A woman will cheat on a man for many different reasons, some of which can be prevented.
Here are 10 reasons why women cheat, even if her man is a good man who loves her and truly wants to be with her.
1. A lack of attraction
The main reason why women cheat on a man is a lack of attraction for him.
When a relationship first begins, it’s very easy for her to feel attracted to the guy because she’s excited about all the little things she likes about him. Yet, if he is unable to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction over time in the relationship, she will eventually begin to lose interest.
In the past, women had to remain a virgin before marriage, get married and then stay their chosen man for life. If she was unhappy or if he wasn’t able to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction, she was stuck with him. She had to put up with it.
Not anymore.
In today’s world, women are free to have sex and relationships with whomever they want for as long as they want. Unfortunately, many TV talk show hosts, movie stars and pop singers even make divorce and break ups out to be “cool.” It’s just the world we live in today.
To be successful at keeping a relationship together in today’s world, a man needs to know how to deepen a woman’s love, respect and attraction for him over time, rather than just expecting that she will stick around because things felt good at the start.
2. She was worried that he would cheat, so she did it first
Getting cheated on really hurts.
It’s a hot, stinging pain that can remain buried deep within your mind for years after being cheated on. If a woman has experienced being cheated on in the past by a man that she loved and gave her heart to, she will often go overboard in trying to protect herself from that pain again.
Sometimes, she will get into a relationship and never really open herself up to the love because she wants to protect herself. She will enjoy being with the guy and kind of love him, but she will never give him her full heart of love.
In some cases, nothing that her boyfriend or husband says to her gives her enough assurance that she won’t be cheated on. A woman like her will almost always have a niggling doubt in the back of her mind that it will happen. She will imagine her man flirting with another woman, kissing her and then having sex with her…and it will make her feel sick to the stomach.
If you are with a woman who is constantly worrying about you cheating on her, then she will almost always be flirting with other guys and keeping them waiting in the wings in case she needs them to make herself feel better.
My advice would be to dump her and move on. If you don’t, you will end up wasting a lot of time and energy trying to convince her that you have been and will always be faithful to her…only to then have her turn around one day and say that she has cheated on you.
When it comes to relationships with women, the best piece of advice to follow is that you don’t put up with bullshit. You love the woman, respect her, listen to her and care about her, but if she introduces crazy bullshit into your relationship, you’ve got to dump her and have come crawling back to apologize.
Then, if she goes crazy again, repeat the process as often as you can be bothered. If she doesn’t change after a couple of break ups, you’re almost certainly wasting your time with a woman who is going to be more trouble than she is worth.
If you’re the sort of guy who knows how to attract women, then you’re not going to be worried about losing her. You can easily attract and hook up with new women whenever you want, so you begin to see her as being unnecessary.
3. She isn’t ready to fully commit to just one guy
Even though a relationship might start out well and the woman says things like, “I love you and want to be with you forever” or “I want us to get married one day” it doesn’t mean that she is making an iron clad promise.
Feminine women change their mood, feelings and desires for things like the weather. One day she likes a certain song and the next week she hates it. One day she loves the new pair of shoes she spent a lot of money on and the next week she hates them.
We men are different.
If you are a man with very masculine energy, then you are most-likely going to be a man of your word. If you promise something, then it’s an iron clad promise that you will stand by no matter what. If you tell a woman that you will stick with her for life, then you mean it.
Masculine women (i.e. women who think, behave and act more like men or “one of the boys”) are more likely to stick by their promises for longer. They are less likely to change their mind like the weather because they approach things in a more logical, manly way.
So, if you’ve ever wondered why a woman said that she loved you so much and wanted to be with you, only to then cheat on you or dump you, this is the reason why: She was just expressing how she felt in THAT moment. She wasn’t promising that she would feel that way forever, no matter what.
To keep a feminine woman in a committed relationship, you have to know how to deepen her love, respect and attraction for you over time. You can just expect that what she used to feel will be enough to see you through for the rest of your lives together. You have to actively make her feel more attracted to you, more respectful of you and more in love with you than ever before.
4. She enjoys the thrill of lying and cheating
Some women are bad, disloyal and untrustworthy people. That’s just how nature works – there are good and bad people.
If you’ve chosen a woman who has bad character, then you can expect bad things to happen.
When selecting a woman as your girlfriend or wife, it’s not enough that she is beautiful with a great personality. She also has to have great character (i.e. loyal, trustworthy, sincere, caring, loving, warm, friendly).
If you just accept whatever woman you can get and try to make it work with a woman of bad character, then you are asking for trouble. Some women have the type of character where they enjoy the thrill of lying to their man and cheating on him.
I was once in a relationship like that with a woman who was so sexy to me and had such a great personality (we laughed together all the time and got along really well). Yet, every now and then, I noticed that she told me a small lie and sometimes a big lie. I also noticed that she lied to other people and she actually enjoyed it.
After a while, I realized that no matter how physically attracted to her that I was and how much fun we would have together, I absolutely had to break it off with her. I didn’t want to end up getting her pregnant and then have to deal with having a liar in my life for the rest of my life.
It was very difficult to break it off with her, but what I did was create a Pros and Cons (Positives and Negatives) list and tried to note down as many negatives as I could. Despite all the negatives, I was still drawn to her because she was so sexy and I enjoyed being with her so much, but I did it.
I broke it off with her.
It wasn’t easy, but I did it. Now that I’m married to the girl of my dreams years later, I couldn’t be more thankful that I had the courage and foresight to get rid of the dishonest women.
If you are with a woman who enjoys lying to people, tricking people or getting herself into trouble with people, then I would recommend that you get rid of her before she cheats on you and then enjoys herself as she watches you cringe in emotional pain.
5. Her boyfriend or husband isn’t enough of a man for her
I’ve been helping guys to get an ex girlfriend, fiancé or wife back for many years now and one of the main problems I keep encountering is that the guy just wasn’t enough of a man for his woman.
Being enough of a man for a woman is about being the sort of man that she can look up to and respect. A woman will lose respect for a guy when he:
- Hides from his true potential in life behind her and the relationship. In other words, he lacks ambition and spends way too much time on things that don’t get him anywhere.
- Becomes needy, clingy, jealous or insecure in the relationship.
- Stops making her feel loved and appreciated.
- Puts her down or belittles her too often.
- Lacks confidence around confident men or alpha males.
- Cries or becomes emotionally weak when life gets tough.
- Is overly bossy or controlling of her in the relationship.
- Lets her be overly bossy or controlling of him.
- Doesn’t follow through on his promises.
Getting a woman into a relationship is the easy part, but what takes skill and wisdom is knowing how to keep the relationship together once you’ve got it.
We don’t get taught that sort of thing in school when we’re growing up and most of us (including myself) didn’t have a good enough father figure who could teach us how to be men.
In the past, a man could be a complete failure in life after getting married and his woman would still have to stick with him. Not anymore. A big part of keeping a relationship together in today’s world is to be the sort of man that your woman can look up to and respect. You’ve got to be the sort of guy that women refer to as a real man.
6. She is using it as a way to break up the relationship
If a woman is unable to break up with a clingy, needy boyfriend who won’t let her go, she will often cheat on him and then use that as a way to destroy the relationship. To really push her guy away, she might say that she is in love with the new guy and is starting a relationship with him.
I see this a lot with the guys that I help to get an ex back. In cases like that, the guy needs to rebuild his confidence and quickly fix the issues about himself (e.g. insecurity, neediness, not being enough of a man for her, etc) before he is ready to get another chance with his ex. Essentially what needs to happen is that he needs to learn how to make her feel respect, attraction and love for him again.
With the right training, many of the guys I’ve helped succeed at getting another chance with the woman who cheated on them. Yet, by the time I’ve improved his confidence and taught him how to actively attract women, he often ends up dumping her after only being back with her for a short while because he has met a new woman on the side to replace her. What goes around comes around I guess!
7. Her boyfriend or husband doesn’t turn her on or make her feel sexy enough
Most women are much more insecure that men realize. According to the global study on beauty conducted by Dove cosmetics, 96% of women don’t consider themselves to be beautiful.
When in a relationship with a woman, a man will often make the mistake of regularly pointing out things that he doesn’t like about her physically (e.g. “You’ve put on weight” or “Your hair doesn’t look as healthy as it did when I first met you,” etc).
While it’s fine to encourage your woman to keep herself looking good, putting her down isn’t the way to accomplish it. You’ve got to make your woman feel like the sexiest woman on Earth in your eyes, no matter what she is wearing or how she is looking. From that, she will feel sexy around you and will be much more keen on having sex with you.
She will feel confident in her sex appeal to you, which will get rid of a lot of the worries about you wanting another woman. It will also allow her to open her heart more to you and experience the full potential of the love that you can both share.
By taking that approach, she will then naturally want to look better for you. She will know if she’s looking fat or if her hair isn’t soft and shiny and she will put in effort to improve that. When she does, you’ve got to give her compliments about that and find her even sexier as a result.
If you aren’t taking that approach and are instead making her feel less and less attractive around you, she may get to the point where she begins flirting with other guys to get them interested in her so she can feel better about herself. The more she does that, the more likely it becomes that she will cheat, especially if she finds a guy that she really connects with and who makes her feel much sexier than you do.
8. To get revenge
If her man has been flirting with other women in front of her, a woman will often begin flirting with men to get revenge. Likewise, if she suspects or knows that her man has cheated, she will often be feeling so betrayed and be in so much emotional pain that she will just sleep with another guy to feel the relief of revenge.
To her, it doesn’t matter if her cheating on him will cause further problems in the relationship. What she is more concerned about is getting rid of the sickening feelings of betrayal and loss that she’s been feeling ever since she saw him flirt with other women or found out that he cheated.
9. She made a stupid mistake when drunk
When in a committed relationship, a woman shouldn’t be going out and having regular “girl’s nights out” without her man, especially if she is going to be drinking a lot.
There’s nothing wrong with a man having a boy’s night with his friends and a woman having a girl’s night with her friends, but it should be a rare thing. If a couple is serious about being in a committed relationship and really love being with each other, they will want to go out as a couple with other couples who are also serious about their relationship.
If a woman is hanging around her single girlfriends all the time who want to get drunk and meet guys, it’s usually only a matter of time before she makes a mistake and lets a guy kiss her when she is drunk. Once that happens, the whole dynamic of her relationship with you changes. She has now cheated on you and she’s either going to tell you about it and create huge drama between you and her, or keep it a secret and maybe even do it again the next time she goes out.
Personally speaking, I met my wife in a nightclub. At the time, both of us were into clubbing and had lots of single friends who enjoyed clubbing at least twice a week. So, when we got together, I ensured that we would both transition out of the club life together by continuing to go out twice a week until she eventually began to say, “I’m bored of going clubbing…I’m over it.”
After that happened, we began doing more things on our own and then we began to become closer with our friends who were in relationships. Now, two and a half years later, we rarely hang out with any single friends and spend most of our time with friends who are in relationships or married and with family.
So, if you’ve got a girlfriend, fiancé or wife who is going out and getting drunk without you often, it’s a sign that she isn’t taking your relationship very seriously. If she is more interested in partying without you, then it’s only a matter of time before she opens herself up to being with other guys.
The way to prevent that happening is to begin going out with her and partying with her friends. Get them to like you, have a great time with it and let your girlfriend (fiancé or wife) see that her friends like you and respect you. After a while, she will want to do more things just as a couple and you will gradually be able to transition out of the party lifestyle.
If you do continue to party, it will be together, which is much better than her going out and getting drunk without you.
10. To feel love again
Love is what we really want and need.
Now that I’ve experienced true love and am in a relationship where the love is always deepening more and more over time, I know that love is a very powerful and life-changing thing. When other women try to flirt with me, I essentially feel nothing for them because if I were to cheat and leave my wife (I wouldn’t), I would have to start from scratch again with a woman who might not even have the capacity to be in love the way that my wife and I are.
When you reach that level of love, cheating becomes absolutely unnecessary. Both of you would lose something amazing just for a quick bit of pleasure with a person who doesn’t make you feel the same way.
However, if a woman is in a relationship with a man who hasn’t been able to open her up to experience the full potential of love, she may begin to open herself up to feeling love with another guy.
In many relationships that end in cheating, break up or divorce, the couple became more like friends than lovers. By “lovers” I don’t mean that you have to have as much sex as you did when you first met for the rest of your life, but that you still feel sexually attracted to each other and enjoy being sexual or intimate with each other.
If you don’t know how to make your woman feel sexually attracted to you and look up to you and respect you as her man, those initial feelings of love can fade. Additionally, if you focus on just being her friend and treating her like one of your male buddies, you will lose that masculine/feminine attraction that made you feel so excited in the beginning.
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what a great and correct analysis of the modern woman.
OMG Dan. I was just thinkin that I’m in a committed relationship. I’ve had sex everyday but one this past week. The one day we didn’t because she had a work engagement. She tried everything to get out of including lying and eventually blurted out to her boss “I just want to have sex with my boyfriend” but she had to stay at work. The next day (last night) she was in bed asleep so I figured oh well two days without sex. I climbed in and fell asleep. She woke me up for SEX and was like OMG I didn’t know you were here. Didn’t get much sleep last night. Lol
The other day she told me one of her exes dropped by for a chit chat. And she felt guilty about it. I didn’t display any jealousy because I’ve been sleeping with her EVERY DAY. She said her ex used the pretense of heir kid to drop by. Had been hinting and flirting with her via text messages. He came out and said he loved her face to face. Wanted to get back together and get married. When she laughed and said no. He said they should try again for the kid. That she was all he ever thought about and needed her. When she said no again he wept. She threw him out while he was crying and apparently told his mother who called my girlfriend. Well needless to say, I had great sex with my girlfriend THAT NIGHT! Lol
Dan once again Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! After I read the flow, I got better than a bad boy. Because I was just like this guy. The girl who broke my heart and caused me to buy he flow CALLS AND TEXTS ME TO THIS DAY sending me naked pics and askin after my current relationship. I followed the modern man approach “just cause” at first when my mindsets were pretty bad. Once my mindsets improved I still felt little fits of jealousy. I still felt threatened by guys showing interest in my women. Now that I realize that I can attract them and build on that attraction, I’m literally at peace. I mean my girl goes out with her girlfriends and I tell her have a good night. She comes back laughing at the men who hit on her. They ask her where her man is? She says he’s out doing his thing. They ask her is he treating her good? She says well for one thing he didn’t approach me like YOU did. Lol. Most days now she tells her girlfriends : I’m busy!I’m spending my free time with my boyfriend! Her gal pals see our relationship and are running around trying to find a MAN LIKE ME they tell her.
We threw a Christmas party recently and for the heck of it I decided to “be the life of the party”. I led the conversations. I joked and flirted. I went around and spoke to everyone. By the end all of the women had surrounded me on the couch and were fighting for my attention. I called my girl over and had her sit on my lap. I told her how sexy she looked and smacked her bottom before she sat down. The smug look she had on her face for her friends told it all. I made sure she and everyone understood that she was my choice. The guys there were just in a state of absolute shock! Lol
People just don’t understand the things you teach. It’s like they just don’t know.
Thanks again Dan! All the best to you!
Hi Jason
Legendary success story mate.
There’s so many cool things about your success story, but the one thing I am most proud of is how MUCH of the advice you put into ACTION. As I’ve always said, “Knowledge is power, when USED.” You are obviously experiencing the power of knowledge and yes – as you pointed out – most guys do NOT know what we know. They are ABSOLUTELY blind to the power we have because of what we know.
I was watching a movie on TV last night with my girlfriend. It was “Shall We Dance?” with Richard Gere. I pointed out to the timid, shy and apologetic behavior of the men in the video and how that compared to the confident, obnoxious and aggressive behavior of the women. We had a quick chat about it and I explained to her that most guys look at movies as though they are REAL LIFE interactions. They see Richard Gere behaving like a timid woman and eventually being liked and even LOVED by the female characters in the movies and they think, “Ahah! I’ll be like that and eventually girls will take pity on me and like me.”
Just like your girlfriend has said to other guys who’ve approached her, my girlfriend came out and told me that guys she met before me spoke to her like THEY were women. She said that all the conversations where, “What’s your name? What are you drinking? Are you having fun?” type of conversations without any flirting or interesting conversation. She also pointed out that most of the guys looked like they’d spent just as much time “getting ready” in front of the mirror as she had. She recently asked me, “Why do so many guys behave like girls these days?” and I told her that they simply lack proper male role models and trying to learn about life from fictional male characters on TV and in movies. To add to that, most modern men are being brainwashed by TV, radio and print advertising whether they like it or not. Turn on the TV, listen to the radio or open any magazine and there will be advertisements telling you that you need six pack abs, perfectly moisturised skin, the latest fashions and an expensive sports car to attract women. Yet, if a guy OPEN HIS EYES and looks at the REAL WORLD, he will see average (and even what he may refer to as UGLY) guys with beautiful women…ALL THE TIME.
Anyway, enough about that stuff. It’s great to hear such a solid success story at this time of the day. I’m just finishing up my morning coffee and am about to have breakfast. My sexy girlfriend is in the shower and is about to head off to work (she’s a hairdresser). Your success story just inspired me to have a little rant there! Lol…
Enjoy the great times ahead Jason!
Cheers
Dan
I think Jason just summed it up perfectly; Most people especially guys just don’t have any idea whatsoever about this stuff.
What Jason experienced during the xmas party is not surprising to me at all, as I have experienced the exact same thing on a lot of occasions when out and about town for parties. Infact it has happened on every occasion that I have been out this xmas holiday. Just been able to CONFIDENTLY navigate a social scene, lead interactions between people in groups, and ensure that whatever table or area you are in people around you are having the time of their lives, is very attractive to women. Before you know what’s happening, women start glancing towards your side, the less nervous ones would even begin to hover around you, next thing you know you are one of the very few guys surrounded by women, possibly even dancing around you.(By the way, I like to take it up a notch and tell the women to follow my dance steps while I stand in the center leading and directing the dance moves, while also teasing them about how they are messing up the dance moves. They ABSOLUTELY love it). Its so amazing that most women are usually surrounded by BORING guys in social scenes. I mean you walk into a social event and you see boredom written right across the faces of these women, while guys are seating in one corner just staring at them and not approaching them and leading them into great times. The irony of it all is that guys seat with themselves in groups at social events, doing nothing but bragging and talking a big game about their “skills” with women, and they would not make a single approach all day or night long, and these are guys who are usually good-looking and doing well financially. When they see the way I am having women around me at parties, they ask questions like “how do you know these girls?” “Are they your sisters/cousins” “Are you a pimp”, because it’s not in their model of the world that things like that happen apart from in the movies, or having to hire call girls to parties.
Well just thought I should say that because people would read Jason’s comment and think he is full of crap and making it up. You would be amazed at how women respond to confident/masculine guys, if you just learn the right way to interact with them.
Hi Tosin
Well said mate and thanks for your contribution to the discussion.
The part where you mentioned how guys can’t work out why women like you so much reminds me of when I coach some clients. On many occasions, I’ve walked into a random club, bar or restaurant with a client (who usually hasn’t approached many or any women before in his life) and had women falling all over me, offering their number, asking me to meet them after work, asking me to take them home for sex, kissing me, etc, etc and the client has said, “Hang on…do you know these girls? Was this set up?”
It always makes me laugh for a moment, but then I turn to feeling sorry for the guy because what I am experiencing is so OUTSIDE his normal view of reality that the only reason he can think of for it happening is that is must be fake or a set up. So, I say, “Okay, let’s go to another bar. Pick any bar or club and we’ll go meet some more women” and the same thing happens again and the client and I usually have a good laugh together. The client then usually has to sit down to gather his thoughts and try to work out HOW it is possible. Then, as I teach him the techniques that are available in our programs and he starts to USE those techniques, women suddenly start to treat him the same way as they’ve been treating me.
I’ve literally had clients need to sit down for 10-15 minutes because they are so overwhelmed by HOW MUCH women actually like them. I was once coaching a 41 year old virgin who had never gone out actively approaching women in his life. On his second approach, he was in conversation with four women for 10 minutes…and they all LOVED him. He then had to sit down and process what was going on. He turned to me and said, “Dan, I’ve wasted my life…all this time I could have been having my pick of women…this is nuts” and he then went on to get phone numbers and even a kiss on the Saturday night.
Anyway, Jason and Tosin – enjoy the power and choice you have with women. I’m sure you’ve both been having a great time with women lately and let me tell you from experience – it only gets BETTER from there.
Cheers
Dan
Tosin, time was I WOULD have thought I was full of crap. What Dan teaches is so natural it made me for one think “what else SHOULD I be doing with women if not the modern man stuff” but I never had a clue to do till I read this the modern man stuff and watched some of the videos. I comment occasionally and think people read my comments and think DAN WROTE THEM but those are people who just don’t get it.
I got lucky once and got a beautiful girl and knew just KNEW I was losing her. I literally WATCHED her love and attraction fade away.
She’d say things like you’re the man. You’re supposed to decide. Or you’re sooo jealous. No one finds that attractive. And man she was beautiful. IS beautiful and she loved me. She LOVED me. In the beginning. She cheated on me and ditched me and all that and I was CHRUSHED. I mean horrific, at a club in front of the world saying some idiot ex of hers was her love and I wanted more than she wanted blah blah blah. So after a period of misery and being dumped I decided I LIKED having a beautiful girlfriend. I liked having a beautiful woman in my life. (I didn’t think in terms of beautiful WOMEN plural back then lol). So I thought and thought and hit on women (most times all wrong). I scoured the web and happened upon the modern man website looking for how to escalate things to sex as Dan puts it. I bought the flow and was like OMG. I escalated to sex with my ex a few times juggling her with my current girl and a couple others before I settled into a committed relationship that I’m in now.
My ex CALLED ME YESTERDAY MORNING! I didn’t answer or even call her back. Me and my current girlfriend were asleep in bed! OMG I can’t make this stuff up. I mean I almost wrecked the car gettin oral sex from my girlfriend LAST NIGHT! Some old man almost wrecked his truck seeing it lol. AND MY GIRLFRIEND IS 23 and GORGEOUS! I can’t make this stuff up. I mean I sit around and think 95% of the people on the planet aren’t having 1/2 the fun I’m having most nights, most weeks, most MONTHS lol. The other 5% are a very few naturals, Dan and his modern men crew and people like Tosin who studied this stuff.
All I can think to say is thanks to you Dan over and over and over again. It’s because I now have a very basic and fundamental source of happiness in my life. If a man needs a woman, i know I can get hot hot HOT ones and don’t have to settle.
I don’t go around acting like I’m gods gift to women, or like I’m an expert because I feel like I have a bunch more to learn for one. Also I paid for these programs and they were MORE than worth every cent. So i dont go around giving people advice. I look around at other people and see what they are doing right and wrong in their interactions with women and try to learn and stay sharp.
My unsolicited testimonial is this. Any man who ever felt the pure misery I felt what i felt when my ex Sue (name changed) CHRUSHED me in front of random strangers at the hottest club in town. When I KNEW this girl wanted me and was attracted to me at first and I BLEW it! If anyone wants REAL knowledge and the power that comes with it as Dan says. Then at least get the flow. It will change your life.
Once again I wish you all the very best Dan. You and all the Modern Man crew.
Hey Jason
Interesting insights there mate.
I had to laugh (along with you) when I read the bit about how you used to think of having a beautiful WOMAN, rather than thinking that you could have beautiful WOMEN. Most guys who come to The Modern Man want to get ONE woman (usually a girl they have a crush on), but when they use our techniques they suddenly realize that a LOT of beautiful women are interested. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with wanting one woman, but it’s might tempting to sample a few of them when so many are interested.
The truth is, most guys fumble their way into a relationship and often end up with a woman who isn’t truly compatible with them. They then use up most of their sexual energy looking at porn, or spend many years feeling as though they are missing out by not being with a woman they really want. However, since they’d gotten lucky and have NO IDEA how to pick up a beautiful woman of their CHOICE, they end up staying in the relationship, feeling unhappy and unsatisfied, until one day, the woman turns around and said something like, “I think we need time apart. I need some space“ or worse, “I’ve been seeing someone else. I’m sorry, but we are through.”
As a friend of mine said to his girlfriend recently, because she was worried he would leave her (she knows how lucky she is to have him), “You don’t have to worry about that stuff with me babe. I’ve had my choice with women for many years now. I chose to be with you. I could have 100s of other women, but I’ve chosen you and I deeply happy with my choice.” His girlfriend basically does anything and everything to ensure he is totally happy, satisfied and fulfilled all the time. In return, she gets the type of man that you and Tosin are…and that is priceless and irreplaceable to a woman, especially since most guys simply don’t understand how to be what women call a real man.
Enjoy the great times ahead with your girlfriend! She sounds like a hottie!
Cheers
Dan
P.S. About some guys thinking that I write the comments and then reply to them myself: Lol…it’s funny, but I understand why guys like that think that way. Some guys will look for ANY reason they can, even if they have to make one up, to avoid facing their fears. Instead of facing up to the fact that he lacks confidence or lacks the knowledge to be successful with women, a guy will sometimes say, “This can’t be true. Even though guys have submitted video testimonials, audio testimonials, 100s of text testimonials…even though The Modern Man has been on TV, the radio and in the papers – it just can’t be true. A guy cannot improve his success with women. He just can’t.”
Hey Dan! Nice article. These comments are hilarious and awesome! I liked the audio clip of your story at the end.
This is why am having trouble posting one of these articles on my Facebook for a free product. For one reason like all these guys said MOST GUYS DONT KNOW THIS STUFF and me and my selfishness want to keep it that way!! I know, Im sorry man you just want to get the modern man out there but that would be bad for the rest of us who already know this “hidden gold” of a site. Another reason is that I have almost every product besides 3 of the natural interview audio clips. I will probably do it anyway.
I am interested to know Bens success to women story being that he is one of the non naturals. Do you have that on the site somewhere? Thanks.
DC
Hi DC
Haha…yes, I understand why you’d want to keep TMM advice to yourself. However, I’ve been very happy with the response to the Facebook promotion so far. I thought most guys would be embarrassed to share the site on Facebook, but the applications for a free product have been rolling in all day.
About Ben’s story from being HOPELESS with women to becoming successful: Yes, he tells it at the start of this audio clip. As you will discover, unlike me, Ben was very confident in himself, but had NO IDEA what to say or do around women he liked.
Cheers
Dan
What’s up? I’m a very religious guy. I do want to find a woman and eventually get married etc. But i’m not allowed to have sex before marriage. It kind got me thinking if I don’t get to a sexual level at some point i’ll eventually lose the girl. Is it possible to maintain a relationship without having sex and still get the results you want?
Hi Tijan
Thanks for your question.
It all depends on the woman. You need to meet women who share the same values as you. If a woman doesn’t share the same values, you will likely lose her pretty quickly.
Cheers
Dan
Wow(spelt backwards)!!!jason,dan and tosin,you guys are awesome!I’ve always believed that the modern man info is “the good stuff that actually works” but have been reluctant to try it out cause,well…am short on confidence but after reading your comments,especially the parts where you guys emphatically stress out how powerful the knowledge dan shares at TMM is,I think its about time I broke out of my shell and faced my fears and started talking to the hotties I’ve always dreamt of scoring.
I have a bit of a problem though,dan.I have been trying to watch your videos using a mobile but have been unable to and since I don’t have a PC,I have been stuck up on the emails you have been sending me which of course are not as detailed as the much talked about videos such as “better than a bad boy”,”real man”,”the modern relationship” etc.how get access to these?
Hey Gbwl
Thanks for your positive feedback.
Yes, as I always say, “Knowledge is power when USED.” You’ve got to put your knowledge into ACTION if you want to enjoy the benefits.
About the issue with your phone. We upload our videos to Youtube, because almost everyone on the internet is capable of watching Youtube videos. If you’re not, you simply need to install this free software: http://get.adobe.com/flashplayer/
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
I am a woman and read your article and thought it was insightful, have a friend who was cheated on and he is staying with her, but as a woman I am telling him to run, and he can’t understand why, says he should tough it out.
I say woman are more intentional when they cheat, they don’t just do it, they think it through, no I have not cheated on any man I have been in a relationship with.
I have just really been investigating and trying to observe why would he stay in the relationship, maybe you could help me, oh and please don’t give me he loves her, because I believe that can be a answer but it does not satisfy my brain when I ask why.
To me woman who cheat, plan it like planning the perfect murder or the perfect bank heist, we think things through too thoroughly to say oh whoops it happened.
Please help here
Hey Sheree
Thanks for your question.
He’s staying with her because he knows that he isn’t good with women and will find it difficult to get another one.
He got lucky with her and because of his inability to maintain her attraction and deepen her love and respect for him, she’s gone off and cheated with a guy who makes her feel something. Read: http://www.themodernman.com/dating/how-to-get-lucky-with-women.html
Cheers
Dan
What a great article! Man, you have me as your regular reader.
Hey Hai
Thanks mate! Welcome to The Modern Man.
Cheers
Dan
You forgot one:
“Lack of Emotional Intimacy.”
As you know Dan, it is huge for women.
It is just the way they are wired…
Hey Luke
Thanks for your contribution.
Yes, that is a potential reason. However, if I kept writing, I would have written a book! 🙂 The article was getting close to 2,000 words already. The book is here: http://store.themodernman.com/products/the_flow.html
Cheers
Dan