Here are 4 examples of what you can text her to make her miss you:
1. Text her something that makes her smile and laugh
One of the most effective ways to make an ex woman miss you via text is to make her smile and laugh and feel good to be hearing from you.
When she is smiling and laughing and thinking about you in a more positive light, she naturally starts to miss the fun times you and her shared together.
If you’re not sure what to text to make her smile and laugh, here’s an example to give you an idea:
If you and your ex had a special coffee shop or restaurant you used to like to hang out at, you might text her something along the lines of, “Hey, I was at (insert the name of your special place) yesterday and I thought about you and how you always used to get a spaghetti sauce/cappuccino foam mustache every time we went there together. You’re the only girl I know who could rock a mustache like that! Lol! So, anyway… how are you?”
She will most likely laugh and smile when she reads that and start thinking about the good times you and her shared at that special place.
Another example is if you text something like, “Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I cooked your famous lasagna/scrambled eggs/curry last night.”
She might then reply with something along the lines of, “Oh, and how did it turn out?”
You can then respond with, “Oh, it was okay, but I couldn’t get that burnt flavor the way you used to. Lol!”
At that point, she’s probably going to be amused because she initially thought you were complimenting her on her cooking.
As she smiles and has a little laugh, she will then begin to think of you in a more positive way.
She may then begin thinking things like, “This is what I miss about him the most. He always had a knack for making me smile and laugh. Even when I was angry with him, he could somehow get a smile out of me and although we’re no longer together, he can still do it. It makes me sad to think that we’re broken up.”
She then naturally drops her guard and becomes more open to talking to you over the phone and seeing you in person, giving you the opportunity to reactivate her feelings for you and get her back.
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2. Text her to wish her a happy birthday or for some other occasion
Texting an ex to wish her a happy birthday, or to congratulate her for something, is a great way to make her miss you.
Not only does it open the lines of communication between you and her, it also reminds her of all the special birthdays and other events you and her shared together in the past.
As a result, she begins to miss you and the way you used to spoil her.
However, make sure you don’t send her a soppy, overly emotional message like, “Happy birthday/Congratulations. I hope you have a great day even though I can’t be there to share it with you, you deserve the best and I hope your friends will be spoiling you,” because that will likely turn her off and make her think things like, “Damn right, I’m going to have a great day and be spoiled by the people who love me, rather than be stuck in a bad relationship with you!”
Instead, keep your message light and use it as an opportunity to spark some of her feelings of respect and attraction for you and open her up to talking over the phone and seeing you in person.
For example: Something you might text is, “Happy birthday/Congratulations to my sexy ex girlfriend!”
She may then respond with something like, “Thanks,” and you can then text, “I hope you’re going to save a piece of cake for me. You can post it to me, or better yet, deliver it in person so I can give you your special birthday/congratulatory kiss.”
She will then probably smile and begin to miss you and want to see you again.
From there, all you need to do is get her on a phone call or to a meet up with you, so that you can re-spark her feelings for you and guide her back into a relationship again.
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3. Text her to say hi and have a text conversation with her, but don’t try to get her back
Another way to make your ex miss you is to start interacting with her again via text, without putting any pressure on her to get back together again.
In most cases, when a woman gets a text from her ex to say “hi”, her first thought will usually be something along the lines of, “Here we go! I was wondering how long it would take him before he tried to get me to change my mind and give him another chance.”
She then automatically puts up her guard and remains very guarded during her interactions with you.
So, to avoid that from happening, it’s very important that you don’t even mention getting back together again.
Instead, just keep the text conversation between you and her light and simply focus on making her smile and keeping her interested and curious about what you’ve been up to since the break up.
For example: You can text her about some of the interesting things you’ve been doing since you and her spilt up (e.g. you’ve joined a meet up group in your area, started a new hobby, visited some fascinating places) and then ask her about what she’s been doing too.
Of course, don’t make it sound like you’re reporting to her in the hope that she will give you a pat on the back and say, “Good boy. You sound so amazing now. Let’s get back together again.”
The impression you want to give her is that you’re happy and fulfilled in your life with or without her.
Yes, you want her back, but you’re not sitting around moping about it.
That is attractive to her.
Then, when you also don’t push her for a relationship, she naturally drops her guard and starts thinking things like, “I don’t know what’s gotten into me all of a sudden but I miss him so much. Our texting conversation has highlighted to me that he’s so different now. He’s so much more confident, self-assured and emotionally independent now. I actually enjoy interacting with him. I wonder if maybe we can work things out after all.”
She then wants to talk to you over the phone and see you in person to see how she feels.
Important: Once you’ve made her miss you and sparked some of her feelings for you via text, you have to get her to a meet up, so that you can fully reactivate her sexual and romantic feelings for you and get her back.
On the other hand, even though she initially seemed keen to interact with you, if you stick to texting back and forth for too long, she will eventually become bored and she may then stop replying to you altogether.
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4. Text her a simple, “Miss you” text
Sending a “Miss you” text works quite well in cases where your ex is already missing you and thinking about you.
She will then be happy to receive that text, because if she was worried that you weren’t interested anymore, she will now feel more confident to text with you, get on a call and meet up with you.
This type of text also works well if you’ve been interacting with your ex and have been sparking some of her feelings for you.
Then, when you text, “Miss you,” she will likely be happy to hear that and she may then reply with something along the lines of, “Miss you too.”
You can then meet up with her and fully reactivate her feelings of love, respect and attraction for you and get her back, because she wants that too.
Of course, if she isn’t missing you, then you have to focus on reactivating her feelings for you first, so that she does begin to miss you when you’re not interacting with her.
When that happens, getting her back becomes a lot easier, because she is naturally more open to talking to you and being around you.
Where Guys Go Wrong When Texting an Ex
As you can see, there are many ways you can text your ex to make her miss you.
However, there are also ways you can text that will turn her off even more and make her not even want to respond to you.
3 of those ways are:
1. Texting her about how good your life is now, even though she doesn’t care
Sometimes, a guy might text his ex something along the lines of, “Being broken up is actually pretty great. I’ve been having a wonderful time without you. Remember how you always used to hate going clubbing? Well now I’m out almost every night at a different club. It’s amazing! Hope you’re having fun too.”
Essentially he’s hoping that she will think something like, “Oh no! He’s having such a great life without me! It makes me miss him so much. Maybe I should call him and see if we can work things out.”
Yet, if a woman has disconnected from her feelings of love, respect and attraction for a guy and he’s done nothing to re-spark those feelings in her, getting a text like that from him is not really going to impress her that much.
Instead, she will likely just do something like roll her eyes and think, “Why is he telling me this? Does he think I care what he’s doing or that I’m going to be jealous if he’s having fun? Well, I’m not. I don’t care about him anymore, so he can even go jump in a lake and it wouldn’t matter to me.”
So, don’t bother telling your ex how happy you are without her if you haven’t reactivated her feelings for you first.
Then, when you interact with her and she sees that you are getting on with your life and have truly been improving yourself as a man (e.g. via the things that you talk about and do), she will begin to feel drawn to you in a positive way.
She will see that you are now at a completely different level as a man, than you were when she broke up with you and she will start to miss you and want to be around you more, because she can see that you’re not that guy anymore.
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2. Trying to get her back via text
If a man sends his ex woman a text and she then responds to him and possibly even says that she misses him, it’s only normal for him to feel relieved and happy about it.
As a result, he might then think to himself, “This is great! It must mean she still has feelings for me too and that she wants us to get back together again.”
He may then go ahead and text her something like, “Hey, I miss you too! Why don’t we put all this behind us and give our relationship another shot?”
Yet, rather than get a “Yes, I want that too” from her, the woman usually closes herself off from him and pulls away even more. Why?
Firstly, when a guy tries to get his ex back via text, it makes her feel that she’s not important enough for him to even bother picking up the phone and talking to her in person.
Instead, he sends her an impersonal electronic message like she’s not really that significant to him at all.
As a result, she feels annoyed or insulted.
Secondly, if he hasn’t bothered to reactivate her feelings for him before asking her to get back together again, she’s simply not going to be interested.
Then she’s just going to say, “No” and most-likely also stop responding to his texts from that moment onwards.
This is why, asking your ex for another chance should be done face-to-face and only after you have first re-sparked her feelings of respect and attraction for you on a phone call and even better, in person.
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3. Being too neutral via text so she gets bored
Sometimes a guy might text his ex and pretend that he’s only interested in being her nice, neutral friend.
As a result, he sticks to boring texts and totally avoids flirting with her so that he can create sparks of attraction.
In his mind he may be thinking things like, “If I keep things neutral between us and don’t give her a sign that I want her back, she’ll begin looking at me as though I’m a good guy again. She’ll then hopefully stop thinking about me in a negative way and start missing me instead. Then, when she’s totally calm and relaxed and feeling drawn to me, we can get back together again.”
Yet, in most cases, when a guy is being neutral around his ex, rather than make her miss him more, she usually just gets bored of waiting for him to make a move.
She may then continue texting him, while at the same time focusing on finding herself a new man who can make her feel sparks of sexual and romantic attraction for him.
That is why, if you want to make your ex miss you so that you can get her back, don’t pretend you only want to be her friend.
From now on, regardless of how you interact with her (i.e. via text, a phone call or in person), make sure that you flirt with her to create sparks of attraction between you.
Only then will she begin to miss you, think about you and open herself up to the idea of being your woman again.
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