If you feel insecure around women, it simply means that you don’t feel like you’re good enough.
Yet, the truth is that you ARE good enough.
You are already good enough for most women and I’m going to make sure that you realize that, believe it and start using that belief to feel confident in yourself from now on.
For example: If you currently don’t think that you have the looks, height, money or status to attract beautiful women, then watch this…
You Are Creating Your Insecurity…and You Can Kill it
Did you know that insecurity is self-created? By thinking in an insecure way, you will feel the effects of that, such as: Nervousness, self-doubt, depression, low self-esteem, etc.
For example: If you’re talking to a woman and thinking to yourself, “She probably doesn’t like me. I’m not good enough. I’m going to run out of things to say,” then it is only natural that you will feel insecure.
However, if you think, “It’s fun talking to this girl. I deserve to have a girl like this. She keeps talking to me, so that means she likes me and is open to this” then it is only natural that you will feel better about yourself and behave in a more confident way around her.
What is Insecurity?
Insecurity (noun): Lack of confidence or assurance; self-doubt.
Confidence (noun): Belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance.
As you can see from the dictionary definitions, insecurity is the opposite of confidence. So, if you want to stop being insecure, you have to start being confident.
For example: If you don’t have the confidence to approach women that you find attractive, watch this video and see how you can use a change in your thinking to begin feeling more confident…
Do You Feel Insecure Around Beautiful Women?
Imagine this…
You are at bar at night and you notice a beautiful woman that you would love to meet, have sex with and possibly start a relationship with. All around you, people talking to each other and they all seem to be having fun within their groups.
As you look at the beautiful woman you’ve spotted, you begin to think, “Wow…she’s beautiful. I’d really like to go over and talk to her…” but, you don’t because you convince yourself that you’re not good enough for.
You tell yourself that it’s all about looks, height or some other excuse that you use to avoid approaching women. You hate yourself for being so insecure and wish you could just be confident enough to go over and meet her, but you just can’t seem to do it.
Moments later, a confident notices her and thinks, “She looks good. I’m going to go over and say hi.” Your heart sinks as you see them begin to flirt with each other and have a great time. You look at how confident he is and wonder, “What does he have that I don’t?”
As an insecure guy, you may begin to think that he must be better looking than you, have a bigger penis than you or have loads of money. Even though you know that you’re a good guy, you doubt yourself and simply don’t think that you’re good enough for most of the women you meet.
Yet, you are.
So, if you’re not getting the kind of results that you want with women, what is the REAL reason why that is happening?
As you will discover from the video above, guys who aren’t good looking, rich, tall, athletic, etc can still attract, have sex with and even marry attractive women. This is because it is possible to attract women in ways other than looks, money, height and status.
You most-likely don’t realize how attractive you can be to women right now.
Psychologists Don’t Always Get it Right
I once had a client who had been going to a female psychologist for five years before he sought my help to overcome his insecurities about women. He found out about me from this newspaper article and got in touch to learn from me.
I was shocked to find out what his psychologist had been recommending for him to do to cure his insecurity and fear of women. She had been him to go out and get rejected by women as much as possible every weekend.
Why did she suggest that? She didn’t know what else do to, that’s why!
She had learned a technique from her university studies called Desensitization (Meaning: The diminished emotional responsiveness to a negative or aversive stimulus after repeated exposure to it) and mistakenly thought that it also would work for guys who were insecure around women that they found attractive.
When I asked my client what effect her advice had on him, he said that going out to get rejected had made his anxiety and insecurity even worse. So, I took him out to approach women and taught him The Modern Man approach and he was cured in a weekend.
Why? My approach to helping a guy overcome his insecurity with women is to teach him what to say and do to ATTRACT women, not get rejected by them! When a guy knows how to attract women, he approaches and women like him right away. He then builds up their interest by making them feel more attracted.
After experiencing that a few times, a guy then stops feeling insecure and starts feeling confident.
Why? Think about what confidence and insecurity really are:
Insecurity (noun): Lack of confidence or assurance; self-doubt.
Confidence (noun): Belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance.
When you believe that you can do something and you have faith and trust in your own abilities, you don’t feel insecure. Instead, you feel confident…and man is that awesome feeling to have around women!
I Overcame My Insecurities With Women and I Would Be Honored to Help You do the Same
Many years ago, I felt insecure around attractive women. It wasted many years of my life and I had sit on the sidelines and miss out on love, sex and relationships with beautiful women.
However, after a lot of thinking, testing and experimenting, I eventually worked out how to overcome my own insecurities with women. Since then, I have devoted my life to helping guys to overcome their insecurities and instantly begin experiencing more success with women.
It took me many years to work this stuff out, but you can learn it all in a matter of hours and then get on with enjoying your life as a confident guy.
If you sincerely want to know how to stop being insecure, I really can help you.
I guarantee that when you learn my techniques, you will rapidly improve your confidence and self-belief, eliminate your insecurities and transform into a confident, charismatic guy who has his choice with women. Your anxieties and fears regarding women will disappear and be replaced by confidence, self-belief and a feeling of calm certainty at all times.
Does that sound good? Well, the best thing of all is that it is REAL.
Imagine This…
- No longer being afraid to approach women.
- No longer feeling intimidated by beautiful women.
- Beautiful women feeling a deep attraction to your confidence and openly flirting with you in a sexual way.
- Beautiful women trying to keep conversations going with you.
- Having your choice of women.
- Always feeling confident in any social situation.
When you stop being an insecure guy and start being a confident guy, success with women happens naturally and automatically.
Why? Women are naturally attracted to the strength in men and turned off by the weakness, so if you are insecure, nervous or shy in social situations, women will feel turned off and even repulsed by you.
However, when you learn to think, behave and live like a confident guy, women naturally feel turned on by you. Women can’t stop themselves from feeling attraction for you because it happens automatically.
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How do you ever get a woman then if women don’t like guys faking confidence and your not genuinely confident?
If I’m trying to beef myself up with better mindsets even though deep down I feel scared, panic, fear hows that going to help me get a woman to like me? You guys even say yourselfs women can see whos truly confident and who is not honestly that piece of information has made my confidence worse with women atleast before I thought you could hide flaws.
Don’t get it Dan bascially if your not confident now your not getting any women and I don’t see how you can get any women if your truly a weak man going out there trying to improve your skills.
I’ve never watched dating power or heard in detail what your confidence building system is but I can take a guess its about going out there and putting yourself through the ringer until you feel more confidence about the whole thing.
Hey Mitch
Thanks for your question.
I had to laugh though 🙂 Mate, if you need to build confidence, then learn how to do it. You haven’t learnt from us and you’re asking me, “How do I do it?” That advice is in the program…and no, the confidence building system isn’t about “putting yourself through the ringer” (challenging yourself) – it’s much easier than that.
Mate, if you’re not willing to learn and improve yourself, don’t worry about it. We’re here to help guys like you, but you have to take the first step and learn from us. Watch this video to learn about how we developed our advice:
http://www.themodernman.com/success/which-product-is-for-you.html
Cheers
Dan
Dan,
Is there any chance of getting some discount for some phone coaching next week for being such a fantastic and loyal customer and buying everything you bring out? I know its cheeky but don’t ask don’t get right 🙂
I’ve still got to pay two more payments on GYEB program and was looking to do half an hour of coaching but last time we spoke ran out of time and be pushing the bank balance to do an hour.
Let me know yay or no way lol
Cheers
Jack
Hey Jack
😉
Well, I guess I can discount it for you since you are a VIP customer.
Book in for 30 minutes and we’ll have a 1 hour session: http://www.themodernman.com/phone_coaching.html I hope to hear that you’ve been taking action though, since we last spoke. There was a clear plan of action for you and I hope you’ve been making it happen.
Cheers
Dan
Great article, Dan.
It’s obvious that “it’s all in your mind”, so to speak. We create our reality according to what we think.
Hey J
Thanks mate.
Part of it is in your mind and part of it is in the feedback you get from reality. However, you can’t create a delusional version of reality in your mind and think it will play out like that in reality. There is more to it than that. When we teach guys how to overcome their insecurities, it is not about getting them to think “Oh, everything is fine. I am confident and women love me.” That doesn’t work and isn’t true for guys who aren’t confident. There’s more to the process of eliminating insecurities and becoming confident.
Thanks for your comment though – it was a good comment to reply to and expand a little more on.
Cheers
Dan
Thanks Dan! 🙂
Well I’m not where I want to be but in a different place from when we last spoke. Part of one of my questions is the process of getting to the finish line and mindsets but anyway.
I’ll pay on wednesday and shoot you a few qustions after.
Hopefully speak to you end of next week or start of next.
Thanks man appreciate it.
-Jack
Sounds good mate.
Chat soon!
Cheers
Dan