper) format?

No.

Our exclusive, cutting-edge dating advice is only available online here at TheModernMan.com. You are welcome to print out a copy of The Flow if you prefer to read on paper, or download audio and video files and add them to your iPod, etc.


6. Are your products available in my country?

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We have customers from the following countries and continents: The USA, UK, Canada, Australia, South America, South Africa, Japan, Thailand and many parts of Europe and Asia.


7. How much are your products in my currency?

When you purchase, the currency exchange is automatically calculated for you by your credit card company. Most currencies are stronger than the Australian Dollar (which is the currency we charge at TheModernMan.com), so it will most likely be cheaper for you to buy than the prices you see listed on the site.

You do not have to do anything other than purchase. No other steps are involved. All the calculations happen automatically for you via your credit card company. If you are outside Australia, it will most likely be cheaper for you. To check this for yourself, you can use a currency converter: http://www.xe.com/ucc/

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8. Will anything be sent to me via postal mail?

No.

We will never send you anything via postal mail, unless you request to have something delivered. The only product available for delivery is the Dating Power DVD pack. However, most customers simply purchase the Dating Power download, instead of waiting for DVDs to be delivered.

We will never send you any promotional material, receipts or invoices via postal mail. We have this policy to ensure your total privacy when you purchase products at The Modern Man.


9. Will my name be kept confidential after purchasing?

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We are totally committed to keeping your purchases confidential. You can read our privacy policy here.


10. Is it safe and secure to shop at TheModernMan.com?

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We use the highest level of security available (up to 256 bit encryption – the level of encryption that banks use) to ensure 100% safe and secure transactions. You can rest assured that communication between your browser and TheModernMan.com’s web server is 100% private and secure.


11. What will the purchase show up as on my credit card?

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12. Which Modern Man product should I buy first? Which one is perfect for me?

It really depends on what your current skills are with women, what your ‘problem areas’ are and how serious you are about fixing this area of your life.

Here’s a quick summary of the differences between each Modern Man product, so you can decide which ones are perfect for you:


  • The Flow: Is perfect for beginners. It’s the essential ‘starter guide’ guide for approaching women & getting dates in the modern world. A ‘must read’ for any man who is interested in improving his success with women.
  • Confessions of a Natural: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu interview ‘Naturals’ (guys who are naturally good with women) and get them to reveal their rarely-known dating techniques and strategies for success with women.
  • 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: Is about approaching & meeting women in different places, using customized techniques & strategies for each situation. Instead of wasting time with one or two ways to meet women (e.g. bars on weekends), you can now quickly find your ideal girlfriend and enjoy a relationship with her, or start meeting, dating and having sex lots of women immediately.
  • Mastery Methods & Mindsets: Is about taking your confidence & success with women to the mastery level. The ‘Mindsets’ eliminate any fear, nervousness or anxiety that you may feel around women and replace it with unstoppable confidence. The ‘Methods’ are things for you to do that push you ‘outside your comfort zone’ and into sex and relationships with beautiful women.
  • Dating Power: Is the complete, start-to-finish guide from approach, to sex, to first phone call, to date, to the bedroom and into a relationship. The techniques work by getting a woman to chase you, rather than you trying to ‘pick her up’.  Recorded in front of a live audience, Dating Power also includes important body language demonstrations and audience questions.
  • Dating Stories: Is where Dan, Ben & Stu share the many lessons they’ve learnt along the way when approaching, dating and being in relationships with modern women. These priceless insights allow you to then avoid making common mistakes that lead to rejection, break-ups and women losing interest. Armed with the techniques revealed in this program, women won’t want you to leave and will work hard to maintain your interest during conversations, on dates and in relationships.
Reviews

"Easy to understand..."

“Very well done. Your techniques are fresh, intelligent, sincere and written in a easy to understand casual way - real life. Your 3 second look up and down followed by "Your pretty and I like your style" comment is great. I'll be using that one tonight at a party I'm attending..."  Lee, Canada


"I've got a date lined up...this week"

“It’s painful to admit, but I now acknowledge that I’ve wasted a good 15 years of my life doing the wrong things. I am so glad to have found this material…I’ve got a date lined up with a hottie this coming week...” Michael, NSW, Australia


"I was like a fish out of water"

“...but when it came to getting a girlfriend, I was like a fish out of water. Since reading your book and applying the methods over the past 2 months, that has now changed.

I am in a relationship now with a girl that turns heads wherever we go...thank you!" Andrew, London, England


"Five stars"

“After years of enduring on with the odd bit of luck – I’m now having sex with new girls all the time, which is what I want because I think I deserve to have enjoy this before settling into a relationship. The flow ebook was a total bargain and I can’t thank you enough for the clarity of the examples and instructions you provided…five stars from me.”  Brian, NY, U.S.A.


"I often ended up being seen as the friend"

"I recently got dumped after dating a girl for over 6 months. It left me devastated; partly because she suddenly left me for reasons that I could not understand (I now understand that was because I stopped 'maintaining interest' and lost my unpredicatability/mysteriousness)

Luckily, it did not kill my confidence, so there was no problem there. The problem was more to do with my inability to flirt/create sexual tension, and thus I often ended up being seen as 'the friend.'

My above relationship happened more because of lucky chance than my ability with women. After reading your book, I have learnt some of the more important flirting/attraction techniques; (as well as boosted my already decent confidence levels) and thus have managed to attract a number of ladies =)

I've got a new beautiful girlfriend, and I could say I have another 3 in the pipeline/waiting list :p It was absolutely wonderful to actually be able to CHOOSE a girl, rather than relying on luck! Thanks"   Patrick R, London, UK


"Reading it was like flicking a switch in my head..."

“…By the time I got to page 40, I had already broken the ice with a girl I had never even been able to get a smile out of. Reading it was like flicking a switch in my head that changed my mindset straight away. I can only imagine how much easier things are going to get once I start really start to follow the techniques fully."  P, Melbourne, AUS


"This is awesome!"

“Fantastic! Absolutely eye-opening. Dan – your ability to take the reader through the ‘process’ of a natural courtship, while making it all so simple is amazing.

The results speak for themselves – I can actually walk up to girls now and chat to them confidently. It’s only been a week and a half and I’ve gotten 3 phone numbers …this is awesome!”  Steve, CA, U.S.A.


"I used to have this 2 month curse when it came to women"

First of all THANK YOU SO MUCH, Dan!! You have helped me SIGNIFICANTLY with my life when it comes to women!

I have been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months, and I used to have this 2 month curse when it came to women.

I never really was all that bad with women to begin with, but I had a horrible problem of trying to hard with them (like trying to impress them) and with falling in love with them too quickly.

Because of your book, I have learned what I need to change in my life to get the results that I want out of life!

Thanks to your book, I have got this girl to go from "let's just be friends" to "when are we gonna hang out again?" if you know what I mean. ;) Anyway, thanks again, Dan! You are a LIFESAVER! Sincerely, Drew, Alabama, USA


"I felt like I was never being my true self..."

“...I also hated that I was so shy around women and suppressed by a fear of rejection. I felt like I was never being my true self, which made me feel like a phony, or an outsider when I was around people. That has all changed now - not only have I been having sex with new women that I've met over the past couple of months, but I have new friends and brighter outlook on life. I'm so glad I got your book...who knows where I'd be if I didn't."  Peter, Alabama, USA


"She was shocked..."

“...Well, after reading your guide, I listened to what it said and followed it almost 100%. I mostly tried to remain calm, cool and collect. Today was valentines day, and I thought that i would shock/ surprise the girl ive liked for months now. She was shocked.

Though she knew that I liked her, she didn't know how much i did. I asked her to hang out with me sometime. I get the feeling that this could evolve into a relationship, and a very good one. With great thanks..."  David, USA


"Changed my dating big time..."

“...Hey Dan. I read the flow, its simple straight forward but man is it accurate. its changed my dating big time, thanks for your directions, its been great so far!"  Tom, Ireland


"She quickly texted me back..."

“Hi Dan, I bought 'the flow' a few weeks ago and it rationalized for me the now obvious things I was getting wrong. Particularly chatting the right way at a first meet in different situations.

Anyway, I was in a crowded bar with some pals, trying to get served. I was next to a really hot girl, who was also out with her pals. I started chatting to her about how its great fun bumping into people while getting served. She chatted and joked and by the time we both got served I had moved the conversation on to all sorts of more flirty stuff. She was too.

We both went back to our pals but I could see her glancing at me across the bar. When she went to the bar again I made a point of standing next to her and the conversation got real fun and flirty and lots of laughs.

She put her no. in my phone and I said she was cool but I was with my pals, so I'd be in touch. The next day I texted her and she quickly texted me back. We exchanged texts for a few days then I arranged dinner. The date went well, lots of fun and things have moved on well, so we see one another regularly. She is 26 and I'm 56.

I'm so grateful to the 'Flow' as it prevented me from chickening out after the first chance encounter and helped with the correct approach for a 'bar' situation.

Yours, Grahame”


"Absolutely incredible!"

“...Just wanted to drop you guys a quick line and let you know that your book in absolutely incredible! Not a month after reading your book, I went out to the bar with some friends.

Well, in the past I would have hung out with my friends and thought "If I talk to anyone else aside from my friends, I'm going to get ridiculed" I decided that, no matter how much I might trip over myself and goof things up because I'm not used to going up to strangers and striking up a conversation, I would do it that night, and let me tell you....Its amazing how much different things were just taking some of your tips on just projecting confidence and not slinking away at first sign of resistance. Your book is like my bible now!

To this day, being Wednesday, it has been 4 days since I was out with those friends, and I have phoned a couple of the numbers, didn't go fishing for a date, actually never asked for one in the first phone call, and THEY called ME back asking me to meet up for coffee or drinks.

I just have one word left for you guys....THANKS!"  Jeff, Winnipeg, Canada


"We even had sex on the same night!"

“ I used your tips and I got a kiss and we even had sex the same night!"  Joseph, New York, USA


"I have been a pussy when it comes to women..."

“After reading your e-book I realise I have been a pussy when it comes to women. Especially my fiance' after 8 years of her being mostly the boss around the house."  Ted, England


"Literally begging me into the bedroom..."

“Hi Dan

I know you deal with mainly single guys, but here is some encouragement for any married guys who need to sharpen up on their relationship skills.

I have read and listened to just about all of your material. While I was already familiar with much of what you teach out of having had to get my own masculine act together the hard way, your work has filled in a number of important gaps for me and has inspired me to be much more proactive in my relationship with my wife.

Flirting, being risque, being unpredictable, being sexually adventurous, being the higher status person and so on, has my wife clawing at my clothes and literally begging me into the bedroom every night.

I can say from direct experience as a happily married man, that what you and your team teach, has great implications for married men as well as single ones.

My wife will be the first person to back me up on this.

Regards"  Richard L, QLD, Australia


"Amazing how easy it is..."

“I wish I ordered your ebook earlier. I just met this lady online and spoke to her over the phone, we hit it off very well and we decided to meet half way from where we live. We live 4 hours apart. Amazing how easy it is when you know what to do..."  Anonymous, USA


"You're right on point!"

“...I ordered the e-book Flow, figuring I'd blow $50 taking a girl to dinner, so what the hey. You're right on point! Thanks so much."  Bob in Santa Monica


"In 3 months, I'd already had 8 dates..."

“...After a lifetime of women basically 'ignoring' me and seeing me only as a friend, I read your book and in 3 months I'd already had 8 dates.

Its mindblowing how well your stuff works...I ended up choosing one of the best women out of those 8 and she's now my girlfriend. Couldn't have done it without your techniques, so thank you!"  Evan, USA