5 common reasons why a woman will do that:
1. She is curious to find out how you went from really wanting her back, to not contacting her anymore
If when you and your ex girlfriend first broke up you were texting her all the time, calling her on the phone and sending her messages via social media to try and get her back, she will most likely have been quite surprised when all that suddenly stopped.
Of course initially she would probably have felt relieved that you were no longer contacting her, or trying to get her back.
She may even have thought things like, “Thank goodness he’s finally gotten the message and is leaving me alone! It feels so good to finally be free of him.”
Yet, over time, she may have become quite curious about what caused you to vanish from her life.
She might then have started wondering things like, “Why isn’t he still trying to get me back? I wonder what he’s up to. Could he have suddenly met another woman and is now in a new relationship that I don’t know about? Is it possible that he’s moved on?”
Added to that, if she still hasn’t found herself a replacement boyfriend, she will likely be even more anxious to check up on you to see if you’ve moved on first.
As a result, she suddenly starts talking to you again.
At this point, you’re probably wondering, “What now?”
Well, the good news is that you now have an opportunity to re-attract her and get her back.
How can you do that?
By showing her (via your conversation style, actions, behavior and most importantly, the way you respond to what she says and does), that you’re no longer the same guy she broke up with.
You’ve changed and improved.
For example: You’re more confident and self-assured now.
So, if she says something along the lines of, “Don’t think that just because I’m talking to you again it’s because I want you back, because I don’t! I’m over you,” rather than feel hurt and lose all hope of getting her back, you realize she’s only testing you to see if you really have changed.
You then laugh at her attempts to make you feel insecure, which instantly sparks some of her feelings of respect for you.
Another example is that you’re emotionally independent now and getting on with your life without her.
You have goals, hobbies, interests and friends that you’re busy with, so you haven’t been sitting around feeling sad, lonely and waiting for her to contact you.
When she sees that for herself, she won’t be able to stop feeling surges of respect and attraction for you again.
You can then build on those feelings so she drops her defenses and opens up to the idea of being your girl once again.
Another common reason why a woman will finally talk to you after 2 months is…
2. She just wants to confirm that you’re still missing her and wanting her back
Sometimes, a woman might simply be looking for a bit of a self-esteem boost for herself.
So, after 2 months of not talking to her ex, she might contact him to see if he’s still pining for her.
If he then starts saying things like, “I’m so glad you’re talking to me again! I missed you so much! These past 2 months have been hell without you. Why don’t we meet up sometime so that we can talk in person? I really want to discuss what went wrong with our relationship,” she will get the satisfaction of knowing that he still has feelings for her.
Then, after she gets the ego boost she was hoping for, she will likely just go back to ignoring him again, knowing that there’s a guy out there who wants her.
A guy might then ask, “Why did this happen? I thought she would be flattered to see that I still miss her and want her back?”
Yet, here’s the thing…
A woman wants a man who wants her, not needs her.
So, when she sees that her ex needs her love to be strong and without it he becomes a weak, insecure, needy guy, rather than feel flattered, she feels even more determined to move on without him.
This is why it’s so important that even if you have really missed your ex girlfriend, you don’t come across as being needy or like you haven’t been doing anything with your life since she stopped talking to you.
When she can see for herself that you’re an emotionally independent and strong man, she will instinctively feel attracted to you again, even though she may try to deny it to herself.
She then subconsciously changes her plans (i.e. to talk to you, confirm that you’re missing her and then ignore you again) and she instead stays in touch to see in what other ways you’ve changed and improved since you and her broke up.
You can then use the interactions with her to reactivate her feelings and get her back into a relationship with you.
Another common reason why a woman will finally talk to you after 2 months is…
3. She misses you and wants to find out if you can now make her feel attracted in the ways that are important to her
In some cases, the longer a woman doesn’t talk to her ex, the more she realizes that she misses him.
She may then start thinking things like, “Maybe I’ve been too hard on him. I know he stuffed up, but he wasn’t all bad. In fact, he was a pretty good guy most of the time. I actually miss so many things about him. Maybe I should talk to him again and see if he’s changed. If he has, I would be willing to give him another chance.”
She then makes the first move and gives him an opening to start re-attracting her in some of the ways that are important to her (e.g. by showing her that he’s more ballsy and no longer allows her to walk all over him, by being more sure of himself around her and others, by living up to his full potential in life rather than hiding from it out of fear).
If he then interacts with her and shows her via his actions, behavior and the way he responds to her that he truly has changed, she will allow her defenses to come down and open her heart to him again.
On the other hand, if she contacts him and sees that he’s wasted the 2 months because he hasn’t done anything to change or improve (i.e. he’s spent that time being sad, lonely and feeling hopeless rather than focusing on quickly improving his ability to attract her), she will pull away from him again and focus on fully getting over him this time and moving on.
Another common reason why a woman will finally talk to you after 2 months is…
4. Her friends dared her to contact you
A woman’s friends might sometimes push her to contact her ex to see what happens.
This could be because they are tired of hearing her talking about him and they’re hoping that if she gets in touch with him, he will either re-attract her and get her back, or she will see that he’s still the same jerk she broke up with and finally get over him.
Alternatively, her and her friends might simply be getting in touch with her ex to have a laugh at his expense.
Essentially, they may be hoping that he will be so happy to hear from her that he will start believing she wants him back.
She can then say something along the lines of, “You must be crazy if you think I want you back! It’s over between us and I’m having a wonderful time without you! There are so many guys who are interested in me now, why would I even consider giving you another chance?” and laugh with her friends about how gullible he is.
Another common reason why a woman will finally talk to you after 2 months is…
5. She is aiming to make you want her again, so she can then pull away and make you chase her
Sometimes, a woman might resent that her ex has stopped contacting her after their break up.
In her mind she may be thinking things like, “How can he just walk away from me and not even call to see how I’m coping? Did he ever even love me, or was he just using me?”
These thoughts might keep going around and around in her head until she decides to take matters into her own hands and after 2 months, finally decides to talk to him, either for a self esteem boost, or for revenge for trying to mess with her by not contacting her after the break up.
So, she will contact him and lead him on and pretend to be interested.
Then, when he says something along the lines of, “I missed you so much. These past few months of not talking to you have been so difficult. It really took all my strength not to call you,” she can feel better about herself, knowing that he really did care for her.
At the same time, she can get her revenge by saying something like, “Good for you! I didn’t miss you and the only reason I’m talking to you now is to tell you that I’m over you! I’ve moved on and I’m happy now. Bye,” and enjoy causing him pain for having ignored her.
Where Guys Go Wrong When Interacting With an Ex Woman After 2 Months of No Contact
Regardless of your ex girlfriend’s reasons for talking to you again, you now have the perfect opportunity to re-attract her and get her back.
It all depends on what you do from this point onwards.
That’s why you need to avoid making any of the following mistakes:
1. Sticking to text conversations and then she loses interest
Sometimes a guy is worried about coming across as being pushy or over eager with his ex once she starts talking to him after a couple of months of silence, so he sticks to only communicating with her via text.
Essentially, he’s hoping that when she’s ready, she will give him a sign that she’s open to talking to him over the phone, or meet up with him in person.
Yet, here’s the thing…
In most ex back cases, a woman will rarely make it easy for a guy to get her back.
Instead, she will wait for him to take the lead in the ex back process by calling her, arranging a meet up and then re-attracting her and getting her back.
However, if all he does is have long conversations with her via text, she’s going to get bored with him pretty quickly, because nothing about that is sparking her feelings for him.
She then usually loses interest and becomes increasingly colder and more aloof towards him, until she eventually stops responding to him altogether.
Another mistake to avoid is…
2. Over analyzing what she says or doesn’t say via text
It’s only natural that when a guy has been waiting 2 months to hear from his ex, he’s going to be very excited when she start talking to him again.
Yet, rather than just call her on the phone or meet up with her in person where he can spark her feelings for him and start getting her back, he instead agonizes over her text messages, in the hope that he can get a clue about her true feelings for him.
He ex might then read her messages and start wondering, “What did she mean when she said that? Could she be hinting that she wants to get back together again, or was she just making conversation?” or “I said I missed her, but she didn’t say it back to me. Does that mean she didn’t miss me, or is she just playing hard to get?”
Yet, here’s the thing…
You will drive yourself crazy by overanalyzing everything your ex girlfriend says or doesn’t say when she’s texting you.
That’s why you need to forget about all that and focus instead on actively making her feel respect and attraction for you again.
That’s what really matters.
Another mistake to avoid is…
3. Waiting for 100% clear signals that she wants a relationship before you try to get to a meet up
There’s no way to know what your ex girlfriend was thinking about when she finally decided to talk to you after 2 months.
Yes, she might have missed you and wanted to give you a sign that she’s now open to getting back together again.
However, she may also have just been bored or curious about what you’ve been up to and wanted to see for herself.
The point is, it doesn’t matter.
If you wait around hoping to get a clear signal from her that she wants a relationship, you could be waiting for a very long time.
In most cases, rather than make her feelings for her ex obvious, a woman will wait for him to just make a move.
However, if he doesn’t she will likely just assume that he isn’t interested and she will then try to move on without him.
So, if you want to get your ex girlfriend back, don’t waste time waiting for 100% clear signals from her that she wants a relationship.
Instead, be emotionally courageous enough to take the lead in the ex back process and get her back.
Another mistake to avoid is…
4. Being neutral and friendly and hoping that she will feel attracted to you anyway
If you’re only being neutral or friendly when you interact with your ex, she’s likely going to assume that you’re no longer interested in her in a sexual and romantic way.
Then, rather than waste any more time with a guy who doesn’t want her anymore, she will likely just back off and try to move on.
So, if your intention during the past 2 months of not talking to her was to get her back into a relationship with you, then don’t waste the opportunity by being too neutral or friendly with her.
Instead, use interactions with her to spark her feelings and make her feel sexually attracted once again.
You can do that by using ballsy humor to make her laugh and smile and feel good to be talking to you again.
You can also do that by flirting with her and creating sexual tension.
The more you reawaken her feelings for you, the more open she will become to giving you another chance.
So, stop being Mr. Friendly with her and start making her feel like a real woman every time she talks to you.
You’ll be amazed by her response.
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