If your girlfriend dumped you and you really do love her, it’s only natural that you’re going to find yourself thinking, “I miss my ex-girlfriend” and wanting to get her back.
You might have tried to meet other girls and maybe even slept with a few new ones since the break up, but none of them make you feel the same way she does. You and her had a connection that you simply haven’t been able to find with any other woman.
So, how can you get her back?
Simple.
You have to make her feel respect and attraction for you again. You’ve got let her see that you’re not lonely, unhappy or insecure without her. You’ve got to show her that she has lost a great man.
Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man really works and how you can use it to make your ex-girlfriend feel differently about you the next time you interact with her…
Have You Been Showing Her What She’s Lost?
You’ve already realised what you’ve lost in her, but has she realized the mistake that she has made by turning her back on you?
You are great, right? Yet, does she feel that way?
Chances are, her perception of you and the relationship isn’t quite as “rosy” as the memories you have in your mind. Unless you are actively making her feel a renewed send of respect and attraction for you, she will mostly remember the bad times and the things that caused her to break up with you.
That isn’t good for your chances of getting her back.
To increase the chances of getting your ex-girlfriend back, you have to focus on making her feel the type of emotions that will draw her to you, such as respect, attraction and even jealousy.
Watch this video for examples of how to make an ex-girlfriend jealous…
When your ex-girlfriend begins to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, she will begin to miss the good times that you shared. She will think about you in a more positive way and wonder why she just doesn’t contact you to say hi.
Regardless of whether you contact her first and you wait for her to contact you, the most important thing that you need to do when you next talk to her is make her feel respect and attraction for you during the phone call.
Then, when the moment is right, get her to agree to meet up with you in person. At the meet up, you need to say and do the types of things that will make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
If you want specific instructions and examples of how to do all that, I recommend that you watch my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System
Let Her See That You’re Moving On
One of the fastest ways to get her respect and attention is to show her that you’re moving on. That doesn’t mean you have to be with new women, but you need to show her that you’ve moved on from where you were when your relationship ended.
It means you need to show her that you’re an even better man now; a man that lots of other women are naturally becoming interested in.
Some guys, especially those who can’t think of a life without their ex-girlfriend may think, “But, I miss my ex-girlfriend, so why would I want her to think that I’ve moved on and forgotten about her?”
Simple.
That’s what is going to make her feel the type of painful emotions that will cause her to contact you or at least answer her phone if you call. She’s going to want to get rid of the painful feeling by playing hard to get with you on the phone.
If you remain calm, confident and happy on the phone regardless of what she says or does, she won’t be able to get rid of the painful feeling. She will be thinking, “Why am I feeling sad now and he is so happy?”
She will then become more open to meeting up with you in person, possibly just to show interest in you and then pull it back and make you chase her. Yet, when she sees that you still don’t chase and are happy and confident without her, the painful emotions will still be with her.
After a while, she will begin to reconsider her decision to break up with you. She will think, “If I miss him like this and don’t feel good without him, why don’t I just give the relationship another chance?”
The Fear of Losing You to Another Woman
When your ex-girlfriend sees that you are now thinking, behaving and taking action in a way that is attractive to women, she will begin to worry that you will find a better woman than her and completely lose interest in her.
This works if she is still single or is only dating and hasn’t been able to find a suitable replacement for you. However, if your ex-girlfriend is in a new relationship, what you need to do is make her new boyfriend look like a less appealing option compared to you.
If you want to make her feel that way, you need to truly become “the one who got away.” If you want to learn how to do that right now, watch my program Get Your Ex Back: Super System and I’ll show you how to get your ex-girlfriend back for real.
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Hello Dan,
I used to have this female friend of mine who I later fell in love with. When I finally became confident to ask her to be in a relationship with me, she told me I had already proposed to her indirectly and she accepted but now I am her ex. We continued our friendship from that incident even though things became awkward. She got herself a male best friend and is now really into him and up till now we are still on friendly terms. But the problem is that she became really rude to me when I used the picture of a female bestie I had recently made as my profile picture on whats app messenger and proceeded to make rude comments on a picture I uploaded on Facebook and she had no reason in doing that. Is she still interested in me even though she told me she doesn’t have feelings for me or she is expecting me to do something before she accepts me. Dan I really need help!! I really love her and will not like to loose her. Am 21 and am not working yet. I made some savings to purchase “the flow” but changed my mind and am now saving to actually purchase all of your programs in approximately a year and half time. I really need help Dan.
Hey John
Thanks for your question.
What it comes down to for you is that she feels stronger than you mentally and emotionally and is thus not attracted to you. You also don’t know how to go through the steps of a natural courtship and are essentially doing it backwards. Watch this: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/turn-your-female-friend-or-co-worker-into-your-girlfriend.html
Cheers
Dan
Thank you so so so much Dan. I just can’t believe I was doing it all wrong from the beginning and I thought I was on the right path. You were right about she feeling more stronger than me emotionally and mentally. With the video I watched I had to make some adjustments to the way I acted around her. I used to be an emotional wreck and I can’t believe after reading most of your posts about being more confident and strong inside she started behaving differently towards me in just a few weeks. You can’t believe how happy I am right now. For the first time she just gave me a kiss on the lips and said “You have changed” and asked me if I was still interested in her then she walked out of the room before I was even able to respond. Now it seems things are gonna work out between us. I really do love the work you guys are doing Dan. I appreciate it a lot. Can’t wait to purchase your programs.
Hey John
You’re welcome mate. Thank YOU for being so kind to come back and post up your success.
Mate, if you like what you’ve learnt from my articles, just wait until you learn from the programs. I’d recommend this program for you: http://store.themodernman.com/in/2cf8a89
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan I really do miss my ex girlfriend I recently just go out the hospital I’m emotional stress over my ex what can I do to get her back we been together for4 years and we been broken up a year and we just got back in touch with each other two month ago now she have male friends tell me she busy all the time and when I call she tell me she will call back when she call back it be really late and I be sleep she tell me she love me and care but she wants me start off as a friend so she can trust me again I just can’t take this please help me win my ex back I really do love her
Hey Tywan
Thanks for your comment.
The fact that you’ve been in hospital over your emotional stress about the break up says it all. Mate, you’re approaching the whole relationship incorrectly. It is HER who should be feeling the loss of leaving you, not you falling to pieces after leaving her. If you want to turn the situation around, this is the program for you: http://store.themodernman.com/in/23b8291
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan, I’m in an odd situation where my ex girlfriend (who broke up with me) and I are living together, although I’m about to move out and after doing your program everything seemed to be working out great, I displayed my dominance back in the relationship and I could tell that she still had feelings and attraction for me, flirting and buying my food and everything.
So one day she sex me a text out of the blue where she said something like “I see you get up everyday and look great and full of energy and go out and do stuff and it really makes me sad and confused, are you still planning on moving out ___date?” So I came home and talked to her, saying that I’ve moved on for my own good, and we began flirting and then it escalated into sex. I used all of the sex tips that you gave and it seemed to be working great, she was enjoying it, but after she seemed really sad and upset, she sent me a text saying that “she wasn’t emotionally ready for what just happened, she thinks that she still likes this other guy and she needed space and demanded that one of us move out ASAP.”
Obviously sex was a bad move because in hindsight it was too soon but I felt like both of our feelings were there. Did I really mess up?…Is there still a chance of getting her back?….do I just start all over with the procedure?
Hi Michael
Thanks for your positive feedback, question and for sharing your success so far.
You definitely need to keep moving forward with confidence and strength. It seems as though she is trying to draw you in to feel as though you need her, because she doesn’t want to feel the pain of you moving on and feeling good about it. She seems like she wants to hook up with the new guy, which cannot be prevented by you saying anything to her, but it can be prevented by you making her feel certain emotions. Those emotions are explained in the Get Your Ex Back: Super System program – I recommend that you focus on making her feel that. Turn it up a couple of notches and when she feels drawn to you again, break up with her and say that you don’t want her. Get her begging you to take her back, then take her back.
Cheers
Dan