The secret of how to get a friend to like you is to stop acting like you just want to be friends with her and start doing the types of things that will make her feel sexually attracted to you.
When a woman feels sexually attracted to a guy, she will automatically like him and be interested in exploring a sexual relationship.
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You can make your friend feel attracted to you by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women, such as: Confidence, charisma, charm, the ability to make her laugh, masculine vibe, etc.
How Long Have You Been Stuck in the Friend Zone?
What type of relationship do you have with your friend at the moment? Do you hang out as friends? Are you always there for her? Do you listen and try to show her how good of a guy you are?
Well, if you answered “Yes” to those questions, I have some bad news for you…
Your friendship won’t count for anything if another guy comes along, makes her feel sexually attracted and then escalates to kissing and sex. A woman’s sexual desire will come first before her desire to be friends with a guy.
Your friend might feel bad for you and even ask you, “Are you okay with this?” but she won’t stop and coming running back to you unless you start making her feel the type of sexual attraction she needs from a lover or boyfriend.
Women want to hook up with a guy who makes them feel sexual attraction. You have to start with sexual attraction and then everything else follows on from that.
If you pretend to be her friend and hide your sexual desire for her, she may believe that you just want to be friends and then hook up with another guy who is interested in having a sexual relationship with her.
However, be warned: Do not show your sexual desire in her until you have made her feel sexual attraction for you first. Attraction comes first and everything else follows that. You have to go through the right flow, otherwise a woman will feel awkward (i.e. because you like her in a sexual way and she doesn’t feel that way about you) and she will reject you.
Being a Nice Friend Won’t Make Her Wet
She’s human.
She has a vagina and she wants to experience sex, love and good times with a guy that she chooses to have a relationship with. However, she’s not going to feel turned on by you if you’re just being a nice friend to her.
Here’s why…
You can be nice to your friend, but you also have to start saying and doing the types of things that will turn her on sexually. That is what counts.
Make Her Work to Impress You and Maintain YOUR Interest
If you’re trying to work out how to get a friend to like you, then you’re probably one of the guys who is making the classic mistake of being too easily impressed by a woman.
Yes, you find her attractive. Yes, you want to have sex with her. Yes, you have good intentions.
Yet, what you probably don’t realize is that pretty much every guy on the planet would offer her the same thing. If your friend is a pretty girl, then most guys would have sex with her simply based on her appearance.
Out of those guys, probably 80% would have a relationship with her…even if she didn’t do anything other than look good. She doesn’t even have to impress most of the guys that she meets and that is BORING to her.
This is one of the reasons why women are attracted to guys who are more of a challenge…
When you switch things around and start making her feel attracted, she will begin to hope that you like her too. Then, if you can just be courageous enough to offer her the best gift of all, you will be a bit of a challenge to acquire.
You will make her work a little to build up your interest, maintain your interest and get you out on a date.
Most guys will NEVER give that experience to a woman because they think that being a challenge will result in losing their opportunity to have sex or a relationship with her. Yet, it’s actually one of the easiest ways to get a woman chasing you and falling madly in love with you.
Instead of you doing all the work and trying really hard to hopefully get your friend to like you, the responsibility falls into her hands and she has to impress you.
Of course, you can still show interest in her, but just make sure that she always gets the impression that you’re not 100% keen on her…yet. Let her feel the desire and worry about trying to impress you.
If you can do that for her, she will fall madly in love with you and won’t want to let you go.
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I made out with this girl in my group of friends and we drove home together late at night but the problem was the drive was over an hour and all we could do was talk. By the time we got home the sun was already up and I wasn’t in the most lustful state. Needless to say sparks were flying before but died down and it didn’t seem right to have sex. I don’t think she was too disappointed but what should have happened differently? Should I have started seducing her as we got closer to home? Should we not have kissed earlier?
Hi Mike
Thanks for your question.
Yes, you should have begun seducing her closer to the location. However, you could have invited her in to your place or had “coffee” or a “night cap” at hers.
Cheers
Dan
Dan,
I have a female friend I’d love to be with but this girl I can safely say she has ABSOLUTELY NO sexual interest in me at all! None! Nada! Other female friends I have or had you can kind of tell they would maybe go there with you if the situation presented itself or if you put in the work you could get to that place with them, I have had female friends openly admit they would have sex with me.
However like I was saying this girl she has no sexual desire for me whatsoever. I’m almost like a family member or brother to her I feel like I’d have to be superman with the ladies to even get her to think about going there with me. Would it be a good idea to approach women in-front of her? She has never seen me do anything like that even though I have been practicing away from my social circle or only do that when I get good?
Thanks.
Hi Opie
Thanks for your question.
In your case, you need to hook up with other women, not just approach and talk to them in front of her. If you don’t know how to do that, I recommend that you read this: http://store.themodernman.com/in/58e9e6c
Cheers
Dan
How do I create tension when setting up a date. If I’m asking a girl out does that kill the tension. They never ask me out.
Hey Joe
Thanks for your question.
That is all explained in my book: http://store.themodernman.com/in/58e9e6c
Believe me, if you are asking a simple question like that, then you have 100s of more questions that you just don’t yet realize. The questions after that will be how to make the date exciting, how to keep her interested, what to talk about, how to get her to want to see you again, how to get a kiss, etc. If you need to learn, my book is here for you: http://store.themodernman.com/in/58e9e6c
Cheers
Dan
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So my question Dan is possibly the flip side of the subject here. When you have cute female friends who you know are attracted to you (from their flirting, positively receiving your flirting), but you actually really value the friendship you have with them… did you find it risky to give in to having sex with them, for the sake of the long term friendship? Knowing that you don’t plan to become long-term committed lovers (and of course they might start wanting that after you’ve started having sex), but you want the friendship to last above all else. I’m sure being a calm, collected, honest, masculine man about the whole thing helps (as with everything), but curious on your experience with how to handle that. Crazy to imagine the explosive release of sexual tension that could result from it though
Hey ZQ
Thanks for your positive feedback about the products.
About your question: As long as she knows that you’re still not ready to settle down with a woman, she will go into the sex knowing that it will probably just be a fling or a once off. I had a few of those and you’re right – the release of sexual tension is amazing. I am still great friends with each of the girls and my girlfriend and I recently went to the wedding of one of the girls (my girlfriend doesn’t know about her past with me) and we are just like great friends…but, with a little secret.
BTW: If my girlfriend reads this comment and finds out, that doesn’t matter either. Why? My GF knows that she is the sexiest woman on Earth to me and she is also very confident.
If you sleep with some of your female friends, it will feel pretty amazing, but if she’s not the perfect girl for you, you will still know that…and she will probably know that as well. So, just enjoy it and don’t act like her boyfriend or husband-to-be.
Cheers
Dan