It depends.
Here are 6 possible reactions from her, if you don’t respond to her texts:
1. She gets annoyed by how you’re now treating her and hooks up with a new guy to make herself feel better
Sometimes, when a woman breaks up with a guy, she doesn’t necessarily believe that the break up is 100% final.
Instead, she may be open to getting back with him if he can re-attract her and make her feel respect, sexual attraction and love for him again.
So, when she opens the lines of communication with her ex by sending him a text (or even a few texts) and he just ignores her, she will naturally feel annoyed that he is trying to mess with her head by not responding to her.
She may then begin thinking to herself, “I can’t believe he’s treating me like this. Who does he think he is! I hope he doesn’t think that ignoring me like this is going to make me beg him for another chance. If he does, he’s in for a big surprise! I have better things to do than chase after a jerk like him! I’ll show him! I’m going to find myself a new man and move on. Then, when he comes crawling back to me, I’ll give him a piece of my mind!”
She will then focus on finding herself a new man as quickly as possible to hook up with (e.g. by going to bars and clubs, going out on dates with guys that are already interested in her, joining an online dating site, or using a dating app to get dates and start having sex).
If her ex then begins to wonder why she’s not texting him anymore and decides to contact her, she will usually respond with something along the lines of, “What do you want now? When I was texting you, you didn’t even have the decency to respond to me, yet, now you want to talk to me. Well, I don’t want to talk to you. Do you honestly believe I’ve been sitting around crying and waiting desperately for you to contact me? That’s a big joke! You’re not that much of a big deal to me for me to react that way. Who cares that you never responded to my texts. I’ve moved on and I’m having a great time enjoying myself with so many great guys that actually do want me. Breaking up with you was the best decision of my life! The only mistake I made was to actually text you after we broke up because I thought we could work things out. We’ll not anymore. I’m free of you and I would never give you another chance after the way you treated me. So, thanks for finally responding to my texts, but you can get lost now. I don’t need or want you in my life! Bye.”
So, if you’re considering not responding to your ex’s texts as a way of getting her back, the outcome may definitely turn out like the one mentioned above.
That is why, if you don’t want that to happen, you shouldn’t bother ignoring her texts.
A better approach is to actually respond to her, make her laugh and smile and then get her on a phone call and to a meet up as quickly as possible, where you can truly reactivate her feelings for you and get her back.
Another possible reaction you can expect if you don’t respond to your ex’s texts is…
2. She assumes that your interest in her wasn’t ever genuine
When your ex broke up with you, it was clear that you didn’t agree with the break up and that you wanted to stay together and work things out. (e.g. because you tried to convince her to change her mind, you promised her that you would change if she gave you one more chance, or you simply said something like, “I don’t want to break up, but if this is what you want, I’ll go with it for now”).
However, now you aren’t replying to her texts, so she assumes that you never really intended on staying with her anyway.
She then starts thinking things like, “I really thought that I mattered to him and that his desire to stay together was genuine, except now that I’m giving him a chance to get me back by opening the lines of communication between us again, he’s just ignoring me. Clearly he didn’t mean it when he said he wanted to stay together, because now that he’s single again, he can’t even be bothered to respond to my text and say hi as a friend. What a fool I’ve been all this time thinking that he actually cared about me.”
She then uses the anger and disappointment she feels towards her ex to help her get over him and move on.
If he then tries to text her back after he’s been ignoring her for a while, he is surprised when she doesn’t respond to him.
He might then try to call her to find out why she’s ignoring him, only to discover that she’s blocked his number on her phone and he can’t get hold of her anymore.
Another possible reaction you can expect if you don’t respond to your ex’s texts is…
3. She is aware of the no contact rule and knows what you’re most likely up to
What a lot of guys don’t realize is that many women read the same articles online that they do.
This is why, it’s very possible that a woman will be aware of the No Contact Rule and that guys use it as a secret weapon to get an ex back.
So, if your ex has read about the NCR (No Contact Rule) and notices that you’re not responding to her texts, it’s very likely that she will see it as a ploy on your part to make her come running back to you.
She may then decide to punish you for playing games with her by possibly sending you a text like, “Why aren’t you responding to my texts? I really miss you and I want to give our relationship another try.”
If you then take the bait and respond right away with something like, “I miss you too! Let’s get together so that we can work things out,” she will know for sure that you were using No Contact on her.
She may then string you along for a while and make you feel excited about getting her back.
Then, she can say something like, “Look, I know I said I wanted to get back together again, but I’ve changed my mind.”
She might even be secretly annoyed at you for trying to make her chase you by using the NCR.
This can cause her to try to get revenge on you in other ways (e.g. stringing you along via text and then dumping you again, making you feel like you’re getting her back and then telling you that she has met someone new and is in love with him).
Don’t let that happen to you.
Get on her good side by being a real man about the ex back process from now on (i.e. by responding to her texts and actively re-attracting her so that she wants to get back with you).
Another possible reaction you can expect if you don’t respond to your ex’s texts is…
4. She loses interest after trying to text with you and getting no response and decides to move on
In most cases, when a woman breaks up with a guy, it’s because she’s lost touch with her feelings of respect, attraction and love for him.
Of course, she may still have some feelings for him, which is why she’s likely texting him, to see if it’s possible to reactivate those feelings inside of her so that they can get back together again.
However, if she doesn’t get a response from him, rather than sit around feeling sad or rejected, she simply takes it as a sign that she needs to just move on.
Sure she may initially feel a bit hurt that he’s ignoring her, but if she has had some experience with break ups, she will know that those painful feelings won’t last forever.
She may then think to herself, “Oh well, I gave it a shot, but he’s clearly not interested in working things out. That’s fine by me. I can now focus on moving on and finding myself a better man than him,” and then focus on doing the kind of things that will help her get over him as quickly as possible (e.g. putting more effort into her work or studies, spending more time going out with her single friends, meeting and hooking up with new guys).
Then, by the time he contacts her, she will be completely over him and happy in her life without him.
Another possible reaction you can expect if you don’t respond to your ex’s texts is…
5. She becomes desperate to get your attention and get you back, so she tries harder to make you want her
Sometimes, if a guy doesn’t respond to his ex’s texts, it makes her want him even more.
She may then begin thinking things like, “Why is he ignoring me? Why isn’t he doing something to get me back? I want him back!”
As a result, she might start doing things to get his attention and make him want her back.
For example: She might…
- Post really hot, sexy photos of herself on social media to make him feel attracted to her and then hopefully call her.
- Post photos of herself having fun and flirting with other guys to make him jealous.
- Show up unexpectedly somewhere where she knows he will be, wearing her sexiest outfit and then flirting with him to make him want her sexually.
- Call him on the phone to just talk as friends as a way of staying in his life.
- Show up at his house unexpectedly and make herself indispensable to him (e.g. by cooking or cleaning up, offering to run errands for him).
Naturally, because the guy still wants her back, this is exactly the response he was hoping for when he ignored her texts.
However, what often happens is that even though the guy successfully makes his ex chase after him and gets her back, because he hasn’t really changed anything about himself, she soon begins to lose interest in him.
Before long she dumps him again and this time, it becomes a lot more difficult for him to trick her into wanting him back.
Here’s the thing…
If you’re going to use No Contact as a way of making your ex come back to you, make sure that you make some changes and improvements to yourself first.
Then, if she does come back, she will find a new and improved man and she will then want to stay with you, because that’s when she feels the happiest and most fulfilled.
Another possible reaction you can expect if you don’t respond to your ex’s texts is…
6. She blocks your number and moves on
Another response that might result from not responding to your ex’s texts, is that she cuts you out of her life completely.
She might block your number and even unfriend you and block you on social media to make sure you won’t be able to get hold of her if you suddenly decide to respond to her at a later stage.
However, if she gets to this point where she goes out of her way to cut all your avenues of contact with her, it will then take some effort on your part to try and persuade her to unblock you (e.g. by asking a mutual friend to talk to her for you, showing up at her home or work to convince her in person), so that you can then interact with her, re-attract her and begin getting her back.
So, don’t let it come to that.
If your ex has given you an opening by texting you, forget about playing games with her and do what needs to be done to get her back.
Text her back, or better yet, call her.
Make her laugh, smile and feel good to be talking to you again and get her to a meet up so that you can fully re-attract her and get her back.
Note: Make sure that when you meet up with her you’re fully prepared to re-attract her.
If you get there and you turn her off by saying or doing the same things that turned her off before (e.g. being insecure and unsure of yourself, being too nice and letting her walk all over you, being afraid to flirt with her and create sparks of attraction), she may regret her decision to meet up with you after all.
So, make sure that you are prepared to make her feel attracted to the new you so that you can make her want you back as much as you want her.
Where Guys Go Wrong After a Break Up With a Woman They Love and Really Do Want Back
By the way…
Here are 2 mistakes that guys make with an ex woman that makes getting her back so much more difficult that it needs to be:
1. Thinking that texts or text tricks are the way to get her back
For a woman to text an ex it means she’s risking being rejected by him.
So, if he then starts to play mind games with her, like not responding to her texts, or only sticking to texting without taking things any further than that (i.e. usually because he’s hoping to make her chase after him), she will feel turned off by it and begin to lose interest.
As a result, she will stop giving him the chance to mess with her anymore by ignoring him, or even blocking his number to teach him a lesson.
Here’s the thing…
Most guys would do anything to be in a position where their ex is texting them without them having to chase after her.
So, if you’re in that position, don’t take advantage of her by playing games, because you will end up losing her for real.
Instead, use the opening she is giving you to get her on a call and then to a meet up where you can fully reactivate her feelings for you and get her back.
That’s what you really want, so stop wasting time and make it happen!
The next mistake is…
2. Being afraid to call and start the ex back process
Sometimes a guy will get texting back and forth with his ex in the hope that it will somehow lead to getting her back.
Yet, rather than that happening, his ex becomes bored and starts wondering things like, “Why doesn’t he just call me? Maybe I made a mistake by texting him first. By his response I guess he’s not really interested in getting back together again after all.”
He may then discover that she’s taking longer and longer to respond to him until eventually she stops altogether.
So, if you truly want to get your ex back, don’t waste a lot of time texting back and forth.
A text or two can help to get her to smile and laugh a little, but after that, you need to focus on getting to talk to her over the phone or meet up with her in person, where you can fully re-attract her and get her back.
If you don’t have the courage or motivation to get to that level with her and just want to hide behind texting, you will almost certainly lose out on getting her back.
So, quit playing games with her.
Call her, re-attract her and then meet up with her and get her back for real.
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