Every guy knows that a woman can feel attracted to a very handsome guy, a rich guy, or a guy who has a lot of status in society like a celebrity.
However, what a lot of guys don’t accept, or know about is that women can feel attracted to men for reasons other than looks, money and social status.
A normal, everyday guy can attract a beautiful woman.
Here are some examples to show you what I mean.
Have a look at this guy here.
Does he look like a male model?
Does he have a perfect body and does he look like he deserves to be with that woman?
Well, it turns out that they’ve gotten married and they’ve also started a family.
How about this guy below?
A skinny Asian guy with a pretty, white woman.
Some guys think that it’s not possible for an Asian guy to be with a white woman.
Some guys think that pretty, white women only want tall guys who’ve got big muscles, a huge dick, have loads of money, drive a sports car and have a luxury yacht and everyone else can just go and get stuffed.
However, as you can see in this photo, a skinny Asian guy has married a pretty, white woman.
He doesn’t have big muscles, but that didn’t stop him from getting the girl he wanted.
How about these two examples?
The guy on the left there doesn’t look as physically attractive as the woman.
So why is she with him?
Why isn’t she with a guy who looks like a male model? Why has she accepted him?
The same goes for the guy on the right.
He doesn’t have perfect teeth and doesn’t look like a handsome, male model, but he still has a pretty woman and has started a family.
How about these two fat guys?
When most guys see that, they think, “The fat guy must be rich. That’s the only reason why a woman would want to be with him.”
However, that’s just not true.
The reality is that you can make women feel attracted to you when you talk to them.
Some women will only accept a tall, handsome man who’s also rich.
However, those women are the minority.
The majority of women are way easier to pick up than they make themselves out to be.
A woman might go around saying, “I only want a tall guy who’s handsome and drives a sports car. He wears the best shoes and the latest clothes, has the latest haircut and makes loads of money.”
However, when a guy starts talking to her and creates a spark with her, all of those fake standards go out the window for most women.
All those things that she’s been saying don’t really matter because they are superficial things that most women don’t really care about.
The majority of women place more importance on how you make them feel when you interact with them.
In other words, do you make her feel attracted when you talk to her, or do you make her feel bored, neutral and just friendly?
What you need to do when you’re interacting with a woman that you want to have sex with, or turn into your girlfriend, or have as your wife one day is to create a spark of sexual attraction inside of her.
That is done by displaying personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women.
Some of those personality traits and behaviors are confidence, charm, charisma and humor.
Let’s have a look at some more photo examples.
Have a look at this nerdy guy here.
He doesn’t work out in the gym obviously, but he’s got a pretty girlfriend.
Why is she with him when she could be with a guy who has muscles and looks really cool and tough?
Why is she with that guy?
The reason why she is with that guy, is that most women are way easier to pick up than they make themselves out to be.
All it usually takes for most women is for you to talk to them for 1 to 2 minutes and display attractive personality traits and behaviors and the woman feels attracted to you and she likes you.
She opens up to being with you sexually and romantically.
Of course, some women will say no to that nerdy guy.
I’m not saying that that nerdy guy can pick up every woman in the world and that a guy can pick up any woman that he meets.
What I’m saying is that you can attract most of the women you meet and that includes pretty and beautiful women.
All it usually takes is 1 to 2 minutes of an interaction where you actively make the woman feel attracted to you.
Let’s have a look at some more photo examples.
The guy on the left is a black guy.
Some black guys contact me and say, “Hey Dan, white women don’t want black men.”
Guys come up with all sorts of excuses why they can’t get a girlfriend or get laid, but the real reason is that the guy doesn’t even know how to make the woman feel a spark of attraction for him when he talks to her.
He doesn’t even know how to do that.
He just walks up and talks to her and hopes that she’s going to like him as a person and then somehow he’s going to get a chance with her.
That’s not how it works.
You need to create a spark of attraction inside the woman.
How about the guy on the right there? An Asian guy with a black woman.
Of course, I’m not saying that every Asian guy in the world can pick up a black woman, or that every black guy in the world can pick up a white woman and so on.
I’m not saying that.
What I’m saying is that, regardless of what race you are or how you look, you can attract most of the women that you meet.
You can’t pick up every woman in the world, no guy can do that, but what is possible is that you can attract most of the women that you meet.
Most women don’t stick to the high standards that they apparently have when they talk about men.
“Oh, I want a handsome guy who’s tall and rich and will take me around the world on expensive holidays.”
Yeah, great and you also want to be a princess in a fairy tale.
Most women don’t stick to their fantasy list of requirements when it comes to men.
There are some women out there who have very high standards and won’t accept anything less than what they set out to get.
However, the majority of women are way easier to pick up than they make themselves out to be.
Let’s have a look at some more photo examples.
The guy on the left there is a bit overweight and obviously doesn’t look like a male model, but he’s got himself a beauty queen.
The guy on the right obviously doesn’t have the best teeth in the world.
You might be looking at his teeth and thinking, “Gross! Brush your teeth, how disgusting.”
Yet, look at the girl that he’s got.
I’m not saying that every guy with yellow teeth can pick up all the women in the world, but look at the girl that he’s got.
How did he get that girl?
Why didn’t the girl say, “Oh no no no, I can’t be with you because you’ve got to have really white teeth. There’s a trend in modern culture now where a guy has to have six-pack abs, have white teeth, have big biceps, wear the best clothes, wear the best shoes, have the latest haircut and if you don’t have that, sorry, I can’t be with you.”
No, that’s not how it works.
Some women are very picky, as I’ve said, but the majority of women are way easier to pick up than they make themselves out to be.
If you thought the previous guy’s teeth were bad, how about this guy?
He’s missing his two front teeth.
This couple was actually interviewed in a newspaper at one point and the woman was asked, “What do you think about his teeth?” and she said that she doesn’t mind, she doesn’t really care and doesn’t really notice.
I mean, how can you not notice those two missing front teeth?
Yet, she obviously doesn’t care because she feels a spark of attraction with him.
She really likes who he is and she really feels good around him.
She feels attraction, she feels respect and she feels love and therefore, she wants to be with him.
How about this nerdy guy here?
He’s got his hot girlfriend and he’s got pimples all over his face and obviously doesn’t work out in the gym.
How about this nerdy-looking guy here?
Some guys might say, “Oh, this guy looks ugly and look at his arms, he doesn’t even work out at the gym.”
Yet, he’s got a hot girlfriend.
The reason why is that most women place less importance on a man’s looks than men place on a woman’s looks.
Have a look at this photo example here.
Look at this guy with his funny-looking nose.
He’s got a pretty girlfriend.
Why is she with him when she could be with a guy who looks like a male model, who is in better shape and doesn’t have that funny-looking nose?
How about these two fat guys?
Why is that woman at the pool with the fat guy when she could be with a guy who has a perfect body?
How about these two bald guys?
Why are these women with a guy who doesn’t have a full head of hair?
Isn’t being attractive as a man about having a full head of hair?
Isn’t going bald shocking and it’s going to stop you from being able to attract women?
Now, of course, I’m not saying that every woman in the world wants a bald guy.
What I am saying though is that if a bald guy walks over to a woman and displays personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women, the women are going to feel attracted to him.
For example: If the bald guy is being confident, charming, charismatic and using some humor to get her laughing and make her feel good, then she’s going to look at him in a positive light.
All of a sudden, she’s going to be thinking, “Oh, I like this guy. He’s kind of sexy, kind of cute. I don’t usually go for guys who are bald, but there’s something about this guy.”
What she means when she says, “there’s something about this guy” is that she’s feeling a spark of attraction with him.
She’s feeling that spark.
She’s feeling the attraction because he is displaying traits that naturally attract women (i.e. confidence, charm, charisma, humor).
He is displaying the type of traits that are more important to most women than looks.
Here’s another fat guy with his hot girlfriend and if you look at the photo of him with her on the right, he’s even a little bit insecure, like he’s standing up on his tiptoes to look as tall as his girlfriend.
This is just one of millions of examples out there that prove women are way easier to pick up than they make themselves out to be.
A guy doesn’t have to be perfect to pick up a woman.
In my ebook, The Flow (also available as an audiobook), I teach 8 personality traits that naturally attract women.
Some of those personality traits are confidence, charm, charisma and humor.
However, to attract and pick up a woman, a guy doesn’t always have to display all 8 of the traits.
If you want to attract the hottest women and get the best results, so you get the highest success rate, then yes, display all the traits that I explain and give examples of what to say and what to do in my ebook, The Flow.
However, for most women, you usually only need to display 2 to 4 traits that are attractive to women and her guard will come down, she’ll open up to you, she’ll feel attracted to you and all you’ve got to do then is guide her through what I call the flow.
When you do that, she will either give you her phone number, kiss you or have sex with you on the first day or night you meet her, or you and her will arrange a date and then kiss and have sex on the date.
It’s very easy to do.
Let’s have a look at another example. A few more to go…
This guy with big ears.
Why is she with this guy with big ears?
He doesn’t seem to look like the toughest guy, the coolest guy, or the most confident guy in the world.
What’s she doing with him?
Isn’t having big ears a problem?
Are you supposed to have perfect ears, a really strong jawline, look really tough and have muscles and that’s the only way that you can get a girl?
No.
How about these two fat guys? What are the women doing with them?
Isn’t attracting women about six-pack abs and muscles?
Aren’t you supposed to wear the coolest clothes in the world to attract women?
No.
Finally, how about this fat guy with his girlfriend?
Some guys are going to be thinking, “Nah nah, they’re just friends. She wouldn’t want to be with him.”
Well, it turns out that they are together.
She is with him and she loves him and she wants to be with him.
They are a couple.
She places less importance on a guy looking like a male model than what guys believe.
It is true that some women only want a tall guy who has muscles and is rich.
That’s true, but if you want to be successful with women, you have to understand and accept that you can make women feel attracted to you when you talk to them.
When you’re talking to a woman, you can make her feel attracted to you.
This is the secret that allows me and other guys who don’t have the traditional good looks to be able to easily get laid and get a girlfriend.
How Did I Discover the Secret to Success With Women?
Essentially, what happened is that I got into a relationship by pure luck.
I was at a party one night and I was a bit tipsy, a bit drunk.
I managed to be standing next to a girl on the dance floor and then we somehow started dancing and because she was tipsy and a bit drunk, that then led to a kiss and then we got into a relationship.
As the relationship continued, I became insecure.
I knew that I had gotten her by pure luck and that if she dumped me, I wouldn’t be able to find another woman very easily, but she’d be able to find another guy very easily.
So, I became very insecure and she got sick of it.
One night, she went out with her sister and one of her friends and cheated on me by kissing a guy at a bar.
She then called me the next morning to tell me that she was now dumping me, we were completely finished and there was nothing I could do about it.
I was devastated.
It was back in the time when there were no dating or relationship gurus online helping guys to be successful with women.
So, I was on my own.
After that, I went through many years of my life being alone and being unable to attract women because I had lost a lot of confidence in myself.
When I interacted with women that I found attractive, I didn’t feel worthy and that came across in my body language, in my conversation and my behavior and the women felt turned off.
After a long time of being single and alone, I eventually got to the point where I thought, “Something isn’t right here. Why can other guys get beautiful girlfriends and I can only get an unattractive woman to show me some interest, but I can’t even get anywhere? Women don’t even want to be with me. What is wrong with me?”
So I decided that I was going to go out to bars and clubs every weekend and approach women until I worked out how to actually get beautiful women to feel attracted to me.
Initially, I got rejected a lot because I didn’t know what I was doing, but I was determined to work out how other guys were getting attractive women when I couldn’t.
I thought that I was a good guy, I saw myself as being fairly intelligent, I had a good job, I wore nice clothes and I would treat a woman very well if she was my girlfriend.
So, what was the problem?
There was obviously something that I was missing.
Soon enough, I began to work out how to attract women during a conversation and that is when everything changed.
When I began displaying traits that naturally attract women, women started to feel attracted to me.
I was able to get women to kiss me and hug me and go home and have sex with me.
I enjoyed that lifestyle for a long time, just hooking up with lots of women and really getting what I felt I deserved all along.
I had multiple women in my life at once.
It was a lot of fun and then, eventually, I met this girl (above) and years later, we got engaged, then married and then had twin daughters together.
If I had met her before I’d worked this stuff out, she wouldn’t have even spoken to me for 5 seconds.
Women like her never wanted anything to do with me back when I had no idea how to attract them.
Yet, her and I hit it off immediately (just like I’d successfully done with 100s of women before her when I was enjoying my choice of women) because I started by making her feel attracted to me as I talked to her.
I displayed the personality traits that naturally attract women and as a result, she felt naturally attracted to me.
It’s as simple as that.
So, if you don’t know what to say or do to attract women so you can get laid or get a girlfriend, I recommend that you read my ebook The Flow, or listen to the audio version The Flow on Audio.
The Flow is the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.
It’s so simple that any guy can use it and get results right away.
Don’t waste another day of your life feeling unhappy about your lack of success with women.
Attracting and picking up women is very easy once you know how it really works.
In fact, it’s one of the most simple things you’ll ever learn to do in your life and if you want to learn exactly how to do it, I recommend that you read my ebook The Flow, or listen to the audio version The Flow on Audio.
Enjoy the amazing times ahead with women!
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