Which Product is Best For You?

• neil

  Hi guys. Im writing to you for your advice on which product to buy next. I just purchased the flow. I enjoyed it and found it useful but I think I need something more advanced for my level. I have had success with a number of beautiful women in m y life but mostly ended up giving over my power at some stage and loosing them. I only realized i was doing this lately. I lost everything recently and slipped into depression.It was only after having a hard honest look at myself that i saw the repeating patterns of needy behaviour etc. Where i get confused is when im in my zone if you will i seem to attract women to me without even doin anything at all, i say all the right things, i dont give a f*** naturally and nearly always end with a one night stand. My friends of late cant believe i had depression and anxiety and always thought of me as fearless.So now that im aware of how i sabotage myself i find myself procrastinating alot.Getting myself into my (zone) deliberately feels false to me like im pretending.Looking at the range you have it seems the one with the mindsets might be the one, what you think?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Neil

    Thanks for your positive feedback and question.

    Actually, the programs that are suited to you are Better Than a Bad Boy, The Modern Relationship and Alpha Male Power.

    Better Than a Bad Boy
    Will teach you what you need to know so you never hand over your power to a woman again. Women will test you from the very first moment they meet you and will not stop throughout the entire relationship. They test to see how masculine you are and if you are willing to allow them to dominate you in any way. In the program, I give examples of many tests, how guys fail them and how to pass them. This advice applies from the very first interaction, throughout an entire relationship.

    Another big part of the Better Than a Bad Boy program is about life purpose. A lot of guys make the mistake of making a woman their life purpose and end up hiding away from the world behind her and the relationship. If a guy is afraid to rise to his true potential as a man and rise through the levels of life, a woman will naturally lose respect and attraction for him. I give a lot of advice on life purpose, how to balance your time between that and a relationship, what to do when women test you and try to pull you away from it, etc. I also take you through a Purpose Discovery Exercise so you can either discover your true purpose in life, or gain more clarity on what you think you should be doing and strengthen your determination to make it happen and follow through all the way.

    What you learn from Better Than a Bad Boy will also cure your tendency to become needy in a relationship. All of that nasty stuff just disappears when you use the approach I provide in the program.

    The Modern Relationship
    Will teach you what you need to know so that your next relationship doesn’t fizzle out. Instead, the love, attraction and respect your woman feels for you will GROW over time. The sexual attraction will not die away if you follow the advice in the program.

    No doubt you would have see those couples who are still madly in love with each other and passionately attracted to each other, even 10 or 20 years into a relationship. That is what you can achieve if you do it right. The couples who fall out of love have either chosen the wrong person or lack the relationship skills to deepen the love, attraction and respect between each other. As a man, it’s your responsibility to guide your woman into deeper love, attraction and respect for you. If you fail to do that, she will naturally lose attraction, respect and love for you over time.

    Alpha Male Power
    Will cure your anxiety and make you truly confident.

    It is a fact of nature as a human male that if you think like a lower-ranking male (i.e. beta male all the way down to omega male), you will naturally experience social anxiety, nervousness and fear. On the other hand, if you think like an alpha male, you will naturally experience confidence, self-assurance, mojo for life, high self-esteem and a sense of power. Read: The Consequences of Not Being an Alpha Male

    Any further questions just let me know.

    Cheers
    Dan

• neil

  Thx for the quick reply Dan.They all sound great. After reading the descriptions of your products i think i would like to have the full set as this information helps in all areas of life.Especially the ones relating to relationships.Without putting all the blame on myself for my relationship ending i can clearly see where my weaknesses are and wont make the same ones again.Im trying to decide whats best for me now as i am 42 and single.Already know i can approach and flirt with girls from the past but feel like something holds me back.I dont know why some days i just seem to have it going on and other days i dont. Which one of the ones you suggested would you recommend i get first.

  A mate of mine said to me just now, as i am showing him your site, that because i did it naturally or unconciously that is why i cant repeat it.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Neil

    You’re welcome mate.

    You said, “…but feel like something holds me back.I dont know why some days i just seem to have it going on and other days i dont.”

    The program for that is Alpha Male Power. The solution to your problem (that I provide in Alpha Male Power) took me around 6 years to work out. I discovered it while travelling around Spain and Hungary last year and then went back to Australia and taught it to brand new clients (I coach guys in bars, nightclubs, shopping malls, etc on the weekend) and their approach anxiety was immediately fixed. You’ll also learn how to ALWAYS see yourself as a great catch for women, so you never get into the frame of mind of thinking that you’re not good enough.

    About what you’re mate said: Yes, he’s right. What is happening there is that sometimes you can slip into a stage of Unconscious Competence and do it correctly, without even having to think about it. By that, I am referring to the classic “4 Stages of Learning,” which goes like this:

    1. Unconscious incompetence: You don’t even know that you’re doing it wrong.
    2. Conscious incompetence: You know what you’re doing wrong.
    3. Conscious competence: You can do it correctly, but you have to think about it while doing it.
    4. Unconscious competence: You can do it correctly without thinking about it.

    Currently, you are at difference levels of competence in what it takes to a confident man and be successful with women. All it will take is for you to learn the right thing to do, get used to doing it correctly and eventually you’ll become a natural. You will eventually get to a point (where I am and have been for many years), where you just do everything correctly without even having to think about it. Picking up women, maintaining a great relationship, etc becomes so easy that it is as simple for you as toasting bread in a toaster.

    Cheers
    Dan

• john

  how can i purchase your product

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi John

    Thanks for your question.

    Click on one of the “Buy Now” buttons above. It will take you to our online store. Click “Add to Cart” and then follow the purchase process. You can purchase with Visa, Mastercard, AMEX or Pay Pal. If you don’t have a credit card or Pay Pal account, you can make a direct transfer of funds. See “Question 9” here: http://store.themodernman.com/faq.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Marcus

  Going to buy Mastery Methods & Mindsets, since Mindsets has been the hardest thing for me to learn, I’m still learning it.

  So soon I will have both that and Dating Power, and I finally got the time and the money to be out on bars and such.

  Last time I were out I had a great time, I danced with a really hot woman all night. I had the opportunity to kiss her, she gave me that sort of gase but I misinterped the situation. She danced alot with another guy too, and I though he was her boyfriend, so that’s why I didn’t go for the kiss.
  Damn Dan, I should have!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Marcus

    Thanks for your positive feedback and sharing your success so far.

    The question is: Why did you use ANY of the first kiss techniques explained and demonstrated in Dating Power? Remember: Knowledge is power when USED. You have to use the techniques and then you will get ALL of the results. Congratulations on attracting the woman, dancing and hanging out with her all night, but that is NOT GOOD ENOUGH. We spend a lot of time explaining and demonstrating all of our best escalation techniques in Dating Power. Make sure you use them! As I say in Dating Power, “One of the fastest ways to get a girlfriend is to have sex with a woman. After that, what do you do next? You start dating/having a relationship!” Escalate to kissing and sex – don’t mess around with talking and dancing all night for nothing.

    About getting Mastery Methods & Mindsets: That program will give you a lot of new, powerful mindsets and techniques to use. It will CHALLENGE you and push you to grow, so make sure you are ready to learn and take the necessary steps following the training. You will get automatic boosts of confidence and self-esteem simply by listening to the program, but when you put the advice into action – THAT is when things will change DRAMATICALLY. I love hearing success stories from customers who’ve listened to Mastery Methods & Mindsets because they are always so transformational and end up with the guy having sex with new women or finally getting a beautiful girlfriend and being confident, calm and in control around her at all times.

    I look forward to hearing about more of your success! Don’t hesitate. Don’t waste time. Make things HAPPEN by taking ACTION.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Neil

  hey dan, thx for your advice so far, i have had some success which ive shared on your q and a page. I have a question. I have been looking around for the right stuff online for a few weeks now and chose here for the flow atleast anyhow because it seems more down to earth than others. I read the intros of the products and they all seem very similar. Carlos zuma. david deangelo and many others. Im sure you know of them and they offer the same advice but without purchasing of course i wont really know. You recommended me alpha male power, its sounds great but it is way more expensive than many others on the topic of alpha male power. Could you tell me why you think yours is better and worth the price which is doublwe of many others. Also one last thing mate. I saw a link on your site to one thats called pandoras box. Has some pretty amazing claims. On one hand it cancells out alpha male behavior as it claims different women want different things, sounds reasonable but on the other hand it sounds like behaving differently for different women which sounds desperate and to be honest alot of hard work. Your views on these things would be much appretiated.
  regards Neil

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Neil

    Thanks for your question.

    Some of the main reasons we are the #1 experts in this field:

    1. We actually have hot girlfriends.

    Here are just SOME of the hotties I’ve hooked up with or had as girlfriends: Photos

    Do a search for “David DeAngelo girlfriend” in Google Images and you will see that he does NOT pick up attractive women. His real name is Eben Pagan and he is an internet marketer who boasts about making big money selling dating advice, when he isn’t actually skilled at picking up attractive women. He married what many refer to as unattractive woman after spending years selling DVD packs about how to pick up beautiful women. From what I have heard about the other guy you mentioned “Carlos Zuma” he is pretty much like David DeAngelo in that he TALKS about being good with women, but in real life he is very ordinary at best.

    2. We test our advice for YEARS before we release it in a product.

    Here’s what we went through to create Dating Power for example: The Truth About Dating Power. After continuing to get LONG TERM success story feedback from customers who’d attended our earlier seminars and amazing instant success stories from all the new guys we were coaching EVERY WEEKEND on our live courses (in bars, clubs and shopping malls), we decided it was time to record Dating Power.

    Pretty much ALL of the “advice” that you will find on “dating advice” sites online has either never been tested, tested once and the person simply got lucky and then thought, “Oh, wow – I’ve worked it out!” or is full of advice provided by an insecure person who is pretending to be confidence.

    3. Our advice is based on being real, natural and authentic.

    There’s no weird tricks to use on women, no hypnotic spells or crazy stuff like that. We teach guys how to be the type of strong, powerful, confident, charismatic man that pretty much every woman feels attraction for and respects instantly. When you use our techniques and approach, women will love you for YOU and not for a bunch of weird tricks that they will eventually see through as being fake.

    4. Our advice will get you real, consistent results.

    Just take a look at all the video, audio and text testimonials that guys have left on this page. There are 1,000s of others scattered all over the site in random comments, but that page is a good place to see a bunch of them at once.

    I could go on with more reasons, but I think that’s enough for now.

    About our products being more expensive: Yes, you get what you pay for. If you want advice from fake dating gurus like David DeAngelo, posers or insecure guys – go ahead and buy cheap. An hour of phone coaching with me costs $447 because I have over 7 years of experience coaching guys to success with women. I’m no “overnight dating guru” or some random guy who copies a bunch of stuff on the web and then pretends to be good with women. This is what I do for real. If you want to be helped by someone who has been helping guys for REAL for years, go ahead and invest in my programs and you will get the results you want with women.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tyrone

  Hey Dan

  There’s one thing I would add to the difference between your advice and that of other so called pick up gurus is that your advice actually works.

  I tried all the PUA and seduction crap for years and felt like a phoney because it was all about tricking women and pretending to be something I was not. The modern man approach feels right because it is about being me, being natural and being the best me I can be.

  I’ve had sex with more women in the last year by using your approach that I had in my whole life prior. To top it off I now have a girlfriend who I love and she loves me like crazy.

  Big props to you Ben and Stu at The modern man!

  Ty

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Tyrone

    I appreciate you taking the time to point that out mate. Much appreciated!

    Sounds like you’ve been having a great time over the last year. Enjoy your new relationship!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jerry

  Hi Dan,

  Maybe it’s strange for me to be looking on your website, because I’ve already got a beautiful, loving wife and kids too.

  But I need to change.

  Last year my wife had an affair and I want to make sure that doesn’t happen again.

  Which product do you recommend for a married man to improve his relationship with his wife?

  Thanks,
  Jerry

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jerry

    Thanks for your question.

    Sorry to hear about your situation. That must have been an absolutely horrible experience to go through. I’m glad you got in touch though because I can definitely teach you how to avoid it happening again in the future.

    Without a doubt, the products you should watch are Better Than a Bad Boy and The Modern Relationship. Better Than a Bad Boy will teach you how to regain your wife’s love, respect and attraction for you, as well as regaining your confidence in yourself. I’m assuming that your confidence and self-esteem took a bit of a beating due to the affair. The Modern Relationship will teach you how to change the dynamic of your relationship so your wife continually wants to impress YOU and maintain YOUR interest. As a result, it will be her who is chasing you for sex and wanting to spend more quality time with you.

    Also, I’d recommend you have a read through some or all these articles:

    5 Reasons Why Women Have Affairs
    My Wife Doesn’t Want Sex
    How to Get the Spark Back in a Relationship
    How to Spend Quality Time With Your Wife or Girlfriend
    The Seven Year Itch: Fact or Fallacy?
    Why Am I Always Arguing With My Girlfriend/Wife?
    Should Men Do Housework?

    Cheers
    Dan

    • Jerry

      Thanks Dan,

      I bought The Modern Relationship and enjoyed it, although it was a little light on. I guess Better Than a Bad Boy is more substantial?

      Anyway, I just tried my first “Cold Withdraw” and we’ll see how it goes. My wife is so stubborn though. How long should I give her to apologize before I tell her what she needs to do?

      Thanks and keep up the good work,
      Jerome

    • Dan Bacon

      Hi Jerry

      Thanks for your positive feedback and question.

      Yes, The Modern Relationship is 1 hour and 45 minutes, whereas Better Than a Bad Boy is 10 hours, 50 minutes. The Modern Relationship serves as a great introduction to our relationship techniques, as well as providing the foundation for creating and maintaining a successful relationship. If you want to learn more, then Better Than a Bad Boy is definitely for you. It’s our “deepest” program in terms of understanding what it means to be a man, understanding what women really want from men and understanding how to deepen the respect, attraction and love that a woman feels for you.

      About the situation with your wife: As long as it takes for her to come to you. If she is very stubborn, feel free to tell her that you’re pulling back and waiting for her to apologize for the bad behavior that caused you to withdraw in the first place. Since you’re suddenly using a new approach and she is very stubborn, expect some resistance at first. However, if you’re being the type of man that I explain how to be in the program AND you’re using the CW technique, then she has reason to care. However, if you’re just doing the negative and not including the positive, don’t expect her to care too much.

      Cheers
      Dan

    • Jerry

      Well, I waited and waited. I followed your advice and then she started acting up again. CW again and the next thing you know she’s asking me if there is anything I want her to do around the house while I’m at work the next day. Gold!

      BTABB here I come.
      Thanks.

    • Dan Bacon

      Hey Jerry

      Excellent! Great to hear that your wife is already beginning to treat you better. I look forward to hearing back from you when you begin implementing the techniques from Better Than a Bad Boy. Prepare for her to suddenly become a lot more interested in having sex with you! She is going to want to please you because that will be pleasurable for her, just like with what she’s being doing regarding housework already. Women WANT to be in a position where they get pleasure from pleasing their man.

      Cheers
      Dan

• Wil

  Do you accept prepaid visa card ? If you do, how do I fill out the order form?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Will

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, you can pay with a prepaid card, otherwise known as a debit card. Simply select Pay Pal as your payment option when you purchase.

    http://store.themodernman.com/index.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Cms

  Hey Dan

  Which product is good for getting a girlfriend? like the first stages of getting a girlfriend.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Cms

    Thanks for your question.

    That would be 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Chris Elian

  Hi Dan,

  The flow is remarkable. I absolutely love it. I’m recently in a relationship because of it, things has been going great. My girlfriend recently decided that she wants to be celibate for a year buof religious >reasons. We’ve had sex and its been great, and now I’m confused as to >what to do. Help please!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Chris

    Thanks for sharing your success so far.

    A person’s religious belief is completely up to them. If that’s what she wants, then that’s what she wants. However, it’s also up to you whether you are willing to accept those conditions or if you will break up with her because of it. Personally, that type of thing doesn’t happen to me because women have to impress ME during a relationship to maintain MY interest. I set the rules, the woman follows. My girlfriend knows that if she messes up, treats me badly, etc, she will be out the door in no time. However, if she treats me well, makes me happy, etc she will be welcome to be with me for life.

    I recommend that you watch The Modern Relationship and learn more about how create a traditional relationship dynamic where you are in charge of what happens in the relationship.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Roy

  Hi Dan,

  Do I have to have a ebook reader to download the ebook package? And, which ebook reader accepts your product’s documents for the ebook package?

  Thanks, Roy

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Roy

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, the ebooks we provide are in the industry standard format of PDF. The free software to use is Adobe Acrobat Reader. You can also use pre-installed software on your smartphone, tablet, PC, Mac. In most cases, you won’t have to install anything, but if you do, simply use the free Adobe software.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jamie

  Hi Dan,

  I’ve watched many of your inspirational preview videos and I need to find a good starting programme.

  The last time I approached a woman was three years ago. She didn’t react like I was flirting. I have lost the motivation to try again. Some women see me as a friend. However, I’m a poor conversationalist so even with my above-average looks I don’t have many people in my life.

  If you could tell me which programme would sort out this mess I’d be grateful. It’d be nice to wake up and look forward to my day.

  Thank you,
  Jamie

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jamie

    Thanks for your question.

    When a woman doesn’t react to your flirting, it is usually because:

    a) She sees that you’re nervous and because of that, she is not attracted to you. So she doesn’t want to encourage you.
    b) Your version of flirting isn’t actual flirting. You tried, but you need more practice – Just like the first time you play a musical instrument.
    c) You appear to be confident, so she wants to check if you’re truly confident. Simply behaving uninterested usually sorts out the weak men from the strong ones.

    Without a doubt, you sound like you need to build your mental and emotional strength and become a stronger man. If you walk up to women and they feel stronger than you, it’s basically game over right away. You’ve got to be stronger (mentally and emotionally) than women if you want them to respect you and feel attraction for you, rather than looking at you as just another “man” who is afraid of them. Women will test you all the way from the first conversation and throughout an entire relationship, continually checking to see if you really are a confident man. If the tests keep coming back as “Yes,” the woman can then relax into being a truly feminine woman around you. When you can give that gift to women you meet, you will finally see that pretty much ALL women want to be with you. Women are desperate to find real men and when you become one, it’s no longer about trying to pick up women. It’s simply about choosing which one you want. So, the program for you Jamie is Better Than a Bad Boy.

    Cheers
    Dan

    • Tomas

      Exactly man!

• Guillermo

  Dan, I have bought the flow, the ultimate guide to conversation, mastery methods and mindset. There all pretty awesome. It’s brilliant! I’m still working my way up to being a natural like you but there’s still something holding me back. Sometime I feel unworthy, like I’m not good enough for girlfriend and sometimes I feel like I’m pretending around my friends. I just don’t know why, I feel that why, its confusing me. I know I know…” You have to be happy with who you are and you will be openly and friendly to others, replace negative mindset to positives mindset, be real, be honest, control the way you think, if you feel like you’re a lower ranking male you’re going to be a low ranking male but if you think you’re a high ranking male you’re to be a high ranking male.” I’m doing all the right things here such as flirting, leading, listening, and etc. I’m still stuck and feel like I can’t maintain my confidences for the rest of my life. I want to get your level Dan. Help me out mate haha. By the way, I’m thinking about buying another program, coaching call breakthrough or alpha male. I’m not sure which one I should get, what would you recommend?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Guillermo

    Thanks for your question and positive feedback.

    This is exactly why I created these new programs: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/4-new-mastery-level-video-programs.html Some guys need to learn more than others and in your case, it sounds like you need to watch Alpha Male Power and Better Than a Bad Boy. If you can only afford one, I would recommend Alpha Male Power for you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• James

  Hi Dan,

  I’ve spent the last quite-a-few years concentrating hard on the career side of life and have put the “women” side of life completely on the backburner during this time. Currently, I’d say I am clueless and hopeless with women. Fortunately, my career issues are now sorted, so now is the time to focus on other more fun areas of life.

  My question is, I find it confusing to see that The Flow seems to be a general-purpose book that covers all the topics involved becoming successful with women but then there are all the other programmes available too. What is the simplest, most efficient way of learning all of this?

  Thanks very much

  James

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi James

    Thanks for your question.

    How much a guy needs to learn depends on how much he needs to learn.

    The Flow is often referred to as “the manual for success with women” by our customers and we’ve literally received 1,000s of success stories from customer’s who read it and put the advice into action. However, many guys also WANT to learn more and improve their skills and knowledge further.

    For instance, The Flow includes many examples of conversation, flirting and humor, but many customers are so impressed with what they’ve learnt from The Flow that they will then go on and listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation and learn more of our tested, proven-to-work conversation, humor and flirting examples to use when interacting with women.

    Likewise, The Flow also includes life-changing advice and techniques for building and maintaining confidence. However, many customers are so impressed with the boosts in confidence and self-esteem they achieve by using the advice from The Flow that they then go on to learn from more of our programs.

    The more you learn from us, the more powerful you will become in terms of your confidence, self-esteem, masculinity and skills with women. Instead of trying to pick up women, you will quickly see that women begin trying to pick YOU up. Only when you’ve learnt from us and USED our advice in your life will you see the true value of what you’re considering learning right now. At this point, you only know what you know about women, but when you learn what we know your whole life is going to change. See: http://www.themodernman.com/success/modern-man-success-stories.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• rafael

  Okay i been reading a bunch of this articles and i am new and want to have a change in my life at the age of 25 i could say i am not so confidence and confuse of how to obtain what i want. 2 months ago my gf broke up with me. I feel i got reason why as i look back. i was whinning and whimmpy, negative even when she try to help being positive i just wanted sympthy i guess. i let her jealousy affect me in teh sense it wasn innocent jealousy that i would drop and get fustrated. She blocked me from fb and the thing is i have a college class with her tha makes it the hardest having to see her and see her like nothing happen and i feel not existence.i left town for a bit 3 weeks to fix my depression from my attitude i had left everything back home. when i got back i saw, 3 texts. 2 in one week saying are you awake and good morning with a smilley face. the next week or spring break was over and a text simply saying class cancelled. then two miss calls that same week. when i got back i saw she had blocked me from fb and her sister deleted me. i dont know if she thought i was ignoring her purposley or if it means she still cares to see i was gone for a while even class. i do have a mopping face i try to fake it but gets to me becuase i know i mess up and i cant talk to her and she seems happy. i do want her back but i want to change for me not just becuase to get her back, but, i know in life i have to be confidence and more positive to achieve anything. i want to change thsoe traits and i do want to win her back i just dont know how to do it. i get fustrated easily i guess it turns into neediness or that life aint fair and complain.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Rafael

    Thanks for sharing your story.

    If you want to fix your issues and stop feeling so lost and depressed in this world, you need to work on having a sense of life purpose. I spend a few hours discussing that and providing advice for it in Better Than a Bad Boy (which runs for 10 hours and 50 minutes). The program will also help you transform into the confident, masculine man that will get your ex-girlfriend feeling respect and attraction for you again.

    More info here: http://store.themodernman.com/in/2cf8a89

    Cheers
    Dan

• Garry

  Hi Dan,
  I have been going through your products and i really think this is what can change my life completely.I am 25 yr old guy and i have never had a girlfriend in my life. I am an average looking a very nice guy but girls always find me in the friend ZONE. Also i have not been able to connect to good looking women(who do check me out) and always end up chatting with below avg looking girls. I am thinking of buying the Flow as i can’t afford the expensive products .Need your advise..hoping for a change in Life soon.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Garry

    Thanks for your question.

    I think you should watch this video first: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/turn-your-female-friend-or-co-worker-into-your-girlfriend.html You will learn the reason why you’ve been ending up in the friend zone. Also, yes I recommend that you start with The Flow. You will learn 1,000s of things you never knew about women, dating, attraction and relationships.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jordan

  Hello Dan I have hit a recent stumbling block with women and in my life in general. However I’m not a quitter and know if I get one more of your products my problems will be solved. My problem is after initially achieving success with women and gaining confidence. My confidence has started to waver away a little. I go through cycles where I am confident and can walk up to women and feel no anxiety but other days where I am nervous. My other problem is sometimes I feel powerful and sure of myself in situations but in more difficult ones I am hesitant and anxious. I feel that I don’t need any more advice on picking up women just on fixing my inner game so to speak. So which one would you recommend? Thanks

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jordan

    Thanks for your question.

    The program for you is definitely Alpha Male Power: http://store.themodernman.com/in/d2e92f Amongst many other inner game techniques, mindsets and methods, Alpha Male Power includes our exclusive technique for completely overcoming approach anxiety. You simply can’t feel approach anxiety when you use the technique in this program.

    Cheers
    Dan

    • Jordan

      Wow Dan I read the bullets under alpha make power and it sounds incredible. I can’t even imagine having total confidence no more anxiety when talking to hot women and having then like me immediately. This program sounds perfect for me!

    • Dan Bacon

      Hey Jordan

      Thanks for your comment.

      Yes, it’s hard to imagine for a lot of guys. Thanks for mentioning that. Think about this: Most humans couldn’t imagine a TV or a computer 100 years ago, yet it was possible and is now a reality. Likewise, most guys can imagine having women feeling attraction to them instantly, especially since throughout most of their life, women have felt a LACK of attraction for them. Yet, it is possible and these guys are proof that it is real: http://www.themodernman.com/success/modern-man-success-stories.html

      Cheers
      Dan

• Michael

  Hi Dan

  Just a little bit of background I am a 58 year old divoiced male, was married for 26years ended about 6 years ago and since then I have been unable to get into a relationship or even have sex with a woman. I am struggling to make contact with ladies, yes I have become fearful. Unfortunately I have taken to drinking and this helps me as I spend my nights alone at home. I work as an executive. I keep thinking how do I change, I really wish to meet a few ladies, but just cannot get it together. I realise I am wuss but have never been like this before. Maybe you can suggest something.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Michael

    Thanks for your question.

    Sorry to hear about your situation mate. That must have been a tough thing to go through. Here’s an article that might help you: http://www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/dating-after-divorce.html

    I think you should start by reading The Flow, so you can get a huge boost of confidence and actually learn what you need to do and say when interacting with women: http://store.themodernman.com/products/the_flow.html Then, when you are ready to go out and put your skills to the test, I recommend you do the 30 Day Challenge that comes as a free bonus with 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: http://store.themodernman.com/products/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jack

  Hi Dan,

  I am looking for something that can get me a long-term committed relationship with a girl: something that could lead to marriage.

  I am looking at material wherein more focus is on how to sustain the spark over many years and make her retain the interest level for a really long time.

  I am not sure which is the right material for me: “better than a bad boy”, “The modern relationship” or something else. Please suggest.

  Thanks!!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jack

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, that’s correct. Both of those programs are best for you. The Modern Relationship will give you an overview of how to conduct yourself in a relationship with a modern woman, plus a bunch of my best relationship techniques. Better Than a Bad Boy goes deeper into the topic and focusses on the masculine/feminine dynamic between a man and a woman, about being a man of purpose, about keeping a healthy balance in life and many other important topics.

    Cheers
    Dan

  • Rob

    Hi Dan,
    I was in an on and off relationship for nearly three years with a woman who fell hard for me. Every time she got close I ran. She finally had enough and moved on to another relationship and told me to do the same. We have had no contact for awhile and every time I reached out I got rudely rejected. I do love this woman and know she still loves me but doesnt trust me not to break her heart again. What do you suggest?

    • Dan Bacon

      Hey Rob

      Thanks for your question.

      There’s a very specific conversation that you need to have with her to get her to open herself up to you again. I explain that in my program http://store.themodernman.com/products/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html

      You can get her to forgive you for how you treated her before and for not committing, but it takes a very specific approach. I tested out many different things to say to women (via my phone coaching clients) before working out exactly what a guy needs to say. If you want to learn that, check out my program.

      Cheers
      Dan

• jose

  hi, dan, i want know which of these programs can help me about get rid of my approach anxieties, i often feel a lot of anxieties when i think or walk towards a woman to start a conversation. i think i gonna need work in my mindsets, limiting beliefs and be able to approach and dating women. so what you think gonna be a good program for me/

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jose

    Thanks for your question.

    Alpha Male Power is the program that deals with the core anxiety issues guys suffer from with regards to women and socializing. However, please note: All of our programs will give you additional confidence, power, knowledge and skills when it comes to women, dating, socializing and relationships. In other words, you can’t go wrong with any program. The more you learn from us, the more confident, powerful and skilled you will become in this area. The end result that guys achieve is having their choice with women, being free of insecurities and anxiety, having more great friends, feeling happy and passionate about life and being able to go after whatever they want without fear or hesitation. What you do with that level of power and skill is up to you, but here’s what other guys have been experiencing: http://www.themodernman.com/success/modern-man-success-stories.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jordan

  What’s up Dan I started getting some numbers and am being more comftorable around women due to alpha male power! I was just wondering how mastery methods is specifically different to alpha male power. I already have alpha male power and that is helping a lot! Is mastery methods deal with a different type of confidence and help out with socializing in a different way. Just wondering if mastery would benefit me a lot more or is alpha male power enough knowledge in the confidence area? Thanks

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jordan

    Thanks for your question.

    Great to hear that you’re already getting numbers and feeling more comfortable women. About your question: Mastery Methods & Mindsets will give you additional mindsets (confident ways of thinking) and methods (for taking action). Some guys need to learn more than others and it seems like you might simply need to learn more about confidence, approaching and leaving your insecurities, fears, nervousness and anxiety behind. Mastery Methods & Mindsets is completely different to Alpha Male Power, so you will learn about a lot of new areas that will really help you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Mike

  I don’t know which one I need! I’ve had problems with texting and phone because I can’t tell what mood she’s in and how interested she is at the moment. I shouldn’t ask her out or flirt with her if she’s going to reject me right?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Mike

    After seeing some of your comments around the site, it’s pretty clear that you have a lot to learn about the fundamentals first. I recommend you start with The Flow and you will suddenly see where you’ve been going wrong (and where you’ve been going right as well).

    Cheers
    Dan

• Shane

  Hi Dan

  Hope this email finds you well

  I am 29 years old, I have no ambition to ”settle down” so t o speak, but appreciate and want to enjoy beautiful women. Im a firm advocate of honesty and dont believe in selling dreams to women but I dont feel like I want to settle with 1 particular woman. I prefer to focus my energies on becoming financial independent and building wealth. However, I still want to date beautiful women what program(s) would you reccommend for someone like me?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Shane

    Thanks for your question.

    If you want plenty of beautiful women in your life, the program for you would be Dating Power: http://store.themodernman.com/in/2e074a8 You will learn how to approach and talk to women in way where they try to pick you up, as well as how to escalate to kissing and sex the first time you meet a woman. It will be up to you whether or not you want a relationship after that.

    Cheers
    Dan

• David

  What’s up King Dan,

  Is there techniques in your Mastery Methods program that will get me laid fast, or is it mostly about confidence and approaching women?
  I am asking because I may buy The Flow or Mastery, and cannot decide.

  Thanks,

  Happy Holidays!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey David

    Thanks for your question.

    If you’re looking to get laid fast, the best program for that is Dating Power because we explain what to say and do to get one night stands: http://store.themodernman.com/products/dating_power.html

    The Flow will teach you about approaching and picking up women, but it doesn’t cover any of the techniques from Dating Power. Mastery Methods and Mindsets will build your confidence and teach you even more about approaching women, but it is more focussed on getting rid of your nervousness, anxiety, fear and hesitation about approaching women.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jordan

  Hey dan I want to start the new year off right. My approach anxiety is gone and I’m able to start attraction. However I am having trouble telling if a girl is interested in being kissed. My biggest problem right now is escalating things to sex and missing out on the fun. Which product do you think would help me in escalating to sex thanks

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jordan

    Thanks for your question.

    The program for that is Dating Power: http://store.themodernman.com/products/dating_power.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Pranav

  Hey Dan,
  I’ve nearly finished Dating Power and I’ll tell you what it’s made a huge difference in the past year. I haven’t been as diligent with it as I should’ve but I also implemented what I learnt from the flow and decided to change the way I thought about myself.
  I wake up every morning feeling so good and ready for the day rather than how I used to feel which was quite the opposite.
  As for girls I get much more positive responses and I know how to make ’em smile and at times even laugh.
  At the moment I’ve got two sisters fighting over my attention and loyalty (story for another day when it pans out properly). Just writing that down has made me realise how far I’ve come from being a painfully shy and awkward young man I was a little over a year ago.
  However, both those girls aren’t my ideal woman and I want girls to do more than just laugh at my jokes. I want them to realise what a man I am and try and get me to stay onward with the interaction.
  What can you recommend for me?

  Cheers
  Pranav NSW Aus.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Pranav

    Thanks for your sharing your success so far.

    Glad to hear that you finally started USING the advice from The Flow and Dating Power. Our advice works when used. Try to be more diligent from now on and you will get their 10x faster.

    About getting women to realize what a man you are, the program for that is Better Than a Bad Boy: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/better-than-a-bad-boy.html Then, if you want to boost your masculinity even further after that, I recommend that you watch (and USE the advice from 🙂 ) Alpha Male Power: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/alpha-male-power.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Brenz

  Hi Dan,
  I’m not sure which product is best for me but I wanna use any of your products to help me get one of the girls I fancy a lot. In fact, she’s got a boyfriend and they’re engaged. I already approached her but never told her in person how much I really like her. The last time I spoke with her was last year in July and I wrote her a poem telling her about how beautiful she is and how I wish she could be interested in me. Her response was negative through text message. I responded in my text that all I wanted was to make her happy that is, to treat her well, to genuinely love and respect her, etc. She never responded to my text msgs and phone calls to date. But am not confident enough to face her again to tell her how bad I want her to be mine although I did tell her in my text msg. What other approaches should I do to make her go out with me for a quick catch up over coffee or something like that? I’m thinking of writing her another poem to fully express my feelings for her but I need to get your products first before making another move. I have no idea if she likes me at all.Before she was engaged, we both already know each other and she knows I help her to become who she is now-successful.I wanna win her heart to ensure I’m happy too.
  Cheers. Brenz

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Brenz

    Thanks for your question.

    You’re interested in a woman who is engaged to be married, who also responded negatively to your advances? Man, you need a lot of help. Start by watching this: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-tell-a-woman-that-you-have-feelings-for-her.html

    For the record: I don’t approve of guys (who are too afraid to approach and meet other women) trying to steal another man’s fiance. It is weak, pathetic behavior that will never get you far in life.

    As for writing poems to her: Dude, what planet are you from? It sounds like your approach to dating is coming from teenage love story movies about children in high school. Writing poems to a woman is not the way to get her to feel sexually attracted to you and want to be with you.

    “Before she was engaged, we both already know each other and she knows I help her to become who she is now-successful.” Helping a woman to be successful in life is not the way to get her to feel sexual attraction for you! Man, you have no idea at all.

    If you don’t learn from me, I feel sorry for you in advance because women are going to reject the crap out of you for life until you change. Stop acting (yes acting) like a character from a soppy, teen romance movie and start behaving like a man.

    As for what product you should get – read The Flow: http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• shane

  Hi Dan,

  Going through a very difficult time right now..a friend who I felt had the game right recently got divorced…I started doing some research, started listening to information on [Reference to other site removed]. The information on that site is overwhelming, but put me in a somewhat difficult place and divided my ideologies to some degree.. on one side I want to date, I want to sleep with the hot ones, I want that lifestyle…on the other side I don’t want to deal get into a situation where I can he manipulated by women so they fulfil their own agendas I.e children , money etc…I feel like I’m rambling on don’t wanna take too much of your time..but what are your thoughts on men who are becoming anti marriage and untrustworthy of women and what would you advise in terms of products or services you offer? Thanks in advance Dan in help would be much appreciated !

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Shane

    Thanks for your question.

    The site you referred to is essentially a bunch of frustrated men who don’t understand how to maintain the respect, love and attraction of a woman. They are so angry at women for not putting up with their flaws that they’ve forgotten about what relationships between men and women are all about.

    It’s very easy to get scared by high divorce rates and the potential to end up as a single dad. However, that doesn’t mean that women can’t be trusted, it’s all too difficult and men should just bang women and leave them.

    Real love and real lifetime commitment is still a reality for humanity. While some divorce statistics near 50% in some countries, that means 50% of couples are able to stay together.

    About being manipulated by women: Man, I hear you. I used to think the same thing. I was thinking, “If I have a family with a woman, she could leave me, take half my money and take the kids…then, I’d have to sit on the sidelines paying child support while some other guys raises my children.”

    Yet, after finding my girlfriend and realising what true love actually is, I have a completely different perspective and am not worried in the slightest. I have the relationship skills to be able to keep the relationship together (i.e. the love, respect and attraction between her and I deepens every day, compared to what I used to do (and what most guys do) – ruin the love, respect and attraction over time).

    I could be worried about something bad happening in the future if I wanted to focus on that, but what’s the point? Unless life extension technology arrives sometime soon and grants us the ability to live indefinitely, we are just going to be here for a very brief period of time. If that is the case, you might as well enjoy the fullness of love, life and relationships without fear because, in the end, you can’t lose if you have loved and been loved.

    About my products: If you want to experience the lifestyle of sleeping with lots of women before settling down, I recommend that you read my book The Flow http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html or watch the seminar that Ben, Stu and I created called Dating Power: http://store.themodernman.com/dating_power.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• kharisma

  Can you download all the products on the ipad mini ?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kharisma

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, the products can be downloaded to any device (Mac, PC, phone, tablet) as long as you have enough space. If you run out of space on your device, you can watch or listen online in your customer account area. You can also come back to download your products at any time using any device or computer; you will just need your login and password information to access your account here: https://store.themodernman.com/login.html

    Cheers
    Dan
    http://store.themodernman.com/

• Jids

  Hey Dan,

  i have read the flow and loved it i was wondering if you can give me some advice on what product would suit me ,im quite a confidence person i can approach women when im feelings confident but sometimes i don’t feel that confident. also there will be times i would approach women and i don’t get the right results or they don’t look that interested in me and i cant keep the conversations flowing so again what product would suit me the most and i will get the programs as soon as possible Thanks

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jids

    Thanks for your question.

    It sounds like you need more examples of what to say and do to attract women during interactions. The best programs for you would be Dating Power and The Ultimate Guide to Conversation.

    Since you’ve already purchased The Flow, you will be able to get those two programs for 50% off from within your customer account. You can log in here: https://store.themodernman.com/login.html

    If you need any more help, just let me know.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Philip

  Hey Dan

  Hey man what product would suit me. ive read the flow it helped me with a few things with women on what to do and how to act around. i am quite a confident person i love being social and meeting new women however i struggle on things to say and when i first approach a women they look not interested and they look like they want the conversation to end so they some excuse lol, im quite young so im not looking to be tied down at the moment, so i was wondering what products would suit me in my dilemma

  Cheers

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Philip

    Good to hear of your progress so far.

    It sounds like you need more help with sparking attraction and maintaining confidence in yourself. I would recommend Dating Power and Mastery Methods and Mindsets for you.

    Dating Power will give you more techniques to use to attract women, get them interested and keep the interaction going. It will also teach you the different ways we escalate to kissing, sex or just a phone number.
    http://store.themodernman.com/dating_power.html

    Mastery Methods and Mindsets will put you in a better frame of mind when approaching. You will think, feel and behave more confidently, which will make women feel more attracted to you and make you feel better about yourself.
    http://store.themodernman.com/mastery_methods_and_mindsets.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• james

  Hey Dan, Im not sure which product would best suit me. Help! So heres my issue, i have no problem getting phone numbers from the top 5 girls at any bar or holding a conversation but it seems thats all I end up with (well kissing).Granted I’ve been in 2 long term relationships back to back so Im rusty as far as one nights stands and escalating (or texting in general not too good at it). Haven’t really been getting dates after the phone number either??

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey James

    Thanks for your question.

    It sounds like you are good at initial attraction, but lack the substance that women are really looking for. Either that, or your follow up with phone numbers is off.

    I would recommend that you watch Better Than a Bad Boy for substance http://store.themodernman.com/better_than_a_bad_boy.html and Dating Power http://store.themodernman.com/dating_power.html if you want to learn our simple methods for getting one night stands and for converting phone numbers into dates and relationships.

    Any other questions, just let me know.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Nicky

  I have to say the flow has been great for me and for once i found an approach that works and i don’t have to put on a act to do though its still slow progress till i get my confidence problems solved with mastery methods.

  I managed to score one girl partially albeit i come to conclusion is not Girlfriend material (I am just not that attracted to her as I originally thought i was and noticed that when much more attractive women started and since decided to set standards for what i would accept despite my inexperience and she doesn’t fit it) But i am happy escalated to number, date but it didn’t feel right to me to go further when I wasn’t feeling it. I still have problem flirting but i can do it some of the time once i gotten over the initial mind blocks and bad mindsets i keep forcing on to myself. I decided to pursue two girls the same age as my last interest but much more attractive roughly 6/7’s on my current opinion but i typically end up finding flaws that lower it after awhile usually cause i can’t help but look for them…. Its hard so far finding time to chat with them during hours even more so since we works somewhat different hours they afternoon till closing and me who finish a few hours earlier starting mornings but still some windows to interact if only i can get over everyone else eaves dropping the thought putting me off.

  So while saving up for rest i keep assuming and keep learning more on humor and punchlines while trying my best at flirting (Awkwardly with new woman) till saved up my doll. I keep trying to escalate and give off a sexual vibe with the bond look i tried the other day kind of came off weird so i try it again when i get the chance maybe i need to work on my facial expression in the mirror more.

  I think i will be getting pack 3 around the 1st week in August at my current pace. looking forward to it but i might pick up the three you suggested especially with girls i am interested only there till college starts in the fall and no telling when JC will sent me on something else after my mandatory placement finishes in mid july. Thanks for help so far!

  • The Modern Man

    Hey Nicky

    Great to hear of your progress.

    You seem to have the right mindset for success, in that you’re looking to improve, keeping track of your improvements and allowing yourself to feel good about it.

    My experience tells me that you will be posting up a pretty awesome success story in the coming year. Looking forward to reading it.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Paul

  Hi Dan,
  I read The Flow and it certainly opened my eyes to many things about women’s minds – sad to say for a guy in his mid-40s.
  Anyway, I think I have quite a lot going for me and I have many female friends and have no problem holding a conversation. However, I struggle badly in making women feel attracted to me, and although The Flow suggested some techniques, I’m not sure I have the personality to follow some of them through with conviction.
  Which of your other programs would you recommend to help me better make women attracted in me sexually ?

  Cheers

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Paul

    Thanks for your question.

    If you have a lot of female friends, but they aren’t feeling sexually attracted to you, then it will most-likely be due to you suppressing your masculinity around them (e.g. being neutral like a friend or, as it applies to some guys, being feminine around them to fit in).

    When I was coaching guys every weekend, about 30% of them suffered from that issue and needed to let their masculinity come to the surface more (i.e. masculine vibe, thinking, behavior, actions, etc). When they did that, women felt attracted and because of their existing ability to keep a conversation going, everything just went smoothly for them from then on.

    The programs that will definitely help you are Better Than a Bad Boy and Alpha Male Power. If you log into your account, you will be able to purchase them at 50% when you buy them together: https://store.themodernman.com/login.html

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jake

  Hi,

  I’ve been curious to know which product to use if you cannot approach girls during the day. It’s weird that I have attended several “bootcamps” and still cannot approach / game girls independently, but find myself able to while being out with friends etc. Any products to recommend?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jake

    Thanks for your message.

    The best programs for that issue are:

    – 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: http://store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html We explain what to say and do in 21 different environments that you can meet women (most of them are during the day), to ensure you get a phone number or kiss. If you go through the 30 Day Challenge that comes with 21 Ways, you will also make new friends along the way.

    – Alpha Male Power: http://store.themodernman.com/alpha_male_power.html I explain how to think, feel and take action like an alpha male with regards to approaching and picking up women. It includes my best ever technique for overcoming approach anxiety so you can approach at will.

    If you’re already an existing customer, make sure that you log in to your account to purchase so you can get the 50% discount when you purchase more than one product at once: https://store.themodernman.com/login.html

    Enjoy the programs and the great times ahead with women!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Paul

  Hi Dan, I am not normally one for “kiss and tell stories”, but I know that success stories are good for business, and I reckon I owe you one.
  I watched Better Than A Bad Boy only a couple of weeks ago. Then I met a girl through a friend (so, in fairness, it wasn’t a completely cold pick-up), nevertheless I brought her back to my place the same night and we had sex – which I had never done before with a girl I had met only a few hours earlier. Throughout the evening, I kept thinking “Stay confident, stay masculine, don’t get sucked into acting feminine”.

  Well, as can be seen from the result, it was obviously brilliant advise which continues to work perfectly, as we have been together three times since and are going away on a “dirty weekend” together tomorrow.

  It bothers me that I got suckered into the mind-set of suppressing my natural masculine traits that happens for so many guys these days. I can see now that is a problem for many anglo-saxon men, and women clearly don’t realise how much damage they have done to their own self-interests by giving out misleading signals over the past twenty or so years.
  Anyway, thanks for opening my eyes. I owe you big time.
  Paul

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Paul

    Mate, there’s nothing better for me than waking up to answer comments and reading something like this.

    I can’t tell you how thankful I am to you for being generous enough to come back and post up your success story. Thank you Paul. I am sure you will inspire 100s of other guys who read your comment to take action and get started with this.

    BTW: You had to keep reminding yourself to do the right thing. That is the 3rd stage of learning. With a bit of practice, you will get to the 4th stage and it will be natural and automatic for you.

    1. Unconscious incompetence: You don’t even know that you’re doing it wrong.
    2. Conscious incompetence: You know what you’re doing wrong.
    3. Conscious competence: You can do it correctly, but you have to think about it while doing it.
    4. Unconscious competence: You can do it correctly without thinking about it.

    Don’t worry if you slip up from time to time, or have to keep reminding yourself to do certain things at specific times. You are literally on the edge of getting to the 4th stage. Keep pushing forward and it will become natural and automatic for you.

    When you get to the 4th stage, your confidence, emotional masculinity and masculine presence gets stronger and stronger from then on.

    I am still reaching higher levels of confidence, emotional masculinity and masculine presence to this day. It keeps going and you become more and more powerful over time.

    Enjoy the great times ahead! It just gets better and better from there!

    Cheers
    Dan

• aggelos

  Hi Dan,I want to buy your product Get your ex back:the super system,however I don’t know if I can use my credit card because of the capital controls(I live in Greece)…Is there any problem?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Aggelos

    Thanks for your question.

    If you are unable to pay via credit card, we also offer two other payment options. Pay Pal allows you to pay directly from your bank account and you can also use internet banking to make a transfer.

    http://store.themodernman.com/payment.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Josh

  hey dan i’ve read the flow and i really liked the book ,however i don’t seem to be having much luck with women i am a very confident person i can approach any girl and talk to them however i struggle with things to say. since im 20 my main aim in this is to be able to sleep with multiple women, so my question is what product would be best suited for my aim.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Josh

    Thanks for your message.

    The ideal program for you would be The Ultimate Guide to Conversation: http://store.themodernman.com/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html

    If you want to sleep with lots of women, you might also want to try some of the ways to meet women and get laid: http://store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html Ben, Stu and I explain what we said and did in 21 different environments to get laid or get a girlfriend.

    If you log into your account, you will be able to get both of those programs for 50% off when you purchase them together: https://store.themodernman.com/login.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kyle

  I am very interested in buying your product, however, I’m not sure which one I should buy. I don’t have a problem walking up to girls and talking to them, it’s just that I never know what to say to them. I don’t know how to text them that well either, and I usually get the impression the things I talk about are boring. I would really like your opinion on what I should get.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kyle

    Thanks for your question.

    The best program to start with is The Flow because it includes examples of what to say to get women attracted and interested in talking to you, as well as how to keep the conversation going: http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html

    If you still need more help after that, the program for you would be The Ultimate Guide to Conversation: http://store.themodernman.com/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html

    I look forward to helping you achieve success with women soon!

    Cheers
    Dan

• peter

  hi dan

  my love for my wife is fading what should l do to bring my love for her back

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Peter

    Here are some useful articles for you:
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-keep-your-relationship-strong.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/masturbation-overload-are-modern-men-masturbating-too-much.html

    I hope that helps.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Andrei

  Hi Dan,

  I wanted to ask you if I can purchase your programme paying a monthly payment instead of a full one ?
  Do you also offer the 30 Day Money Back Guarantee ?

  Andrei

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Andrei

    Thanks for your question.

    Sorry mate, I only offer the full payment option at the moment.

    Yes, I do offer a money back guarantee.

    I look forward to helping you!

    Cheers
    Dan

• SIMON AUBREY

  His Dan I am 56 years of age,had one girlfriend never beenengaged and just a handful of one night stands.So yes I am starting at the bottom, it’s just I know you don’t know this but ido not have any exes lol cheers ? Simon aubrey ps Dan keep the good work going

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Simon

    Good to meet you.

    I’m just catching up on comments now and see that you’ve since started by getting The Flow.

    The Flow will definitely fill in a lot of the blanks that you’ve been missing all these years. Just start using the techniques and you will see that women start responding and reacting to you in a positive way.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Hank

  Hey Dan,
  I am a current student finishing high school, as a member of minority and immigrant to the country, I find a hard time to dating woman outside of my own ethnicity. I am able to attract women initially with my personality but unfortunately most end up not very well.my confidence for women is droping everytime i am meeting a new girl, however I am not giving up. after watching your videos on youtube, I understood the mistake I’ve been making, and I want to know more insights and communication technique that allow me build up the sexual tension with the girl I like you have always mentioned in the video. which book will be most helpful for my situation.
  sincerely Hank

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Hank

    Welcome to The Modern Man.

    The Flow is the book for you to read: http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html Women need you to remain confident as the interaction continues, rather than feeling like you are messing up and losing your opportunity with them. The Flow will teach you how to do that.

    Please note: All of my other products are video and audio.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Maxjaden

  Howdy, Dan! Can I ask ya something specific? Well, there’s this girl in my class at school and I think I’m fallin’ for her. I don’t want to, but It’s beyond me so I tought it’ll be better to make some kinda move rather than just sayin’ to myself that I ain’t good with women. Sooo… I’m the jerk in the class, the strange one. Giving nicknames to everyone to keep them at a distance, etc. I don’t know why, but that’s another thing. And I think nobody likes me there, cause I come up with some witty comment on everything they say. But her, I never wanted to insult her in anyway, yet she still behaves like I did. I listened to your advices and I think it worked to some degree, then I lost it. She is sitting on the other side of the room, she’s always walking home with someone, so… What should I do? Approach her? Try to walk with her after school? I watched a lot of your videos, but I just wanted to ask this in specific.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Maxjaden

    The programs for you are:
    http://store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html (Includes a section on how to pick up at university)
    http://store.themodernman.com/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html (Will teach you how to talk to women properly)

    About what you should do: Yes, walk with her after school or get any other interaction you can so you then have an opportunity to make her feel sexually attracted to you.

    Cheers
    Dan

    • Maxjaden

      Well, what if she has a boyfriend but he ain’t here? What if he is in another city? Is this some kind of a problem? Uh, I’m not sure if I want to be the jerk who is flirting with someone else’s girl but If I accept that I’ll be the jerk, is it a problem that she has a boyfriend?

    • Dan Bacon

      That’s a personal choice you need to make my friend.

      Here’s an article I’ve written about that kind of situation: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/i-like-this-girl-but-she-has-a-boyfriend.html

      Cheers
      Dan

• Fred

  I work with a girl which i dated for less then a few weeks. Then she became flakey out of nowhere and then told me she was no longer interested. I became needy which pushed her further away. Now im at a point to where i cant hardly interact with her because she has labled me as a weirdo or stalker. I sometimes get a chance to interact with her but not very often being that there are alot of other men at my job that she gives more attention too. as well as her getting her best friend hired which makes it harder for me to have a one on one conversations with her because she simply calls her over to block me from communicating with her. She blocked me on facebook too. To top it off i think shes back with her ex boyfriend as well. What program would you recommend for my situation?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Fred

    The program to get an ex back is Get Your Ex Back Super System: http://store.themodernman.com/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html

    However, in your case, the best program for you right now is Better Than a Bad Boy because you still get to see her at work: http://store.themodernman.com/better_than_a_bad_boy.html

    What you need to do is start making her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you based on the changes to your body language, behavior, tone of voice, attitude and conversation style. You will learn how to be that guy via Better Than a Bad Boy.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Steve

  Dan, Wanted to say thanks for what you do. I really wish I had found you a year ago but until time travel is possible I’ll just forge through. I’m also glad I’ve found you at this pint in your life where you seem to believe in life long relationships for some. My wife of 23 years had been acting weird and I could tell something was up. Se finally broke down and told me she’d been texting and seeing a guy… I’ve always been an Alpha type and always said if she ever cheated on me i’d throw her ass out so fast…

  Well I didn’t… she didn’t sleep with the guy (she swears and I believe her) but she says she has feelings for him. I acted tough at first, said if you want to stay you need to cut off all ties to him and work on us. She did and then I crumbled. I did the exact thing you talk about why women lose respect for you. I went into full “giant pussy mode”. I cried, begged, tried to hang on with both hands…the whole lot. Which, up until I found your programs and bought Modern Relationships and The Flow, was how I thought I’d fix us. I’ve searched my soul and the hard truth is I committed to this relationship 23 years ago and I love her more than the pain I feel over what she did. Which she swears this was not my fault but I can see now… it was. She needs a man and I am a man… around everyone but her. I’ve spent the last god know how many years devoting my entire life to her every want and need. Bad. I now that now from watching and reading your programs.
  My problem. I’m confident. I’ve always been a flirt and been able to talk to any woman but I’ve been with her so long and there’s now this terrible betrayal between us. I’ve changed my mode with her. No more bitching and crying. I’m confident,head up, walking tall, got my swagger (balls) back and I’m hoping she sees that.
  But she’s seen/heard all my lines, stories and bullshit for years… I need to be able to talk to her to get her thinking about me that way again but what do I do? It’s a lot different than talking up a new woman.

  You’re the guru buddy so I’m counting on you. What program do you suggest for me next.

  Best,
  Steve

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Steve

    Thanks for your question.

    Sorry for the delay in replying – I’m catching up on comments now.

    I see that you’ve already gone and purchased Better Than a Bad Boy and Get Your Ex Back Super System. That’s what I would have suggested for you.

    I recommend that you use the techniques from Better Than a Bad Boy to get the spark back, get her respect back and get your confidence back with her. The first 3 sections of Get Your Ex Back Super System will really help you understand where you’ve been going wrong with her and how to stop the break up from happening.

    You should also find these posts helpful:
    http://www.themodernman.com/relationship/my-wife-doesnt-love-me-anymore.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/what-do-happy-couples-do.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-keep-your-relationship-strong.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/what-gets-a-woman-in-the-mood.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-dominate-a-woman.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/relationship/how-to-stop-being-clingy.html

    I hope that helps! Let me know if you need anything else.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Karlo

  Hello Dan

  Can I use the flow to be more charismatic and have more friends and being extrovert even If I am shy and have low confidence ?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Karlo

    Yes, being charismatic isn’t about being an extrovert. Charisma happens when you let your real, unfiltered self come through when interacting with people.

    However, to be charismatic, you need to have the confidence to let your real, unfiltered personality come through. You will learn how to do that in The Flow.

    http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• David

  I just had an idea on your site you should have a test to take so a guy can gauge what product or products are best suited for him so he knows which product or products he needs

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey David

    Yes, I might try to create a quiz like that in future. For now, to help you find the right product for you, please answer the following questions (a test quiz if you will):

    1. What are the top 3 problems that you’re facing with women?
    2. What do you need help with the most?
    3. What do you want to achieve with women in the next 1-2 months?

    Cheers
    Dan

• Billy

  HeyDan,
  I have the flow but definitely need more help. It taught me so much what I should be doing but I have a hard time actually applying it. I have gotten much more confident in that although I get extremely nervous I will usually approach a hot girl and start an interaction. The problem I have is knowing what to say after the first initial interaction and also creating any attraction. I will usually just say some boring stuff and then ask for a number but I know I haven’t created the attraction and sure enough I usually get turned down and can’t even get a number. What do you suggest for program? I really only have enough money for one. Do you think one program could help me or do I need a couple?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Billy

    Good on you for approaching, despite the fact that your confidence isn’t perfect yet.

    The program for you is definitely The Ultimate Guide to Conversation: http://store.themodernman.com/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html You can purchase it for 50% off from within your customer account when purchasing another program. If you do that, you can get The Ultimate Guide to Conversation and Alpha Male Power (my second recommendation for you) at the same time, for the price of one.

    Log in here: https://store.themodernman.com/login.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Brad

  I am a visual learner and learn by watching videos and actual demonstrations of the techniques being taught. Which product most demonstrates real live examples (using video) of the FLOW techniques? Thanks!

  Brad

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Brad

    That would be Dating Power: http://store.themodernman.com/dating_power.html

    We don’t have secret, hidden recordings of pick ups. However, we do demonstrate some techniques on stage at the seminar.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Dave

  Hi Dan,
  I’m looking to purchase the ex back super system but the ‘store’ page won’t load on any of my devices. Is the system still available and is there any other way of gaining access?

  Cheers, Dave.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Dave

    Sorry for the inconvenience. The store server was down for approximately 24 hours due to maintenance and upgrades. It’s back online now: http://store.themodernman.com/

    Cheers
    Dan

• Chet

  Hi Dan.
  I have been dating a very lovely lady for just about 6 months now. We agreed to be in a committed relationship for the last 4 months. which over all I felt everything was going pretty well. One thing that she has told me she doesn’t like about me is I get jealous easily when she talks about her old relationships and when she hugs talks to other men now. Now she has just told me that she no longer wants to be in a committed relationship for 6 months and wants to start dating other men during these 6 months? Which broke my heart because I still am very in love with her and have no desire to date any other women.(during what I guess you would call a 6 month probation period) I am very confused and am hurting very much over this. I get the impression she is trying to be gentle as she can to completely dump me. I need your help on what I should do about how to handle this. Do you think Is she trying to break up with me? I don’t know where turn. Please let me know what I need to do.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Chet

    Yes, unfortunately that’s a break up. She’s just letting you down softly.

    The program for you is: http://store.themodernman.com/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html Follow those steps and you will get her back.

    Here are some free articles of mine that will also help you:
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/not-looking-for-anything-serious.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/can-you-convince-your-ex-to-give-you-another-chance.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Alan

  Hey Dan,

  I was involved with this girl on and off for the past three years but didn’t start seeing each other exclusively until the last year due to her having a boyfriend during the first two. We started seeing each other after a year of not talking and after 3 months she accepted a teaching job in another city. I took her for granted and now she won’t reply to any of my texts. Her last one she replied to was to tell me how busy and stressed she was the reason for not getting back to me. This girl used to text me back immediately so he not replying is not like her. I understand there is a high possibility of her letting me off easy with that excuse so that she doesn’t have to tell me what’s really going on. I was wondering if you have a product that would help me with trying to get a girl back who’s in another city. It’s not like I can just arrange a meet up with someone who lives 11 hours away. There’s a lot more to the story so I may just purchase a phone session with you to ensure I have the best plan possible to complete this mission.

  Thank you,

  Alan

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Alan

    Whatever approach you take, the only way to properly get her back is to meet up with her – whether she comes to see you, or you go to see her. I know that it’s not easy (at all) with an 11 hour travel time, but you can’t get her back by not being with her in person again at least one.

    If you follow the steps in my system http://store.themodernman.com/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html her guard will come down and she will become open to meeting up with you. You can then re-attract her and get the relationship back together, or at least hook up with her and begin taking things slow from there.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ken

  Hi Dan

  You have nearly got my purchasing the “Get your Ex Back” program. I like how you don’t have an American accent like some others I have seen in the internet.

  I have a serious situation in that I am not permitted to contact my ex. We have been together 12 years. Married 2 years. We had a big fight and she called the Police. So I am not allowed to make contact with her other than through a lawyer.

  I have sneakily texted her and I have done exactly what you have said not to do. So for the last 4 days I have shut down all communication with her and I see that she has changed her settings on FB so I can see her on there now. I may not legally be allowed to contact her for months.

  I know that I am in dire straights not being able to meet her as I have watched in some of your videos. Do you think that the Get your Ex Back program will still be helpful for me?

  I look forward to your reply.

  Regards

  Ken

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Ken

    I don’t know the full story of why she called the police on you, so I can’t give a yes or no answer.

    What I can tell you is that I’ve helped 100s of men to get a wife back, even when it seemed like a hopeless situation. Here are some posts that will help you:
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-to-get-your-wife-back-even-if-it-seems-hopeless.html
    http://www.themodernman.com/blog/my-ex-is-telling-everyone-that-im-crazy.html (if she is making up stories about you)

    My system will give you the best chance to get her back, so if you are prepared to do what it takes to fix your situation, then I highly recommend that you begin watching it now:
    http://store.themodernman.com/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Mawuli

  was interesting in the ex super system but most I could afford would be the Flow but thanks for the advice either way it still helped me at least know i can. Keep doing a great Job King Dan

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Mawuli

    Thanks mate – I’m glad The Flow helped you.

    There are many great times ahead for you with women! Enjoy!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Andy

  Dan, I purchased your get your ex back supersystem. My situation: 13 years of marriage, separated now filing for divorce shortly. Wife wants out, I don’t. We have one daughter so we have to see each other frequently. I applied your principles last night after three months of separation, we ended with very hug you mentioned in step five. As a matter of fact there were three long hugs. My question is, since we have to see each other frequently, do you have any advice for that kind of interaction?. For example: I gave her some papers to sign But I forgot to take them home with me, she informed me via text that I forgot the papers, and I answered with “I did it on purpose so I could give you another hug”, she replied with “you’re a ph”I did it on purpose so I could give you another hug”, she replied with “you’re a funny ” , I have the suspicion that my text was a mistake because I do not know how to reply to her reply. Thank you Dan, I look forward to schedule a private chat with you. Thank you.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Andy

    That text was fine if you are confident, masculine man. However, if she broke up with you as a result of you being needy or insecure, the text wouldn’t have been that good. It would have reminded her of your need for her.

    Another way of handling it would have been to just reply with “k” or “okay” and then, when you went to pick up the papers, you could have playfully accused her of getting you to forget to take the papers home.

    “I get it…you made me forget to take the papers home, so I had to come back here and we could then have another hug. I know you miss my hugs” and then laugh with her about that.

    Note: That would have been to say in person, not via text. I have to mention that because so many guys text what I recommend to say in person. It has less positive effects via text.

    Cheers
    Dan

• David

  Hey whats up Dan I’ve recently just started watching your videos on youtube like 2 weeks ago and i want to say thank you for those youtube videos you put out. okay im going to tell you my situation and reality, to be completely honest with you ive had girlfriends in the past but the relationships, in my opinion i feel like weren’t that serious. they were like middle school and high school relationships, and honestly the main reason why why ive gotten into most of those relationships are because of the girls, they are the ones who approached me.

  there the ones who toke initiative to make things happen. but man i know its more than just physical looks.. i say this because i be seeing females checking me out out at the clubs when i go out with friends, at school, at the gym and in places in general, but i dont know man i just be hesistant to take action. i seriously have to work on myself and my game. the last time i was in a relationship was in high school, but it wasnt nothing serious. That was 4 years ago.

  Right now in this stage of my life i am 22 years old, going to a community college. but man, i tell you i really want to get this part of my life fixed ASAP. to be honest I’ve been looking online at other dating coaches and PUA’s but its like there is so much different information from different dating coaches and PUA’s it confuses me sometimes. when i came across your videos on youtube i feel like your videos are authentic and honest.okay, so basically now that im aware of what are my problems, when it comes to women, i just wanted to let you know i feel like you can really help me.

  Alright so first is confidence and approaching anxiety. 2nd is what to say and holding a conversation and building sexual tension, because honestly most of the time when i talk to women its just small talk, you know just regular talk. 3rd i feel like im on that beta male mind set, you know i be hesistant, im not really sure of myself,etc. i really want to have that alpha mind set you know. i know i have to really work on myself. My goal right now is to just get laid with alot of girls, and if it happens that maybe sometime in the future i get into a relationship with a girl then it happens, but right now what i honestly want is to have sex with alot of women, ill probably think about marriage around my early 30’s you know. all jokes aside i really want to get this problem solved, i just feel like something is missing, i dont want to be thinking to myself when im 80 years old, (damn you never made anything happen with these women)Lol.

  By the way i consider myself a beginner. okay so my question is since im in the begginer level would you recommend buying the product, The flow, for me to start out with? then go on from their with other products after finishing the flow and applying it. Honestly im on a budget right now so i want to make sure i get the right products for myself. But yea man im serious about this im very willing to put in the work to make these things happen for me.

  But yea like how i said my question is do you think me starting as a beginner i should purchase the flow first? then you know later on see what products i can buy and use to help me up my game. sorry for this long ass email , i just thought i had to tell you my reality what im going through right now. Again, thank you for your youtube videos, they are very helpful.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi David

    Great to meet you.

    Don’t worry – your life is about to change for the better. You will laugh at how easy it really is to get girls.

    Yes, the product I recommend for you to start with is The Flow: http://store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html

    You will definitely get laid by using The Flow, but if you still need help, the additional programs that are designed for you are:

    1. The Ultimate Guide to Conversation: http://store.themodernman.com/the_ultimate_guide_to_conversation.html
    2. Alpha Male Power: http://store.themodernman.com/alpha_male_power.html

    Once you become a customer, you will be able to purchase those additional programs at a 50% discount (the discount is available when you purchase two or more products at the same time) from within your customer account.

    Okay, enjoy The Flow and the great times ahead for you!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Majid

  Hello Dan

  These products look great. How different are your techniques in comparison to [Edited out names of other companies] ?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Majid

    What we teach has always been and still is about being natural and real. It’s the easy, non-threatening way to naturally attract and pick up women for sex and relationships. We teach how to be naturally confident now and for the rest of your life, rather than covering up insecurities with band-aid solutions that don’t last.

    Have a listen to this clip where Ben, Stu and I explain how we developed our techniques for success with women: http://www.themodernman.com/the_truth_about_dating_power.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kenneth

  Hey Dan,

  I dated a single mother for 4 months, we started dating after I asked her out after one month of talking, everything was good, we always hung out everyweekend, her son and I had a great relationship, I was always at her place, It wasn’t until the last couple of weeks before our break up,she said the she does not need to be around me all the time and she is not clingy, she started to not call me on the regular bases and stopped texting me, I asked her what was going on and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I asked her what was going on because I realize that she was being distant, she said that she was starting to think that we rushed into the relationship, I told her that I loved her and asked if she would give it a chance, she first agreed and said that we should take it slow, then I told her that I agreed and said that she will be my last, then she said that we should just be friends and said that we should work from there, then I apologized and begged and said that she should give us a chance, she then said she has heard me, I then texted her 2 weeks later because I found myself trying to get us to talk instead of the relationship being a give-and-take system, meaning I have to always text and call in order for her to talk to me, she did text me the next day after the break up to see how I was doing, I honestly believe I messed up when I use to ask her if she really loved me and she told me through the text, because I use to tell her that she is too good to be true and I am really appreciative of our relationship, she told me before that I lacked confidence but that was not the case, I was just trying to show her major appreciation, now she told me that she needed to work on her self and focus on her family and work and etc, she said she is not ready for a relationship and she said that I should not change anything about myself when

• Kenneth

  when I asked her about what I did wrong, She is now saying that she needs to work on herself, I recently bought your flow ebook and get your ex back system, already I called her and apologized to her for being not emotionally stromg for her and being weak and immature, she then told me that it wasn’t all my fault, we just needed to go slow, because she wanted to take things slow before getting into relationship, she said the we live and we learn and she said that it is part of the learning process and I change for her or someone elese it will be good, I then mistakenly asked if this means we take another go and she said no because she needs to work on herself, she has now stopped responding to my texts, I think I also messed up when I use to ask her when I can touch her and kiss her lol, I really messed up dan, I have learned your flow system and midway through your get you ex back system and I must say, most of this stuff I can do easily, especially the dos and dont’s, it has given me a huge confidence boost, I am ready to call her for a meet up, but the problem is, her birthday is 2 weeks away, what do I do?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kenneth

    Wow, you certainly did make so many of the classic mistakes (e.g. asking if she really loved you, asking if it was okay to touch her or kiss her, chasing her, complaining that you have to text to get her to call, etc).

    What you need to do from here:

    1. Stop talking about the relationship with her.
    2. Stop talking about your mistakes (you’ve already apologized to her).
    3. Start being the kind of man she really wants (i.e. Confident in your attractiveness to her. Focussed on your big goals, dreams and ambitions in life and then you give her some of your time, rather than being so focussed on her. Let her feel lucky to have you, rather than the other way around. Make her feel loved and appreciated, but make her feel lucky to have you. Don’t tell her that she is lucky to have you – just make her realize that by being a confident, purpose driven man).
    4. Make sure you do Step 3 of the system. Very important!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Paul

  Hi
  Where do i go from here.My wife of 34yrs has already moved out and she left on a not too bad relationship were we wanted to work on the marriage,but threw my own stupidity and feeling totally out of control i harased her with stupid messages and tried to guilt her to come back.things have gone downhill from there but we still talk to each other about a business she’s buying which we bonded our house together on,she is paying for all of that but still involves me and my son (21 yrs) old who is staying with me in the house with some of the paperwork etc .We lost our eldest son 10 yrs ago and this was the beginning of the breakdown as she withdrew somewhat from the marriage and i no now what she is saying is that i was there but not there and we lost that connection between us,it pretty much became a marriage of convineance and she fell out of love with me,both intemittely and physically.I made matters so much worse with the messages i sent begging her to come back and sending flowres etc.i wish i knew what to do then.We still text each other every day but its just a good nite and good morning.She has a friend that is single and i know she is feeding her a lot of bull and convincing her that the single life is much better,i cant in any way break up that friendship.i have a suspicion that she might have a thing for a younger guy that has been talking to her and winning over her affection as i think she feels so pissed of with me that there could be something there with him.she is deffinatelly meeting new friends already.i am still very much in love with her and would take her back today ifi could.do you have any suggestions or am i fooling myself into thinking i can get her bak.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Paul

    Sorry to hear about your situation.

    Yes, you can get her back, but not with the approach you’ve been using (i.e. sending her good morning and good night texts). That doesn’t work.

    Watch this video to understand what you need to do to get her back:
    https://www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Dan Bacon

  Hey – it’s Dan here.

  I’m closing the comments section on this page because it’s now starting to be used as an advice section! 🙂

  Please note: Due to the rapidly increasing popularity of The Modern Man, I literally get 100s of requests for free advice per day via email, social media and in comments across this site, so it’s physically impossible to personally reply now. I made this video to explain: http://www.themodernman.com/my-personal-reply-to-you.html

  If you have a question about which product would be best for you, please use the contact us form and me or one of my assistants will get back to you ASAP: https://store.themodernman.com/contact_us.html

  Thanks for your understanding. I look forward to helping you to get the results you want with women!

  Cheers
  Dan

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