It depends on why she broke up with you and how serious she is about moving on.
For example: Here are 5 possible reactions a woman can have to her ex boyfriend ignoring her calls…
1. She will worry that he is over her and then try to get him back to make herself feel better
In some cases, a woman likes the idea of her ex sitting at home alone, feeling lonely, rejecting and missing her like crazy.
She hopes that he’s thinking things like, “I want her back so bad. My life feels empty without her. She’s probably happy without me. She might even regret ever being with me now. She’s probably have sex with some new guy now and enjoying it. It’s over. I lost her. I don’t know if I will ever find a woman like her again. Hhhh…I just her back.”
So, if she calls her ex, she expects him to jump at the chance to talk to her again and possibly even say, “Oh! It’s you. I’m happy to hear from you” and then eventually tell her that he has been missing her and wants her back.
She can then reject him again and walk away feeling good about herself, knowing that her ex is suffering without her.
Yet, if she calls and he doesn’t answer any of her calls, then it can cause her to end up feeling rejected by him.
As a result, she may then begin to wonder things like, “What’s going on? Why is he ignoring me? Has he met a new girl? Is she prettier than me? Could he possibly be over me already? I thought he loved me.”
It then starts to eat away at her confidence, which can then lead to her doing whatever she can to get him back (e.g. showing up at a place where she knows she will bump into him, arriving unannounced at his house or workplace, sending him a series of texts to spark his interest, liking his posts on social media and leaving positive comments, sending him some photos of him and her back when they were happy).
Now, that’s a possible good reaction from a woman that will help get her back.
However, it doesn’t always work that way.
For example: Another possible reaction a woman can have to her ex boyfriend ignoring her calls is…
2. She will decide to make herself feel better and hopefully get over him by hooking up with a new guy
As you may know, it’s pretty easy for a woman to get some sex.
All she has to do is get on Tinder, Hinge or some other dating app and hundreds of guys will be willing to go on a date with her right away.
Alternatively, she can go out to a bar or club, have some drinks with friends and openly flirt with other guys.
Hours later, she can be having sex with one of the guys she met at the club.
If she doesn’t go for those options, there are always the guys who have a crush on her at work (or university).
In any case, it’s easy for a woman to quickly get some sex and help herself to begin getting over her ex.
So, if a woman reaches out to her ex boyfriend by calling him and he never answers, she may decide to make herself feel better by hooking up with a new guy.
She might also think something like,“Well if this is how he wants to be, then that’s fine by me. I don’t need him anyway. Loads of guys would love to be with me. I’ll show him.”
She then goes out of her way to get laid and start dating new guys, to remind herself that she is pretty and that she can feel happy with other guys too.
If she happens to meet a guy who makes her feel more attracted and in love than her ex ever did, then she will feel motivated to stick with him.
As a result, her ex will now have a difficult time getting her back.
So, if you don’t want your ex hooking up with new guys to get over you, it’s always better not to ignore her, or to use what is referred to as the No Contact Rule.
For the record, the No Contact Rule works fairly well for women who want to get a man back because when a man dumps a woman and she doesn’t contact him, it can really mess with his ego.
He wants to see if his ex girl is still missing him, so he reaches out to her and if he hasn’t been getting laid, he will usually decide to hook up with her for something to do.
As a result, she will kind of get him back, but not really.
On the other hand, when a woman dumps a guy, she won’t always care if he is still missing her or not.
Some women do, but many don’t.
The majority of women simply move on after dumping a guy and couldn’t care less if their ex boyfriend calls them or not.
So, don’t make the mistake of thinking that ignoring phone calls from your ex is the magic solution to getting her back.
In most cases, if a woman wants her ex boyfriend back, she will call a few times, but then decide to stop putting herself in a position to be rejected like that.
She will think something like, “Well, I’ve called him. He knows I’ve called him. If he wants me back, he’ll call me. If he doesn’t call me, then I’m going to start moving on.”
She then opens herself up to dating new guys, hooking up and moving on.
This is why, you shouldn’t just ignore phone calls from her and hope that it will fix everything and get her back.
It many cases it won’t.
Here’s the thing…
If you actually answer her calls, you then have an opportunity to re-spark her feelings of respect and attraction for you (e.g. by making her smile, laugh and feel good to be talking to you again, flirting with her, letting her sense your confidence and belief in yourself, making her feel girly in comparison to your masculine approach to the conversation), which will then make her want to meet up with you in person.
When you meet up in person, you can then get to a hug, kiss, sex and back into a relationship.
On the other hand, if you continue to ignore her, she might simply give up and stop calling you.
She may even decide to ignore your calls from now on too.
It then becomes more difficult to get her back, because you’ve essentially lost contact with her.
Don’t let that happen to you and her.
Answer her calls.
Also, understand that you’re actually in a better position than most guys who are trying to get their ex girl back.
She’s the one calling you.
She’s actually making it very easy for you to re-attract her and get her back.
So, don’t waste that chance.
The next time she calls you, make sure that you answer the phone.
On the call, focus on saying and doing the types of things that will make her miss you even more and want to see you again.
For example: Some of the ways you can do that are by…
- Showing her your confidence and emotional strength, especially if she pretends not to be interested in being with you anymore by talking about how happy she is to be single.
- Using humor to ease the awkwardness between you and make her feel calm and relaxed to be talking to you, rather than holding back and being reserved because you think it’s not appropriate to joke around with her. Have balls. Women love balls. Don’t forget that.
- Flirting with her to create some sexual tension between you, rather than just talking to her like a guy who is no longer interested in having a romantic and sexual relationship with her anymore (i.e. a neutral friend). Don’t think that it’s not your place anymore to flirt with her. It’s always fine to flirt with an ex girlfriend or a girlfriend. Flirting is an innocent way to show sexual interest in each other and to build up sexual tension, so she wants to hook up with you sexually.
- Not giving her too much power over you during conversations or interactions (e.g. by being too nice, doing everything she tells you to do) and instead, letting her see that even though you are being good to her, you still have balls. That makes her feel respect and attraction for you.
The more respect and attraction she feels for you over the phone, the more she will want to experience it in person.
When you meet up with her in person, continue to build on her feelings for you and then, when it feels like the right time, go ahead and hug, kiss, have sex and get back into a relationship with her.
You can accomplish all of that within a few days, or sooner if you approach it correctly.
Yet, if you ignore her calls, the ex back process will drag on for weeks and you may end up losing her to another guy.
Another possible reaction a woman can have to her ex boyfriend ignoring her calls is…
3. She will stop calling to avoid making herself look desperate
Sometimes, a woman will be missing her ex, thinking about him every day and wondering if she made the right decision by breaking up the relationship.
This can then lead her to build up the courage to call him and see what happens.
If she calls and he doesn’t answer, she may say to herself, “That’s okay. He’s probably busy,” or “I must have caught him at a bad time. I’ll call again later.”
Yet, if she calls him again and again and he never answers, she will almost certainly stop calling because she won’t want to make herself seem too desperate.
Rather than continue call, a woman will usually wait for her ex to make the next move.
If he has the confidence and courage to call her, re-attract her on the call and then initiate an in person meet up, she will automatically feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for him.
However, if he doesn’t do anything, she might eventually get tired of waiting, block his number and unfriend him on social media so he can’t easily get in contact with her.
She will then open herself up to new guys and try to move on as quickly as she can, so she can get over the pain of the break up.
This is why, it’s very important that you answer the next time she calls you.
Don’t missing out on getting her back by playing too hard to get with her.
Instead, focus on reactivating her sexual and romantic feelings for you on the call, so you can re-attract her, bring down her defenses, arrange a meet up and get her back.
It’s a simple, straightforward process and it works.
On the other hand, ignoring her is a complicated, messy process that usually results in a guy missing out on getting his ex girl back.
Another possible reaction a woman can have to her ex boyfriend ignoring her calls is…
4. She will assume that he isn’t interested, respect that and just move on
Sometimes a woman will assume that if her ex isn’t answering her calls, then he’s set on moving on without her.
So, she respects that and moves on herself.
For example: If she has tried calling a few times and he hasn’t been responding, she might think something along the lines of, “Oh well, I guess I have my answer then. Clearly he’s not interested in getting back together. So, I need to respect that and let him get on with his life. I’ll find someone new.”
She then stops calling him and focuses on getting over him by dating new guys.
Then, if her ex realizes that she’s no longer calling him and he decides to call her back, he might be shocked to hear her say something like, “Sorry, but it’s too late now. I tried calling you, but you ignored me so I accepted that you were no longer interested. I then moved on. I’m with someone else now and I’m happy. So, you need to respect that now. Goodbye.”
Don’t be that guy who loses out on getting his ex girl back because you’re playing mind games with her by ignoring her calls.
If you want her back, make it happen now.
She’s making it so easy for you by calling you, so answer her.
On the call, re-attract her, bring her defenses down, arrange a meet up and get back together.
Another possible reaction a woman can have to her ex boyfriend ignoring her calls is…
5. She will want to seek revenge on him for trying to make her feel rejected
Most women won’t call an ex boyfriend after dumping him because they fear being rejected by him.
So, for your ex to call you, she’s probably feeling like she’s taking a big risk.
Prior to calling you, she may have even have been thinking things like, “What if he ignores me, or tells me that he’s moved on with someone else? Maybe I should wait for him to contact me instead. I don’t want to feel like a reject if he doesn’t respond. Then again, if I want him back, maybe I just have to take a chance and call him.”
She then took the risk of calling you (possibly several times) and when you didn’t answer, she may have then begun to think that:
- You’re playing hard to get and trying to make her chase after you.
- You’re feeling full of yourself and thinking things like, “Yeah, I knew that she still wants me. She stuffed up by dumping me. Now I can make her grovel to try and get me back. She will have to beg me to give her another chance.”
- You have a new woman and the two of you are laughing behind her back at her for contacting you and coming across as desperate.
- You’re too scared to answer the call because you’re worried that she will tell you that she has moved on.
And so on.
Of course, that might not be what you are thinking at all.
Yet, how is she to know?
She has to think something and in many cases, a woman will think that you’re trying to make her feel rejected by not answering.
As a result, she may decide to get revenge (e.g. block you, ignore your calls, unfriend you on social media, start dating a new guy and post photos of her and him on her profile).
Naturally, you probably don’t want to push her into the arms of another man, right?
If you don’t that and if your aim is to get her back, then make it happen.
Understand that she took a risk by calling you, so now it’s up to you to make the next move.
That means, you need to be man enough to answer her phone calls and then lead the way to a meet up, a hug, kiss, sex and back into a relationship.
4 Mistakes That Slow Down the Ex Back Process and Often Result in You Missing Out on Getting Her Back
So many guys miss out on getting their ex girl back by making one or more of the following mistakes…
1. Assuming that no contact works on all women
Not all women respond the same to No Contact (i.e. ignoring an ex for 30-60 days).
For example: A woman who has disconnected from her feelings for her ex boyfriend and is feeling fine without him, will usually be happy that he’s ignoring her and just move on without him.
On the other hand, a woman who still has feelings for her ex might chase after him and try to get him back if he doesn’t contact her.
Yet, if he doesn’t answer her calls, she may then rejected and force herself to get over him (usually by hooking up with another man), so she can move on.
That means that by ignoring your ex’s phone calls, you could either be making her want you more, or pushing her away and into the arms of another man.
Do you want to risk losing her, or do you want her back?
If you want her back, then stop ignoring her phone calls and answer your phone, or better yet, call her yourself.
Then, reactivate her feelings for you and get her back.
2. Missing out on perfect opportunities to re-attract her on the phone
A phone call from your ex is a perfect opportunity to re-spark her sexual and romantic feelings for you, so she then wants to be your girl again for real.
So, don’t waste those opportunities.
Instead, use the opportunities she is giving you to make her feel drawn to you again.
Some of the ways you can make her feel drawn to you are by…
- Using humor to make her relax her guard and open back up to you.
- Flirting with her to create a sexual vibe between you and to create built up sexual tension, which she then wants to release by kissing and having sex with you.
- Teasing her in a playful way during conversations, so she feels a fun, interesting and enjoyable spark with you and wants more of it.
Maintaining your confidence with her regardless of what she says to make you feel unsure of yourself.
The more you spark her feeling for you, the more open she’ll become to meeting up with you to see where things go.
Another mistake to avoid is…
3. Assuming that the more of her calls you ignore, the more she will want you
Not answering a woman’s calls once in a while is not a bad thing.
In fact, it can potentially show her that you’re not lonely and desperately waiting around for her to call.
A guy being independent is attractive and it does make a woman want him more.
Yet, ignoring all, or most of your ex’s calls will usually have the opposite effect.
Rather than feel attracted, she will assume that you’re playing hard to get with her, or are trying to signal to her that you have no interest in getting back together.
So, rather than continuing to feel rejected, she will simply stop calling.
Here’s the thing…
Your ex is almost certainly not going to sit around and let you make her feel rejected for much longer.
Instead, she will most likely focus on hooking up with a new guy as quickly as possible to get back at you.
If you truly want her back, don’t mess her around by playing unnecessary mind games for too long.
Instead, get on a call or to an in person meet up with her, reawaken her feelings of respect and attraction for you and then guide her back into a relationship.
It’s a simple, straightforward process and it works.
Another mistake to avoid is…
4. Ignoring her calls and then sending her texts
Your ex is most likely calling you because she wants to hear the tonality of your voice and assess your real reactions to what she says, to determine whether or not you’ve changed since the break up.
When she can hear the confidence in your voice and sense some changes in you that are attractive to her, she will naturally feel drawn to you and more open to meeting up with you.
You can then quickly and easily arrange to catch up in person, where you can get her back pretty immediately.
Yet, if you’re ignoring her calls and are only texting her, she won’t really be able to assess how you actually feel, or if you have changed enough since the break up to warrant getting back together.
Here’s the thing…
Although texting an ex is fine, it simply leaves too much room for misunderstanding (e.g. she takes something you text her the wrong way and feels insulted, or she assumes you’re not interested enough to talk to her over the phone and that’s why you’re only texting).
So, don’t just stick to only texting.
Answer the phone the next time she calls you (or call her instead) and get her back.
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