It depends.
Not all women are the same.
Some women move on quickly for reasons other than not loving you, whereas other times it’s because she never really loved you.
Here are 5 commons reasons why a woman will quickly move on after a break up:
1. To avoid being drawn back into a relationship with you
After breaking up, a woman can still have some feelings for her ex guy, but deep down, she also knows that he’s not going to change and become the guy she really needs him to be.
She has likely given him plenty of chances to change and improve in the past and although he always promises to change and better, he eventually reverts back to his old way of thinking and behaving.
So, this time around, rather than risk being drawn back into a relationship with him, she quickly moves on and starts dating other guys as a way to stop herself from being tempted to give him another chance.
It’s not that she didn’t ever love you, but rather that she doesn’t want to keep experiencing the same problems with you over and over again.
She might actually still love you very much, but she currently can’t trust that you will actually change and become the man she needs you to be.
So, if you want your ex girlfriend back, don’t go about it in the same way you have in the past (e.g. promising her that you will change, asking her to tell you what she wants you to do to make her happy, begging and pleading for another chance).
You have to actually change this time and let her experience it on a phone call or in person.
Remember: Actions speak louder than words.
You need to show her via the way you think, talk, behave, interact with her and respond to what she says and does, that you really have changed this time.
Then, when you interact with her and she encounters a very different guy to the one she broke up with (e.g. more confident and self-assured, more able to stand up for himself, more emotionally independent, more loving, more honest and real, more charismatic and interesting), she won’t be able to stop herself from feeling drawn to you again.
You can then build on her feelings of respect and attraction for you during interactions and get her back.
However, if you try to get her back without making some improvements to the things that really matter to her, she’s just going to say, “Sorry. It’s over between us. I’ve moved on and you need to do the same.”
Another possible reason why your ex girlfriend moved on after two weeks is…
2. To avoid having to deal with the pain of a break up
If a woman is inexperienced with break ups and this is her first serious relationship, she may not know how to handle the pain that comes after a relationship ends.
For example: According to a study published in Evolutionary and Behavioral Sciences, women experience more emotional pain than men after a breakup.
Your ex might not shown that to you, but chances are high that she would have been experiencing a lot of emotional pain after the break up.
So, rather than sitting around feeling sad, crying and missing you for weeks, she may have simply decided to quickly move on as a way of distracting herself from the painful feelings.
The good news for you is that when you interact with her and make her feel the way that she really wants to feel in a relationship (e.g. respectful of you, attracted to you, feminine and girly around you in comparison to how masculine you think, talk and behave), her feelings will automatically change.
She will start to feel drawn to you in a way that feels good to her.
She may then think something like, “Hmmm…something has changed. Suddenly the idea of moving on without him doesn’t feel right to me anymore. I miss him. Maybe I made a mistake breaking up with him. Maybe we can actually work things out between us after all. What am I doing with this new guy? I have to go and see my ex. I can’t stop thinking about him now.”
As a result, getting her back becomes easy for you, because it’s something that both of you want, rather than it only being something that you want and you are trying to convince her of.
So, I recommend that you stop focusing on why your ex girlfriend moved on after two weeks and wondering, “Did she ever love me?” and concentrate on using every interaction you have with her from now on (e.g. via text, e-mail, social media and especially over the phone and in person), to spark her feelings for you again.
The more respect and attraction you can make her feel for the new and improved you, the more she will want to be with you rather than the new guy.
On the other hand, if you interact with her and turn her off even more (e.g. by being desperate, by trying to make her feel guilty for moving on so quickly), her defenses will stay up and she will convince herself that she’s doing the right thing by moving on.
Another possible reason why your ex girlfriend moved on after two weeks is…
3. To show her family and friends that she doesn’t sleep around and just wants to be in a happy relationship
In today’s world, a lot of women enjoy being single and sleeping with many different men without getting into a serious relationship.
Although there’s nothing wrong with that, there are still some people who regard women like that as being slutty.
In the case of your ex girlfriend, she might fear that if she remains single for too long, her family and friends will start thinking that she’s a careless woman who sleeps around.
So, rather than being seen in that way, she moves on quickly to show the people in her life that she is a responsible, sensible woman who only wants to be in a happy relationship with one guy for life.
The next possible reason why your ex girlfriend moved on after two weeks is…
4. She wasn’t truly in love with you yet
Sometimes a woman might hook up with a guy that she doesn’t feel 100% compatible with, simply because she doesn’t want to be alone.
For example: She might think to herself, “I don’t feel very attracted to him right now, but he’s quite sweet and treats me well. Maybe if I give him a chance, he will eventually grow on me and we can be happy together.”
If she then finds that her feelings don’t deepen and decides to break up with him, it will be easy for her to move on because she was never really committed to him in the first place.
However, even if this was the case between you and your ex, the good news is you can still change how she feels.
In fact, the more you spark her feelings of respect and sexual attraction for you during interactions (e.g. by making her smile and laugh, making her feel like a desirable, sexy woman), the more drawn to you she will feel.
She will then begin asking herself, “Why am I feeling this way about him all of a sudden? Did I fall in love with him and not realize it until now? Could I have made a mistake by breaking up with him? Is he the one for me after all? Why don’t I just give him another chance? I miss him now. I want him.”
She then becomes so much easier to seduce and get back into a relationship.
So, don’t waste any more time thinking, “My ex girlfriend moved on after two weeks. Did she ever love me?”
Instead, focus instead on making her love the new and improved you.
Call her on the phone or meet up with her in person and spark her feelings for you, so she has a reason to get back with you or at least hook up with you to see how she feels.
The next possible reason why your ex girlfriend moved on after two weeks is…
5. She prefers being in a relationship than being single
Some women simply hate the idea of not being in a relationship because her main goal is to secure a man for life and get on with having a family.
A woman like that will go from relationship to relationship really quickly, until she meets a guy who can maintain and grow her feelings of respect, attraction and love over time.
When she does find a guy like that, she will remain faithful to him and be a committed and loving woman for life.
So, if your ex girlfriend has moved on two weeks after breaking up with you, it may be because she’s looking for a guy that she can permanently settle down with.
That guy can still be you, of course.
When you start giving her the attraction experience she always wanted from you, she will automatically start to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
Her defenses will come down and the idea of investing in a relationship with a new guy that might actually end in a break up will begin to seem wrong to her.
At that point, you can use your new and improved attraction skills to re-attract her and get her back.
For some tips on how to re-attract her, be sure to watch the videos that I’ve included on this page for you.
Now, let’s look at where guys mess up when their ex girlfriend moves on quickly after a break up…
4 Mistakes to Avoid Making if Your Ex Girl Moved on Quickly After Breaking Up With You
It sucks that she moved on quickly, but to get her back now, you need to be in control of your emotions, so you can talk, behave and act in a way that will re-attract her.
For example: Make sure that you avoid the following mistakes that show you are hurting and are not in control of your emotions…
1. Asking her how she could move on so quickly
It’s normal for a guy to feel hurt or annoyed at his ex girlfriend for moving on so quickly after their break up.
Feeling rejected, betrayed or like she had fooled him into thinking that everything was fine, he might start to feel angry and want to know what the heck she was thinking.
As a result, he might text her, call her or talk to her in person and ask (in an annoyed, angry or suspicious manner), “How could you move on so quickly? Did you ever love me? Was our relationship fake? Did I mean anything to you?!”
Even though he has a right to ask for an explanation from her (after all she was his girlfriend), she probably won’t agree and will get annoyed at him.
For example: She may think, “How dare he ask me why I’m moving on so quickly? Does he think he owns me or something? Well, I’m not his property and I don’t have to explain myself to him. He’s just jealous that I moved on easily and he can’t. He’s lost so much confidence in himself that other attractive girls don’t want him. Well, that’s his bad luck. I don’t have to sit around being single just because he isn’t moving on.”
She then closes herself off from her ex and focuses on trying to make her new relationship work.
So, if you don’t want to push your ex girlfriend further away, don’t ask her why or how she could move on so quickly.
Instead, just focus on reactivating her feelings for you.
The more attracted and respectful you make her feel about the new and improved you, the sooner she will be back in your arms.
Another mistake to avoid making is…
2. Seeking pity from her
Sometimes a guy might sulk, whine or even cry about the situation to his girlfriend as a way of hopefully making her feel guilty for what she has done to him.
He might say, “How can you do this to me? How can you move on after two weeks? Did you ever love me or was it all a lie? Well, for me it was 100% real and I can’t just move on as though nothing happened. What happened between you and I was real. I wish I could just forget about you, but I can’t. Maybe I’m just a fool for loving you so much. I actually care about what we had together. It means so much to me. I just don’t understand how what we shared seems to have meant nothing to you. Two weeks!? That’s all it took for you to forget me and move on? I’m stunned. I’ll never be able to recover from this. Yet, that’s what you wanted all along, right? To see me suffer like this? To break my heart? Well you got your wish. I hope you’re happy.”
He’s secretly hoping that she will feel sorry for him, take pity on him, leave the new guy and get back with him.
Yet, it rarely (if ever) works like that.
Although a woman might feel sorry for her ex and feel a bit guilty about moving on so quickly, she won’t allow those feelings to force her into a relationship that doesn’t make her happy.
In fact, when she realizes that her ex is simply trying to manipulate her by making her feel guilty, she will lose respect for him and will feel happier with the new guy.
So, don’t bother trying to make your ex girlfriend feel pity for you.
Instead, focus on re-sparking her feelings of respect and attraction for you, so she naturally feels drawn to you and becomes open to giving you another chance.
Another mistake to avoid making is…
3. Calling her names or insulting her
When feeling angry, a guy might decide to just accuse his ex girlfriend of being a slut, a bitch or a liar because she moved on so quickly.
He might say, “You’re such a lying slut. You used to tell me that you wanted to be with me forever! Lies! You never wanted to stay with me. Well, I hope you get what you deserve. I hope your new guy dumps you and shows you that you’re not worth being loyal to. After all, you’re not loyal to anyone but yourself! You will get your dose of karma. What goes around comes around, bitch!”
Here’s the thing…
Although it might feel right in the moment, due to how much anger he is feeling, it’s just not going to help him get her back at all.
Instead, it will only cause her to lose even more respect for him for losing control of his emotions and showing an angry, unloving side of himself that almost all women on the planet don’t find appealing.
In some cases, a woman will begin to feel scared that if her ex had gotten that angry over the phone, he might become even angrier and more aggressive if she saw him in person.
As a result, she might block him on her phone, unfriend him on social media or continually reject his attempts to get her to meet up with him.
So, what should you do instead?
Simple: Continue to be a confident, good man who only has good intentions with her.
I’m not saying to be really nice to her.
Don’t get me wrong.
You won’t gain any points with her by becoming a super nice guy.
Instead, be a confident, good man who has the balls to joke around with her, flirt with her and have a good time when talking to her.
If you do that, she will feel a renewed sense of respect for you, for being able to handle the situation like a man.
When she feels respect, she will also be able to feel sexual and romantic attraction and when that happens, she will begin to question her decision to move on so quickly without you.
On the other hand, if you just insult her, she will move farther away from you and then, getting her back will become more difficult.
Another mistake to avoid making is…
4. Thinking that you have no chance to re-attract her and get her back
It’s understandable that when a guy sees his ex girlfriend has already moved on after two weeks, he might begin to think that he can’t ever get her back.
He may even say to himself, “Well, I guess it’s truly over between us then. She obviously never loved me and I’m just a fool for missing her and wanting her back. I better accept it and move on too, because it’s too late to get her back. I don’t stand a chance with her anymore.”
Yet, thinking like that only makes him lose confidence in himself and in his value to her.
Then, when he interacts with her (e.g. via text, e-mail, on social media, on a phone call or in person) and she picks up on his insecure, self-doubting vibe and feels turned off by him.
Rather than see things from his point of view (i.e. that he’s hurting because she moved on after two weeks), she instead sees him as an emotionally weak guy who can’t handle life’s challenges like a man.
This makes her lose even more respect for him and convinces her that moving on was the right thing for her to do.
So, if you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you have to believe that you can do it and that you are worthy of her.
If you don’t believe it’s possible for her to feel attracted to you again, you won’t be able to convince her to give you another chance because she will be turned off by your self-doubt and insecure.
If you want her back, you have to believe that you can get her back.
The more you believe in yourself, the more that your confidence will come through in your actions, your conversation style and the way you respond to her.
All it takes is a little seed of doubt in her mind, for her to begin to wonder, “Did I make the right decision by moving on from my ex so quickly? What if he’s actually the one for me? Will he give me another chance after what I did to him?”
She then contacts you or replies or answers when you contact her.
You can then meet up with her, re-attract her and show her that getting back together with you is the best thing for her.
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