Here are 5 common reasons why that happens:
1. She suddenly got a lot of attention from the type of men who weren’t previously interested in her (e.g. a crush at work, men on Tinder)
Most married women don’t go seeking sexual attention from other guys because they just want that from their husband.
Yet, when a wife isn’t getting the kind of sexual attention from her husband that she wants, it can cause her to feel like she’s no longer attractive.
As a result, she may eventually decide to begin flirting with new guys to see if she’s still got any sex appeal.
This can lead her to join an app like Tinder, or to even start flirting with men at work.
If she doesn’t get much of a reaction from enough men that she finds attractive, she might then start to think about how she could make herself look even more attractive.
This can lead to her deciding to get breast implants.
If she suddenly starts receiving a lot of attention from handsome men or younger men after getting breast implants, it can go to her head.
She may then begin thinking things like, “This is fun. I feel young again. I’m excited. I’m turned on. Maybe I shouldn’t be doing this, but at least I’m not cheating physically. I’m only flirting. I mean, why shouldn’t I be allowed to flirt with other guys just for fun? I’m not cheating on him. I just want to be noticed, that’s all.”
Yet, here’s the thing…
Once the initial thrill of being noticed by random guys wears off, a woman may then begin to realize that what she has with her husband is deeper and more significant and not worth cheating on him over.
She will then stop and just focus back on her husband.
Of course, in your case, your wife didn’t react in that way and has left you after getting the implants.
So, what went wrong?
It could have been that…
2. She always planned to get implants and make herself look more attractive, so she could then move on from the marriage quicker and easier than you
Sometimes, a woman will fall out of love with her husband and begin planning her exit from the marriage months or years in advance.
In cases like that, a woman might even go the extreme of getting breast implant surgery to prepare herself to look more attractive to other men when she eventually leaves her husband.
Then, once she is ready and feels confident about her chances of moving on quickly with a new man, or least being able to date new men easily, she will just go ahead and leave.
Her husband is then left feeling hurt and betrayed and wondering things like, “What happened? What went wrong? Why did she leave me after getting breast implants? What it something I did? Something I said? How could she do this to me? Did she plan it? Why did this happen?”
Generally speaking, the answer this…
In a marriage, a man can create a dynamic that either causes his woman to want to treat him well, be attentive, loving and affectionate, or he can create a dynamic that makes her feel like pulling away, being closed off and treating him with less and less respect over time.
If a man has created and maintained a relationship dynamic where she doesn’t really have to put in much, or any effort to impress him and maintain his interest, then she will naturally begin to feel bored and unhappy.
It may even get to the point where she leaves him.
That’s the bad news.
The good news is that, in almost all cases, he can get her back if he wants to.
He can do that by using a different approach to attracting her now so that he can regain her respect, attraction and love (e.g. maintaining his confidence around her at all times, rather than letting what she says or does make him feel insecure, unsure of himself or unworthy of her, no longer allowing her to push him around and get away with disrespecting him or behaving badly like he used to).
When she feels a renewed sense of respect, attraction and love for him, she will naturally open herself up to the possibility of him and her being together again as a couple, or at least hooking up to see how she feels.
Another possible reason why a woman will leave her husband after getting breast implants is…
3. She was bored of having sex with her husband and the implants didn’t make the sex more exciting
Sometimes, a married couple might fall in a rut sexually, because other things seem to be more important (e.g. the bills, children, work) than keeping things spicy in the bedroom.
Over time, a woman might then begin to feel bored when she has to have sex with her husband and she may even begin to think things like, “Our sex life has become so routine and unexciting. I have to force myself to seem interested. In fact, lately, the only reason I have sex with him is because I feel obligated to do it. Maybe it’s because my boobs are getting saggy. If I get implants and have perkier/bigger breasts, I’ll become sexier and he’ll be more turned on by me and he will then make an effort to spice things up between us. At least it’s worth a try. I want to feel like a sexy, desirable woman again, not like his roommate or friend.”
However, after she gets breast implants, she may discover that her husband still treats her the same way (i.e. like a roommate or friend).
He doesn’t really look at her as being sexy, say that she’s sexy or make her feel sexy and desirable.
So naturally, the sex doesn’t get more exciting either.
She then starts to blame him for her unhappiness and begins to imagine being with a new man who would appreciate her and make her feel sexy.
If she then opens up and begins flirting with men at work, or throughout her everyday life and notices that they find her to be sexy and desirable and many even comment about her being beautiful and how they wish she wasn’t married, it might be all the encouragement she needs to leave her husband.
She might then look to hook up with other guys so that she can experience the kind of sexual excitement she’s been craving, but not getting, in her marriage.
Here’s the thing though…
If you want you wife back, you need to be the one to spark her feelings of sexual desire.
That means, you have to interact with her, over the phone, but more importantly, in person and make her feel like a sexy desirable woman with you.
How can you do that?
One of the best ways is to flirt with her during conversation to build up sexual tension between you.
Make her feel so attracted and drawn to you again that she feels like she just has to have you.
You can then release that tension with a hug, a kiss and then blow her mind with the best sex she’s ever had, so she knows that she made a mistake by leaving you.
Another possible reason why a woman will leave her husband after getting breast implants is…
4. Her husband has lost interest in having sex with her and doesn’t regain interest when she gets implants
Sometimes, a guy might still love his wife, but because of various personal reasons (e.g. stress, worries, he feels unattractive compared to her), he may stop wanting to have sex with her.
His wife on the other hand will notice that he’s avoiding sex with her and she may begin assuming that he’s either having an affair, or that he doesn’t find her desirable anymore.
She might then decide to get breast implants in the hope that this will spark their sex life again.
However, if her new, impressive breasts don’t excite him enough for him to want to have sex again, she might decide to leave him and look to hook up with other guys to prove to herself that she’s still attractive and that he’s the one with the problem.
Another possible reason why a woman will leave her husband after getting breast implants is…
5. She suddenly feels a type of confidence that she hasn’t felt in years or decades and it causes her husband to become insecure
What a lot of guys don’t understand is that in most cases, women are very insecure about their physical appearance.
In fact, according to a global study conducted by Dove cosmetics, 96% of women don’t consider themselves to be beautiful.
So, if a woman feels unhappy with her appearance and decides to get implants, it’s only natural that it will give her a major confidence boost.
As a result, she might also change her hair style, start wearing more makeup and even begin wearing, sexier, more revealing clothes.
Naturally, this can cause her husband to begin feeling jealous and insecure.
From there, fights break out and he begins to accuse her of flirting with men, wanting the attention of other men and possibly thinking about cheating on him.
This may cause her to begin losing respect for him and start thinking things like, “Why is he trying to burst my bubble? Why isn’t he letting me feel good about myself for a while? I feel as though he doesn’t want the best for me and would instead prefer it if I was a frumpy, ugly woman. Well, I’m not like that anymore. I’m sexy and beautiful and I want a man who can appreciate that about me, not put me down and make me feel bad for feeling sexy.”
When a woman loses respect for a guy, she also stops feeling attracted to him.
This may then lead to even more accusations and arguments, because she no longer feels the desire to have sex with him.
Eventually, she will get fed up with all the fighting and she may decide to leave him.
He might then think something like, “I knew it! Those breast implants ruined my marriage. I bet she’s off hooking up with other guys.”
Yet, what he doesn’t realize is that his insecurity and jealousy is what ruined his marriage, not the implants.
Here’s the thing…
A woman doesn’t want to feel as though she needs to make herself seem less attractive in order for her guy to feel confident and secure in the relationship with her.
She wants to feel as though he would be 100% happy, confident and self-assured in the relationship, regardless of how attractive she is.
She wants to be with an emotionally strong man who believes in himself and in his value to her, rather than a guy who is constantly assessing whether or not he is good enough for her and if she is going to cheat or leave.
So, if she notices that her husband is unable to grow up and become the emotionally strong man that she wants and needs him to be, she will almost always lose respect and attraction for him and decide to leave him.
To Re-attract Her and Get Her Back, It’s Important That You Don’t Make Any of These Mistakes
Right now, if you want to get your wife back, you need to focus less on what happened (i.e. she left you after getting breast implants) and more on saying and doing the kind of things that will reactivate her feelings for you so she wants to come back.
That means, you can’t afford to make any of the following mistakes:
1. Trying to make her feel guilty for ruining the marriage, when she is feeling so happy and confident now about her new look
It might be very tempting for a husband to say something like, “How can you do this to me? Do you know how shallow it looks that you left me after you got breast implants? I don’t recognize you anymore. You’re not the same woman I feel in love with and married. Can you honestly tell me that our vows meant nothing to you? I thought we loved each other. I just don’t understand how you can throw our marriage away so easily. Why are you doing this? If you weren’t happy, why didn’t you just tell me, rather than leaving? We could have worked things out.”
Yet, that’s the worst thing he could do.
Why?
Firstly, if his wife is currently feeling happy and confident, she’s going to get defensive about him trying to burst her bubble.
She may then begin thinking things like, “How dare he try to make me feel bad about my new look. He’s just jealous that I’ve changed and improved. In the meantime, he’s still the same as before. Nothing about him has gotten better. He’s stuck at the same level he was at when we got married, yet, he still expects me to respect him, feel attracted to him and love him. I bet he’d prefer it if I was unattractive and frumpy and just acted like his nice, obedient little woman who accepted whatever he wants without question. Well, that’s not me anymore. I’m no longer prepared to settle for being anything other than my best self and that includes not sticking with a man who doesn’t have a clue how to make me feel the way I want to feel.”
Secondly, trying to make a woman feel guilty when she’s feeling confident and happy (possibly for the first time in a long time), usually only makes her feel more determined to move on and find a guy who makes her feel good about herself.
She wants to take care of herself and start trying to move on and find a better future for herself.
What she doesn’t want, is to be manipulated or blackmailed into staying in a relationship that no longer sparks her sexual and romantic needs.
This is why, trying to make your wife feel guilty for leaving you after getting breast implants is not a good idea and will almost certainly push her away even further.
If you want her back, the best approach is to focus on reawakening her feelings of respect and sexual attraction for you, so that interacting with you actually starts to feel good to her.
Then, working on saving the marriage becomes something she wants to do, rather than something that she is being forced to do out of feelings of guilt.
Another mistake to avoid making is…
2. Not understanding the other reasons why she lost enough respect and attraction to fall out of love with you
Most women don’t just walk out of their marriage on a whim (i.e. after getting breast implants).
Instead, there are usually other issues that have caused her to lose respect and attraction for her husband over time (e.g. he started off being confident and self-assured but over time became insecure and needy, he seemed focused and driven but he was actually directionless and erratic, initially he made her feel sexy and desirable but eventually he treated her more like a neutral friend).
This is why if you want your wife back, you need to understand her real, secret reasons for leaving.
If you don’t, then you might end up trying to get her back by offering her all the wrong things (e.g. promising to change things that don’t matter to her, changing your physical appearance by going to the gym or buying new clothes as a way of being more attractive to her).
This will cause her to feel misunderstood and like you just don’t ‘get’ her, and she will likely reject your attempts to get her back and tell you to just leave her alone.
On the other hand, if you figure out her real reasons for leaving you and then make changes and improvements based on that, you can easily re-attract her, seduce her and get her back into a relationship with you.
Another mistake to avoid making is…
3. Not changing your approach to attraction and expecting to get her back based on the history you have together
What a lot of guys don’t realize is that a modern woman doesn’t have to stay with a guy if she doesn’t want to, just because they have a shared history together
Instead, she has the freedom and the right to break up with him and take care of her own personal happiness and well being, if she wants to.
So, if you want your wife to come back, you can’t use an old approach (e.g. be extra nice and sweet to her, offer to take care of her financially, promise to take her on a luxury vacation) and expect her to feel attracted.
You’ve got to try something new.
Only when you spark her feelings again in new and exciting ways, will she be willing to drop her guard and open back up to giving you another chance.
Another mistake to avoid making is…
4. Losing confidence in yourself and your value to her and therefore, becoming even less attractive to her
If you fall into the bad habit of thinking that you’re not good enough for your wife anymore, it will naturally start to eat away at your confidence.
As a result, not only will you be less attractive to her, but you will also find it difficult to attract other high quality women who are looking for a truly confident man.
Don’t let that happen to you.
Don’t let your wife leaving you after getting breast implants ruin your sense of self-worth.
Instead, just pick yourself up and start moving forward with confidence, knowing that you can re-attract your wife (or other quality women) if you want to.
Another way of saying that is, if you want to get your ex back, you need to believe that you can.
Believing that you can starts filling you up with the kind of confidence that causes you to think, talk, behave and act in ways that are attractive to her.
As a result, she starts regretting her decision to leave you and she becomes open to working things out with you.
Another mistake to avoid making is…
5. Giving up and assuming that it’s over now and there’s nothing you can do
There’s actually a lot you can do.
You can interact with your wife and reactivate her sexual and romantic feelings for you, so she realizes that leaving you was a big mistake.
No, she’s probably not going to make it easy for you (i.e. because she will want to make sure that you’ve truly changed and become the man she wants you to be).
However, if you maintain your confidence and continue to say and do things that spark her feelings for you (e.g. make her laugh and smile and feel good to be around you, flirt with her to create sexual tension between you), her guard comes down and she opens back up to you quickly and easily.
So, don’t give up.
You can get your wife back.
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