Alpha Male Power

• Tyrone

  Hi there,

  I wanted to say thank you for producing this program. It sounds like it’s exactly what I need. I’ve had a failed engagement & a failed long term relationship which ended in her cheating/leaving to be with someone else. I’ve loads of female friends and don’t find it difficult to talk to women, but I have difficulty turning this from friendly conversation to something romantic.

  Would Alpha Male Power help me to change my approach or whatever it is that I’m exuding that makes women prefer to end up friends rather than looking at me in a romantic way? Maybe I’m just going about it all the wrong way? I realize it’s all up to the individual, but after watching this vid, I’m almost positive this program could be what I’m looking for.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Tyrone

    Thanks for your question.

    Actually, if that is your problem, then Better Than a Bad Boy would be more suited to you. It is about being the type of man that no woman will ever want to leave. Whereas Alpha Male Power is more about your power and confidence as a man.

    Here is a list of all of our programs and their descriptions: Which Modern Man Product is For You?

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kev (London)

  Hi Mate, I don’t want to pick up loads of ladies–there is just one girl that I fancy but I have probably made too many epic mistakes around her to salvage the chance. My query is — if a girl already sees you as a “nice” bloke, is there a way to become her alpha male? Is your program really about helping men meet new ladies or is there really a way to change this girl’s perception? Cheers, Kev

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kev

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, first impressions do last. However, you can change a woman’s initial impression on you. Think about this: Have you ever known someone who was previously shy or nervous, but suddenly changed and become a confident person? From then on, you would have noticed that people respected that person more and accepted that he/she was confident. Same applies to the impression you make on women. If, from now on, she sees that you are a true alpha male, she will accept that and her feelings will naturally change.

    This program is for guys who want to meet new women, attract women they already know or for those who just want to become a true alpha male to help with their career, friendships and family relationships.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Phil

  Dan, this video has hit the nail on the proverbial head — my dad was NOT an alpha male so of course I had NO role model to show me how to be an alpha male. My dad is great but my mom runs the show. Both my dad and I like to be nice and keep everybody happy (and if we get to drink a few beers in the process, then we’re happy too). But I don’t want my dad’s life and I do want to become a stronger man. Is there hope for a second-generation non-alpha-male like me? I am currently single and find the bar scene difficult. Thanks, Phil

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Phil

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, alpha males aren’t born alpha – they become alpha. Each man has it within him, yet out of fear, ineffective role models or simply not knowing any better – he lives the life of a lower ranking male. When you watch the Alpha Male Power program, you will be guided through a “mental process of transformation” that will unleash the inner alpha male within you. From there, your life will never be the same again.

    Enjoy the great times ahead with women! Please come back and post up a success story when you have one.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Marcus

  Hi Dan, I’m going to buy this product when I’m finished with school and have some money! There’s only 2 weeks left in school now then I’m free! I promise you, my Mentor, that I will go out to meet loads of women and practice everything. I will rewatch Dating Power, and buy this one.
  Btw, even though I have focused on school and not Modern Man, I have uncounsciously improved a lot. . . I almost never doubt myself around women anymore. I have had loads of practice talking to women, and connecting to women (since my best, best friend is a girl, and my class consist almost entirely of girls.) But your stuff is so great and powerful that I just want to dive into this stuff all again and learning and practicing everything you teach! I feel so motivated! 😀
  This summer is going to be the best one in my life. . . .

  Btw Dan if you don’t afford to pay for everything at once, is there a way to pay for it month by month, a little sum at a time? I remember I did that with Dating Power. . .

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Marcus

    Thanks for your sharing your success story so far.

    This summer will be amazing for you mate. Apply the techniques and enjoy the great times that come with it. I want to see some BIG success stories being posted up by you now that you have more time to get out there and meet women.

    About part payments for the program: Yes, each will have a part payment option. Payment options listed on this page (above).

    Cheers
    Dan

  • Vandross

    Greetings Dan
    I have been interested in how to be an Alpha male since I was 15 I am 17 know and almost ready to reach the alpha male world, the adult world. enough is enough I don’t want to be a loser with women still at the age of 20 know what I mean ! You’ve gone through these times as a teenager I presume? for some unusual reasons when I lay my eyes on an attractive women I’m not me anymore my heart pounds and I start feeling afraid , confused and lost for words is a strange force but I just want It all to change especially that this is my last year in high school and i’m nearly a man..I understand what to do but I’m not a doer ..I’m tired of watching videos upon videos from other sites just to come out of it still lost with word …Can you help Dan make this natural to me before I’m 20 or even 18 years old for college can you ? :/ ….But for now I need to focus on my studies for school and the bible. This is my new year resolution I need to make a change in my Life.
    Cheers and God bless
    vandross

    • Dan Bacon

      Hi Vandross

      Thanks for your question.

      Yes, I can and will help you.

      To fix the fear, nervousness and anxiety that you experience when you want to talk to women, you need to change your thinking from that of an omega (or beta male) to an alpha male. When you think like an alpha male, you will naturally behave, act and feel like an alpha male. However, when you think like a lower ranking male (e.g. omega male), you will naturally experience the fear, nervousness and anxiety that you have been experiencing.

      My advice fixes most of your problems relating to approaching and interacting with women BEFORE you even go and talk to them. So, you will experience a tremendous amount of improvement simply by watching Alpha Male Power and being enlightened to a new and powerful way of thinking and being. It will give you the courage and confidence to approach and talk to women and you will know how to NOT fall into the trap of thinking like an omega male and thus, experiencing fear, nervousness and anxiety.

      If you follow my advice and use it in your every day life, you will find that things naturally change. Women will immediately begin to show you interest, feel attraction for you and want to be around you. Men will respect you more, want to be your friend, listen to you when you speak, etc. Things will change naturally, without you having to use any fancy tricks.

      Cheers
      Dan

• Luther

  When I feel anxious, I stammer, particularly around women I find attractive. Think Hugh Grant, but not as good looking or famous. I could really do with that anxiety cure you mention. Do you think it would help with my stammer so I’m able to communicate with ease without sounding like a bumbling fool?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Luther

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, anxiety and nervousness are caused by ineffective mindsets (thinking, perceptions, beliefs). If you perceive women as being intimidating, difficult, out of your reach, hard to impress, bitchy, cold, etc – you will LOOK for ANY signs of that when interacting with a woman. Even when a woman is just being NORMAL, you will often misinterpret things she says or does as meaning that is isn’t interested in talking to you. Then, your mindsets set in even deeper that women are out of your reach, bitchy, cold, etc. It’s a negative cycle and the only way out of it is to go through a positive cycle. You need to go through a mental transformation about women and your value to them.

    Alpha male thinking changes everything. As you watch the Alpha Male Power program, you will feel yourself going through powerful, mental transformations that will empower you from deep within. You will tap into a source of confidence and power that you never knew existed. You have to experience it to understand it. After the transformation, you will begin having positive experiences with women and you will become more and more confident and powerful with each experience. It’s a positive cycle that continues.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Luther

  Does an alpha male feel absolutely NO fear at all? I want to be less fearful than I usually am because I feel it holds me back sometimes. However, I don’t want to feel absolutely none at all. I think fear can be useful in some instances, no?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Luther

    Thanks for your question.

    I meant that an alpha male doesn’t feel any fear in relation to women. Without any fear of anything, you’d jump off a building without a care in the world. Obviously that isn’t what alpha males do…

    Cheers
    Dan

• Marcus

  Thanks Dan. I need this stuff. I’m calculating how much this will cost right now Dan. . . 127 AUD is roughly 900 SEK. . . Hmm, yeah, if I’ll get this job I’m very likely to get, I wil definitely afford it.

• Jason

  I bought The FLOW because I “got lucky” with a super hot chick and managed to fumble into a miserable 18 months in HELL relationship with her and proceeded to “stuff it up” as you say pretty much from the start.

  See, I’ve always been naturally a funny guy, and used humor and flirted well; but from there I was comletely lost. I had no idea what to say or do to get to kissing and sex. My experiences with women amounted to “getting lucky” with average looking girls or girls i wasnt really attracted to. Super hot girls always made me too nervous to be successful. I never had lasting real relationships with women.
  I just KNEW I had messed up a good thing with this super hot ex of mine, and googled around trying to find the information online and found your site. I tried the techniques I found in the FLOW and just had my mind BLOWN.

  After my super hot ex left town for 8 months and returned, within a week I escalated to kissing and sex after spending most of our previous relationship as her personal doormat and just waiting for the scraps of her affection AND THAT WAS JUST AN EXPERIMENT.

  Also, now,I’m dating another super hot chick that I intended only to go through the first three steps of the flow with as practice and at every turn from hugs to kisses to sex it seemed STUPID not to go to the final level.

  Another experiment I set up for my self (an is still a work in progress) was to try the Flow on the hottest girl at work who never gave me the time of day. This woman seemed like she’d rather blow her brains out than hold a conversation with me. Now, after using the FLow on her we work out together at a local gym 6 days a week and though we havent proceeded to sex it seems like only a matter of time.

  I just want to say you guys ROCK! Your info WORKS. I cant wait to get and try ALL your other products! (Im too busy DATING and KISSING and HAVING SEX and reading and rereading the flow to get the other stuff NOW but im gonna!)

  At this time a supervisor told me dude we might have to fire you because you’re trying to sleep with half the staff! SO , I ‘d say you guys were right I shouldnt be trying the flow at work.

  Just cant say enough good things about The Modern man! Thanks Dan!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Jason

    What a success story – thanks for sharing!

    Yes, we never recommend practicing our techniques in the work environment for two main reasons:

    1. Male co-workers/colleagues get jealous.
    They complain to supervisors/managers…and if the supervisors aren’t getting laid in their personal life, they will often be envious of you also. There’s nothing wrong with getting the women attracted, but just take it easy with escalating. Personally, I avoided escalating in the work environment when I discovered The Flow techniques because I got promoted into a management position around the same time. (That’s one of the other benefits of learning our techniques – you become a confident, respect alpha male and naturally, you then get promoted or given more responsibility in your job).

    2. If/when you break up, things can turn ugly/the woman can cause problems for you.
    If your job is important to you, don’t risk it over a girl at work. Simply use the Flow techniques (like you have been Jason) on girls you meet outside of work and it will work. It’s EASY to get girls when you use our techniques. ONLY the guys who use our techniques (like you Jason) know that. Guys on the outside can’t see how it would work for them…it’s like trying to work out if you can drive a car before you actually get in and drive it. Just start – give it a go!

    BTW Jason: You just wait until you try the techniques from our more advanced programs. Most guys will never, ever come close to experiencing the type of success with women that you will when you use the techniques from programs like Alpha Male Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and Dating Power. I’ve been living at the mastery level of success with women for the last 7 years! Lol…it’s a great life. Always an abundance of women, always have choice, always feel confident, always having a good time with women.

    I hope to hear about more of your success Jason. It sounds like you are quite good at putting the advice into action. Thanks again for sharing your success. I really appreciate it.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Andreas

  Just a note to say that the Alpha Male Power product is fantastic. Since watching, I have had a profound effect on a woman’s level of sexual attraction towards me.
  Just last week I had a 2-3hour conversation with a woman at a bar and she was dancing all over me showing me all the signs of interest moving closer, squaring up and eagerly continuing the conversation. In the same week I spoke to the female DJ at my gym for 15mins and set up a date. This stuff is the real deal.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Andreas

    Thanks for sharing your success mate! Much appreciated.

    I really like this success story because what you’ve been experiencing is EXACTLY what I was intending when I made the program. As you now know, it’s no longer about trying to get girls to “like you”…they feel something on a deep level and are hooked immediately. From here, just keep practicing what you’ve been doing and it will become completely automatic for you. Then, you’ve got it for life.

    Thanks again for sharing this! Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Richie

  Thank you so much Dan!!! Today i decided to go out, and use what was talked about in Alpha Male Power. And when i did, I got to talk to 3 very beautiful women, that i personally consider very attractive, 8/10 in my book. Also one of them was considered THE very hottest girl in my high school a couple years back, and i got her number, i got to hold her, all in the store she was working at!!! Infront of her manager!! I can’t believe the amount of power that comes from just following your steps, and “flipping the switch on” for it. The other two women i was able to have really enjoyable conversations with them, and able to actually learn quite a bit about them, i may not have got their numbers’ (because they had boyfriends or was seeing someone, and i dont cut other guys grass.) but i could tell they were at the very least enjoying talking to me. I couldn’t be more happy right now and its thanks to you, and The Modern Man. I want to sincerely thank you for everything, and helping me get over my 20 year rut of not thinking i could talk to, let alone get the number of girls i thought would never give me a second look.

  Thank You Guys at The Modern Man so much!!
  Sincerely Richie.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Richie

    You are the man! Love your success story mate.

    One of the best things about your success story for me is that you said, “I decided to go out and use what was talked about in Alpha Male Power” because as we always say at The Modern Man, “When you use our techniques, you WILL get results. Not if, not maybe, you WILL.” Good on you for learning and then DOING. Knowledge is only power when USED.

    Richie – from now on, you will have that power over women. Get used to using it and let it become automatic for you and will soon see that pretty much every girl wants to be with you. You’ll see the looks they give, you’ll notice the changes in their body language and how they show you interest. From now on, you will have your pick.

    Enjoy the great times ahead! I hope to hear about more of your success one day.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Charlie

  Oh my god its impossible to approach women! I walk around the mall for hours on end trying to do it day after day but never doing it. I know everything about attracting women and what to say and do but I still can’t do it. I’m so f**king sick of this I’m a great looking guy better looking than 99% of dudes I see, I have a great lifestyle, I’m a fantastic friend and I have good intentions, anybody would be lucky to date me. No matter how pissed off I get with my situations its never enough to motivate to take the plunge and just say something. It depresses the hell out of me sitting in night after night thinking ‘ok tomorrow I’ll do it’ I’ve come to realisation now I’m just kidding myself I’m never going to do it. I hate seeing an attractive women with some dweeby boyfriend holding hands its like jesus christ man just do it.

  Charlie

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Charlie

    Lol…you say you know everything about attracting women, but I don’t see any record of you learning from us. Don’t assume you know what you’re talking about if you’ve been learning from random sites online. Most of them are run by amateurs who haven’t tested their advice, by people who SAY they are good with women, but are not or by salespeople who are just trying to make money. This is what we went through to release just ONE of our products: http://www.themodernman.com/the_truth_about_dating_power.html Our advice is tested for YEARS before it is released. We coached guys in bars, clubs and shopping malls for YEARS to see that we could fix every type of guy, before we even considered releasing our information. Our advice works first time, every time, which is why you see so many success stories posted up all over this site.

    BTW: You need to watch this: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/coaching-call-breakthroughs.html The first guy I coach is very similar to you. He knows what to do, but has been able to do it. I explain how to breakthrough – there is a step-by-step process you need to go through to get yourself out of the nervous, fearful world you are living in. You won’t break out of it by saying, “Okay, tomorrow I’ll do it.”

    Also: If you do decide to learn from us, promise me one thing: You will follow the advice. Don’t try to work this stuff out of your own. It took us years and 1,000s of approaches before we “cracked the code” – you don’t have to go through all that. Just learn from us, follow the advice and you’ll soon be leaving a success story on this page like other guys have been doing. Most guys get results on their first approach WHEN they use our advice. If they don’t use it properly, they focus and do it properly on the next approach – then they get results.

    Do it properly and you will succeed.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Charlie

  Dan,

  Are you talking about positive thinking? Like Im a good guy, I can do this, I’m confident etc I do use that type of thinking from time to time but honestly I know I can’t do it and that I’m not confident it doesn’t hold any water lol I know its untrue. If you’re not talking about positive thinking then can you give me an example of what is going to get me to take a step.

  Its different feeling confident in the comfort of your own home, or when driving around in your car, or just walking around the mall but when it comes to that crunch time of seeing a women and seeing an opportunity that confidence goes so quickly.

  Charlie

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Charlie

    Thanks for your question.

    It’s definitely not just “positive thinking”…if that worked, no guy would have confidence issues. Positive thinking is the first obvious answer people come up with for this problem. The solution we provide (explained in Dating Power and Coaching Call Breakthroughs) does involve positive thinking, but there is a 3 STEP PROCESS that also has to go with it. Just positive thinking on its own will NEVER work. You have to go through a specific process to break away from the type of thinking that is causing your nervousness, anxiety and fear. If you don’t properly get over that type of thinking and leave it behind, you’ll be going around in circles for life; you’ll be able to feel confident in some situations (e.g. work, with friends, etc), but not in all situations and you’ll never be able to work out why.

    “Its different feeling confident in the comfort of your own home, or when driving around in your car, or just walking around the mall but when it comes to that crunch time of seeing a women and seeing an opportunity that confidence goes so quickly.” Yes, that is why you need to use STEP 2 of our Confidence Building System. Without it, no amount of positive thinking will ever work.

    Cheers
    Dan

    • Charlie

      Hey Dan,

      I’m tempted to read your book but even if it is packed with the best advice in the universe I still won’t be able to approach women. I’m one of those people who reads and reads but never does anything. I know its going to be a long drawn out painful process improving my confidence I’m so far away. Most guys who can read a book and then act on it are the guys who have already got most of their shit together and are just looking for a leg up. I’m someone who doesn’t even like using a telephone, asking for directions, or making eye contact with strangers I spend most of time alone in doors its the only place I feel comfortable and I don’t have any friends. I’m starting from scratch with everything in my life its such a mountain to climb! I so badly want a change but theres so much fear.

      Charlie

    • Dan Bacon

      Hi Charlie

      Thanks for your comment.

      If that’s the case, you need to listen to Coaching Call Breakthroughs. The first guy I coach is exactly like you and I provide the step by step solution to overcome this debilitating problem. Also, you mention the following about yourself, “I’m one of those people who reads and reads but never does anything” …but, let me tell you – if you haven’t learnt from us, you haven’t learnt at all. Our advice comes from YEARS of coaching guys like you to success. It’s not just a bunch of “cool ideas” we’ve had about women. Our advice is ALWAYS tested for YEARS before being released in a product.

      Cheers
      Dan

• Roger D’Franko

  Mr. Bacon,

  You responded to me on twitter and askied me to post here. I see many people asking you questions using Australian terminologies. I was wondering if woman respond to Alpha male tactics universally (as in Canada, where we love bacon :)? The reason I ask is because I just got out of a long relationship where my soul was drained from this bitch. She managed to turn me into an Omega. I think I am a Beta now, but how to I get back to Alpha? Do I just wing it? Exercise? Go to a Shrink? Where the f**k do I start?

  Thanks,
  Roger

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Roger

    Thanks for your question.

    Actually, the majority of visitors here are from the USA, Canada, UK and Europe. Only about 5% of visitors come from Australia. Why on Earth wouldn’t this stuff work in Canada? Lol. The thing is Roger – attraction is attraction, confidence is confidence, alpha is alpha. Doesn’t matter where you are. Likewise, it’s got nothing to do with race either. Humans are humans, no matter where they are born on the planet. You need to stop thinking that there is a difference between humans because we live in different countries. We all come from the same human family. Culture is only superficial and always passes with time (e.g. the gentleman of the 1920s, Japanese samurais, vikings, etc) – it is not the foundation upon which attraction occurs, so don’t base your understanding of attraction/women/dating on the superficial culture. Fundamental breeding mechanisms are controlled by instinct and women are instinctively attracted to alpha males, no matter where on the planet they are. Alpha males from other countries go to Canada every day and have sex with Canadian women, just like Canadian alphas go to other countries and attract the women there.

    About your ex-girlfriend: If she turned you into an effeminate man, then you definitely set the roles of the relationship incorrectly. When you set a relationship correctly, your woman makes you feel like even more of a man and you make her feel like more of a girly girl. She chases you for sex, orgasms 10x easier, loves you deeper and feels a deeper attraction and respect for you. If she’s “the man” then it is difficult for her to “open up” (mentally and emotionally) and allow herself to be penetrated (body and mind) by a man that has the mental masculinity of a boy.

    You need to watch Better Than a Bad Boy. You will have never learnt anything quite like it. You will finally understand where you went wrong with your ex (and you’ll never do it again) and from now on, women will be instantly attracted to you when you meet them…and more importantly – they will REMAIN attracted.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jared

  Hi Dan,

  I’m looking into both your “Better Than Bad Boy” and “Alpha Male Power” products. Though I’m pretty sure Alpha Power is what I’m looking for more than the other, I’d appreciate some clarification as to if I’m correct in my suggestion.

  I’m looking to convert myself from a beta to alpha male. I haven’t much problem socially but know how unconfident I feel when I want to get out of my comfort zone and approach plus say the right things. I have had very rare but good experiences of feeling so confident that people could sense it. It’s been such a long time since I’ve been that way and want to regain it and permanently. Do you reckon Alpha Male Power is the better option over Bad Boy?

  Cheers,

  Jared.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jared

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, Alpha Male Power is designed for guys in your situation because I give specific instructions and mindsets to transform from a lower ranking male into an alpha male. However, I must point out that “being alpha” is fundamental to what we teach and specific advice is included in all of our programs, just as there is always advice about conversation, body language, being confident, being socially “cool”, being a good friend/a good person, being attractive to women, etc. It’s just that Alpha Male Power is completely focussed on the topic of transforming into and being an alpha.

    Better Than a Bad Boy is more about being the type of man that women desperately want when you first talk to them, when on dates and most importantly – in relationships. I spend a lot of time talking about relationship dynamics in Better Than a Bad Boy, whereas with Alpha Male Power I focus on getting you to connect with your true, natural power as an alpha male and use that as an unstoppable source of confidence, drive and determination to do/get/achieve anything you want. Of course, the program (like all of our programs) is also heavily focussed on approaching, interacting with and attracting women. The Modern Man is about being the type of man that attracts women naturally and easily, as well as succeeds in all areas of life. We always get success stories from guys telling us that they not only got a girlfriend within a couple of weeks of using our advice, but a few months later they got promoted at work, etc.

    I’d recommend you start with Alpha Male Power, but if you have the budget, I’ve just created this special discount link that includes Alpha Male Power and Better Than a Bad Boy for a special price. Note: This offer is available to everyone else reading this too.

    Any other questions, just hit reply.

    Cheers
    Dan

• R

  Dan, you were telling the story about the time you hit on the receptionist at the hotel you were staying at and said that you ignored her the second time around to make her more curious about you. Can you help explain how to know when to give her attention vs. not giving it?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi R

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, I see that you now own Dating Power also, so watch the part where Ben explains presence and varying how much attention you give to a woman.

    Cheers
    Dan

• ramon

  Dan, the problem I have is that whenever I approach or talk to women i know, and when I make eye contact, I freeze. My whole body starts quivering as if I am having a seizure. My neck starts shivering. If i am holding something in my hand, for example a cup of coffee, that starts shivering as well. I become short of breath, as if I am having a heart attack. It is hugely embarrassing for me, as well as awkward for the girl. Also,I can never maintain eye contact. I always pull away and show nervousness and “gulp.” I just want to tear away from the situation and run away.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Ramon

    Wow, it sounds like you have a serious case of social anxiety, especially when it comes to women.

    Here’s the thing…

    Your anxiety is created by your thinking (otherwise known as “mindsets”). It’s not something that has to exist – it only exists if you make it happen. When you think like an omega male (low ranking male), you will experience fear, nervousness and anxiety around women. When you think like an alpha male, anxiety, nervousness and fear simply doesn’t come up/exist…it becomes irrelevant and unnecessary. The short answer is that you need to change your thinking, because it’s killing you! The long answer (along with specific instructions) is explained in the program.

    I know how it feels to experience what you’ve been experiencing, because I used to be just like that. I’m still in the same body, but my thinking has changed and now I live in a world of confidence and power. Here’s the link to Alpha Male Power.

    I look forward to hearing your success story.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Anon

  Hi Dan.

  Usually when I’m in a social group, be it friends or whatever, I always seem to be and feel ‘bottom of the pack’ as in seem to be the main receiver of jokes and banter and just don’t seem to get as much respect as everyone else and find it harder to interact with more popular people. Would this product help me with that?

  Secondly, I’m starting University/College in September and something holding me back a bit is that It’s in a small city where you see a lot of familiar faces and get to know a lot of people so I’m a bit anxious about approaching there in case it doesn’t go well and end up bumping into the girl(s) again lol. Also in my country it’s unusual for a girl to be interested in a first year student (stupid I know) as they are looked down on being young and annoying etc what’s your view on that?

  Cheers.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Anon

    Man, I couldn’t pick a more exact match of a person for this program. Alpha Male Power was literally designed for guys like you. About your questions:

    1. Yes, it will show you how to stop that bad treatment completely. Follow the advice and people will respect you and look up you instead.
    2. Again – man, I couldn’t pick a more exact match of a guy to watch this program. You’ll soon be laughing at yourself for asking me questions 2 & 3…

    Enjoy the great times ahead! I hope to hear a success story from you soon.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Anon

  Thanks Dan for reply! I’ll be sure to purchase once I have some money hopefully soon!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Anon

    You’re welcome.

    All the best in the meantime.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Joe

  Hi Dan,

  I’ve been in a huge dilemma in my life for as long as I can remember and could do with your advice towards how Alpha Male Power could help out.

  I am at the least an omega male. When I’m trying to socialise with my group of mates, I sometimes either get my comments ignored for a more socially respected member or get them ridiculed and sometimes laughed at. It is irritating at the fact that I hardly say anything worth joking for and I start to see that I’m not an important member in the group who’d be missed or even noticed if I was gone. Walking alone with any of the members usually turns awkwardly silent and I know it’s because, from experience and mindset, I don’t feel there’s anything to say that would keep them interested. This alone happens to my group of mates, all male except for one. As a result, I have very little faith in me that getting a girl’s attention will work. It doesn’t help at all especially when my own mother politely criticises at my lack of ‘social charisma’ anywhere I go.

  I have tried and paid for so many other “solutions” to my problem only to have them fail miserably. I can assure you I did EVERYTHING I’ve been asked of by those programs but to no avail. Please understand why I feel sceptical about paying for your product. I know that I, like everyone else, has this alpha male power inside, I can feel it. It just feels difficult to sort of embrace and turn into a part of you. I have just one or two occasions every few months where I feel the alpha persona in me. I have been picked on by previous university housemates for my social status and I thank you for helping me realise why.

  Please Dan, will this product help me? I will do whatever it asks me to. I just want to be happy like everyone deserves to. Carrying on in this state may eventually anger me to an extent I do not want to imagine right now. Thank you very much mate, I look very forward to your response.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Joe

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, Alpha Male Power will show you how to unleash your inner alpha male and start living your life with confidence, power, charisma and strength. However, by the sound of it, you need a bit more “social skills training” than the average person. Your inability to make conversation, even with friends, means that you should probably also listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation. In addition to explaining all the ins and outs of talking to women, we also provide advice on talking with friends and maintaining confidence during conversations.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Jared

  Hey Dan,

  I’ve gone up to part 2 of Alpha Male Power and can say that last night and today I felt a couple of hours worth of great feeling. Though I haven’t practiced it properly with girls just yet, I feel much more connected with everyone and I think they sense something back. Just earlier I had a public duty with ambulance and albeit briefly, enjoyed some time and presence with a girl from her national basketball team, absolute beauty. I’d like to say thank you for things so far mate. At the same time, I’d just like to ask a question. As the hours went by, my ‘alpha male’ feelings sort of went down gradually, sort of like the pain relief in aspirin does. Is this normal? Is it just part of the process of completely harnessing the alpha male persona? I’d be grateful to hear your advice. Thanks again Dan, you’re a miracle worker.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jared

    Thanks for sharing your success so far.

    Yes, you have to get used to this new power you have! You weren’t even finished watching program and you were already feeling more powerful and confident. From here, you simply need to practice getting into that state/connecting with your power every day until it becomes natural and automatic for you. You will find that your power and confidence grows stronger each day, as does the effect you have on women. After going through the initial transformation you’ve experienced, you will already been attracting women on a deeper level than usual. Weeks from now, you will see that women are affected/moved/aroused on an even deeper level when they interact with you, to the point where they kind of “wake up” in the moment when talking to you and have a “wow moment”, as if they’ve FINALLY met their ideal guy. You’ll notice them trying to impress you, trying desperately to keep the conversation going, etc. Then, from there, you’ll notice that you have that effect on women everywhere you go. It’s a very enjoyable power to have!

    By the way, you mentioned, “I feel much more connected with everyone and I think they sense something back.” That is awesome. That’s part of what this power and presence does, especially the loving presence that I teach in the program. People feel more connected with you and feel more appreciated and noticed. Just make sure you don’t get stuck in having such an amazing effect on women, but not actually moving things forward to kissing and sex. Notice their positive reactions and then move it forward. BTW: If you need more training on how to do that (including how to move in for a first kiss, get a woman back to your place for sex after a first date, one night stand, etc), I recommend Dating Power.

    I look forward to hearing about more of your success!

    Cheers
    Dan

• tosin

  Who really is the prize?
  You may have heard this concept before “You as a man should act as the prize”. But how many of you actually believe it? How many guys really believe they actually are the prize on a deep level? Well…I would like to propose to you a new way of looking at things that just may enhance your believing you actually are the prize.

  Let’s consider what we men find attractive about women. These include their perky breasts, their youthful and firm skin, their asses which contain as minimal fat as possible, their wrinkle-less faces, their youthful and bright eyes etc. All this combined in different proportions make up what we call beauty. The fact of life is that we men find women sexually attractive for physical reasons. Hence if a woman wants to be attractive to men, she has to either be born lucky with the right genetic make up or turn to make-up, the gym, or cosmetic surgery.

  Now what do women find attractive about men. These are confidence, masculinity/manliness, dominance, leadership, ambition, status(internal status), sense of humor etc. All of which are personality and psychological traits. Sure women like to check out the pretty boys, but the fact is that the effect a pretty boy has on a woman is nothing compared to what a guy who has the above said traits has on her at a deep sexual level.

  Now if we compare what women are offering to men to what men her offering to women we have physical traits(beauty and youth) against personality/psychological traits(confidence, masculinity, dominance etc). Unfortunately for women what they are have as attractive features can only depreciate as time passes by. As a woman ages the beauty, youth and looks begin to fade. Her breasts succumb to the effect of gravity and drop, her skin becomes less firm, make up becomes more of a necessity than an accessory. She lives in deathly fear of losing her looks every single day(you have never seen a soldier fight a battle harder than woman fighting another year of getting older). I have seen women go into depression as a result of losing their looks. It is that bad.
  Compare this with what a man is offering to woman. Fortunately for we men things like confidence, masculinity, dominance, status, leadership etc are NOT at the mercy of time/age. In fact if a guy continues to work on developing these attractive traits he can only improve them with time and become even more attractive as he gets older. Plus guys who have these traits as part of who they are quite rare, in limited supply and hence in high demand by women. Hence women ask “where are all the men?”

  So I ask you which has more value? Is it the physical beauty of a woman that is not only common everywhere but also and more importantly reduces in value as time goes by? Or is it the personality/psychological traits of a man that can only increase in value with time and is far rarer than beauty?
  Well I guess you see why you as a man are indeed the PRIZE and not the woman, no matter how beautiful she is. Remember this the next time you are talking to that beautiful woman. What you have to offer her is of more value, more lasting and rarer than her beauty. Embrace your value and power as a man, stop giving away your power to a woman because of the fleeting looks and realize that she is lucky to be interacting with you cause you chose to talk to her. Amongst other beautiful women, she is the one who gets to enjoy the gift of your masculinity for the time being so she better start doing some impressing. Lol.

  Check out Dan and The Modern Man’s team products to find out more about developing these traits.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Tosin

    Well said once again mate!

    Yes, a lot of guys don’t realize that beautiful women are everywhere, but real men are truly the minority. That is why I say that when a guy uses the advice from Better Than a Bad Boy, women will literally feel desperate to be with him and stay with him. Most guys will never experience that though, because they are being brainwashed by TV advertisements, TV sitcoms and those lame Hollywood movies (like “Hall Pass”) that make men look like hopeless idiots who are unworthy of women…or who have to jump through hoops before a woman will give them a chance.

    When you are what women refer to as a “real man,” women jump through hoops for you. It’s a totally different life to live.

    Thanks for sharing Tosin and for the shout out about Modern Man programs. Most guys don’t know what they are missing out on by not knowing what you and others know by learning from The Modern Man.

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Would love to hear about your success sometime soon Tosin. Post up a field report or let us know if you’re settled down with a girlfriend at the moment.

• Anon

  Hi Dan

  I’d just like to say that Alpha Male Power is really good, thank you, well done! I can feel myself changing and ‘transforming’

  Cheers

  P.S I heard a quote the other day which I thought was hilarious (and true) – ‘He who hesitates masterbates’ LOL

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Anon

    Good quote! Lol…

    A lot of guys hesitate because they don’t realize how awesome it feels to walk up and talk to women they find attractive. It’s a liberating experience. Once you know that it’s okay to do that, you are suddenly in control and can choose the women you want. From there, you just need to know how to attract the women and move it forward to a phone number, kiss, date, sex and relationship. Other guys hesitate because they don’t know what to say or do to make something happen with a women they like.

    For the guys reading along with these comments who haven’t gotten started yet, I’d recommend that you read The Flow and open your eyes to a new reality. Success with women is a lot easier that you might think. Start the journey, use the advice and enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• johann

  Hey Dan,
  it’s been a while since I made a post, but some improvements have come. Now it’s a lot easier to arrange social gatherings, and I don’t feel much fear of being rejected when doing this. More people want to come shake my hand and greet me when they see me, and when I sit down with people at gatherings or whatever it takes less energy to converse.
  Perhaps the thing I have some difficulty with is finding women who share enough in common with me. There is usually enough connection to make a good conversation, but it’s hard to really connect enough for me or for them to feel like we should take it to the next level. So basically I am making more good friends than before but only once in a while finding someone all that compatible.
  Thanks a lot,
  Johann

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Johann

    Thanks for sharing your success so far.

    Yes, it sounds like the key ingredient you are missing is a sexual vibe and sexual intention. Unless you proactively create a sexual vibe between you and a woman, it will rarely happen by “magic” on its own. Most guys unknowingly put themselves in the friend zone with a woman by acting like a friend to her. Instead, you need to actively create a sexual vibe and allow both you and a woman to go there with each other. If not, she will act polite and friendly like you and nothing will happen.

    Interesting that you posted a comment on this page, because Alpha Male Power has the techniques you need. In the Alpha Male Power program, I explain and demonstrate the 4 different types of presence that you need to use when interacting with women to cause the deepest level of attraction possible. One of the presence types is “Sexual Presence” and it is essential for naturally and automatically creating a sexual vibe between you and a woman.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kingsley

  Dan your philosophy at the end of this program is very empowering. If every human being heard this it would cause all of us to reach the power of presence on this earth. ” I am here”. No one can take that from you but yourself or death. That’s just gold. Can’t wait to buy Better than a Bad Boy.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kingsley

    Glad to hear you grasped the meaning of that section. It’s very powerful when you understand it and live it.

    I look forward to hearing about your success!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ken

  Greetings Dan and everyone else on post,

  Straight to the point. Dan I was once very good with women in my earlier years up to 23 years old(2003). Mostly it was due to the type of men I was surrounded by then which gave me a natural and authentic bad boy edge: Pimps, Macks, Street hustlers, and gang members. By that time I slept with 143 women, and no dates every existed, just meet, mingle exchange numbers and be banging her in the same day or few days depending on logistics.
  I agree and know from person experience that being and Alpha Male, Seeing yourself as the Prize, and
  having Raw Masculinity are very vital elements to be
  successful with women which most “pickup artist”
  now days fail to understand and keep preaching the same old corny sh*t, lame complex and hard to remember theories, and just plain rehashed bulls**t with a new name. In my opion they are just good marketers who analyzed from the outside in men who are really good with women and try to make it a harder than it really is science, because they fail to see the root mechanisims inside that man that allows him to be successful.
  I made a career choice back in 2003 to drive trucks over the road. Fastforward to now 2012 I’m about to exit the over road truck driving and get stationed locally and jump back into the dating and seduction realm again full fledged.
  But I have bigger and new agendas now. I only want to meet, date very high class, eloquent, classy, beautiful women who have more value and assets to add into my life besides just being cute, nice breasts, nice smile, cool personalities…been there done that. I’m going after the big leagues now, and will not tolerate less.
  The thing is I need to get my mojo back, and I want to
  learn how to get these women “consistently”.

  This is where I believeyour systems Alpha Male Power and Better than Bad Boy can help me. I get a sense that you are authentic and the real deal and far from another “pickup artist”.
  However I have a few questions.
  *When you say immediate and lasting confidence,
  results, etc. Is this another system that just involve
  repeating affirmations, visualizations, etc. Or is there a
  secret method inside that allows this change to really
  happen immediately and lasting? (You don’t have to
  tell me what it is here, if that’s the case) Just trying to
  understand realistically what to expect and time limit
  involved
  *When you say the results are permanent and you will
  be able to get pretty much any woman-I’m curious
  about that aspect..is it mainly do to the techniques or
  a energy/magnetic vibe you radiate?
  *I like things to be simple, Natural and to the point. Using your systems will I have to remeber alot of complicated techniques(which sound great while learning at home)
  but are hard to remember and get you stuck in your
  head when it actually counts(live face to face with
  women)

  I know your systems are a little expensive in price and want to just make sure ahead of time that this is a wise investment for both products because from my travels to other countries..I’ve noticed that women are a hell of alot easier to meet, seduce versus here in the U.S. and I want to make sure my A-game is up to par. So I
  don’t mind making that investment as long as the products are dynamic(which I sense they may be) and not just something I can learn from google, or watching those corny/lame “pickup artist”

  Also, I believe in leaving excellent testemonials, so I will take it a step further than just writing a post..and show live video footage of me utlizing what I learned with real women as proof that you and your systems are the real deal(but I will not disclose the secrets or lessons)

  I look forward to your responses to my questions, and I am ready to jump onboard my friend
  Thanks
  Ken, U.S.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Ken

    Well, you sound like a cool guy.

    …and yes, I totally agree with you about the state of this industry these days. Most people pushing advice out there are NOT successful with women. Do a search in Google for the “guru’s” name and then type in “girlfriend” into Google and you will usually see that he only hooks up with ugly women. One of the biggest guys in the industry married a fairly ugly woman, after selling DVD sets to guys for years talking about how to pick up attractive women. So lame…!

    As for me, I don’t hide the fact that I’ve been with and continue to be with hot women (photos). I talk the talk AND walk the walk. This is what I do…and I love it.

    As for the lasting confidence you want to learn about and experience from now on. It comes from deeper things that just mindsets (as you acknowledged though – it’s not something I’ll teach here in a comment – thanks for mentioning that). The truth is, most advice on affirmations is incorrect because simply saying affirmations on their own, is only ONE step in a THREE step process for building and maintaining true confidence with affirmations and positive mindsets.

    As for classy women who are high value. Yes, those women need a guy who can offer more than just a funny line or a bit of interesting conversation. They need a real man and that’s what you will learn about in Better Than a Bad Boy. A classy, sought-after woman knows that she can have her choice of men. So, if a guy just comes along and gives her the usual interaction experience, she isn’t going to be jumping up and down with excitement. What you will learn in Better Than a Bad Boy is how to make a woman desperate to be with you. Not just “like” or feel attraction for you…I mean desperately want to be with you.

    About Alpha Male Power: Yes, this will help you get back the mojo you once had. It will give you the advice and guidance needed to step back into being a powerful, alpha male in any situation. Personally though, I’d suggest you start with Better Than a Bad Boy. When you become a customer, I will send you some e-mails with 50% off discounts for various products (including Alpha Male Power). Once you’re on board, I will take care of you all the way to success and beyond.

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Typing this now as a hot 21-year old lounges on my couch in her underwear. I’m in another room and after answering a couple of more comments, I’m going to have to get back in the lounge room! Lol…

    • Dan Bacon

      Actually, scrap that…I’m going back into the lounge room now! Lol…

• Anonymous

  Hey Dan,

  I’ve read basically all of your articles, aswell as some not-modern-man-stuff, so I do have a decent amount of knowledge.

  What I wonder thou is when you HAVE sparked attraction (this is a girl that I am around all of the time, as we go to the same classes and live at the same campus aswell. and she is hot) do I still keep on pushing her away from time to time (a little bit of rejecting her), so as to not become monotone and too predictable?

  Should I STILL push-away regularly, even after first stages of attraction (I feel like push-away’ish moves are great for sparking attraction and making you seem like you have alternatives – and she is the one trying to qualify).

  I.e, do you recommend I throw in a little bit of this every time that we cuddle up? Or should it be more rarely?

  Does the push-away move keep being useful troughout all the stages of getting the girl, even later on in the relationship?

  I have been thinking about getting your product ”the modern relationship”. Does this also contain the creating attraction basics? (just in case I might have missed something).

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Anonymous

    Thanks for your question.

    This highlights the problem with guys learning from experts like us AND from amateur sites at the same time. Unlike The Modern Man, the 1,000s of amateur “dating advice” sites out there have NOT gone through years of testing before releasing their advice. They are simply trying to make a quick buck and they’ll say whatever they can to write an ebook or fill up an audio program. Then, guys like you are the victims of their slack, reckless and immoral approach.

    Listen “Anonymous,” it’s up to you how you want to approach this area of your life, but let me give you an important piece of advice: If you learn from amateurs, you will be an amateur and you’ll make the same silly mistakes they do. Have a listen to this audio clip to hear what we went through for YEARS, before recording our program Dating Power. We could have recorded our early seminars (see photos here), but we did not. We waited until we had years of long term success stories from guys (who had stayed with their girlfriends, gotten married or who had been living the “player lifestyle”) and years of being able to coach guys to success, no matter what they looked like, what nationality there were or how old.

    The thing you mention about “push aways” – mate, that is not what we advise in any of our programs. Why? It is an amateur move, performed by insecure guys who are trying to trick girls into thinking they are confident and couldn’t care less. If you want to live with integrity and have women love you for YOU and not for a bunch of tacky tricks (which they’ll eventually see through anyway!), then learn from us and us only.

    About learning from The Modern Relationship as your starting point. Not at all. Someone like you (who, to my expert eye, lacks self-belief) needs to watch Better Than a Bad Boy, so you understand how to do things correctly from the first conversation, on dates, during sex and throughout a relationship. When you watch that program, you’ll realize that most of the sites that come up in Google are not run by real experts. If the site is run by a “guru,” type his name into Google and do a search for pictures of him and his girlfriend. You’ll find that most of these frauds talk about picking up attractive women, but in reality, only hook up with ugly or average women. In case you’re wondering what my girls are like, here are some photos of just SOME of my girls.

    Cheers
    Dan

• John

  Hey Dan,

  What’s your opinion on going out alone at night to meet women? I’m in a new town, so I have to go out on my own, but am afraid that this might somehow hinder the advice (I have several of your products).

  Thanks in advance for your thoughts.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi John

    Thanks for your question.

    It’s something you have to get used to. I recommend that guys who are starting out first try to find some friends to go out approaching with. Personally, I go out alone about 30% of the time now, especially when I just want to go out and pull a one night stand, without having to party all night with everyone. An example is the photos with me and two girls here (where I am wearing the green and white striped t-shirt and we’re out in the rain with umbrellas in one photo and in a club in another) – I went out alone that night, saw them standing at a bar together (and noticed that guys were hovering around, but too afraid to approach) so I just hit them up. They were rapt to be speaking to a confident, easy-going and (I don’t want to say this, but it’s true) cool guy. We partied for a couple of hours, then I went home with the girl in the black.

    However, that’s not something I did when I was first learning. I always went approaching with a friend of mine, until I was good at it. If you don’t have many friends to go approaching with because you’re living in that new town/city you mention, the Alpha Male Power program will teach you how to walk through the world with the confidence of an alpha male and just do whatever you want to do – regardless of who is or isn’t with you. There’s a technique in Alpha Male Power called “The GIST Technique”…I won’t go into what it is here, but when you use that technique it won’t matter if you are alone or with 5 people – you will approach if and when you like, anytime, anyplace.

    Cheers
    Dan

    P.S. Also, if you want to make new friends, try the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend (many of the ways include opportunities to make new friends and expand your social circle) and read this: http://www.themodernman.com/social/friendship/making_new_friends.html

• MLM

  Dan,

  LOL, I am going to buy almost every one of your products! So far, I am thinking The Flow or Alpha Power. I am already handsome, but can’t seem to find women interested in me, and I am starting to think that I should just fuck it and approach a bunch of them….but of course, I need your guidance.

  I was hesitating for a while with your products, but noticed you posted pics and evidence with you and hot women above to establish your credibility(THANK YOU), and wondered what product you yourself are using when you are picking up women? For example, is it the Flow, Alpha Power..??
  Interview with a Natural Ash seems more like this product as well.

  PS: Speaking of frauds, have you heard of Vin Dicarlo? BRUTAL BILLING SCHEME HE HAS GOING ON WITH THAT PANDORA BOX SHIT.
  He lost his merchant account due to fraud, and had to get a new one…
  What a clown!

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi MLM

    Thanks for your message.

    I just searched Facebook using the e-mail address you entered with your comment and can see that you are in fact a handsome dude. Yet, as you have been experiencing, being handsome does NOT guarantee you get the girls you want or even get ANY girls whatsoever. Women are looking for more important traits like confidence, masculinity, humor, ability to pass their tests, sexual vibe, sexual confidence, etc. If you don’t have that, your looks will only ever get you looked at by women.

    Over the years, I’ve coached all sorts of guys in person and showed them how to approach women. Cool guys, dorky guys, overweight guys, skinny guys, guys of pretty much every nationality, etc. The one thing that has remained the same everytime was that when a guy uses The Modern Man approach to women, he gets results. It just works y’know. I remember back in the early days when I coached by 5th ever client and he arrived to course and looked like someone from “Revenge of the Nerds”. Ben from The Modern Man was there to meet another client and he laughed at the way the client had his shirt buttoned all the way up and his hair parted in the middle and said, “Come here bro” and unbutton the top two buttons, ruffled up his hair, untucked his shirt, rolled up his sleeves and said, “Right. Now you’re ready” The client was smiling ear to ear, because he needed that guidance. He needed to be shown that stuff.

    Anyway, I taught him what he needed to know to have the confidence that women wanted and even I was amazed at what happened next. We did a 3 night course and he was making out with girls on the 2nd night like he had been doing it for years. At one club, he was chatting with two model-looking girls for an hour and ended up playing them off against each other, fighting for his attention. I mean, if you weren’t there to see it, it might sound unbelievable, but it happened. I saw him about 6 months later walking along a street with a hot girlfriend and we just gave each other a discreet nod as we passed each other on the sidewalk.

    So, if a guy like THAT or like this can do it, it proves that looks are NOT important. Looks are irrelevant if you don’t have what women ACTUALLY want in a man. If you listen to the insecurities of guys who are hopeless with women, they’ll tell you that it’s all about looks, money, height, flashy cars, etc. However, they fail to acknowledge that pretty much EVERY time they see a hot girl, she is with a boyfriend who is NOT “good looking,” rich, etc. She is with a guy who BELIEVES in himself…which happens to be one of the most important aspects of success with women.

    As for your mention of the pick up artist: I won’t comment any further about him because I don’t want to directly bad mouth anyone in the industry, but I will allow you guys to say whatever you want in the comments. For all I know, that guy could be a really good guy, but since I don’t mingle with anyone in the industry I don’t know.

    About my photos: Thanks, I’m glad you appreciate that. Personally, I was shocked when I searched Google images to see some of the girlfriends of the “gurus” (do a search and see). It’s actually quite frustrating for me because there are so many unsuspecting guys out there who look up to these fraudulent gurus who TALK about picking up attractive women in their programs, but then only manage to get unattractive women. I mean, how do I get the word out and tell guys not to buy the programs of these fake gurus? I guess they’ll just have to learn the hard way; I’ve literally had 100s of customers tell me things like this, “Damnit! Why didn’t I learn from you guys to begin with? I’ve wasted the last 2 years trying to use _______’s stuff and it didn’t work. I got laid on my first (or second) approach using your methods” As Ben from The Modern Man said to me in the early days when he too realized the fraudulent behavior of these fake gurus, “Don’t worry…it will all come out in the wash one day” meaning that they will be revealed for the frauds they are.

    Anyway, enough ranting. It was nice to finally get that off my chest though! I haven’t said this stuff before publicly in all the history of The Modern Man, but am glad to finally have the chance to without sounding like I’m just trying to “bad mouth the competition” so to speak.

    About the product of mine that I am using when picking up women: It’s a combination of everything. The Flow process is the foundation of everything and we always go through the 4 steps of The Flow when meeting a woman. All of our other programs contain additional information in very specific areas. For instance, if you want to learn more about conversation, you’d listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation. If you wanted to learn more about being an alpha male and having the power of an alpha male, you’d watch Alpha Male Power.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Richard

  Excellent program, has helped me recapture my natural alpha male qualities.

  Richard

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Richard

    Thanks for your positive feedback. Much appreciated.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Dave

  Hey Dan,

  So I wanted to thank you again first of all in all the work you, Ben and Stu have put into these products. They have really changed my life. I was ready for this change. Very ready.

  I recently have tried your techniques and managed to get this hot girls phone number and ended up catching up with her on a Friday night. She was out with a girlfriend of hers, and 2 other guys. Long story short, by the end of the night, BOTH girls were loving me, and the 2 guys that were interested in both of them were working HARD to get any sort of attention. I couldn’t believe the power I have. Never, ever expected this sort of result. My mind sets have changed and my focus is completely different.

  My questions are this:
  1. Firstly, is it the best thing to be focused on how the women react to my conversation and actions? (This is the stage I am at now). Or is there a higher level that I can reach than this?

  2. I’ve noticed women seem to constantly ‘test’. Within this is a lot of ignoring me or trying to make me jealous. I don’t really bite into this, and just let it be as I think this is just how women are. Am I right to think this way or is there something more that I should do or respond appropriately?

  Thanks again for the help and tips.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Dave

    It’s awesome to hear about your success so far! THANK YOU for sharing it here.

    I loved this part, “I couldn’t believe the power I have. Never, ever expected this sort of result.” EXACTLY. That is a power that you could have had ALL YOUR LIFE with women, but you just didn’t know how to make it happen. Now you have it for LIFE.

    About your comment on being ready to learn from us when you arrived at this site: Yes, very true. It’s like the old Zen proverb, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” I’m glad you found us and I’m glad to be able to help you.

    About your questions:

    1. Yes, that is the level before mastery where you are using all the positive feedback you are getting to help your confidence continue to build. It’s a fun time of confidence building, new experiences with women and rising to new levels of awareness that others simply cannot see. The mastery level is different and I explain that in Better Than a Bad Boy. At the mastery level, your reaction to how women react causes them to feel a deep, powerful and absolutely irresistible type of attraction. If you’re enjoying the power you have now, just wait until you hit that level. It’s just awesome.

    2. Yes, that is just the way women are. They HAVE TO BE like that because they need to test to see how confident and masculine a guy REALLY is. For instance, all is takes for a woman to find out that a guy lacks confidence, doubts his attractiveness and abilities with women and is less dominant than her (ALL huge turn offs) is for her to behave in a challenging way and pretend that she isn’t interested in him. Guys who are not alpha and who lack true confidence will buckle under that type of pressure and women will instantly notice it and lose interest.

    BTW: If you want to learn about the tests that women put guys through and how to pass them all naturally, easily and without much thought or effort, watch Better Than a Bad Boy.

    Cheers
    Dan

    • Dave

      Awesome. Thanks for the response.
      1. I understand what you mean here. Especially about seeing things that other guys don’t. In fact that same night, one of the guys was working hard on my girls friend, but it was clear she was doing things to attract me, and the guy came up to me later and specifically told me he was confused and getting mixed signals because she was using him to make me jealous. I knew what was going on, but it was a waste of time to explain it to him and it would make him feel bad. I’m glad to see there is more I can strive for…very exciting.
      2. I am very much having fun with this. I tell all my ‘taken’ friends (girls and guys) about this, and you can tell they are extremely envious of not being able to play with these skills. That’s ok though, they can live through me.

      I look forward to getting Better than a Bad Boy.

    • Dan Bacon

      Hi Dave

      You’re welcome mate.

      1. About other guys being confused about why women like you so much: Lol…welcome to my world. A couple of months ago, a new friend of mine was absolutely baffled as to why women were either “accidentally on purpose” bumping into me as they walked past, standing right next to me (and waiting for me to start a conversation) or smiling or waving at me from across the club we were partying at. The most confusing part for him was that he is a “good looking guy” and is tall and works out at the gym. I am none of that, but women were just naturally drawn to me. I said, “Dude, honestly – it would take way too long to explain. If you want, you can watch my Alpha Male Power and Better Than a Bad Boy programs and learn why women are reacting like that to me…” He watched them and since then has been laughing at how easy it is to attract and pick up women. Most guys just don’t get and WON’T get it. The stuff that you and I know Dave, is not the type of thing that guys who are good with women want to share with other guys. It’s basically kept to themselves their own lives and they usually don’t even help out their friends.

      2. About telling people about learning this stuff. That is fine, as long as you’ve watched Alpha Male Power (like you have) and know how to avoid people messing with you, picking on you, etc. Guys who don’t know how to be alpha (and as such, are lower ranking males) will be picked on for revealing that they “need help with the ladies.” However, yes – I also experience what you’re saying about friends “living through me” and it’s fun. My married friends love hearing all the stories about me hooking up with new women (and seeing the bedroom photos and videos, lol…), but I make sure I don’t talk about it in front of their wives, because I don’t want to cause problems for them. I’ll only talk about “girls I’ve met” in a nice, normal way and there’ll be a few laughs from the guys because we know the rest of the story.

      Enjoy the great times ahead Dave! It only gets better from where you are now.

      Cheers
      Dan

    • Dave

      Dan,

      I love your products. I listen to them over and over again while at work. It’s better than music cause I pick up something new every time that I can relate to. Especially as I progress with my skill building.

      Anyway, I had a thought that I wanted to share with you guys. I am friends with some girls who I am not attracted to and they have a natural inclination to put down or shake their heads at prettier girls who act girly. I personally love it when attractive women act girly! I never shake my head at this and want to encourage this behavior. Then I reached an epiphany:

      Society, whether it is the media, evolution or otherwise, is encouraging the unnatural thoughts that have led to confusion with guys (who were like me, and as I understand yourself Dan, and Ben) about their understanding of male/female relationships. Not only is it confusing men, it is confusing women as well. They seem to think that girly women are not attractive, or perhaps the girly persona shows a lack of intelligence, and that assertive manly women are what guys want. How ridiculous!

      In relation to what you guys are doing, you are doing something wonderful for guys who were/are lost or a little confused about the way things are or have evolved to. Anyone can look at it in a negative light where if more guys learn about this stuff, there will be less attractive women available. I look at it like this; the more guys know about this stuff, the more feminine women will act and compete for strong guys’ attention, which would be awesome. I think the natural evolution will win in the end, and women will continue to become more feminine and the most masculine/alpha men will come out on top. The plain women will continue to put down, and the ignorant men will have to settle. So not only are you guys doing good things for men, you are doing good things for women as well.

      Anyway, I thought I would share this as you seem the type to have interest in philosophy and it is always exciting to see little epiphany’s, or different perspectives through your clients eyes.

      Keep up the awesome work!

    • Dan Bacon

      Hi Dave

      Very well said. I appreciate you sharing that.

      Ben, Stu and I had a discussion in the early days about the wider contributions we would be making to the world if we really got stuck into this and followed through. We realized that not only would be achieve what you are saying, but we would reduce depression rates for men and women (many men depressed because they are suppressing their masculinity and many women their femininity), reduce rapes, reduce suicides, etc. We would also be adding more confident, capable men to the world who had the area of women under control, so they could then spend their time working on their purpose and contribution to this life instead of wasting their years away feeling lonely, insecure and bitter about their lack of success with women. Success with women is easy when you have the right information and use the right approach. From there, you can get on with enjoying women and all other areas of your life.

      So yes – I definitely appreciate you saying what you have Dave. In fact, I think you’re the first person to come forward and say it, so thank you. It’s nice see that those type of things are being thought about and noticed.

      Enjoy the great times ahead!

      Cheers
      Dan

• Jamie

  Hey Dan,

  I’ve bought a few of your products in the past and i’d like to thank you, Ben and Stu for giving me a solid understanding of how to attract and date women.

  I have a lot of female friends on facebook. Some of which I haven’t spoke to for a while and have lost contact with, others I know from school/university which I have never spoken to before. (I’m at uni now so i know all these girls within the last 3-4 years)

  Is it acceptable to send these girls a message and start going through The Flow process with them, regardless of whether or not i’ve spoken to them before?

  I know how to go about attracting them and everything else, although i’m a little worried that they may find it weird that i’ve never spoke to some of them before and suddenly i send them a message saying hi 🙂

  Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

  Cheers

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Jamie

    Thanks for your positive feedback. Much appreciated.

    About hitting on random girls on Facebook: Yes, they do find it weird. I’ve asked many of my female friends and lovers about what they experience on Facebook and they pretty much all say the same thing. That being, when a random guy contacts them via Facebook they:

    1. Assume he must be a friend of a friend.
    2. If he’s not, most of them ignore the message or friend add request.
    3. If he is, they are open to receiving the message.
    4. If he starts hitting on them immediately, they get suspicious and wonder why.
    5. They look at his photos and activity on his timeline to see if he’s lonely, has many real friends and if he hooks up with unattractive women (or no women). They then make a judgement about him.
    6. If he is cool, has a life and has been with attractive women, they feel more open to the message.

    Now, if someone like you contacts these women Jamie, they will be open to it because you know how to flirt and communicate with them properly. However, most guys fail. See: Online Dating: Does it Still Work?

    Cheers
    Dan

• tosin

  Okay, after a long drawn attempt not to post a success story/stories, I have finally given into the temptation and decided to post.
  Yes, I was totally hopeless before I discovered The Modern Man. I never really had a problem sparking the interest of women, women actually used to approach me on a good number of occasions(asking me for the time when they obviously had a wrist watch on, constantly stealing glances in my direction, standing a couple feet away from me for no reason at all etc). I just never knew why or how to move things forward and noticed that the times I actually engaged in conversations with the women who were interested in me, their interest would all of a sudden die off after a few minutes of conversation as I kept showcasing my lack of confidence, low self-esteem and nervousness, I could sometimes even see the look of disappointment written all over their faces. It wasn’t until a friend of mine who had actually read The Flow, offered the book to me to read that I realize what the heck I had being doing wrong all my life. I was the chief culprit in doing all the wrong things noted in The Flow that turn women off so fast you wouldn’t believe it. I deserved an award for biggest loser with women. I was so scared and terrified of women especially attractive ones, as I always saw them as these untouchable beings that I could never come close to having and I wondered how men interacted with women much less even had sex with them or even married them. I remember eavesdropping on some of my friends conversations with girls just so I could get some insight into what they were talking about or what “lines” they were using(yeah I know; pathetic). I actually thought women weren’t interested in men and that they were only just accommodating men into their lives.
  Now fast forward to this present day, about 3 years after I first read The Flow. I can confidently say( at the risk of bragging) I live the sort of life guys would think only exists in movies. Why? Just about every women I interact with gets attracted to me pretty quickly. Infact, these days I virtually have to cut down the number of girls/women I interact with because it is just a given that they would be attracted to me and start looking for ways of entering into my life. I have made it a personal rule not to interact too much with my close buddies’ girlfriends as it could lead to them dumping their boyfriends for me. On one occasion I slipped and was interacting with friend’s girl at a party, she basically ignored her boyfriend(my close friend) and was all over me getting me food and drinks while I just sat down, like she was my wife. Had to leave the venue as I feared my friend could start getting really jealous. Even my own brother’s girlfriend was literally throwing herself at me, asking me to let her do my laundry(something she never does for my brother).
  My whole life as it is right now is a success story. I fear no one, I walk around with the feeling that I can accomplish anything I want it life, no one intimidates me, other guys just defer to me in social situations even though am not tall or rich or the most popular guy in the world. Basically put, the world reacts to me very differently. I am only 5’6″and look 17 when am actually 24, but people who are even older than me call me “Sir” just cause of the way I talk assertively and carry myself. I have gone from been intimidated by gorgeous women to seeing them as little cute kids. Once I set my eyes on a girl I want, its a given that she’s mine. I know a lot of guys would read this and conclude to themselves “this guy is full of B.S” but trust me you can live the life just as Dan describes it full of beautiful, wonderful women that bring joy to your life. No kidding!!!
  If you are still thinking of buying The Modern man products, do yourself a favour, stop thinking and go for it.

  Three questions Dan,
  1. What’s with women greeting me by bowing down their heads slightly when am walking past them. Can be really embarrassing. Makes me feel older than I actually am. Am a young man please, and even look younger than I actually am

  2. A couple of times women reach from the back seat of the car to caress my chest(like a guy would fondle a girl’s tits) just before hopping out. What’s the meaning of that kind of behavior?

  3. Finally, what’s your view on God and Religion as it pertains to attraction and sex?

  Thanks again for your ebook. It has changed my life 180 degrees. Fabulous piece of work. You’ve really got this attraction stuff nailed.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Tosin

    As always, your post is awesome.

    I’m glad you finally got around to posting up a success story, instead of the insightful posts you usually share. Thanks so much. For the guys who are still THINKING about getting started and investing in my advice, read Tosin’s post. He’s not kidding.

    As for your questions:

    1. It usually means they think you’re cute. That or they are simply showing you respect.
    2. They are testing you. My read on the situation is that they know that YOU know that you’re “hot stuff” with women, so they are trying to mess with your confidence and bring you down a level so they don’t feel so intimidated. I explain how to respond to tests in Better Than a Bad Boy.
    3. Sorry, that’s not a topic for this site because people get very emotional about their religious beliefs. Personally, I respect everyone’s religious beliefs and people can think or have faith in whatever they want. In my opinion, they are probably right in what they believe in or stand for.

    Cheers
    Dan

• DC

  Hey Dan its DC. I have a simple question. Some days I feel very confident. Others not so much. If i dont feel very confident should i approach a girl anyway or not? Thx
  DC

• DC

  I know you talk about this when you talk about GIST but when im down it is still really hard.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi DC

    I appreciate your comments mate, but like most times – you are not following the advice properly while other guys are. So, this comment of yours is quite frustrating to see. The guys leaving success stories here are the ones who follow the advice properly. If you had paid attention to the very clear instructions I give with the GIST technique (by the way, which was successfully tested out for YEARS with clients and myself before I released it in a program), you would not be saying that. Why? When you use the GIST technique, it STOPS you from feeling down, lacking confidence, etc because of what the technique involves. Obviously, I can’t reveal it here, but please do me and you a favor and use the advice properly instead making lazy comments like that. Pay attention, follow the simple instructions and stop making excuses that have no basis other than laziness.

    Be a success story, not an excuse story. Do that by following the advice, not by being lazy and failing to follow the simple instructions.

    …yes, I am a bit annoyed right now mate! 🙂 You of all people should know better. However, I understand that some people are slower learners than others. In the meantime, follow the instructions properly and you will no longer experience the problem you mention.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kingsley

  Hey Dan,

  Wassup. Yeah things have been going good, I am startin to feel comfort flirting. Some of these things just take time to sink in and Im beginning to integrate the programs like you said. Attracting now is a piece of cake. Connecting is gettin better.

  But I have hit a plateau in motivation and drive and when i am low on drive or “mojo” for life, my skills with girl dip a bit. Figured out it wasn’t me but my emotional state.
  How do you wake up every morning energized to live and if you are a little down how to you recharge your drive to live your purpose?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Kingsley

    Great to hear of your progress. Keep going and let me know when you break through to success.

    About your question on staying motivated about life and your purpose: Simple. Take action. Action creates motivation because you see results. Inaction brings you down because previous results seem so far in the past. Keep moving forward. Eventually, you will have created so much positive, forward-moving momentum that your life will hum like a Ferrari engine.

    Cheers
    Dan

• DC

  Hey thanks man that’s what I really needed to hear. My old way of thinking still creeps in and I let it affect me too much. I have not listened to Alpha Male Power in a while, been focusing on Better than a Bad Boy so Ive got some stuff to review on that. And when you talk about slow learners when it comes to this stuff I am a prime example, I have to listen to your products over and over and over before I get it.
  I have a feeling that when you are coaching someone face to face you are kind of a hard ass! haha!
  Thanks again
  DC

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi DC

    Great, I’m glad you understand. I’m being so stern about this because I care about your success and I know that the advice works when it is followed properly. As you know, we only release our advice into programs once it has been tested for YEARS and proven to work with all types of guys.

    So, as I say in the program – if you’re not in the right state to approach, GIST and you will be.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kingsley

  Hey Quick Question. Watched the Alpha Male Power video again to solidify the “modern environment adaption thing”. But I didn’t get what the difference between presence and confidence was? Are they the same?

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Kingsley

    Confidence (noun): Belief in oneself and one’s powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance.
    Presence (noun): The state of being present with others. Being there in the moment with the person, rather than being in your head.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Tony

  Hey Dan,

  finally I wanted to give you some feedback on the programs I got.

  It has been like four months since I bought Alpha Male Power and BTABB. I needed a few days to soak up the information given to me by you but a few month to get used to the new mindsets.

  I guess most guys visit this site to get help with girls, so did I. The reason for me buying your stuff was – obviously – a girl. I reflected on the programs and the more time I did spend with thinking about your advice, the better it got for me.

  I am doing better with all the people around me since, not just girls. It is pretty cool to see how people respond to your behavior when you start changing it.
  A few weeks ago I watched a movie called “Crazy, Stupid, Love” starring Ryan Gosling. I guess you have to feel like his character, aren’t you Dan?

  To all the guys out there who are still thinking about getting one of the products: consider the money you spend on the program(s) as an investment in yourself. I did! Trust me, it will improve your life!

  Of course I am not done with learning more from the site. I check out the articles here, read the flow another time and stuff like that. You can always improve yourself.

  I am excited what this year will bring to me.

  Thanks for giving me this information Dan. I really appreciate it.

  Best, Tony

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Tony

    Thanks for your positive feedback.

    It’s great to hear that all areas of your life have been improving since watching the two programs. As you would now know, the more you apply the advice in real life, the faster things begin to change for the positive for you.

    About the movie: I haven’t seen it, but I think Gosling is a great actor. I tend to not like “dating comedy” type movies because, to me, they are more annoying than entertaining because I know that most guys watch Hollywood movies and see how women behave and think that is what women are like in real life. One of the main reasons for guys being so afraid to approach and date women these days, is those damned romantic/dating comedy movies with all the rejection, super nice guy characters, etc. Modern men see women slapping guys and tipping a drink over the head of a guy who approaches them and asks them out and they think that is what will happen in the REAL world. They fail to make the distinction between entertainment and education and don’t realize that if everything went smoothly without any shocking DRAMA in Hollywood movies, no one would watch them.

    In all my years approaching women and coaching guys to approach women, I’ve never seen a woman slap a man or tip a drink over his head for approaching, trying to kiss her, etc. However, if I turn on the TV tonight or go watch a “romantic comedy” I will be sure to see that kind of thing.

    Thanks again for sharing your success so far and I hope that this year is your best yet! Make it happen!

    Cheers
    Dan

• James

  Hey Dan,

  I purchased your alpha male program a couple of months ago. I gotta say, I was blown away with the material you presented! I learned so many elements of being an alpha male that I never would have thought of myself. I have much success in social situations since studying your program. I used a great deal of your material and I was blown away on how well it worked. It wasn’t just the way the girls were really interested and attracted to me that I enjoyed, but it was also that respect that I was given from the guys around me. I could see that they respected me and knew that I was alpha.

  Right now though, I am in a bit of a dilemma and I was wondering if you could offer me a solution to the problem. I recently got promoted at work, which is great and I’m still very happy about it. However,there is another colleague who I work with that has been getting on my nerves. He’s the kind of alpha male that is more of a bully and who doesn’t like empowering people, but instead tends to put others down. He’s constantly insulting and taking shots at me, and I know that it shouldn’t affect me but I’m having a hard time getting this guy out of my head. I guess my question is how do you handle people who have the napoleonic mindset of trying to control everything and everyone?

  Again, thank you very much for the program

  James

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey James

    Thanks for sharing your success so far. Much appreciated.

    It’s funny how you mentioned your recent promotion at work. I’ve lost count now how many times a customer of The Modern Man has contacted us with a success story about women, but also happened to mention how he’s also been promoted at work or landed a great new job, or made a bunch of great new friends. It’s these types of side benefits that most guys don’t realize they will experience when they improve their confidence, social skills and understanding of women. So, THANK YOU for pointing out those other things in addition to your improved success with women.

    About your question: You need to respond how I explain and demonstrate in the program. Do you remember the part where I gave demonstrations on how to respond to guys trying to pick on you? Do that and he’ll give up trying to mess with you. However, if his taunts and insults are way over the top and very frequent, you need to pull him aside and find out why he behaves like that. Ask him, “Hey Bob, I want to have a quick chat about how you’ve been talking to me lately. There have been many incidences where you’ve [done this, done that – fill in the blank here James] and I just want to tell you that it’s really annoying to me man. Is there any reason you’re directing that stuff at me?” and then get his response. Then, let him know, “I’d rather that you and I be able to talk to each other in an easy-going way without all that other stuff, so if you could ease up on the insults that would be appreciated.” Talk in the tone I use in the program when giving similar examples and use the assertive presence that I demonstrate. Unless he’s an absolute nutcase, he will then immediately begin changing his behavior towards you and showing you respect.

    Cheers
    Dan

• James

  ok sounds good, thanks again for taking the time to write back!

  • Dan Bacon

    You’re welcome mate.

    Enjoy the great times ahead!

    Cheers
    Dan

• Lucas

  Hi Dan,

  I am a 23 year old who is not obviously ready to settle down with a girl, despite having my friends wonder why I am not in a relationship yet.
  Maybe later, but not now…

  Anyway, even though I am not ready for a LTR, just like any other male my age, I am looking to get sex with many hot women without first having to date them and bring them flowers and all that boring jazz, lol.

  So in essence, do you think Alpha Male Power will get me laid right away?
  By reading the bullets, it does seem so. What makes it so effective?

  Thanks man,

  Lucas M.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Lucas

    Thanks for your question.

    The reason Alpha Male Power is so effective in getting you laid is that women are naturally sexually attracted to alpha males – they can’t stop themselves from feeling sexually attracted, it just happens automatically. Among many other things in the program, I demonstrate how to use sexual and assertive body language and tonality when talking to a woman to amplify her attraction and desire for you to the point where she feels horny and wants something to happen. I also explain how to be more forward and alpha with women, while also being respectful and gentlemanly.

    However, I must add: If you are clueless at pulling women back for sex and need to learn more about the process of going from a kiss to sex on the first night, the program for you would be Dating Power because we explain the “pick up” step by step, all the way to the bedroom. Alpha Male Power is for guys who already know a bit about the fundamental processes involved in hooking up with women. Watch this video for more info: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/4-new-mastery-level-video-programs.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Steve

  Hey Dan,

  I used to be a big wuss but am now much more of a man. However,when i’m around family or friends from my past i tend to revert back to my old behaviors. Is there any way to change this?

  Cheers,
  Steve

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Steve

    Thanks for your question.

    Yes, of course. There is way to change any ineffective behavior; you simply replace it with an effective behavior.

    Your sudden loss of confidence and masculinity around your family and friends is due to your ineffective thinking. You suddenly begin thinking like an omega male and you simply need to change that to alpha male thinking. My program, Alpha Male Power, will teach you how to think, talk and behave like a true alpha male. Once you understand it and begin living that way, you never go back.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Steve

  Hi Dan,

  What do you do when you’re getting left out or not invited to something (whether it’s intentional or not)? Like a party? Thank you so much.

  • Steve

    Which is the best program for social skills?

    • Dan Bacon

      Hi Steve

      Thanks for your question.

      All of our programs improve your social skills in different areas. Please see: http://www.themodernman.com/success/which-product-is-for-you.html

      Cheers
      Dan

  • Dan Bacon

    Hi Steve

    Thanks for your question.

    That happens when you’re not the type of guy that people want to invite. Become more alpha and charismatic and improve your social skills. Everything will then change naturally and automatically for you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Adam

  Hey Dan
  I do not struggle that much with women. Not that this would not improve me. I have already read the flow and it really gives results.
  But my problem is, I dont have alpha power. Like when Im with my friends, Im not the one to lead a conversation or say, “alright lets go guys”. I just dont have that effect.

  And also, my confidence goes up and down. I dont go out that much, but when I do, I hook up with a girl. The next day I feel so confident and unstopable. After a while, this feeling goes away and I am not as confident.
  Thats why this sounded so great and something I crave for! What is your oppinion? I am just asking if it is worth because I am a student on a tight budget.

  Thanks Dan
  Adam

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Adam

    Great to hear of your success so far using The Flow. You’re able to hook up with girls any time you go out – nice! That’s exactly what The Flow provides.

    About being more Alpha: Yes, of course. That is what Alpha Male Power provides. I recommend you read this article to understand what life is like when you’re not alpha: http://www.themodernman.com/dating/the-consequences-of-not-being-an-alpha-male.html If you want to experience what it’s like to be consistently alpha, simply follow the advice in the program and it will happen naturally for you.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kevin

  Good Day Dan,

  Wow, I never realized how important Step 3 of The Flow was until I finished reading your “Do Women Like Sex As Much As Men” article!

  Strange how the female mind works…
  No wonder why my friends keep taking women on dates and nothing comes out of it. Perhaps I will show them your article, but in a way, I want to keep your stuff a secret! lol.

  Anyways, just wondering if Step 3 of The Flow is also taught in this Alpha Male Power program as well?

  Thanks Dan.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Kevin

    Thanks for your positive feedback.

    Yes, The Flow is the fundamental process we use for approaching women and getting to a phone number, kiss, date and sex. Alpha Male Power is about being an alpha male, but fundamental process of The Flow still applies no matter what. The Flow is like the car and everything else we teach is like fuel to power you along to success.

    We have different programs because different guys need to learn about different things in more detail. For instance, some guys want to learn a lot about being an alpha male whereas others want to learn a lot about conversation. For more info on our different programs, check out the descriptions here: http://www.themodernman.com/success/which-product-is-for-you.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Aaron

  How are you Dan,

  I’m married and am trying to be more of a “man” for my wife. I noticed when I’m acting this way sometimes she likes it but at other times it feels like we’re disconnected and just f*ing. Almost like we don’t care about each other and just using each other for sex to the point that it brings us further apart. Do you know what I mean? Am I doing this right or should I go back to a more loving and appreciating dynamic? – Aaron

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Aaron

    Thanks for your question.

    Mate, if you look out there on the web you will find that most people (who are not experts, not happy in their own relationship and are just making up stuff as they go along) will say that you need to be more loving, affectionate, etc. It’s not the answer. What I teach in Better Than a Bad Boy http://store.themodernman.com/in/2cf8a89 is how to penetrate your woman body AND mind, not just body. You don’t need to do any weird “new age” stuff like eye-gazing for hours, etc. It’s much more simple than that. What I teach is how to be a man throughout the relationship, so when you get to the bedroom, the foreplay has already been taking place and it feels right for both of you to engage fully in the sex.

    Essentially, your woman wants to be able to open herself up (body and mind) and be penetrated by you. How do you make that happen and how do you actually do it when she’s open? That’s what I teach in the program.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Knut

  Hey, Dan.

  What are you advised sequence/rank of your programs?
  I know that “The Flow” is the first program, but in what order are all of the other programs? (For the most effective learning-curve.)

  And how many months/years do you think a guy with extremely low self-esteem/self-confidence will take to become an genuine alpha-male/consistently confident? (With the assumption of him stepping out of his comfort-zone to some degree, every single day.)

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Knut

    Thanks for your question.

    There is no set sequence when purchasing our programs separately because each guy needs to learn different things. For instance, some guys need to learn more about conversation (The Ultimate Guide to Conversation: http://store.themodernman.com/in/3885871) and how to be an alpha male (Alpha Male Power: http://store.themodernman.com/in/d2e92f), whereas other guys already know that stuff and just want to learn how to approach women and escalate to sex (Dating Power: http://store.themodernman.com/in/ff7fdd).

    About the learning curve: Again, it depends on the guy’s existing skill level and willingness to follow our advice. Read through the success stories here and you’ll see guys talking about getting results immediately, within days, within weeks, etc: http://www.themodernman.com/success/modern-man-success-stories.html

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ben

  Hey Dan,

  I’m 19, had a rocky childhood – my parents kind of neglected me and so basically I have very low self-esteem; my father always called me a piece of s*** and I grew up with that in my mind, which just made me feel inadequate as a person overall and created all sorts of social problems for me.It hurts me inside when I see girls I really like but can’t talk to them because of this.
  So I wanted to know, would this programme help me, or would you suggest a different one? Any advice from you would be much appreciated mate.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Ben

    Thanks for your question.

    Reading your comment brings back some memories for me. I can relate to you a bit about how your father treated you. I also got told that I would most-likely amount to nothing, that I was hopeless and a few times when I said what I wanted to achieve in life, I would get laughed at by my dad. Hearing that and then seeing how the parents of my friends would interact with them (in such a loving and supportive way), certainly didn’t make me happy about being around my family. However, when I grew up and had time to think about things, I realized that parents “learn on the job” so to speak and their ability to be a loving, supportive, empowering parent comes down to their level of emotional intelligence, social intelligence and personal insecurities. A parent may love you, but due to their own personal insecurities and lack of emotional intelligence, they make strike out at you with words such as your father used to describe you. Fathers like that actually need their children to love them and make THEM feel better because they don’t feel emotionally full as a person. When I learnt that and approached my relationship with my father with that wisdom, the relationship became so much more relaxed and positive.

    Anyway, enough about that stuff. Yes, you will find that as you watch Alpha Male Power, a lot of your hurt will begin to fade away because it will become unnecessary to hold on to it. You will learn how to think like a forward-moving alpha male who doesn’t hide back in fear and who doesn’t use past experiences as a reason to sulk and feel down. A true alpha male uses his “alpha male power” to push through the obstacles of life and breakthrough to achievement. In terms of your current reluctance to approach girls you like, I also include my tested method for overcoming approach anxiety, which when used, will begin to eliminate your approach anxiety. After a couple of uses, you will no longer feel approach anxiety because it will have become irrelevant. You will be able to walk up and talk to any girl, any time. When you reach that level of wisdom (which will happen very quickly), you will laugh at how easy it is to approach and meet girls. You’ll also be happy about the fact that they like being approached by an alpha male like you.

    Enjoy the great times ahead.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Phil

  Hey Dan,
  I am trying to become more alpha at work. There are times when the manager is not there and I am assuming the alpha role. There are also times when I am trying to do that and there are other employees who are there trying do to the same thing that I am.
  They are being very aggressive about taking the lead and trying to be very bossy to other people. When I challenge them on this they want to get into yelling matches. How to I handle this situation? How to I be more alpha than these other employees without getting into arguments at work? Thanks
  Phil

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Phil

    Thanks for your question.

    Have you ever seen The Dog Whisperer with Cesar Milan? Just like with dogs, asserting your leadership over a pack of humans is not about getting into yelling (or barking) matches with them. Being alpha starts from within. If you have that in check, then your behavior, body language and vibe will naturally be correct. If you don’t know how to alpha within, follow the advice in this program: http://store.themodernman.com/in/d2e92f

    Cheers
    Dan

• Ben

  Wow ok, firstly thanks for the response mate. Just want to know, will this help me achieve the same results the programme was designed for, WITHOUT me having to fix my relationship with my father (I really don’t like the guy); I believe that no-one deserves to have their childhood filled with fear and inadequacy, and that’s whats happened to me. It’s amazing how these things can affect your success with women and life in general.

  So yeah, can I be successful without having to fix my relationship with him? or would there be some level of fear and inadequacy still left in me?

  Thanks
  Ben

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Ben

    You’re welcome mate.

    No, you don’t have to fix your relationship with your father to be confident and successful with women. However, when you achieve the level of confidence that we help guys achieve, you will find it easier to talk to your father and begin repairing the relationship if you want to. I know you feel: I didn’t want to be the one to fix the relationship between my Dad and I, but I eventually realized that he didn’t have the emotional intelligence to do it himself, so I took the lead and our relationship is a lot closer as a result.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Kerry

  Hey Dan,

  I just had an interesting experience and I’d like some advice.

  Background:
  I’ve been friends with a woman for a few years. She has a boyfriend and they’re pretty serious. No problem. I’m happy for her and don’t want her. I also realize that their relationship is higher priority than our friendship.

  I went to see them both at an outdoor show today and in the conversation I had the following exchange with her:
  Me: “Hey, I still like your hair cut like that. Every time I see it I think it looks good.”
  Her: “I might get it cut really short.”
  Me: “No. Really?”
  Her: “Yeah. You’ve never seen me with it really short have you?”
  Me: “No. Oh yeah, I forgot, it’s ME who likes long dark hair. You know, something to hold on to.”

  At this point her boyfriend said, “Hey. That’s enough of that!” I just glanced at him and laughed and he repeated himself, so I turned and said, “Yeah, sure. No problem.” Then I changed topics and continued my conversation.

  He is obviously insecure, and also an alpha (but not a great one). He clearly thought I was flirting with her or being inappropriate. I was just kidding around with my friend.

  I came away with some mixed feelings. I didn’t like being talked to like a kid and being told what I could and couldn’t do. I didn’t like the underlying threat and I didn’t like being accused of doing something wrong.

  Now, getting in a pi_ing contest with this guy would be stupid. Plus he would probably throw a punch. Afterward, I was wondering what I could have done differently.

  I thought about saying, “You really love her don’t you. I wasn’t hitting on your girl if that’s what you think.”

  I don’t want to back down to every moron who casts a challenge my way, but if I’m in the wrong, or need to step off then I can do that.

  Advice? Interacting with other alpha’s and encountering the alpha challenge is new to me and I’m still learning how to navigate that. What are your thoughts Dan?

  -Kerry

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Kerry

    Thanks for your question.

    As long as you genuinely weren’t trying to flirt with her to create a situation where she wanted to be with you, then you could have genuinely replied with, “Haha, no probs man. I’m not flirting with your girlfriend. I’m just messing around. You guys have a great relationship and we are just friends.” You would smile and genuinely be light-hearted and easy-going about it, because you having nothing to hide and are just chatting freely with your female friend.

    It’s not “backing down” to a guy if you don’t hit on his girlfriend or fight him over his girlfriend. It’s just being a respectful, loyal and emotionally mature friend. However, that said – I never flirt with my friend’s girlfriends or wives because it’s just not appropriate. I have a friendly flirt with them (i.e. friendly teasing and joking around), but not a sexual flirt (i.e. flirting that is dominant with consistent, sexual undertones). If I were to hit on the women of my friends, it would cause all sorts of problems for everyone because the women would feel attraction and the guys would notice.

    …and that is what it seems happened for you. He could tell that she was feeling some attraction for you and since he isn’t that confident in himself, it got to him.

    BTW: The style of alpha male that we teach about here at The Modern Man is about being real, honest, authentic, but also going after what you really want in life without fear. If you want improve your alpha male traits, go ahead and watch Alpha Male Power. It’s truly an amazing program, full of “blow your mind” type insights, techniques and methods for living the life of a successful, alpha male.

    Cheers
    Dan

• Gouffran

  Yo Dan,

  I’ve been having this problem for years now where on some days I feel fearful, anxious, less confident and getting really affected by little things or criticism from people – the nice gut mode pretty much; on other days I feel fearless, not caring what anyone says, pretty confident, but an angry type of confidence (lol, I don’t know how to explain this), but in social situations I do end up making trouble and such, sometimes even insulting women and being overly-aggressive during interactions – the badboy mode I guess.

  After having some time to think about my past and myself, what confuses me is the oscillation between the two emotional states (the nice guy and badboy – note: they switch around after a couple of months, due to what, I don’t know); I know these are both unhealthy states – probably has been caused by my shitty bringing up and past experiences.

  So Dan, I really want to sort this issue out once and for all, will this programme help me get to a, let’s say happy-medium state?
  Also in the video it said you teach how to have control of the emotional state – are you reffering to the kind of states in my case?

  Anyways a slight response from you man, I’d be so grateful.

  • Dan Bacon

    Hey Gouffran

    Thanks for your question.

    Based on what you’ve said there, it’s clear to me that you simply don’t know how to be an alpha male. You’re trying to be an alpha male (and it’s not working because you’re acting like a bad boy, which is not the way to do it), so then you go back to being a nice guy and people don’t respect you for that either.

    My Alpha Male Power program will clear up the mess you’re putting yourself through. I’ll give you the clarity you need on how to live with a balanced, confidence, happy, forward-moving emotional state.

    Cheers
    Dan

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