Better Than a Bad Boy transforms you into the real man that all women are desperately looking for.
It provides you with a deep, powerful and exclusive understanding of women that makes them irresistibly drawn to you when they first meet you, when you are getting to know each other and when you are deep into a long-term relationship.
Women cannot help but feel deep respect, attraction and love for the type of man that you will become when you use the powerful techniques from this program.
Better Than a Bad Boy is about being the real man that women are desperately looking to be with and stay with.
Most guys never get taught what women are truly looking for when it comes to dating, sex and relationships and end up falling short of being what women refer to as a real man.
A guy’s insecurity and confusion about what it really means to be a man then leads to him being rejected or dumped, even though he is a good guy and had good intentions with the woman.
The techniques in this Better Than a Bad Boy make women see that you are one of the rare real men that all women wish they could be with.
When in a relationship, the Better Than a Bad Boy approach ensures that your woman never feels the urge to leave you because she knows (and you know too) that other guys simply don’t compare to you.
Format: Video.
Type: MP4.
Plays on: PC, Mac, phone, tablet.
Duration: 10.9 hours of video.
Reg. Price: $797
Special price: $397
What will you learn?
Here are just SOME of the amazing things you will learn when you watch Better Than a Bad Boy:
Pass a woman’s tests with ease: Today’s women are more challenging, confident and independent than women of previous generations. To find a man who is stronger and more confident than they are, women have to test to see how much of a man you really are.
If you can’t pass a woman’s tests, you’ll make her feel as though she is stronger/tougher than you and it will turn her off at a deep level.
Supreme sexual confidence: You cannot be what women refer to as a “real man” if you’re not sexually confident. In this program, you’ll go through the mental transformations required to be truly sexually confident.
You will also learn how to treat a woman during the lead up to sex and during sex to demonstrate your supreme sexual confidence. She’ll love you like you’ve never experienced before. Note: These techniques work even if you have plenty, little or no sexual experience at all.
Sexual charisma: Powerful, transformational techniques that will turn you into a sexually charismatic, sexually confident and sexually attractive man. These techniques change everything. Your whole game is about to change.
You will have never, ever experienced anything quite like it. These techniques are the shortcut to get to the mastery level of success with women. You will finally get to experience what it’s like to be a master with women; to be the type of man that women go “weak at the knees” over and want to have sex with immediately.
Deep attraction, love and respect: Most guys can’t really capture a woman’s heart. They might have plenty of sex and good times in the early part of a relationship, but once the novelty wears off the woman’s attraction, love, respect and interest begins to fade.
In this program, you will learn how to capture a woman’s heart at the deepest level and cause her to feel the deepest level of attraction, respect and love for you possible.
Mastery level flirting examples: Watch and listen as I demonstrate the mastery level flirting techniques that turn women on at a deep and exciting level. These flirting techniques will make women refer you to as charming and sexy and if you use them when talking to groups of women, you will notice that they compete with each other for your attention.
Mastery level confidence techniques: Most guys know the basics when it comes to confidence and as a result, they only ever feel a “bit confident” or feel confident in some situations, but not all. In Better Than a Bad Boy, you will learn new, mastery level mindsets that unlock more of your confidence and allow you to connect with a confidence that NEVER goes away.
Mastery level conversation techniques: To be successful with very attractive women or women who play hard to get, you need to know how to dominate the woman during the conversation and “show her who’s boss” so to speak.
It’s not done in a aggressive way, but in a savvy, confident and assertive way while still being the good guy that you are. When women feel your strength during challenging conversations and moments with them, they won’t be able to stop themselves feeling deep attraction and beginning to fall for you.
Mastery level transformations: A lot of guys who begin learning how to be successful with women never really get to the mastery level; they stop many levels short and wonder why they aren’t experiencing the success that everyone else seems to talking about.
As you watch Better Than a Bad Boy, you will feel yourself going through the final “mental transformations” required to reach a mastery level understanding of this. From there, it’s all smooth sailing and you will find success with women to be one of the easiest things in the world.
No more awkward feelings during interactions: Some guys can approach women and start conversations, but they can’t stop themselves from feeling nervous and awkward during the interaction. Prepare to say goodbye to all that unnecessary nervousness and awkwardness and say hello to feeling confident, comfortable and totally in control.
Core mindsets of a real man: What differentiates a “run of the mill” man from a “real man”? How does a “real man” think when it comes to approaching women, talking to women, flirting with women, having sex with women, etc? What does he focus on in life? Where does he get his passion, drive and determination? What defines him? How do women instantly know that he is a real man?
Managing multiple relationships: These techniques will allow you to have one girlfriend or many at once. I explain how I manage the conversations and challenging moments while having multiple girlfriends, so my girlfriends fall further in love rather than getting upset and leaving.
Masculinity and being a real man: Get an in-depth education on how to be the type of man that other men respect and that women desperately want to be with.
Lifetime solution for success with women: The principles, techniques and strategies will help you throughout your entire life. They apply to your success with women from the very first conversation and all the way throughout an entire, lifetime relationship.
Your ideal life: So many guy have so much potential, but they waste their years being afraid to go after what they truly want in life and with women. In Better Than a Bad Boy, you will connect with your truest, deepest desires about life and women and begin taking the exciting steps towards success.
Your life purpose: Do you know what your life is about?
Do you have dreams of becoming something or achieving something big, but are holding back out of fear or lack of clarity on how to make it happen. In Better Than a Bad Boy, we’ll go deep into your mind to find out your true purpose in life and then give you the tools, steps, techniques and mindsets to make it happen.
Different types of men and consequences: There are negative consequences for living your life as a nervous nice guy, just as there are negative consequences for being a bad boy. Discover the most effective type of man to be and enjoy happiness and easy success in all areas of your life.
Make a woman feel like a woman: These days, most guys suppress their masculinity and are confused about how manly they should behave around women. Since today’s women have become so confident and independent, men often don’t know how to treat them and make them feel like a real woman.
When you use the techniques from this program, you will be like a breath of fresh air to a woman; she will welcome you with open arms because you are the real man she’s been looking for all along.
Sex on the first date: What to say and do so pretty much any woman will be turned on and eagerly wanting to have sex with you on the first date.
Sex on the first night: Examples of how I pull one night stands, which then turn into relationships. Discover the techniques that I mastered and perfected over the last 7 years that have allowed me to consistently pull one night stands every time I go out with the intention to do so.
What women really want: Discover what women really want; the things that they simply cannot say publicly out of fear of being judged. Go deep into the female mind and understand what she really wants from you in terms of sex, conversation, love and relationship.
Make her never want to leave you: What is it about a man that makes a woman want to stick by his side for life? Discover the surprising, rarely-known secrets in this program.
Unlike other men who often worry about their woman losing interest or leaving, you will experience the opposite – your woman will worry about you losing interest and she will continually and desperately try to please you.
Make your ex-girlfriends want you back now: Most guys who want their ex-girlfriend back had been dumped or cheated on because they weren’t enough of a man for her; They became too protective, needy or wimpy and she simply lost attraction and interest.
The techniques in this program will show her that you truly have changed and if your love was real the first time around, she will be drawn right back to you for the reunion of a lifetime!
Turn women on without words: Discover the mastery level body language techniques that turn women on instantly. You will have to experience this to believe how amazing it is! Women simply cannot help themselves – they want you and they want you NOW! Think of it as your new secret weapon to have basically any woman you want.
Make your girlfriend/wife go “love mad” for you: Learn the mastery level conversation, body language, flirting and relationship techniques that cause a woman to fall deeper and deeper in love with you. She will never want to leave you.
Mental and emotional strength: Become tougher than you already are. The powerful masculine mindsets in this program will supercharge your strength and allow you to handle situations that others see as stressful or difficult with calm, control and everyday ease.
Simply irresistible: Discover how to be the type of man that women simply cannot resist. You won’t have to worry about trying to get girls to like you from now on – they will like you automatically and without you having to try.
Simply unforgettable: Be the type of man that a woman simply cannot forget or get over if you break up with them. If you have an ex-girlfriend that you want to get back, use these techniques and she will see the changes in you and feel compelled to give it a second chance.
If you want to meet new women, these techniques will make women fall for you during the first conversation.
Instant attraction: The techniques in this program will get women attracted to you instantly. They will feel attraction for your body language, vibe, presence and masculinity.
Then, when you talk with them they will feel even more attraction as a result of your charm, flirting, humor, conversation and “coolness” as a man. Get ready to experience a whole new level of success with women. This is it.
Instant respect: Today’s women can be quite cruel and insensitive and if you approach them in the wrong way, they will sometimes openly disrespect you.
When you use the techniques from Better Than a Bad Boy, women will instantly know that they are in the presence of a real man and they will show you respect. The respect will then deepen further as the interaction continues.
Be Better than a bad boy: Discover how to be the type of man that women refer to as a “Real Man.” Being a good guy or a nice guy is not enough; you also need to be strong (mentally and emotionally) and have all of the powerful personality traits that are taught in this mastery level program.
The best comeback lines EVER: You know those tricky moments where women put you on the spot by saying something challenging? Well, if you’re like most guys you get tongue tied in those moments and only think of great things to say AFTER the conversation has ended.
You’re about to learn all of my best comeback lines that show women who’s boss and make them laugh hysterically.
Get women who were previously out of your league: It’s time to step up your game and get with the type of women you REALLY want. No more accepting second best, third best or worse – get what you really want.
When you use the techniques from Better Than a Bad Boy, women who were previously out of your league will begin trying to impress YOU. Don’t think that’s possible for a guy like you? Try it and you will see that you had the power all along and just didn’t know it.
Your purchase of this program comes with a 30 day money back guarantee. Try it today – 100% risk free.
Enjoy the great times ahead with women. I look forward to hearing about your success!
Cheers
Dan Bacon
P.S. This new, MASTERY LEVEL program will transform you into the real man that women are desperately looking for. You will enjoy natural and easy success with women during conversation, on dates, during sex and in relationships.
Women will try to pick YOU up when you meet them and they will try to maintain YOUR interest during a relationship. I’ve been having a lot of FUN using these techniques over the last 7 years of my life to enjoy endless love, sex and happiness with beautiful women.
Now, I am looking forward to sharing these amazing, revolutionary and life-changing secrets with you, so that YOU can enjoy all the love, sex and happiness that you desire with women. Get started now.
P.P.S. I’m so confident that the information in this program will positively change your life and get you the results that you truly want with women, that I am willing to take ALL THE RISK by offering you a 100% satisfaction guarantee and a 30 day money back guarantee.
I will give you all my amazing secrets and if you don’t like what you learn for any reason, just contact me and I’ll refund your purchase. However, I’m sure that if and when I do hear from you, it will be because you want to share a success story or an excited comment on the site saying how much you love this program. Enjoy the great times ahead! Try it today – 100% risk free.
“Hey Dan, this review is in regards to “Better Than a Bad Boy” and I just felt the need to write here a review just to tell people your advice truly works and that men need to hear that.
First of all, I was kind of a negative person and the bad boy type, walking with a “too cool for you” facial expression. Was I getting some women? Yeah, sometimes, and they were pretty, but… guess what happened after Dan’s advice in his video…
After Dan’s advice in the video now I’m able to get most of the women I want and I’m not “in my head” all the time doing these “too cool faces” which mostly make women go away from you instead of attracted, but well, that’s a long story and Dan explains everything in the video.
Now I’m able to approach women better and to get into a positive state of mind thanks to his advice, I was getting things wrong, to be honest…
I have watched the program like 3 times already and believe me, you’ll get advice like nowhere else, other fake gurus talk bs but this guy actually has dedicated time of his precious life to help men like us who need help in a f*cked up world like this we’re living in.
My advice?… Man, you’re doing a lifetime investment if you get better than a bad boy program, this program is what worked the best for me and I promise you, there’ll be moments you say “aha” and you’ll be thinking “Jesus… I was all wrong”
I can’t thank you enough for helping me Dan, now I’m a more positive person and not like before… now I understand why is so important to do x things instead of some other things.
Guys, if you’re reading this review, believe me, you go ahead and buy the program, you’ll experience the benefits instantly and you’ll gain peace of mind also, it just changes totally your life for the better, you’re not negative anymore and your attitude stands out.
What I like the most is that he is giving advice and everything is natural, you just have to work on yourself and apply his knowledge, I’m happy there’s one person I can count on when it comes to real advice for men.
P.S. Make sure to take notes and to put into practice what you learn, this is so important!
Thanks Dan, my big brother from another country, Juan”
“What up Dan,
I have numerous success stories to share but will give one to keep it short.
I have a new girl (still considering whether to make her my steady girlfriend). Just met her a few weeks back and what do you know she is crazy about me! Lol.
Just finished spending the night with her and if I had a dollar for the number of times she asked me what I have done to her to make her so crazy about me.
Apparently I told her sometime last week that I would not able to see her for close to week cause I had to focus on some school work, needless to say she told me she found that super attractive especially when she found out that I have a deep love for what I am studying and wish to excel at it globally.
Says she never seen a guy with the kind of focus and determination that I do, and that she finds it so attractive for some weird reason she can’t explain it.
Also she says I have a very relaxed confidence and absolutely not afraid to be myself and I seem not be intimidated by people even if am not the tallest of guys.
She just keeps kissing and grabbing me at every opportunity. Just as you do, I hardly ever call or text her, she does all of that.
It’s all thanks to your better than a bad boy program. It is pure gold man. Pure gold.
Well just thought I should put that out there so other guys would read and be motivated to put your advise into action. Tosin”
“Better than a bad boy has been an awesome experience. Much more than learning how to become attractive to women, this program has taught me how to live out my life in a much more effective way.
It has given me insights as to how becoming a strong man can then lead to success in life.
I used to be a person who gave up easily, can’t control his emotions, and crumble in the face of rejection and tests put up by women. Now I feel powerful and unstoppable.
When I first got your program I only wanted to get that one special girl who was a very close friend of mine (whom I met through facebook), but nothing more. After reading the flow and applying the techniques on other women, she began to take notice and asked me out.
And during that date, I escalated to kissing then sex.
And it’s all because the modern man. Without you I probably would probably still have no clue with women.
Right now, I’m casually dating a couple of women and I’m no longer nervous or afraid of rejection. Again, thanks for everything! Walter”
“I bought better than a Bad Boy and listened to it for months.
I changed from being okay with women to then becoming stellar with women and attaining the ability to have my pick and choice of the hot chicks I wanted.
After some time enjoying different women (& I certainly did enjoy), I then decided on a one on one relationship with a great girl. There were some issues at the start, I got Make Her Love you for Life… And I can definitely say this stuff works!
We are going amazingly well, she’s become a great woman and lover and does everything I love from dressing and making herself beautiful wherever we go to loving and pampering me.
And… I have definitely become a better man to and for her, which is all part of it, but now I can see ahead of time if she is going to act up or be overly emotionally feminine, or testy.
I cannot describe how so so good it feels to know how to react, what to do and what definitely not to do and how to respond to bring things back to where we both want to be, loving, happy and laughing. We laugh a lot, it’s great!
I f*cked this up a lot in previous relationships in my life, reacting in a way that didn’t benefit me nor my lover. If only I knew what to do back then things would have definitely gone better my way…
I just had to say that I have definitely reaped the benefits of taking the time to learn this.
My girlfriend benefits from having a man she loves and respects. And other parts of my life down to my work, friends and family also are better than they ever have been, as this certainly has transferred into all other aspects of my life.
I only wish I’d known earlier in my life… but hey no regrets as life is so good now. Frank”
“Before The Modern man, I was beyond hopeless with women (actual I was the worst out there) I couldn’t make them feel attracted, they hated me and disrespected me and talked behind my back and said nasty things about me.
Like what… I thought I was handsome, friendly, really hard-working, a great guy, captain of my house team, really skillful in so many different things, but women weren’t interested one bit.
Not even 1% interested.
It got so bad, that through feeling awfully sad, day in and day out, watching loads of pornography and feeling even worse and lonely, I had eventually called a hooker. She was ugly too… not only was the sex average, but she gave me an unfair service too.
Talk about a double slap in the face right?
Lost my virginity to an ugly, desperate hooker as well. Oh what an awful time of my life.
I said the night I got back home, “Enough is enough, I will have a girlfriend and she’ll respect me and love me. I’ll do whatever it takes, I’m sick of women treating me badly and playing with my feelings.”
I tried dating apps and went on a date with an desperate woman, who actually rejected my feelings in the end. (Haha, fantastic. Isn’t that ironic for a first date)
After being annoyed, angry and crying for a few hours, I came across The Modern Man. Now this very site, changed my life. Initially, I thought that I would not be able to pick up any women.
I thought it was impossible.
No way will any girl like me.
I experience chronic pain and have mild Asperger’s syndrome.
I couldn’t speak to some people properly, being mentally challenged in some areas.
But no, none of these things mattered.
Dan, Ben and Stu showed me so many different things that no one, not even my mother would tell me. In fact, my mum still tells me that I need to dress well to attract women.
I soon realised that while I practiced the techniques that I learnt in The Flow and Better Than a Bad Boy (both awesome and incredible programs) I slowly got more appreciation from women, they seemed to appreciate my company and were interested in me.
Eventually, I had sex with three hot women (they weren’t ideal marriage/relationship types though) but the fact that those women actually desired me was an incredible feeling and experience.
After months of practice, having a confident mindset and thorough persistence (though people with my condition are naturally persistent), I now have a stunning, sexy, beautiful girlfriend who liked me from the very beginning.
Flirting with her, making her attracted, connecting with her and taking it to the next level, I got a first date.
1st date in, we flirted, kissed, had sex, (oh amazing and incredible. Much better experience. My goodness, it feels like you’re in a different world!).
I then started a relationship where she tries to impress me rather than me trying to impress her (like I used to do).
It’s hard to believe that a guy like myself, being ridiculed and shamed by women, teased about my lack of social skills and being manipulated to look stupid from my lack of non-verbal communication skills, is now being chased, desired, loved and appreciated by women.
Even outside of relationships and women, I have succeeded in so many new areas, particularly at work, the gym, goal setting, university studies. Incredible. A lot of men also respect me and look up to me now.
Dan Bacon, thank you for providing me with the material, the tools and the content, to help mend my broken heart over many, many years of suffering and loneliness.
I seriously wouldn’t be in the position I am now, without coming across The Modern Man.
Thank you so much. Will”
“I got Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy, Alpha Male Power and your Conversation product after using The Flow to get laid three times in about 6 months.
I wasn’t putting much effort into using The Flow because I am busy with my work but I think getting laid 3 times was good especially when I hadn’t had sex for 2 years prior to that.
Something hit me though about 3 months ago when I saw my friends getting into relationships and I was still just getting laid and not following up to keep the girl.
So I decided to keep learning from you and deepening my knowledge. I watched those 3 programs and listened to the ultimate guide to Conversation and then hit the bars in my city about 1 month ago.
I made a conscious decision to only talk to the very attractive women as you suggest and to my surprise I was able to get them attracted to me.
I was genuinely surprised but I know that your advice does work so it was sort of like another confirmation that I was doing this right.
I got 2 phone numbers and a kiss that night and then had a date the following week with the woman I liked the most. She and I started having casual sex and now we are seeing each other at least twice a week.
I am not yet fully ready for a relationship though I think. Something in me tells me to keep having fun and maybe settle down in about a year or more.
So I have been going out on Friday nights and I have had sex with 2 more women and I have another few who text me and call me looking to set up dates. It feels good to have this power.
I spent most of my life clawing and fighting to just get one woman interested enough to date me and now I have plenty of offers.
I will let you know when I have more success stories to share Dan but that is all for me now! Jake”
“Not even a week ago, I had no confidence in myself.
I was a nervous wreck even thinking about the girl I’m interested in.
Then I purchased “The Flow” and watched lots of your free videos.
After that I purchased Better than a Bad Boy, which I’m in the middle of right now.
Not only am I no longer nervous about this girl, I’m 100% CONFIDENT that I’m going to get her.
100% confident that she will be mine.
Not only that, you’ve helped me solidify my purpose(s) in life, and am naturally more confident in my interpersonal relationships and am no longer a wimp, nor do I show any wimpy qualities around others.
And my God does it feel good. If this is the change I can make in a week, I can’t imagine what the future holds.
I’m looking forward to sharing my success story, if this isn’t already. Todd”
“Hi Dan & the gang, just wanted to let you know that after about 3 weeks of watching your videos on Youtube, and starting on the Flow & Better than a Bad Boy, I’ve had a raunchy 3 some, and all nighter 1 night stand.
This is huge for me because previously I’d been more or less living as a part time hermit, part time workaholic and was really, really rusty. Thanks guys very grateful and optimistic for the first time in years! J”
“For the people that might be wondering about a program that is literally going to make your life easier and happier… Better than a Bad Boy.
It is completely amazing, if you can afford it, if not save a bit because wiser words couldn’t have been spoken. From the moment I finished I felt like a different person, my confidence went through the roof. It feels like I’ve got super powers or something now.
I originally bought it to be the man for my ex, but I’m having second thoughts now. She was really pretty but too immature and negative.
Now I feel like I can get whoever I want, but if there is one thing I want you to know is that if you feel a bit needy inside, as little as it is, I felt needy with my ex, well this program eliminated that completely.
It sounds arrogant but now I feel like the prize women need to win now. Jean Paul”
“I’ll start with a little bit about myself.
I am 23 years old, a senior at a major American football university in the United States.
Growing up, I never know how to act around women – my dad was very shy and quiet. I love him very much, and mean no disrespect when saying this – but he wasn’t a great role model when it comes to being a real man or being attractive to women.
So like many guys, I grew up being shy and being afraid to talk to women for fear that they might slap me or pour a drink on my head like you seen on TV and in the movies.
So I went on the internet and looked at all the different things – namely, pick-up artists.
After some trial and a lot of money spent, I came to the conclusion that they were a waste of money.
And then I stumbled on the Modern Man. I decided to give it a shot, and started with the Flow. I gave the techniques a shot, and when it worked, I was instantly hooked.
I can’t thank you, Ben, or Stu enough. My life has changed completely and it’s all thanks to your courses.
They are all great, and really teach what they are advertised to teach – but it is the responsibility of the person watching to actually perform the simple steps required.
Sometimes they take a little courage, but it’s not like you ask us to perform rocket science – just to have a pair of balls. You can’t find that many places these days.
I especially like Alpha Male Power and Better Than a Bad Boy.
Those courses to me were more about becoming a strong, powerful, masculine man who is pretty much guaranteed success in life because of the man those courses lead you to become, and secondary for me was the attracting women part.
Although, just as you advertise, they work incredibly well when it comes to attracting women naturally solely based on the person you are. I have had more women interested in me in the last few months than in the last 10 years.
I’ve also had sexual encounters that were frankly better than what I used to experience because the woman’s attraction and our connection was more real and deep.
Also, the Get Your Ex Back Super system worked for me as well, and I was surprised at how quickly and easily it worked.
Although, as it turned out the ex that I got back just wasn’t a good girl to have a relationship with, so I broke it off with her after a while.
She just wasn’t honest or trustworthy. But I learned a lot more than just how to get my ex back, including how to become a better version of myself and let go of any baggage that I had.
Anyway, I no longer feel like I have any limitations in what I can do or achieve in my life and I have all the tools that I need.
I can’t thank you or the guys enough. Keep up the good work! I’ll always appreciate what I learned from you! Jason”
“After the third pull with a beautiful woman I never thought I had a chance with [Meaning: He picked up beautiful women on 3 different occasions], I finally understand everything you were teaching.
I can’t believe how easy it is when you know what you’re doing, especially without all those anxious and intense feelings when I was still learning.
Better than a bad boy program was a huge plus. Thanks so much again Dan!!! I’ll continue to recommend you. Drew”
“Hey Dan!
Alright your program can work miracles!
For the past four years I have been in a relationship and recently my ex broke up with me.
I was devastated and even more so as I went through your program and realized where I went wrong being so desperate, needy, weak, etc.
I have really taken all of your programs to heart and am going full on with them because I do not want to be like I have been for the past four years.
Okay, so today was huge. I followed the advice in 21 great ways to get a girlfriend and I went to the mall and talked to a number of girls.
I then went out Salsa dancing tonight and applied all of the good stuff I learned in the flow, alpha male power, and better than a bad boy.
I met this waaaay hot girl (I mean in the past I would have been completely intimidated by her) and taking her through the flow by the end I had her giving me her number!
She is attracted to me in a way that I have never felt in that I feel like I’m coming from a place of strength now and she can feel that.
You’re right, Dan, when you say you may not even be thinking of your ex say if you have other way more attractive women in your life.
Thanks for this life changing program. It has helped me in one of the most difficult and yet strangely rewarding times in my life. Rudy”
“Hi Dan, I am not normally one for “kiss and tell stories”, but I know that success stories are good for business, and I reckon I owe you one.
I watched Better Than A Bad Boy only a couple of weeks ago.
Then I met a girl through a friend (so, in fairness, it wasn’t a completely cold pick-up), nevertheless I brought her back to my place the same night and we had sex – which I had never done before with a girl I had met only a few hours earlier.
Throughout the evening, I kept thinking “Stay confident, stay masculine, don’t get sucked into acting feminine”.
Well, as can be seen from the result, it was obviously brilliant advise which continues to work perfectly, as we have been together three times since and are going away on a “dirty weekend” together tomorrow.
It bothers me that I previously got suckered into the mindset of suppressing my natural masculine traits that happens for so many guys these days. The media is to blame for a lot of that.
I can see now that is a problem for many men, and women clearly don’t realise how much damage they have done to their own self-interests by giving out misleading signals over the past twenty or so years.
Anyway, thanks for opening my eyes. I owe you big time. Paul”
“Dan, I just want to thank you for all of the help you’ve supplied to me and every guy out there like me.
I found you guys last October and immediately noticed a drastic change in myself after watching Better Than a Bad Boy and Alpha Male Power, in particular.
I’ve since discovered my purpose in life and that created much higher confidence and self-esteem in myself.
I’ve never been one for bar environments to pick up women (so the Covid-19 pandemic didn’t really affect me in that regard) but I met a woman whose name I’d heard through mutual friends (and vice versa) in an environment in a place we’re at all the time.
All I did was display the traits you describe in great detail in your programs (and it was truly real, not just a facade). And we connected so damn well it was unreal. She told me we’re basically the same person.
And I just moved it forward…
10 days later we are in a relationship and she told me she’s never been more in love with anyone in her life, and she’s already planning out long term plans for us.
I only met her 3 weeks ago.
I bought your program “Make Her Love You For Life” right when we started our relationship too. Not because I need it. But because I know you have great information, and I know it’s gonna work.
Anyone who sees this message, I’m proof that everything Dan makes for the Modern Man is worth every penny.
I had no clue what to do and I was even a nervous wreck around women that were less attractive than my girlfriend now. My girlfriend is what most would call a pretty girl. A natural beauty. This is amazing. Thanks so much for everything, and cheers! T”
“Hey Dan, I’m amazed at how, even with so many products, you never overlap the information.
I got Alpha male power and Better than a bad boy and both are truly unique and powerful products in their own right.
To be honest I wasn’t sure of the difference between the two before watching them, but then found them to be eye opening in so many different ways all throughout the program.
I’ve learned so much from you over the past month and my life has changed completely.
I feel so much more confident and self assured, no matter where I am. Women notice me now and smile. It’s so weird.
I’ve already gotten a bunch of phone numbers, set up dates and slept with 2 women this month.
That may not sound like a lot, but I hadn’t had sex in years prior to this.
So, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.
You have literally changed my life and opened my eyes to the fact that I can select women that I want…and they actually want me in return. It’s priceless. Thanks man! Mitch”
“Hi Dan – Well first of all THANK YOU!.
I never thought I was going to say what I’m going to say but here it comes! In 4 or 5 years I was not seeing any girl! Today 6 months after buying the “better than bad boy” I have too many girls!
I really don’t know what to do, I’ve gotten too many girls and I don’t wanna break their heart.
Most of them keep calling me daily and I keep ignoring because I’m not interested anymore. And when I tell them how we are not meant to be together, they cry! I have what you Call a Luxury problem these days!
Even 2 of my co-workers who I happened to not be interested in keeps asking me out for dates!
And believe me I’m not attractive I’m just standard!
Never been good with girls, But hey what you taught me have made a complete difference, even all my friends now come to me for advise or tells me what to Write when they are texting some chicks, even they get laid sometimes because of me! Its really crazy!
And if you happen to know how I can turn Down these women in a Nice way without the tears and all that stuff I would be for ever grateful! But anyway I’m happier than I was. Thanks Dan! Majid”
“Dan – All your stuff works period. I’ve used your products for the past few years. I got the flow, dating power and better than a bad boy. For anybody considering this stuff. BUY. IT.
This happened to ME today.
I joined a new gym. While standing at the counter doing the paper work I staggered my stance. Bored really. Decided to use the T.I. technique just cause. And two incredibly hot chicks went out of their way to say hi to me. Individually. One by one. At different times.
I was shocked because I wasn’t trying to approach or pick up. I thought they were talking to the guy who worked there. I figured they knew him. But no. They made it clear. They were talking to me. When I said hi. Smiled. I had to practically chase them off to take my gym card mug shot.
The techniques just work. I was just practicing in a vacuum. And that’s been happening a lot lately. Women literally fall all over me. I mean, I’m using my body right. I got my confident smirk just right. I’m looking them in the eye just right. I approach. I’m funny. The escalations just fall into place.
Success has been this. Had a hot girlfriend. We broke up. Got a new hot girlfriend. Then we broke up too. Went back to the first girlfriend. She moved away. Then I moved away with ANOTHER hot older woman. Now I’ve moved back, and joined a new gym.
My point is this. Beautiful women are everywhere, waiting, HOPING to meet a man who understands what the modern man teach. Most guys don’t know this and I am thankful for that because it means no competition, lol! But I do hope more guys know so you guys can become successful. I am just enjoying myself while they don’t, lol! Ryan”
“Hi Dan
I recently purchased the Better Than a Bad Boy Program.
I tried a few of the techniques in this program and can I just say how well they worked (and might I add i’m only 2 videos into the program :)).
I went out in a group of friends on Saturday night 4 boys and 3 girls (all single btw) after using some techniques I noticed a massive change in how all 3 women were responding to me in the group. Everything from cheeky smiles/glances to playing/twirling with their hair.
I even noticed at one point how random women were seemingly moving towards us in one bar, despite the fact that in this bar it was full of metrosexual men or pretty boys.
This is without a doubt the best amount of money I have ever spent.
After being dumped by the woman I thought was the one after 14 months together.
Your program has opened my eyes and has almost destroyed the fears I have had about getting back into the game.
My confidence has been kicked up a notch. Thanks again. Chris.”
“I have been single most of my life, and while I understand complex concepts, women was the one area in life where I just had no clue.
There was obviously many attempts most which failed and it made no sense at all.
I stumbled upon The Modern Man after trying many others and for some reason it just made sense to try it out, even though it was the first option where I had to pay money to get the information, something which I usually avoid on the internet.
I started with Dating Power, 2 years ago and it was a brilliant starter product, it opened a whole new world to me.
Soon after this I decided I wanted to learn ballroom/latin dancing, and it was here where I started my adventure meeting many women, instead of going to bars which is still not something I am crazy about. You don’t have to guess, the advice just worked.
I had multiple ladies falling in love with me every time I would go out dancing.
Dating power also slowly changed the way I was at work and with friends, and people told me regularly they don’t what it was, but I changed, for the better.
Recently I acquired Better than a Bad boy product, I truly wanted it, even though I was already going great with women, and again, it was worth it.
It does more than help you with women, it teaches you things that make all aspects of life better.
With advice from this product, I am for the 1st time in a relationship longer than a few dates, and I can tell by the look on my girlfriend every time she comes over, she is still madly in love with me, and I am not even trying to convince her, I just enjoy the time together with her, and somehow she falls deeper and deeper in love with me still!
Short story, the products are amazing, and it teaches guys things, that all men should know.
I believe the things I learned in both products, are essential to enjoying your dating life to the fullest. David”
“Dan
I was a neutral guy who lost my ability to create a spark.
I have chosen the wrong women most of my life. I now choose quality women because your videos I’ve purchased have taught me how to raise my self esteem.
In America, men are taught to be good little boys around women and to not directly show their attraction to women. That’s been my major problem. Better Than A Bad Boy taught me to revive the ability to express my interest in women directly.
Last week for the first time since I was a kid, I was my real self around a group of men and women that I’m friends with. I also got a phone number after a 45 minute conversation with an attractive woman.
I feel like I am a confident man now that I have the skills. The change also happened in just a couple of months. This stuff really works. Thanks Dan. Clint”
“Hi Dan,
I’d like to thank you for helping me turn my life around. I came across the modern man website having just been dumped by my long term girlfriend.
I was devastated and dejected at the time and didn’t know what to do. I’ve since worked my way through The Flow, Dating Power, Better Than a Bad Boy and I’m now onto Alpha Male Power, all I can say is wow!
I wish I had known this stuff years ago, it feels like I’ve been groping about in the dark up till this point in my life but I am so grateful that I found the modern man when I did.
The stuff you teach is amazing and enlightening yet simple! As I started learning and applying what you teach my perspective changed and my confidence grew and grew.
I had the choice of dating 4 women last week which is unheard of for me. There was 1 out of the 4 who was perfect for me, so I had to let 3 of them down gently by saying I wasn’t available and I’m now in a new relationship with the girl I liked the most.
Even though I am still learning, I am very positive about the future. I won’t be repeating the mistakes I now know I made in the past that’s for sure. Thanks again! Sean”
“Hey Dan!
At first I was unsure about learning from The Modern Man.
Eventually, after a failed relationship (in which I felt “whipped”) and continuous failure with women, my frustration made me realize that I needed a little help.
I decided to take a leap of faith and learn from the guys at The Modern Man. Now, I can definitely say that learning from you guys was one of the best decisions I have ever made.
The programs you guys provide are extremely detailed yet very easy for men to relate to and understand.
The material is geared towards women, but becoming good with women is only one of the benefits one gains from learning from these guys.
Better Than a Bad Boy, The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, and of course The Flow have improved all areas of my life, including my work, happiness, relationships, and of course my ability with women.
After learning from Dan, Ben and Stu a few months ago I still feel like I am dripping with confidence!
I can now chat and attract any woman I meet and that usually leads to something sexual now which has been a lot of fun.
My occasional depression has been replaced by an excitement for life, and all my social anxiety has disappeared.
People can see my masculinity and confidence, and treat me better.
I used to have seemingly endless problems with women. Now my problems revolve around deciding which women I want to date!
My ex girlfriend loves me more than ever now that she can relax into her feminine mode.
Even though I don’t want an exclusive relationship anymore, she still wants to date and have sex with me. I could write way more about how my life has turned around, but it would get too long!
Thanks Dan, Ben and Stu! From Cameron”
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1. What’s the difference between Better Than a Bad Boy and Alpha Male Power?
2. What’s the difference between Alpha Male Power and Mastery Methods & Mindsets?
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5. Can I buy your products from my country?
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1. What’s the difference between Better Than a Bad Boy and Alpha Male Power?
Better Than a Bad Boy is an approach to women and life that causes women to feel drawn to you and chase you. When you meet a woman and use the Better Than a Bad Boy approach, she looks at you as being a real man and hopes to get a chance with you.
When you begin dating her, she hopes to get you to commit and tries hard to impress you and make you fall more in love with her.
I used this approach when dating women and it caused multiple women to propose marriage to me (including my wife) and also caused women to be happy with even being just one of my girls.
The Better Than a Bad Boy approach causes a woman to feel an unstoppable need to be with you and be chosen by you.
That results in a much more fulfilling and enjoyable experience for both you and her.
Alpha Male Power is a way of thinking and being that causes you to become fearless and go after whatever you want in life, whether that be approaching a woman you find attractive, asking a girl out or going after your dreams.
I taught the Alpha Male Power techniques to clients when taking them out to approach women.
It caused clients to suddenly break free of their anxiety and feel totally confident, brave and in control around women.
Women naturally feel attracted to that kind of alpha confidence in a man, as long as he is also being charming and easygoing, which is what is taught in the program.
In the program, I also explain how I used my own alpha male power to get promoted 3 times within 6 months in the corporate world.
I went from being a low level customer service representative, to coach of the team, leader of the team and then leader of the leaders (or manager of the managers).
It did all that at 25 years old, despite working with leaders who had a lot more experience than me.
You too have a hidden, inner alpha male power and can easily tap into it to get what you want with women and in life.
2. What’s the difference between Alpha Male Power and Mastery Methods & Mindsets?
Alpha Male Power is about how to overcome anxiety and fear to go after what you want with women and in life.
It’s about tapping into your inner power as a man and using that to break free of anxiety, have bulletproof confidence and be wanted by women and respected by men.
If you have ever struggled with feeling worthy around women, or people in general, Alpha Male Power will fix that problem for you once and for all.
Mastery Methods & Mindsets are a collection of methods (actions you can take, behaviors you can begin doing) and mindsets (ways of thinking) that speed up your progress towards the mastery level of success with women.
The mastery level is where women try to pick you up, women chase you during the dating phase and you always feel confident and in control around women.
We created and used these methods and mindsets to level up from an advanced level of skill with women (i.e. where you can pick up women easily, but still have to do most of the work. Women usually don’t try to pick you up) to a mastery level of skill.
The mastery level is where everything to do with women becomes more fun, easy and effortless.
We also taught the methods and mindsets to clients (on our weekend courses, which cost an average of $5,000 to attend) to who ranged from absolute beginner to advanced levels of success with women.
Every client who used the methods and mindsets immediately began to ‘wake up’ and see the reality that we do when it comes to women.
All of sudden, the client would realize that it is easy to attract women and it is easy to feel totally confident.
Women would then sense his confidence and self-assuredness and start flirting, showing interest and even trying to pick him up.
For some clients, it was so hard to believe that, after getting a number and ending the interaction, they ask us things like, “Did you pay for those girl to be there?” because that kind of thing had never happened to him before in life.
So, we would then have him pick out some other women to approach at random and the same thing would happen once again.
He would then realize that he was actually doing it.
He was in control now.
Mind-blowing stuff that 99% of guys will never experience or even know about.
It’s just not something that most guys even think is possible, so they don’t even try.
Yet, we developed these methods and mindsets through trial and error and experimentation to go from being advanced to masters in terms of attracting and picking up women.
The methods and mindsets are amazing breakthroughs that level up your abilities and success with women.
It’s just something you have to experience to truly understand.
Note: You can still pick up women and get laid with an advanced level of skill, but getting to mastery is so satisfying because women now try to pick you up.
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- Credit Card (Visa, Mastercard).
Credit card transactions in our store are protected by GoDaddy SSL Security, using up to 256-bit encryption to ensure that your information is kept 100% safe, private and secure when purchasing.
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You can use a credit or debit card (Visa, Mastercard, Amex, Discover) when you purchase via PayPal at our store.
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Note: Direct bank transfers and Western Union transfers are not accepted as payment methods.
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Pay Pal allows you to buy in 4 part payments (interest-free) using their Buy Now, Pay Later service.
You simply need to get accepted for their part payments service (it happens almost instantly in most cases, or within an hour) and then you choose Pay Pal as the payment option when purchasing in our store, or from this page and you will be able to buy in part payments.
5. Can I buy your products from my country?
Yes.
You can buy our products no matter where you live.
Simply purchase a Modern Man product and you will then get instant access to download it, watch/listen online in your account.
6. Will anything be sent via postal mail to my home address?
No.
We will never send you anything via postal mail (e.g. promotional material, receipts of purchase, invoices, etc).
We only ask for your billing address when purchasing in our store as an additional verification step to make sure it is you.
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If you are not satisfied, you are welcome to contact us within 30 days to request a refund.
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Any purchase you make at The Modern Man is a once off purchase only.
There are never any extra charges or ongoing paid subscriptions.
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After purchasing a product and becoming a Modern Man customer, you will have instant access to 50% discounts on any additional products you would like to purchase.
We will occasionally send you 50% customer discounts for single products via email and you can also purchase at 50% off within your account (at any time), when you purchase two or more products at the same time.
You can also contact us and request a 50% discount on any additional product(s) you want and we will reply within 24-48 hours with your private discount link.
Essentially, your first purchase is at full price and you can then have anything else you want at half price.
12. Will this open/play on my phone?
Yes.
All Modern Man products (eBooks, audio and video) open and play on phones, tablets, laptops and desktop computers without any problem.
You can download any product directly to your phone, or you can watch/listen online within your Modern Man account.
Better Than a Bad Boy – Pack 1
- Better Than a Bad Boy – 10 hours, 50 mins of video.
- Alpha Male Power – 5 hours, 33 mins of video.
- The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
- The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.
Total price: $888
Pack price: Only $427
You save: $461 (52% discount)
Better Than a Bad Boy – Pack 2
Provides you with additional training that has been designed to get you even faster results with women.
- Better Than a Bad Boy – 10 hours, 50 mins of video.
- Alpha Male Power – 5 hours, 33 mins of video.
- Mastery Methods & Mindsets – 7 hours, 35 mins of audio.
- The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
- The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.
Total price: $1,185
Pack price: Only $497
You save: $688 (58% discount)
Dating Mastery Pack (All Dating Products)
Gives you all of our dating lessons, advice and techniques that result in you experiencing the mastery level success with women (i.e. women try to pick you up when you talk to them, women chase you when you begin dating, you always have bulletproof confidence, you always know what to say and do, you experience your choice of high quality women).
These 11 products are the culmination of Dan, Ben, and Stu’s more than 10,000 hours of mastery level dating experiences with women, as well as many years of experimentation, testing, trial and error and development prior to then.
You don’t have to go through many years of trial and error, testing and hard work all on your own to hopefully figure out the secrets we discovered about women and dating that result in the mastery level of success.
You can learn it all from us right now and begin enjoying the mastery level success with women, where women try to pick you up, chase you during the dating phase and hope that you give them a chance.
That’s what women really want when it comes to dating.
Women love to experience the excitement of truly wanting a guy, trying to impress him, hoping to get a chance with him and then being lucky enough to get that chance.
When you make a woman feel that way, she then loves and appreciates you so much more.
If that sound appealing to you, then welcome to the mastery level of success with women and dating.
Enjoy the amazing times ahead for you with women!
- The Flow eBook – 318 pages.
- The Flow Audiobook – 4 hours, 23 minutes of audio.
- 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend – 7 hours of audio.
- FREE BONUS 30 Day Challenge: How to date, have sex and get into a relationship with an attractive woman in 30 days or less, or quickly have casual sex with multiple attractive women. 108-page ebook. $97 value.
- Coaching Call Breakthroughs – 7 hours of video.
- Confessions of a Natural Interviews – 7 hours of audio.
- The Ultimate Guide to Conversation – 10 hours of audio.
- FREE BONUS 72 Conversation Starters: Quick reference guide with all of the conversation starters from The Ultimate Guide to Conversation, plus exclusive conversation starters that are only found in this bonus guide. 40-page ebook. $97 value.
- Text Attraction – 14 hours, 24 mins of video.
- FREE BONUS 1200 Text Examples: Quick reference guide with all texts from the Text Attraction program, so you can easily find any text you need right away when texting live with a woman. 535-page eBook. $297 value.
- Dating Power – 8 hours of video.
- FREE BONUS Dating Power Private Examples: Dan, Ben and Stu share 28 uncensored, personal stories of how they’ve used the Dating Power techniques to enjoy mastery level success with women (i.e. women try to pick you up, women make it obvious that they like you, women want you so much that they have sex with you on the first night or date and they chase you during the dating phase). 3 hours, 46 mins of video. $297 value.
- FREE BONUS Dating Power Presentation Slides: 261-page ebook with all the presentation slides from the Dating Power seminar. Helps you remember what you’ve learned from the seminar and strengthens your understanding of key concepts and advice. $97 value.
- Better Than a Bad Boy – 10 hours, 50 mins of video.
- Alpha Male Power – 5 hours, 33 mins of video.
- Mastery Methods & Mindsets – 7 hours, 35 mins of audio.
Total price: $2,467
Pack price: Only $797
You save: $1,670 (67% discount)
I can’t wait! First!
Dan, Do these make any of your other products obsolete? Thanks
DC
Hi DC
Thanks for your question.
Absolutely not. These programs are about completely new topics. The techniques in our original programs got ME and 1,000s of our customers worldwide to the mastery level of success with women. The 4, new programs (Better Than a Bad Boy, The Modern Relationship, Alpha Male Power and Coaching Call Breakthroughs) are about what I have discovered in ADDITION to everything we’ve already taught in our original programs.
I’ve been living at the mastery level of success with women for a total of 7 years now, so I have so many new things to teach regarding confidence, relationships, attraction, being a man, life purpose, sex, love, conversation, body language, flirting, etc. There’s no way I would spend the last 12 months of my life making these programs for our customer base if I was just going to teach the same thing, or make our previous programs obsolete! That would be a complete waste of my time and time of our customers. These new programs are about the NEXT LEVELS to mastery success with women. What you will experience with women (and with your own levels of confidence, self-esteem and happiness) will be unparalleled to anything you’ve ever experienced before.
To understand the differences between these programs and our original ones, please watch each “About” video:
– Better Than a Bad Boy
– The Modern Relationship
– Alpha Male Power
– Coaching Call Breakthroughs
I made the “about videos” explaining the new programs because I understood that I would get questions like your one. It’s understandable that people would ask questions like that, but as I said above – there’s no way I would waste 12 months of my life making these programs and also waste my customers’ time to talk about the same thing or to make our amazing, original programs (that have gotten 1,000s of customers to the mastery level of success with women) obsolete! 🙂
This is about the NEXT LEVELS to mastery success with women. The kind of success that most guys will only ever DREAM of or see happen in Hollywood movies. Lives are about to change, BIG TIME.
Cheers
Dan
If you haven’t had use your other old programs, can this still work for me?
Hi David
Thanks for your question.
Yes, it will work for you. As we always say, “When you use our techniques, you will get results. Not maybe or kind of, you will.” The success stories you see on our site are from guys who started where you are. Within days, weeks or a few months, they come back and post up comments talking about all the success they’re having. There is a reason our slogan is “Dating Advice That Works”…it just sums the whole thing up.
These new programs are about advanced concepts, but I don’t make things unnecessarily complicated. As you will find when you learn from our programs, we make complex topics and ideas simple and easy to understand. Our techniques are always ready to use right out of the box, so to speak.
Which program is going to be best for you right now? It depends on what you need to learn the most. For example:
– If you want to learn everything there is to know about starting conversations with women, keeping them going and keeping them interesting, listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation.
– If you want to try out 21 different ways to get a girlfriend, listen to 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend and follow our specific instructions to succeed in each environment.
– If you want to learn more about mindsets (correct mindsets are the root of confidence) and methods for approaching women (that are more challenging and advanced than those found in The Flow), listen to Mastery Methods and Mindsets.
– If you want to hear what guys who are naturally good with women think and how they approach their dating lives with women, listen to Confessions of a Natural.
– If you want to know how to go from one stage to the next with a woman, read The Flow. You’ll learn how to start a conversation, continue it, flirt, use humor, get the woman sexually attracted to you, get her phone number, escalate to a kiss, sex and/or date. Plus, you’ll learn a lot of the fundamentals we teach here at The Modern Man.
– If you want advanced techniques for approaching, attracting and dating women, watch Dating Power. This program includes all the techniques and advice we provide when coaching clients in person and showing them how to approach women in shopping malls, cafes, bars and clubs.
Each guy is different and has different things he needs to learn to be successful. Some guys are fine with conversation, but can’t attract women so they read The Flow and watch Dating Power. Some can approach and attract women, but don’t know how to keep the conversation going. So, we’ve created our specialized programs to provide extra help to those who need it in particular areas. It’s not as though we don’t talk about conversation, approaching or attraction in each of our programs, but the specialized programs focus in on a particular area. Some guys come along, read The Flow (which includes advice on all areas) and go on to enjoy mastery level success pretty much straight away…but, those guys are more of a “natural” with women that most. It really depends on what level of skill you have with women now, what your problems are and how committed you are to becoming successful with women.
The new program Coaching Call Breakthroughs has been designed with guys like you in mind. Please watch the video here for more info. The program is designed to help you skip past all the mistakes that other guys make and go straight into mastery level success.
I would recommend that you watch each of the “about videos” that I have created for the new programs. If you feel like it is something that you would like to learn, then you are ready. As the old Zen proverb goes, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” Here are the links to the about videos:
– Alpha Male Power
– The Modern Relationship
– Coaching Call Breakthroughs
– Better Than a Bad Boy
Cheers
Dan
AWESOME man!! I am more focused on my goal in becoming a pro racer than I am women, although that is a focus in my life right now. I will buy all four for 397 when it comes out. What one will help me with this most?
If my city is not on the list can I still get the deal?
Thanks again Dan
DC
Hi DC
Of course you can mate! BTW: I actually mention you (not by name) in the Better Than a Bad Boy program because of the discussions you and I have had about you following your life purpose with pro racing. I explain different examples of life purpose and how to rise through the levels of your true potential as a man. When a woman meets a man who is afraid of his true potential, she will feel his weakness. He will feel vague, weak and unsure to her almost as though he is looking to her as his life purpose and for her to lead him through life. When a woman meets a man of purpose, she feels his strength and can relax into his masculine direction. It is attractive to her on a deep level and you would have seen examples of women who are with men of purpose – the women dedicate their lives to the men. That’s what a woman really wants, in addition to a bunch of other extremely important things I teach in the program. Purpose is just ONE part of being what women refer to as a real man.
BTW: As I explain in the program, you can get laid and even find a girlfriend/wife WITHOUT being a man of purpose, but the love, attraction and respect she feels for you will never be as deep as it could be. She would feel more for a real man who isn’t afraid of his true potential and isn’t trying to hide (from the world and his true potential) behind his relationship with her. If her ex was a “real man” she will always be ready to go back to him or into the arms of another “real man.” I see it happen to guys all the time. Yet, most guys have no clue why the woman can’t feel the same way for them as she can for her ex or how she feels for certain other men. This stuff isn’t taught to us in school, nor by the male role models around us because most people simply don’t understand it.
Cheers
Dan
These new programs look awesome. I’ve read The Flow and watched Dating Power about 1 year ago and since then have been having the time of my life…seeing multiple girls, pulling one night stands and now have a beautiful girlfriend who we’ve been together for 4 months.
I’m interested to hear your advice from this program about being a man and having the right relationship dynamic. I don’t want my current relationship to end up like my previous ones where the sexual spark dies out and we drift apart. Does this program include advice on keeping a relationship together?
Steven
Hi Steven
Thanks for your positive feedback and question.
Yes, that’s part of what makes these programs different to our original programs, which were more about all the fundamentals involved in approaching and picking up women. While these programs include mastery level advice on meeting women, conversation, flirting, etc – there is more of a focus on the deeper side to things. So, being a man, understanding women on a deep level, understanding, connecting with and achieving your true purpose in life, having the perfect relationship dynamic, having amazing sex, making your woman orgasm easily and consistently, being a great friend and having great friends, etc.
A big part of these new programs is about having immediate and most importantly LONG TERM success with women. It’s easy to pick up a woman for the night, but to maintain a beautiful relationship dynamic takes skill, understanding and awareness. In these programs (especially Better Than a Bad Boy and The Modern Relationship) you will learn the deeper knowledge about relationships, love and sexual desire. You will experience a type of love, attraction and respect between you and your woman that you will have never experienced before. It’s profound and life-changing for both of you. Since learning the deeper side to love and attraction and creating the right dynamic in my relationships, all my ex-girlfriends still want me back (I had to break up with them because they wanted to marry me and have babies, but I’m not ready for that yet) because they can’t find what we had together.
Make sure you watch each “about video” to understand what is included in each program. It’s hard to sum up in a quick reply to your question, which is why I’ve made the longer about videos. Here’s a link to all the videos:
– Better Than a Bad Boy (at the top of this page)
– The Modern Relationship
– Alpha Male Power
– Coaching Call Breakthroughs
Cheers
Dan
Thats awesome you mentioned me dude! Thanks! Thanks again for the advice I cant wait for this stuff to come out!
DC
The programs are now available!
Enjoy the great times ahead with women!
Cheers
Dan
You guys are in a league of your own. I’ve got Dating power and Mastery methods and mindsets and I have been living the life let me tell you. At first I was a bit hesitant to try what I’d learned from you guys, but once I started to put the advice into practice my whole damn life changed. It has been the best 11 months of my life regarding women and also making lots of new friends. I finally feel like my life is happening for me the way it should you know? I’ve got a girlfriend and she’s the most beautiful girl I have ever been involved with. All my friends are jealous every time me and her arrive at a party or function or whatever. It makes me feel good knowing that I have a woman I can be proud of. My previous girlfriends were okay, but nothing special. What I learned from you guys gave me the confidence and skill I needed to land my current girl.
Anyhow, I am seriously looking forward to checking out your new material. I am particular interested in the relationship and alpha male advice. I wish I could buy all your stuff but at the moment I’m in between jobs. I plan to learn all of your material when I can because from what I have learned so far, it has been simply amazing. I am sure that your other material will be just as good so I can keen to learn it and see the benefits in my life.
I also want to take this opportunity to thank you Dan and Ben and Stu for all the help you give us guys! What you’re doing is great and you should be commended.
Richie
Hi Richie
Awesome! I love these kind of success stories…where guys share the success they are having with women as well as in life. You’ve made new friends and are now the confident guy you should have been all along.
You asked, “I finally feel like my life is happening for me the way it should you know?” Hell yeah I know! Man, I remember feeling like my life was getting away from me. Weekend after weekend waking up alone on a Saturday and Sunday morning and thinking, “What is wrong with me? Why can other guys get girlfriends so easily and I’ve got nothing?”
I look forward to hearing about the positive effects on your relationship with your girlfriend, after you use the advice from The Modern Relationship program. Keep me posted!
Cheers
Dan
I am “that guy” that can’t imagine a beautiful woman wanting to be with me. This isn’t a sob story. I want to believe it but I’m being honest here. I’ve watched your video and I like what you’re offering but I don’t see how I can believe that the hot girls at the office are ever going to give me a second look. Any advice?
Hi Ed
Thanks for your question.
As I said in the video, if you can’t pass the imagination test then you’re not ready to learn this stuff. I recommend that you come back to this site when you’re ready to learn.
In the meantime, when you’re out in a public situation – pay attention to the boyfriends that hot women actually have. You’ll see that they don’t look like anything special. Regarding the girls at your office – check out the photos of their boyfriends on Facebook and you’ll see that the guys are just normal, everyday guys. Why can’t you have a hot girlfriend like they do? Again, as I said in the video, “A woman is looking to FEEL something” when she interacts with you. If you can make her feel it, she will want you. Simple.
All the best in the meantime.
Cheers
Dan
“Why be the bad boy when you can be a REAL MAN?” Awesome stuff Dan. Lately, I’ve been going through a “plateau” as of late when it comes to success with women and have been going back to the basics with Dating Power. Really looking forward to this coming out so I can learn some new techniques.
Hey Sid
Good to hear from you mate.
Yes, you can hit a plateau after the sudden rush of success if you let your old mindsets creep back in. Make sure you are properly using the Confidence Building System in Dating Power to keep the momentum going. Don’t allow yourself to slip back into your old ways…eventually, you will leave it behind, reach the mastery level and leave the past behind.
While our original programs cover all the basics and fundamentals, these new programs are about quickly rising through the additional mastery levels (the transformations happen while watching the programs) and then enjoying the type of success with women that most guys will only ever DREAM of or see happen in Hollywood movies. To most guys, they won’t be able to imagine beautiful women hitting on them and trying to pick them up…but, you will experience that when you use the techniques from Better Than a Bad Boy. Admittedly, it took me a while to get used to the FACT that beautiful women were actually hitting on me. Initially, I was thinking, “This has to be a coincidence…I have to be getting lucky lately or something…surely this isn’t going to keep happening” but after it happened to me consistently for years in a row, it eventually became NORMAL and I accepted it. In the Better Than a Bad Boy program, I have included advice, mindsets and specific instructions so guys can accept their new reality immediately instead of having to go through the years of transition that I did. So, when you walk up and talk to a beautiful woman and she starts hitting on you, you will be ready to accept it as how it should be…not as, “What the??? Why is this beautiful girl hitting on me?” It becomes NORMAL and you expect it to happens…and it does, pretty much every time. It’s a totally different life to be living.
Get ready to experience a whole new level of success. I look forward to reading your success story!
Cheers
Dan
P.S. Sid – the programs are now available!
This program looks fantastic! It is the type of thing I’ve been wanting to learn for years.
Can you tell me more about being a real man? I see he’s not a bad boy and not a nice guy. Is he a happy medium or something else?
Hi Lilo
Thanks for your positive feedback and question.
Yes, there is a very specific type of man that fits into the “real man” category. I explain it in great detail in the program, but will not be revealing it in these comments. That information is only for my customers.
Cheers
Dan
I have a few physical defects: dramatic overbite with crooked teeth and receding hairline are major weaknesses. I’ve come to accept my looks, but I’m no Denzel or Brad Pitt. Will your product work to get women like me?
Hi Jason
Thanks for your question.
No, I can’t help you. You are doomed for life. Give up now!
Lol…I’m kidding.
Dude, you obviously didn’t pay attention to what was said in the video. Admit it and stop lying to yourself out of fear: You HAVE seen guys who look like you with beautiful girlfriends. You have seen it MANY TIMES. If they can do it, why can’t you? Watch the video again and pay attention. If you don’t think you can do it after watching the video, you are not ready to learn this stuff. I can only help the guys who are ready to learn.
Cheers
Dan
Darn it, I want all of these programs but not having the money to do so is just holding me back.
I’m gonna miss out on this opportunity & can only use The Flow at the moment
I want to learn whats in these videos but sad that I’ll have to individually buy these products at a later stage at full price 🙁
Hi Amrish
I have made a part payment option for guys in your situation: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=KDDT855JQP5KS
Cheers
Dan
I just wondered where the products will come? Does it end in my email? an answer would be very appreciated, thanks
Hi David
Thanks for your question.
You have instant access to download the video training to your computer, smartphone or tablet. You will also have instant access to watch the videos online in your Modern Man account area. If you need to redownload the video training at anytime, you will be welcome to come back and do so. Just log in to your account (which is created for you automatically when you purchase) and click on “My Downloads.”
Start here: http://store.themodernman.com/
Cheers
Dan
In the video above, you mentioned women are more attracted to a real man than a bad boy or a nice guy. There are some women that go for bad boys regardless of whether you’re a nice guy/real man. I was wondering if your Better than a Bad Boy video covers any tips on how to identify those kind of women? Also, do you share any of your own personal experiences with women in the video?
Thanks.
Hi Luther
Thanks for your question.
Yes, you are correct – many women do go for bad boys. Why? Bad boys make women feel ATTRACTION, whereas nice guys just make them feel nice, bored, etc. The Better Than a Bad Boy program will show you how to attract women MORE THAN a bad boy can. If you don’t understand how that is possible, watch the program and find out. I explain the differences between bad boys, nice guys, neutral guys and the type of guy that is a real man (I can’t reveal that here – only in the program).
Women PREFER real men over any other type of guy. That’s just the fact of the matter. If you can’t see that now, take notice for the next month of your life and you will see it all around you. However, if you are unsure what a “real man” is, it might be hard for you to notice.
Any other questions, just hit reply.
Cheers
Dan
Thanks for explaining Dan!
I bought the videos last night and have been watching them all day today. This is so life changing for me. I am learning things that I probably would have been clueless about my entire life. My confidence has gone through the roof because I now understand what is really going on and it makes so much sense. Now I know why women have rejected me in the past. When I used the approach you explain in your videos by accident I always got a good reaction from women. It is only now that I can piece it all together and see why. I really like that your advice is based on being natural, real and authentic.
I will return and share more information about my success soon. I plan on going out this coming weekend with a friend to talk to women.
Hi Dan
Well, well, well…what a couple of months it has been for me!!
I went out that weekend and did more approaches in one night than I’d done in my entire life. I quickly began to get comfortable using your techniques. At the end of the night I had 3 phone numbers!
That isn’t the best part though Dan. That’s just when I was getting started. My friend and I went out the next night and I pulled a hot blonde woman back for SEX!!! It was an unbelievable night of my life because before then I was the guy who only got lucky with ugly or average women. Now I am getting my choice.
I have been in an open relationship with the blonde woman since that night and have pulled two more women back also. One of them I have decided can be my girlfriend. She’s the best out of all of them. She’s beautiful and intelligent and is now madly in love with me!!
So as you can see Dan I am very happy with my decision to get off my ass and do something about this area of my life. I was sick and tired of the loneliness I previously felt and how confused and frustrated I was about it all. All that is gone now, so words can’t express my appreciation for the rock solid advice and guidance you provide!
Luther
Hello Dan
I have watched the first 6 hours of this program last night. I did not sleep much and had to work the next day!
I wanted to tell you what I think before I watch the final 5 hours.
This program you have made is absolutely amazing! This is the education I wish I had growing up about how to be a man with regards to women. I can already see why my relationships have failed in the past. I was making so many of the mistakes you explain in the program.
I am excited to now know the right way to be a man for success with women. I can remember my ex girlfriends asking me and sometimes pleading with me to do some of the things you mentioned in the program. Thank you for releasing this video program.
I’m going now because I want to watch the rest of it! I will post you a comment when I have some major success to report!
Matias
Hi Matias
Thanks for your positive feedback! Much appreciated.
I’m glad to hear that you’re enjoying the program. The last 5 hours of the program are even better. You’ll be getting HEAPS of techniques, examples and demonstrations of being a **** *** **** **** (I can’t reveal it here in a comment, but it is my official term for the type of man that women refer to as a real man).
I look forward to hearing about your success!
Cheers
Dan
Hello Dan!!!
I have come back to report my progress. It is coming close to two months now since I first watched your Better Than a Bad Boy program and guess what?
I have a girlfriend!!!
For the first three weeks, my friend and I would go out to bars on weekends and talk to women. I was getting a lot of phone numbers, but only calling a few of the women. I had sex with three new women and then the last one was my favorite by far and I am now in a relationship with her.
The education I gained from the program has allowed me to set up the relationship in such a way that I have the power and control. She cooks and cleans for me when she comes over to stay on weekends! Haha! I also take good care of her in the bedroom, ensuring that I give her the gift of truly receiving my masculinity.
Well Dan, I really do want to say thanks. Your advice has been a life changing experience for me and I can now look to the future with confidence and even excitement about the years ahead of me in my life.
Matias
Hi Matias
Fantastic news!
Thanks so much for dropping by to post that up. I really do appreciate you taking the time to do so.
It sounds like you really understood the messages in the training and have been enjoying such great times as a result. Enjoy your new relationship and all the love, sex and good times that will go along with it!
BTW: Although your results have been amazing and what most guys would only dream of, it actually gets even BETTER from here. You’ll find that your ability to apply the advice will become greater over time. So, your attractiveness to women, your confidence, your masculinity, etc will become more powerful over time.
Enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheers
Dan
You talked about committed relationships and multiple relationships. At what point would you make it clear to a woman what you’re looking for? On a first date, couple of dates in? When would be the right time to mention it without jeopardising anything?
Hi Adrian
Thanks for your question.
That’s the sort of thing I teach in the program. Sorry, but I can’t reveal that type of info in these comments. I give away plenty of free advice in these comments, but that type of info has to remain only for customers.
Cheers
Dan
Howdy Dan!
Gotta say bro, this new material is fantastic. I’ve just finished watching the Better than a bad boy program and your examples of conversation style, body language and flirting are exactly the sort of thing I’ve been looking to learn. I like your way of explaining how to have swagger in one’s conversation style. Very enlightening and I had never been able to pin it down to that. Further, your advice on the masculine and feminine dynamic is brilliant. I think too many men in the modern world have been negatively affected by what they have seen in the media and almost feel ASHAMED to be a man. I notice that a lot of TV commercials pick on men, because it is now politically incorrect to pick on any other type of demographic, race and so on.
I feel like a new man after watching the program. I will be going out this weekend with some buddies to meet girls. I will keep you posted.
I will also say now that after using your advice from Mastery methods and mindsets, I no longer worry about approaching girls…I just do it by using your SEE > DO technique. It’s brilliant! I have been regularly have sex with new girls about 20 to 26 years old and I am now 37. My coworkers are always asking me how in the hell I am picking up all these young hotties. I just tell them that its a secret. Haha!
SK
Hi SK
Thanks for sharing your success!
Yes, having “swagger” in your conversation style is something that most guys haven’t noticed about the men who are truly successful with women. It me a while to realize that I had “evolved” that trait and then some careful observation to see how powerful an effect it has on women. It’s amazing how differently women look at you and listen to you when you do it.
Mate…if you’re already enjoying that much success from using Mastery Methods and Mindsets, I cannot wait to hear what happens for you next!
Enjoy the great times ahead and please do stop by again to let me know how you’re doing. There’s nothing better for me than to hear success stories like yours. It makes all the effort I put into The Modern Man feel more than worthwhile.
Cheers!
Dan
I tried to get an account yesterday and buy this stuff, but it says all the time “Transaction Declined”, and I wrote my details right. What is wrong then? (would be very glad if you can help me, thanks)
Hi Mandana
My apologies for any inconvenience. That can happen if:
1. You are using a card other than Visa, Mastercard and AMEX.
2. Your bank puts a block on your card for purchasing from overseas websites (we’re in Australia).
3. Your card is a debit card, rather than credit card. We only accept credit cards.
If continue to have difficulties, please try purchasing via Pay Pal: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=NVPERQRF4X5TC To purchase via The Modern Man, please try again here: http://store.themodernman.com/cart.exc.php?action=add&prodid=24
If you have any other questions, feel free to hit reply and ask me.
Cheers
Dan
So I bought the product, not my first from the modern man. I was skeptical at first, but it is definitely a great product. It might seem a bit repetitive but I consider it ‘positive pick-up brainwashing;)’ A few of the ideas Dan shares were really critical to make this whole thing called the ‘Modern Man’ to gel, for me at least.
So anyways I’ve been going out, and just being the man. Girls have been going with it. The only problem now is all my guy friends need the mojo boost as well!
I gotta say a few girls were really blown away! They complimented me and said I must have big balls!
Lol thanks Dan for showing us how it’s done! Some of those gems are worth weeks or months of introspection and searching, and you really spell it out and help us get our confidence back. It’s been a really fun time and I hope everyone else is getting the positivity that comes from embracing the opposite sex!
Hi Robert
Thanks for your positive feedback and sharing your success so far.
Honestly mate, when I hear back from guys like you it really does make me want to put more of my time into The Modern Man. To know that you have regained your confidence and power and that women are now feeling BLOWN AWAY by you (exactly what I promised would happen when a guy learns the techniques in this program and then uses them in real life) is FANTASTIC. Really, I can’t express how awesome it is to hear that.
About some messages being a bit repetitive: It’s good that you mentioned that because there is a REASON why I did it. After coaching guys in person for over 5 years now, I know exactly what areas are more difficult for most guys to understand. Although some guys can understand things the first time you tell them, every guy benefits greatly when I explain the message/technique/mindset/realization/etc in a different way (e.g. with a story, an analogy, an example, etc). So, I made sure I did that in key areas of the program. My number priority is that you SUCCEED and to ensure that, I need to make sure that all messages are clear and will definitely be understood by ALL guys who watch the program. It sounds like you have understood the messages LOUD and CLEAR, which is awesome to hear.
About your friends not having mojo to approach and hook up with women: When they continue to see you hooking up with women and being confident and charismatic around them, they will eventually start asking you for advice. Feel free to teach them and help them understand what you now understand. If they like what they are learning, tell them to come and check out the free videos and articles here at The Modern Man. They’ll learn a lot from watch the 11 videos in the Dating Advice Question & Answer series, which is completely free.
All the best in the meantime Robert. I look forward to hearing about more of your success!
Cheers
Dan
What can i do to cut to the chase from the moment i meet to getting laid, whether it´s at home, public bathroom or whatever?
What can i do to ignore the bullshit and score fast?
Hi Anonymous
Thanks for your question.
You have to turn a woman on with your vibe, conversation and touch (learn how to do that in Alpha Male Power)…and most importantly, you need to escalate to a kiss FIRST before trying to get to sex. The kiss changes the interaction from being friendly to sexual. Learn our rejection-proof kissing techniques in Dating Power, as well as what to say and do to escalate to sex immediately. I also talk about escalating to sex in Better Than a Bad Boy, but if you want to know the process for getting laid quickly – watch Dating Power.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan, I stumbled across this site while browsing around on the Internet for tips on how to get better with girls / women. I came across the Modern Man site and WOW, I am impressed, even by the preview videos. I learned so much from them. I have been reading the testimonials and I am really convinced this stuff works.
I’ve been looking on the Internet for ages for some great tips, not some pickup artist drivel. I see you have many great products for sale but I don’t know which one to start out with. Some of the products are financially beyond my reach for now but I will get them in the future.
I am a 19 year old college student that often gets overlooked by my female peers and I realized its because I don’t stir any sexual attraction in them. I’m too nice I suppose. I also don’t get much respect from my male peers because I’m not “alpha” enough. I don’t know which one to choose. I want to become a alpha male but I also want to be “better than a bad boy”. Should I start with The Flow and then work up or what? Which products would you recommend?
Thanks a million Dan, for helping guys like me get a chance at getting the females of our dreams.
Hi Aaron
Thanks for your positive feedback and question.
Yes, I’d recommend that you start by reading The Flow. It contains the fundamental lessons that every guy needs to know about how to be successful with women. When you read it, you will learn about things like:
– Confidence.
– Conversation.
– Flirting.
– Using attractive humor.
– Sparking and maintaining a woman’s attraction.
– Connecting with a woman on a deep level.
– Escalating to kissing and sex.
– Being respected by women and men.
– Approaching one woman, two women and a group of women.
– Relationships.
– Being a cool, socially outgoing guy.
– Overcoming shyness and nerves.
– Learning to stop being too nice or too much of a pushover.
– Etc.
Once you have learnt those fundamental lessons, you can then decide if you want to learn our more advanced techniques and methods. It really depends on how good you want to become with women and how important this area of your life is to you. Some guys are happy just to learn “what to say” (which you will learn in The Flow) so they can get a phone number, set up a date and get a girlfriend without having to really develop their confidence or grow as a man. Other guys want to become a strong, confident man who has his choice with women (instead of just taking whatever he can get), is respected by people and who lives an amazing, truly fulfilling life. If you look around the site and read the comments from guys, you’ll see that the more a guy learns and develops, the more amazing his life becomes – not only with women, but in terms of his social life, work life and relationships with friends and family. Guys talk about getting laid like rockstars and meeting the women of their dreams, but also about being promoted at work and making loads of new friends.
Ultimately, The Modern Man is about helping men to reach their true potential as a man and live the best, most fulfilling life they can. While we teach guys how to approach and get women to pick them up, the advice transcends that and ends up bringing a lot more to your life that just hot women. Having your choice with women becomes NORMAL and expected, which then frees up your mind to enjoy other areas of life, while always having loving women by your side. If I wrote what happened for me last night, most guys could not bring themselves to believe it, but it is true. Last night I was busy working on a project and I had 4 women (ex’s who I’d slept with over the past few months) contact me independently via Facebook and ask to catch up again. Usually it’s only 1 or 2 women that are contacting me at any given time, but last night was busier than normal…yet, that is life when you can make women FEEL AMAZING simply by being a real man around them – girls basically line up and try to get another opportunity to be around you. It truly is a wonderful position to be in as a man…to know that you have so many options with women, so many women who love you…and to also know that you can go out on any given night and find another one in minutes, just by walking up and saying hi.
Anyway, I hope to hear a success story from you Aaron. Put the advice in The Flow to work and come back to tell me all about it. Enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan
How you been man? Ive been so damn good since buying all these new products. I can feel a transformation unlike none other. Really. There are no more hurdles when trying to approach women anymore. Just yesterday I saw a hot girl sitting down by herself and was talking to her before I even knew I approached her. I no longer feel any pressure. Its so nice to know that I am allowed and should be normal when talking to women. Its so freeing to know that I can be myself from now on. My confidence level has raised so much especially in the past two months or so. I have even been hearing comments from my co-workers. As in “your confidence levels have been through the roof lately.”
I met a beautiful girl that I approached at a coffee shop that I started to like. Although, things have changed a little since last night and I would like to get your opinion if I can.
I saw this girl as a challenge for me because she is very alpha and I thought she would be good to help me improve my alphaness. She is hot and smart. Last night she invited me to a BBQ but did somethings that really turned me off. She was very mean to the people around her. She had no respect for anyone there (except for me of course). For example she was very mean to the host when he gave us a tour of his house. The house was very nice, she was going on and on about how bland it was and that he had no sense of decor (is that the right word?) There was a girl there who was showing pictures of her dog on her phone and she (my girl) straight up said “I don’t really care about your dog). There are times to be real and times to hold back in my opinion. By her saying this showed very poor social intelligence. I didn’t actually care about seeing her dog either but I showed interest because she was so proud of her dog and I didn’t want to mess that up for her. Then the final one that really did it for me. There is a guy she hangs out with that she calls her “friend”. He reminds me a lot of how I used to be. Zero confidence, always looking to other people and mostly to her in order to feel good and doesn’t have to balls to stick up for himself. She really treats the guy like crap. She constantly tells him to shut up, reminds him why he is single, tries to make him look stupid, talks over him and tells him why he is wrong when he tries to talk and bosses him around when she feels like it. The list goes on, really. And this guy still follows her around and hangs out with her!! Really, I was the only guy there that was not trying to impress her. There was a guy there who was sitting next to his girlfriend who was making sexual remarks to her (my girl)! His girl friend was sitting right next to him!! She reminds me of a bad boy in a way. She acts confident but picks on the weaker people. All these things turned me off.
So last night she was supposed to go home with me but I was so turned off that I no longer wanted that to happen. So after most of the people had left I also said that I was going to go home. She asked why and I just said that I needed to go home. She said that she thought she was going to go home with me but she “guesses” that she can go home with the other guy I was telling you about. Later we had this conversation via text
Her: You left so abruptly
Me: No response
Her: (about 15 mins later) You ok?
Me: I can’t hang out with you anymore (girls name)
Her: Why not? I was very happy you came out tonight, and I was sad to see you go
Me: I have never seen anyone treat the people around them as poorly as you did tonight. You don’t show respect to anyone. You treat your poor “friend” (guys name) so bad and he is so nice to you. He is a good hearted person and you kill what little self esteem he has left. You were rude to the host about his house. You told that girl that you didn’t care about her dog pictures. And the list goes on. You need to start treating people better. Untill that happends you are unpleasent to be around.
Me: Not to mention your so fu*king insecure
Her: no response
Me: Im so sorry I said all that I feel horrible
Ok dan, I felt soo bad after sending this text even though it was all true. I felt like I went overboard. She invited me out and was happy to be around me and happy to see me and this is how I ended our night. Is what I did right? If not how can I fix it? I still feel bad. What do I do Thx Dan.
DC
Hi DC
First off – thanks for sharing your success so far. I am very happy to hear that your confidence has gone through the roof, you no longer feel approach anxiety and are fast becoming a strong, powerful alpha male. Believe me, hearing about your success really does make my day. It makes me want to put more time into The Modern Man. Congrats and thank you for sharing.
About the incident with the girl…
Dude…
What did I say in Better Than a Bad Boy about emotional control? Part of being a real man is maintaining control of your emotions. To put it frankly, you acted like a girl by losing control of your emotions like that. Yes, I agree with you – that girl seems like a total b*tch. However, that doesn’t mean you should act like one too. I think you should have told her most of those things (except your comment “Not to mention your so fu*king insecure” – that was totally unnecessary), but ONLY in person to her face in a calm, relaxed manner. Why? Since TEXT has no tonality like a phone call or face to face conversation, the reader has to place their own interpretation of tonality on the message. In this case, your message could have easily been interpreted as sounding like a whiny little b*tch.
Best thing to do in a situation like that is ADDRESS IT ON THE SPOT. I already explained that in Better Than a Bad Boy when I said that you should not be afraid to confront an issue in a confident, assertive, but also EASY GOING and light-hearted manner. I provided you with examples of that. Go back and watch it again (it’s in the section where I compare different types of guys and how they react to situations). In this case, you could have said, “Hey Julie (whatever her name is), that’s a little bit rude don’t you think? Sally just wants to show you her dog and you say you don’t care.” Address it on the spot. She will then most likely apologize and if she doesn’t, everyone will think she is a b*tch and she will notice and then start modifying her behavior.
Hope to hear about more of your success. Enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheers
Dan
P.S. Good to see that you weren’t trying to impress her like everyone else. Sounds like you are beginning to get comfortable with the alpha position. Nice work!
You know man I eventually thought about this a little later and I actually came up with that same conclusion. I let my emotions control me like a girl would. It was a good learning experience. We have already made up and I left her bed this morning! But before we made up I decided to go to the coffee place I frequent and approach some girls to try and clear the situation from my head. I started a conversation with these two girls who were sitting next to me. By the end of the night the two girls were competing over me and my phone number! They where showing each other the funny conversations we were having over FB even though we were sitting right next to each other. One girl was telling the other one “Oh yeah? Well I have him in my phone as Prince (my name)” The other said I have him in my phone as GP that stands for Gangster (my name). Having two girls compete over me is not something I have not experienced yet. Damn it felt good! Right after all this happened the first girl I told you about texted me and said that she has had time to think about it and wants me to come to her house so we can talk. She later told me that she walked into the same coffee shop and saw me with “some chick” I could just hear the jealously in her voice even though that was not my intent it just happened that way. Your products are truly life changing. I was thinking about that dude that she was mean to that I told you about and I really can’t believe that that used to be me. The transformation is insane Dan. Thanks again for everything you do for guys like us.
DC
SUPER AWESOME!
Any guy who is hesitant about getting started, stop and read DC’s last comment. That kind of attention from women is NORMAL when you know what DC now knows. He has an entire life of that to look forward to now.
Cheers
Dan
P.S. Good to hear you’re actually sleeping with new women these days and not getting stuck at the final escalation point!
Hey Dan,
your advice is great and i like that you are still giving advice through comments.
there’s this problem i have with a girl at my work. The first time I talk to her we just had a casual talk about college and I got are number through that. I was too unsure about escalating through work into a relationship cuz i wanted to know her more but not at work. Thus i began textin her like maybe once or twice a week but i would never talk to her at work personally. it seemed like our relationship was just based on me textin her and her giving me back short replies.
So my brother who also works at the same job but on a different day told me that she said I was a loser that always texted her and never tried to talk to her at work, and she even showed her friends the messages i sent her and said they were awkward, and that she doesn’t find me attractive.
I think my fault was not talking enough to her personally in person and I tried to get too personal with texting. Need your opinion on this situation cause I’m going back to work soon after a week’s break to see her. And what is your opinion on texting also?
There are also 2 other girls that work there. they are also attractive but their desk is not near mine and all three girls are friends. so i work with 3 attractive girls and i am the only guy there on the day i work. what should i do about the other girls?
Hi Kingsley
Thanks for your question.
First off, read this: http://www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/dating_women_in_the_workplace.html We want our customers to SUCCEED, which is why we never recommend testing our your skills in the workplace. You may have noticed that 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend does not include advice on picking up in the workplace…nor do any of our other products. You have to understand what we teach and gain some experience with women before you attempt pick ups in the work place. Otherwise, you are playing with fire and risking your job over a girl…just because you’re too afraid to talk to them outside of work.
Secondly, if you want to be successful with women, learn from us. If you want to continue doing silly things like sending your co-worker awkward texts (and trying to sneak your way into a relationship with her), then go right ahead. I’m not here to coach people out of situations like that. Sorry if I’m sounding harsh here, but for some reason my instinct tells me not to encourage you to ask more about this situation. Why? You’re not even following the basic steps of a sexual courtship (as outlined in The Flow) and if you had actually read it and used my examples of how to flirt and joke with women on the phone and via text, she would have been telling everyone how attracted she was to you…rather than calling you the “L” word as she did. (Sorry to hear that BTW: I feel sorry for you about that).
The thing is Kingsley – you’re obviously interested in what we teach here. So, what are you waiting for before you actually learn how to approach and talk to women properly? Do you want more rejection first? More weird situations with women? More frustration and confusion? Have a look at the comments other guys are leaving all over this site – they are succeeding with women, where they once had failed. It’s pretty simple – learn how to do it properly and you won’t encounter those crappy situations.
The 3 C’s of Life: You must make a CHOICE, to take a CHANCE, or your life will never CHANGE.
Cheers
Dan
Thanks a load again Dan. You have always stressed being real and i appreciate your realness in your response. Definitely staying clear of the situation. I needed that tough response to snap out of my silly actions. And i apologize if i hammered you with my constant posts about the situation. Apparently you already got my message.
Hi Kingsley
You’re welcome mate.
Lol…yes, I already got your message! No prob about the constant posts. I probably should have replied earlier, but I was putting it off because giving replies like that isn’t my favorite thing to do in the world. I’m glad I was able to help you though. Hopefully now you will decide to start talking to women outside of work and open up your options.
As we said at the Dating Power seminar, “Success with women begins with the right information.” Once you know the right way to do something, you can do it correctly and have positive experiences while doing it. In the case of women, if you are unsure how to talk to and attract them properly, you will find it difficult to string together a series of positive experiences. Why? The only time you will have a positive experience with a woman will be when you GET LUCKY. In most cases, it won’t be with the type of women you really want anyway.
You’ve been checking out this site for some time now. My advice to you is to take a chance and learn. Don’t go through your life having bad experiences with women and hoping to get lucky. Additionally, don’t go through your life afraid to confront the issue that is always on your mind. If you need help with women, get HELP. We are here to help you and we WILL fix your problems with women.
I hope to see a success story from you some time soon.
Cheers
Dan
(From a woman looking for tips for her man.)
Dan would you consider yourself affectionate with your girlfriends? I love your advice but I’m looking for a companion as well and not just some play-boy to follow around.
Hi Suzanne
Thanks for your question.
Yes, of course. Intimacy and affection are my favorite things with my women (or woman if I have one girlfriend). My purpose and what I’m aiming to achieve in life comes first, but when I am with my woman, I am with her. Present and there. I stop thinking about work and my purpose and just enjoy her. It’s the perfect balance. My GFs are always trying to get more of my time and when I allow them some more time, it’s exciting for them. It’s one of the things that helps build the right sexual dynamic a man and a woman in a long term relationship.
Warning though: If you let you man learn this stuff, other women will start showing him interest. Up to you.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan
Just wanted to ask if the size of your Package actually matters to attract women ?
Usually you hear women talk about that and how they prefer guys with Big Equipment. I am average but I always have this insecurity that they crave for a guy with a massive one.
Out of your experiences what do u think?
thanks
Hi Kev
I think you should stop trying to come up with excuses to face your fear of approaching women. Learn how to overcome it by learning from us and then get on with your life.
Of course “package size” doesn’t matter when it comes to attracting women. Most guys in the world have average-sized “equipment.” No offence mate, but you’ve been watching too much porn. Get out of fantasy land and into reality.
Cheers
Dan
Heya Dan,
How long is the social circle section on 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend?
Hi Tim
Thanks for your question.
By social circle, I assume you are referring to one of the “Ways” to get a girlfriend, which is “Through Friends.”
That section goes for 18 mins 30 seconds. We also talk about the dynamics between friends in other ways to get a girlfriend. For example: One of the ways to get a girlfriend is to attend an adult learning class (usually after hours or on weekends). When in those environments, you can easily establish yourself as the alpha male/cool guy and have all the girls interested in you and everyone wanting to be your friend. We explain what to say and do to make that happen. Then, from there, you’ll have even more opportunities to meet women through more new friends when you follow our advice about how to organize meet ups with some of those people outside of the class environment.
Another example of when we discuss the dynamics between friends is when playing in a mixed (men and women) sports team, which is another one of the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend. We explain how to make a good impression on people there by displaying good sportsmanship, how to establish yourself as an alpha male, how to make friends with the new group, as well as (of course) attracting the women and escalating to a sexual relationship. We then explain how to organise meet ups with the team members outside of the mixed sports environment, with you being the “cool guy” that everyone wants to hang out with. So, you will find that we talk about making friends/meeting women through friends in various sections, when and where it is relevant to the topic being discussed.
Cheers
Dan
thanks dan.
by social circle i meant the “through friends” section in the product description.
Wassup. Not many people from Norway know about these types of products, which of course is a good thing for me. This program, Better than a bad boy, is the latest purchase for me, and there is a reason why I am posting this message under here. Now in my life my PURPOSE is my main focus. 2 years ago I would never say that. I didn’t even really know what it meant. Now I both KNOW it, FEEL it, and LIVE it.
But I must say, ALL of the Modern Man products have helped me a lot, since I first started out, almost 2 years ago. Slowly more and more started to sink in. My biggest problem has been acting anxious around women, well around people as well. My confidence. I didn’t know about “Mindsets,” that I can control both my thought, my feelings and my actions. Now, 2 years later, I am certainly in very much control of my life. My success story to put it in short:
I had been with my girlfriend for 9 months. And along the way I noticed I was being a wuss, someone very sensitive and quite weak. Along with: Often jealous. Wanting her for myself. Being no leader. Being no MAN. After we broke up (of course, she broke up with me, ALSO telling me she felt many times that she was being my mom! My MOM *gag*).
Now I realize all the mistakes I did. For example: Not taking the lead, being too careful what to say to her, how to act, how to approach considering sex and other stuff. Most of all: The balance was all wrong! She did not want to be the “masculine” part. She didn’t say that right out loud, but the big problem was; I was not being masculine enough for her to be her to sink comfortably into her feminine role. There was always something wrong with our balance.
Now then: I am seeing this girl I have liked for a few years, and really never thought I’d stand a chance with her. Now it’s like, she adores me, she loves me, and can’t get enough of me. And what do I do? I don’t really care if she likes me or not. Of course, she is great and I DO care, but it is not the end of the world if she doesn’t want me. There is always a reason for it. If I behave in the way I do now (relaxed confidence, sure, funny & arrogant and at the same time quite loving) then I KNOW she wants me. I assume it. And that’s that 🙂
Now back to purpose. I don’t live for anything but my purpose. I do not place any girl, or anyone or anything, above me and what I want for myself.
This includes the girl I am seeing.
I am in the Crossfit community right now, and I have certain goals. They are very important to me. A couple of weeks ago, on a friday night, my girl was staying over. I told her I had to get up early for my work-out. And she was looking forward to laying in bed for many hours in the morning. Well, I wasn’t gonna change my plans, so I told her she could either go home early, or wait for me in bed till I got back.
Enough said. I have still A LOT to learn, but I know where I am headed, and why, and it is bloody great! Don’t you aussies use that word a lot? Been watching too many movies I guess 🙂
Anyway! To round this oss:
This is my focus:
Mindsets mindsets mindsets.
Purpose purpose purpose.
Enjoy 🙂
Hey Kenneth
What a success story!
This is great to hear because 99% of guys simply don’t understand the power of purpose, which is why I simply HAD TO make the Better Than a Bad Boy program. During the 10 hours and 50 minutes of video, I probably spend about 3 hours on purpose because it’s so damn important. If you don’t have purpose, women instantly feel your weakness when they talk to you and if you manage to get into a relationship, you will naturally begin to cling the woman as your purpose, which she simply does not want from a man. It kills the masculine/feminine dynamic and thus kills the sexual attraction.
Nice to hear how you managed the recent situation with your girlfriend. As long as you understand also that when you are with her, you are WITH her. As I explained in the program, time with your woman is time away from your purpose. She needs to feel your presence when you are with her, in order for the beautiful balance to remain. You probably remember that from the training, but thought I’d make sure. Love is a beautiful thing and it is so enriching, uplifting and exciting when it becomes deeper and deeper; when it becomes true love that never dies. Follow the advice and you will experience that with any woman from now on…she won’t be able to get you out of her mind for life. Basically all of my ex’s are still hoping to get me back. I still love them, but I don’t want to settle down just yet! Many more women to enjoy – lol…
I hope to hear more about your success in the future Kenneth. Enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheers
Dan
Such fantastic support and service from your team Dan, really appreciate it.
Thanks Al! 🙂 Nice to know our efforts are appreciated.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan!
How do go about I hitting on a girl who is working with me at a 6 week summer job?
I’ve got the feeling she likes me when I smile at her its prolonged between the both of us, she is always proactively asking me questions situational based conversation/small talk and when we’ve had an extended conversation about things that are actually interesting to both of us we get on. We seem to be drawn to each other even when we first set eyes on each other.
Small detail I might have left out her boyfriend is working at this place to :)lol I know you shouldn’t try and steal another guys girlfriend but shes too good to pass up and to put it bluntly her boyfriend isn’t that special and you can tell shes scouting for something else. He follows her about like a shadow, he doesn’t interact with any people in our group were in a big group of 15 and we all don’t know each other he only stays with her. She bosses him about and when they interact its like their not even in a relationship just really to the point conversation all the time, you get the picture lol.
If you don’t want to give me advice on how to get her can you atleast tell me how to show my interest in her in this situation because I can’t go full out hitting on her if her boyfriend is in the same room.
I’ve got 6 weeks I was guna get her email or facebook details on the last day and then take it from there.
Thanks
Clint
Hi Clint
Thanks for your question.
Yes, you guessed right – I don’t give advice on how to steal another guy’s wife or girlfriend. It just goes against my personal principles. However, if you want to learn how to get women attracted to you and desperately wanting to be with you, I recommend you watch Better Than a Bad Boy. If you can’t afford it, keep clicking around my site and learning – there are nearly 100 articles, heaps of audio clips, loads of videos and a bunch of free reports.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan!
I basically have some success stories to share and a question as well, so here I go :
I have to say, I have never been really bad with women. But I just didn’t know what the hell was going on. I didnt know I needed to be confident, although I somehow was. I didnt know I would need to tease a girl a little, I didnt know that its actually me who needs to move things forward and so on…
And thats where I got stuck.
Once I was meeting up with a woman and I ended up SLEEPING WITH HER IN ONE BED and I didn’t move things forward. Gee, I know.. The funny thing was by that time I was first reading your ebook “The Flow” and I just finished to read “developing a connection” when I went for the date. So I had no idea about step no. 4 ” moving things forward”
Now I know that I just need to start kissing her and thats it.. But how should I have known before I finished The Flow completely? My mindset was: Well, she is sleeping with me in one bed and is not making a move on me? She cant be attracted then… But I didnt know by then that I was the one who had to act first…
So what I simply do different today is kissing her when I feel like it. And that simple thing is the difference between me being happy and me being frustrated. Amazing.
I’m so glad that I stumbeld upon your site and finally know now what to do and what signals of interest of a woman I need to look for.
But I still have a problem that I still cant find an answer to:
The thing is me being good with women now doesnt stop me from studying your products since I wanna become better and bettter not only with women but with my whole life.
So I still spend a lot of time studying your products, but how on earth do I explain my girlfriend that I’m studying how to be amazing with women?
I know I dont ever need to lie to a woman, but I think a big part of the attraction is the mistery. I don’t want to tell her why exactly she is so attracted to me, because I think it would just kill the whole attraction wouldn’t it?
So Dan, how do you go about that?
I guess you can hardly hide from a woman that you are a dating coach can you? 😉
I just dont want to lie to a woman when she asks me what I’m doing.
Hope you can help me (again) ;).
Greetings from Germany
Moritz
Hi Moritz
Thanks for sharing your success so far. Much appreciated!
I had to laugh when you said that you were SLEEPING in a bed with a woman and thinking she wasn’t attracted. Lol…I can relate though I have to admit. I used to get girls back to my place and think, “Nah, she probably doesn’t like me” and then be afraid to escalate to sex. *Shaking my head in shame, but smiling* I also used to get alone with girls in a club and think the same damned thing…and then the girl would walk off. Lol…! Thankfully, I eventually worked out The Flow and it’s been smooth sailing ever since.
About you telling women that you are studying this stuff: No, no, no. As we always say at The Modern Man, “You never need to lie to a woman” HOWEVER, you don’t have to tell her things that she doesn’t need to know. For instance, if a man was abused as a child, should he quickly tell girls that he meets, “Hey, I’m still trying to get over being abused as a child” ? No! Of course not. Okay, so it’s a bit of an extreme example, but it serves the point. She doesn’t need to know everything.
As for me telling women that I’m a dating coach. No…as I explain in Better Than a Bad Boy, it is the one annoying thing for me when it comes to women. There’s nothing more that I hate in life than having to lie to some. I just don’t do it. I really do prefer to be real, authentic and straight up honest in any and every situation. However, when it comes to my profession, I have to tell women that I do something else until after I’ve had sex with them. I had tried telling women in all sorts of ways (e.g. a life coach, I teach men about confidence, I help men find girlfriends, etc), but no matter how I said it, a woman would put her guard up when she found out. Suddenly she would feel as though I might be using a bunch of tricks and lines to get her to like me. So, it’s only after I’ve had sex with a woman that I can tell her about The Modern Man.
So, when it comes to your women – they don’t need to know that you’ve learnt this stuff. She’s probably read 100 girly magazines with all sorts of tips on how to get a man chasing her, etc, but she won’t ever tell you that.
Cheers
Dan
Alright, thanks Dan! Sounds easy.
Just to make myself clear:
When I said I was sleeping with a woman in bed, I literally ment sleeping next to her, not having sex with her. But I think you got that already.
Cheers
Moritz
Hey Moritz
Yes, that’s what I thought you meant mate. Hope to hear a success story from you sometime soon.
Cheers
Dan
My wife nad I have been married for 24yrs she’s 46 I’m 59. In the last 12mths we tried swinging. We tried 2 couples the first did not work the second worked for her but not for me. She is totally into the guy whom she loves having sex with. One of the main reasons she gives is its not me in that its something different and they just click. This continued for about 6 months until I couldn’t handle it any longer. She decided finally to stop having sex with him, but still keeps constantly in touch with him and his partner. Her feelings have changed towards me because of this. Any suggestions on how to regenerate her feelings towards me.
Hi Peter
Thanks for your question.
Honestly mate, if you’d asked me before getting into swinging I would have told you not to. We’ve never recommended that on our site and never will. We know people who’ve done it and they have ALL ruined their marriages and relationships as a result, so it is definitely not something we’d recommend for getting the spark back in a relationship. The outcome you experienced is to be expected. Why did you try it in the first place? Was your sex life getting boring? Who suggested it?
Cheers
Dan
Who am I? I’m the guy with the cool pad, hot car and gym membership. I had all that I thought I needed for a hot girlfriend, I was on the sidelines waiting for her to discover me. I didn’t have the courage to go after the girl of my dreams. In fact, I didn’t have the courage to go after any of my dreams. 35, and frustrated, until I stumbled across The Modern Man.
Life is very different for me now… I don’t do magic tricks, wear a costume, or have one liners written on the palm of my hand. I just get the girl I want with the man I already am, that I never knew I was. This program is not just a out getting the girl of your dreams, but the life you know you are missing. Better Than A Bad Boy! 5 stars! Thank you Dan, your commitment to developing, releasing mans potential is extraordinary.
Al
Hi Al
Thanks for the positive feedback and for providing an insight into your success.
Yes, a lot of guys think they have to have a great job, go to the gym and sculpt the perfect body, drive an expensive car and have a whole host of other things BEFORE women will consider them. As you now know, they are WRONG and have been mislead by TV advertising, TV sitcoms and certain Hollywood movies. Guys these days try to make themselves look better, try to achieve things in life and then they WAIT around hoping that girls will choose them…but, that is NOT how it works.
As you now know, it is we men who have the power in the dating and relationship scene. Going to the gym is fine if you want to do it, driving a nice car is also fine, but it is NOT REQUIRED to attract a woman, have sex with her and start a relationship.
Enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan, Al again. This program just keeps revealing so many benefits.
Let me share this with you…
Drunk girls, have been a real pain in the arse to deal with, for me, at times in the past. Easy… just walk away, and I do. So, what happens when she’s your girlfriend? You can’t walk away and it sucks! Well, it used to anyway. The night would becomes laborious, and volatile and you would be worrying about other dudes bouncing in on your action, as the situation visibly gets out of control. Can’t get her out of the club, and when you do, it’s after a line of negotiation which leaves her thinking, you screwed the night. You come away really doubting yourself as a man.
So now that I actually don’t behave like a wimp around women anymore, Saturday night, I’m with my new girl, she’s getting drunk with me for the first time. She’s dancing up a storm, the drinks keep rolling. She hits the podium, so hot, she’s up there like a star…I’m thinking ‘how lucky am I’ The club is pumping! I’m loving it! I’m loving her!
Great night, right? Well, yeah, but then the inevitable one drink too many. I thinking, ‘dam here I am again, this is going to suck, I’m going to have to be her bitch for the rest of the night’! ‘Just to get out alive’!
Man, that didn’t happen at all! She was my girl, I didn’t worry about other guys trying to bounce in because she sees me as the man. Just like you say in the program, that when you understand this stuff, other guys are not competition. She danced around me and moved a few metres away at times, but I wasn’t worried. I was smiling confidently and without a worry in the world.
After an hour of her getting a bit too much more drunk, I made a decision to take her home and continue our night in my bed. Sure, she didn’t want to leave the club, and was saying just twenty minutes and one drink more… We were in a dense club district, so on the walk back to transport, she was saying lets just go in there… there, one drink…
Man, I took my girl home, had great sex… And, the next day she is all about loving me, like nothing else. All, while she’s nursing her hangover!
It’s all in here- Better Than A Bad Boy!
P.s. It’s Monday morning as I’m writing this, she’s curled up next to me, wish I didn’t have to go to work!
Hey Al
That’s great mate! It sounds like you’re becoming comfortable with being THE MAN.
As you will experience if you keep up that behavior (it’s easy, just keep following the advice and it will become natural and automatic for you), the dynamic between you and your girlfriend will be one of deep respect, love and attraction. Unlike other couples who start off great, but then lose their attraction and respect for each other, you are going to be able to DEEPEN that. Both of you will find each other INCREASINGLY sexy and appealing.
Enjoy the great times ahead! I look forward to hearing about more of your success.
Cheers
Dan
I want to buy this program, I just wonder one thing: Do you mean that being a man of purpose gonna attract women easily?
Hi Tomas
Thanks for your question.
Being a man of purpose is one part of being what women refer to as a real man. It’s not the only part. All the traits and characteristics of a real man are explained in the program.
The love, attraction and respect a woman feels for you will never be as deep as it could be, if she doesn’t perceive you as being a real man. She will hold back and will never be able to feel the depths of love and attraction with you. Most couples don’t get to experience true, deep, everlasting love because the foundation of their love, attraction and respect is based on the superficial (and on a few deep things). When you watch this program, you will learn how to get a woman feeling the deepest amount of love, attraction and respect for you. It will grow over time, rather than fading away like most couples experience.
Additionally, by being a man of purpose, you will gain and maintain a deeper, more powerful type of confidence and masculinity that is unattainable to men who are afraid of their true potential and hide from their purpose in life. Women sense this confidence and masculinity immediately when you first meet them and it causes a deep and powerful type of attraction. The woman becomes mesmerized and intoxicated by her feelings for you. Then, in a relationship, her love, attraction and respect grows, rather than fading away.
The comments that guys (who have watched the program) have left on this page should give you some indication of the power you are about to attain. This isn’t about pick up lines and tricks, this is the real deal (like all Modern Man programs). If you want real change with real results, you have to do it for real. Become a real man and you’ll see what I mean. You’ll see that you no longer have to try to pick women up – they like you immediately and try to maintain YOUR interest in them. It’s a totally different way of approaching this…and it’s much easier!
Cheers
Dan
Do you become valuable in a way, or gain high-status?
Hi Tomas
Yes to both, depending on how you approach it. You’ll learn how to have what I call “The Power of Purpose” when you watch the program.
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
First of all you saved our lives.. Now I am “the real me”. People just like me, men respect me and women love me. Now I get it when you said DO IT and get the evidences, because when you realize you can do it, it is like you go through a door and you see the world with different eyes.
So whoever is reading this and still doubting about getting the products, stop wondering and just get it and try for yourself, if you don’t have the money, work for it come get these stuff and be part of the winners “The Real Men Team”.
Question for you dan: How do I maintain the focus on my purpose ?
Hey Art
Thanks so much for your positive feedback about Better Than a Bad Boy and for sharing your success so far. Much appreciated.
Yes, as you have now realized, most guys live life in fear of their true potential. Unguided, they waste many years of their life (if not all of it) standing on the sidelines, hiding from their true purpose and shying away from becoming the man they know they can be. Glad to hear you’ve left all that behind and have become a man that people respect and that women love. Good times are ahead for you.
About maintaining the focus on your purpose: Once you’ve decided on your purpose, walk in the direction of it. Your focus and determination will grow as you begin to rise through the “levels” explained in the program. However, if it is not your TRUE purpose, you will find it difficult, if not impossible, to stay focussed and motivated. Make sure you properly complete the “Purpose Discovery Exercise” in Better Than a Bad Boy to determine your TRUE purpose that YOU decide.
I hope to hear about more of your success in future.
Cheers
Dan
Dan I can’t thank you enough for how much your advice helped I went from being
hopeless with women wondering if I was ever going to get a girl to making out with one against the wall 5 minutes after arriving to the party. I just have some questions
1. When you’re making out with a girl and you’re trying to take her home but said she can’t leave with her friends should you just be persistent.
2. When another guy calls you out, should you proceed to fight him or reason with him.
3. What do you think of guys that refer to girls as bitches?
Hi Jordan
Thanks for your positive feedback and question.
After checking my records, I notice that you’ve got The Flow, so it’s great to hear that you’re hooking up with women by using the advice you’ve learnt so far. As for your questions:
1. It depends. However, if she sincerely can’t – don’t be desperate about it, be understanding. Just get her number and hook up with her another time.
2. By “calls you out,” I take it that you mean he confronts you or challenges you. No, the ideal type of alpha male (the kind everyone likes), won’t be immature and react aggressively. If you want to know how to react properly, so the guy shows you respect and any women who happen to see the interaction feel attraction for you, watch Alpha Male Power and learn.
3. I assume you’re saying that these guys call women “bitches” in a negative, hateful way. If so, those type of guys simply don’t understand women. They don’t understand why women HAVE TO challenge and test men and they also don’t know how to pass those tests and challenges. All of that is explained in Better Than a Bad Boy. I give loads of examples of tests and how to respond. I also give you an understanding of women that you simply cannot get anywhere else. Why? Most guys don’t understand women and those who do will rarely spend 10 hours and 50 minutes (the duration of the Better Than a Bad Boy program) teaching you.
Cheers
Dan
Man I improve a lot thanks to this program I am dating a really hot girl, the problem is that I left the city for some time and I don’t know how to keep a long distance interesting do you have any idea of how to improve a long distance relacionship?, cause I feel that the love is ending with this long distance
Hey Pablo
Thanks for your positive feedback. It’s great to hear that you’ve improved a lot and are already dating a great girl. In terms of having a long distance relationship with her, here’s an article I wrote earlier: http://www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/long_distance_relationship.html
If you have any further questions after reading that, post a comment below the article and explain what you need to know.
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
I bought this video set the other day and its all kinds of helpful! Thanks. I commented before about how The Flow helped me turn things around with an ex of mine and how I was practicing the techniques at work. I took your advice and toned things down in the work place. Though it didn’t work so well because ANOTHER hot chick at work basically pursued me and is now pressuring me to be her boyfriend. Hahaha so my bosses are still looking at me crazy because I’m bagging one hot chick after another. Lol.
Well that’s not my problem. My problem is a bad mindset I’m sure. I mean I use social proof like you say to in the flow. But I get the sense that it back fires. Because the women I run around with are obvious about flirting with other guys and mentioning their exes to make me jealous. Well Dan sometimes it works. Then I slip into the old mindsets of being afraid ill lose ONE particular girl when dating FOUR. It’s crazy I know. So I punked down the money for this set in the hopes that ill have a better understanding of what makes a woman REALLY attracted so I can shrug off girls obvious attempts to make me jealous.
Thanks a million Dan. Your stuff really works. I was thinking about my life purpose too now that I’ve “solved” the women problem and there it was in better than a bad boy. t’s like you’ve got it ALL figured out!
Hey Jason
You’re awesome.
Love your success story so far. Yes, even though you are dating FOUR women (haha!) at the moment, your old mindsets will test you until you make the full transition and realize that you really do have choice with women. It’s not just happening by luck.
Also, it’s fitting that you are now focussing on life purpose because as you will realize when you go through the program, without it, you will always be putting too much pressure on a woman to be your purpose in life. They want a man who isn’t afraid to go after his true potential and rise through the levels of life, while ALSO having a woman by his side.
I look forward to hearing about more of your success!
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
i enjoyed that intro video on Better Than Bad Boy and just want to be sure about something. I’m generally a quiet, formal guy and regarded as someone very much into small talk. I like to give humorous jokes occasionally but sometimes hold back what I have to say for fear I will offend. On a good day, I consider myself to be a nice guy and I think my friends and family know it. I’m a great listener and seem to relate to the Modern Man’s teachings of presence. I am however not the best talker. As a nice guy, I’m totally shy with the ladies and I get why I currently don’t get far with them. On a bad day, possibly out of anger for being too nice a guy, I get less friendly and sometimes angry (and ironically, less self-conscious) and it surprises me the better attention I get from the ladies when I’m in that mood, though it does eventually not get anywhere given I can sound arrogant with all the frustration. What I want to ask is, can I still be me and get the girls I want? Want to get the right message from your video above before I think otherwise. I try to change myself every day for the supposed “best” and when I’m on a bad day like today, I ask myself what the hell I’m trying to change myself for. I don’t want to HAVE to be frustrated to get girls interested, but I sure want to be happy and use my well-natured persona to good use for dating. Thank you.
Hi Josh
I was reading away thinking, “Okay, this is an interesting question, I’ll help him out” and then I got to the end and just laughed. Dude, do you really think the reason that guys are successful with women is by being frustrated and angry? When you see naturals talking to women, are they frustrated and angry at girls?
You’re talking “crazy talk” dude. Just stop making excuses and start believing in yourself, approaching women and escalating to phone number, kissing and sex. Everything else you can ask me doesn’t matter. Just approach and stop trying to come up with crazy excuses. Guys who are good with women aren’t angry and frustrated…lol, funny stuff.
Cheers
Dan
Lol fair enough mate, let me rephrase my question and hopefully make it sound simpler. Can I with my ‘nice guy’ good natured self but also self-conscious escalate beyond initial conversation? (I freeze beyond that). I didn’t mean to imply that frustration gets the guy the girl, far from it haha :D. What I’m trying to say is that when I’m in a foul mood with a “don’t give a s*** about trying anymore” attitude with girls, I actually get a better response from some, it’s hard to describe, maybe my body language doesn’t express insecurity. Never got the girl anyway lol. It’s just sort of irritating being nice and self-conscious or frustrated and without a care in the world as to what people especially women think of me. Sort of a jigsaw puzzle from which its pieces are fitted in the wrong order to provide an incorrect picture. Glad you had a laugh Dan, lol ;).
Hi Josh
The reason why women don’t like you when you’re nice is that you’re ALSO being weak, insecure and nervous at the same time. I am nice to girls, but they like me because I am also confident, strong, masculine and present when I talk to them.
Women are naturally attracted to confidence and they will be mistaking your “whatever” attitude (on the days when you’re angry) for confidence, which is why you seem to do a little better. However, the reason you don’t ever get the girl is that they eventually pick up (by watching your body language, seeing how you respond to their tests, etc and listening to you during conversation) that you actually lack belief in yourself, are insecure and nervous…all of which turn women off.
So, to answer your question is: YES, you can attract women as your nice guy self. However, in addition to being nice you also need to be attractive to women (i.e. be confident, masculine, present, have a sexual vibe, be great at conversation, flirt, be alpha, etc). Niceness is fine, but it is not what attracts women.
You’ll discover how to attractive to women in 100s of ways when you learn from my programs.
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
I have some questions on Better Than Bad Boy part 1 that I’m unsure you’d want asked on a public forum. Let me know if it’s cool please.
Thanks,
Jared.
Hi Jared
Thanks for your message.
Post up the comment and I will check it out before approving/replying. If it’s too revealing, I’ll reply to you via e-mail.
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
in your experience would a nice guy with a backbone open a door for a woman, pull up a chair in a restaurant for her and hold her coat? Or is this “too nice”?
Thanks
Hi JohnDoe
Thanks for your question.
The type of man that women desperately want is one that makes them earn that treatment. If you do it all the time even though she doesn’t do amazing things for, then it will backfire. For instance, my GF cooks for me pretty much every time she comes over to stay at my place. She cleans up, gives me a back rub, etc. If she doesn’t do stuff like that, she can tell that I’m not happy with her. I don’t have to ask or tell her, she just does it because she knows that I can get another woman in a second if she messes up.
If you want to learn how to have true power over your dating life with women, while ALSO being a nice guy, watch Better Than a Bad Boy.
Cheers
Dan
This is a really good program certainly worth the money. It has been great for rebuilding my confidence.
Cheers,
Richard
Hi Richard
Thanks for your positive feedback. Much appreciated.
Cheers
Dan
Thanks Dan, apologies if the answers are in the video and I missed them. Here are the questions:
1) Can a masculine man and woman flourish in a relationship together?
2)From experience of a friend I consider masculine, is it ok for masculine men to briefly mourn a break up that HIS girlfriend wanted? Is there any slight chance a woman desires breaking up with her masculine boyfriend?
3) There are some action-packed films that can get some tears going. (I recommend Death Sentence if you’re into that kind of thing) Must masculine men not cry, especially in a movie not considered romantic and feminine?
That’s all the questions for now. It’s new terrain I’m researching here so I may need to ask further questions in future if you’re cool with it. All in all, VERY valuable information in Better Than Bad Boy, thanks man.
Jared.
Hi Jared
Thanks for your questions.
1. I don’t know what you mean by “flourish.” As explained in the program (which I don’t think you’ve finished watching yet), it takes masculine and feminine to create a sexual charge. If the man is masculine and the woman is masculine, they will be like friends. This dynamic is good for business partnerships and friendships, but not good for sexual relationships.
2. It’s fine to mourn it. You are human. However, since discovering this stuff, no girl has broken up with me. All of my alpha male friends (who understand what I teach in Better Than a Bad Boy) experience the same thing. Yes, there is a chance a woman will want to break up with a masculine man if he makes the mistakes I outline in the program.
3. This is a difficult subject to talk about because it’s super personal to some people. However, my advice is that it is fine to get watery eyed, but not fine to lose control and cry to the point where tears stream down your face. If you are a real man, then you will feel real emotions. As I say in the program, you want to experience the full emotions of life, but losing control of your emotions is feminine and unattractive to women.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan,
Whats up man. Just got a job opening and things are going good. Bought Better than a Bad boy and I am treasuring the info in it. A quick question.
You outlined a Good guy with Edge as going into a interaction with a win/win attitude for both the girl and guy. It is then wrong to like a girl for just the reason of wanting to sleep with her intially without connection on a heart to heart level?
Hi Kingsley
Thanks for your question.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with just wanting to sleep with a woman because many women just want the same thing sometimes. So, it’s a win-win. Additionally, when you have sex with a woman in the way I describe in the program, it will be a WIN for her no matter how many times you sleep with her.
Additionally, when you watch the rest of the program, you will discover how to have a deep heart connection with all women you sleep with, even if you don’t want to have a serious relationship. You’ll see that love is in abundance all around you and you can almost always open a woman’s heart so she loves you deeply. Look out for the section where I talk about being fearless when it comes to love.
Cheers
Dan
P.S. Congrats on the job! I’m glad to hear that things are looking good for you.
Finished the program and like always, it was amazing to listen to . this and alpha male power are a power tool for manliness. I did understand the section of being fearless in love. But i have always thought being fearless with love was a girly thing, then i realized a true man doesn’t hide his emotions, he just expresses them in a masculine way.
Just curious, is there more information about women or masculinity that your “hiding” for yourself ( jokingly) or have you given out the most important info? And will there be more modern man products in the near future.
Hey Kingsley
Glad you enjoyed Better Than a Bad Boy. I hope to hear about your success using the techniques.
Yes, all of my advice on masculinity and being a man is in the program. Nothing was left out, hence why it goes for 10 hours and 50 minutes! Lol…that’s a lot of information!
About any new programs: Nothing set in stone yet, but I’m currently working on some new programs about new subjects. Like always – they will take about 3 years to develop, test and perfect. It’s only when I’ve consistently seen results in my own life and had the opportunity to teach the new techniques and information to many clients in person and then check back with them in 3-6 months later to see that they too are enjoying success will I consider releasing the information. As you may know, we went through years of testing before releasing Dating Power: http://www.themodernman.com/the_truth_about_dating_power.html The same approach was used for Better Than a Bad Boy: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/4-new-mastery-level-video-programs.html
Thanks for your positive feedback and I hope to hear about your success soon.
Cheers
Dan
Thanks. You guys are real professionals.
Hey Dan! Its DC. I have a story and question for you.
For the first time I experienced a girl opening up to me with no guards whatsoever. You talked about it in Better than a Bad boy video two. You were talking about the Beyonce song and how those masculine women really fall hard for you once you pass all their tests. Last night I went out with a very confident, masculine women who we can call Kim for the sake of this story. I have gone out with her before. She was really open to me for the first time. She was basically all over me, kissing on my neck in the bar, making out with me at the bar, sitting on my lap at the bar and grabbing my “friend” at the bar. It was pretty awesome, in the past she never really would let me grab her ass (which I LOVE doing) and this time she really didn’t care. She was making sexual remarks to me the whole night! She was still testing me as normal and as far as I know I was passing all of the tests, untill towards the end of the night.
She brought along a friend who seemed a little jealous of her. This friend kept telling me how attractive I was and how stupid she was. She kept telling me that I was a pushover because I didn’t do anything when Kim would go off and talk to other guys. I didn’t really care that she would do this because I know that she liked me and I assumed it was another test from her to see if I would get jealous and I never did. So once Kim came back from talking to other guys, her friend started asking questions about me and her. She asked if we had ever had sex, Kim answered yes. Then the friend asked me if she ever orgasamed. This question threw me off. I knew the answer was “hell yes” but for some reason I lost my calmness and cool and got a little nervous. I don’t know why because I had been doing good the whole night. I answered “I don’t know”. So Kim turned to me and said, “well, let me tell you honey, the answer is No”. After that I did get a little embarrassed and withdrew my affection towards her and just left. I told her that I had to work the next day and she had the keys to my car in her car so I was kind of under her control in that way. So I asked for the keys to her car so I could go get mine so I could leave. On my way back I tossed her the keys and just left with no goodbyes or anything. I was a litte mad at her because I had to work the next morning and it seemed like she really didn’t care.
She texted me some days later and wanted to see me. So we hung out last night. I told her that I had plans but they were then later cancled so I eventually met up with her. She was very standoffish towards me and was wanting to talk about the whole thing. I really didn’t want to because I came to have a good time and not to fight. I was answering some of her questions about the whole night and everytime I would answer her questions she would say “why are you getting so defensive? Don’t get so defensive!” She was really wanting to fight. She even asked why I haven’t apologized to her yet!! Which I never did and never will because that will giver her power, right? I got sick of her accusing me of getting defensive so eventually after every question she asked I completely ignored her. This pissed her off pretty bad and she asked me to leave her friends house. So I did.
Can you tell me what you think about the whole thing and how I did? I was pretty sure that she wanted to have sex that first night (her friend wanted to as well) I could tell the way she was acting. I would like some feedback Dan, thanks. Also, one of Kim’s friends was reading “how to succeed with women” by Copeland and I told him to quit reading that stuff and turned him onto the Flow!! Thanks man
DC
Hi DC
Thanks for your question.
Congratulations on your success so far. It sounds like you’re ALMOST there, but the “old you” is still lingering around and causing you problems when it counts.
– About the orgasm thing: Remember what I said in Better Than a Bad Boy about who is in the hot seat? It’s not you, it’s her. Also, remember what I said about what to do if you fail a test? Watch that part again.
– About your subsequent behavior: It’s fine, but it seems like you became unnecessarily emotional. Remember what I said in Better Than a Bad Boy about how a real man maintains control of his emotions? It’s fine to show her that you’re annoyed/frustrated/upset with her, but once she apologizes (if she doesn’t, tell her too) you need to get back to escalating to kissing and sex.
– About leaving: You gave up too easily because you think that you have to do everything perfectly. Watch the part in Better Than a Bad Boy again where I explain what to do when you fail a test. It is critical that you understand how to handle those moments.
– About saying sorry: Yes, you can say sorry and no – it does not give her the power. Nothing gives her the power because you are the man.
…..waiting to hear a COMPLETE success story from you DC.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan!
What do you think about a splitted life purpose? So you focus on 2-3 areas for the long term since they are all equally important to you?
Cheers
Moritz
Hi Moritz
A wise mentor once told me, “You can’t ride two horse saddles at once.” If you’re aiming for something big that requires a lot of dedication, you need to focus and go through the levels of mastery in that area.
However, while working on your purpose, it is fine to have some other things simmering on the back burner because, more often than not, the skills you develop from working on one area of life help you with the other and lead to you being competent and ready to tackle the other areas of life you’ve been dreaming about achieving/mastering/experiencing.
Cheers
Dan
Hello Dan
Little intro͵ my name is Ross and I am later starter in the dating game͵ never had a gf and have to admit am scared of rejection and have other insecurities that make me feel alien.
Anyway I would like this program and it seems interesting but is this program for me what customer types do your recommend this for do you think this is ideal for beginners
Hi Ross
Thanks for your question.
Beginners start with any of our programs and are able to use the advice contained within. However, since you’ve never had a girlfriend, I’d recommend you start by learning all the fundamentals of attraction, approaching, conversation, flirting, body language, confidence, getting phone numbers and going on dates by reading The Flow.
Then, when are ready to learn more and understand the more advanced concepts and techniques to do with being a strong, masculine man that women desperately want to be with and stay with, I recommend you watch Better Than a Bad Boy.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan thanks for the advice ill get back to you!! Hey ive got another simple question. Ive been hanging out with a different girl we have been really getting a long and lets say ive made “second base” so no sex yet. We have not communicated in about 4 days. I want her to chase me. How long should i wait for her to text or call me before i do? Thanks again
DC
Hi DC
You’re welcome and congrats on your success so far.
However, about your question: I explain how to get women chasing you in Better Than a Bad Boy so I am not going to explain it again here. Sounds like you need to watch it again mate. The fact that you are worrying about when to call shows me that you are doing it wrong.
Also, why are you messing around on second base? Get the run on the board and start the relationship! Another thing: By you saying “I’ve made second base” it actually reveals to me that you perceive her as being in control and are letting her run the show. That is not what I teach in Better Than a Bad Boy. Watch it again and do it properly…THEN you will have women desperately chasing you and begging to be your girlfriend.
Waiting for a proper success story from you where you use the advice fully…
Cheers
Dan
Dan — just finished watching Better Than A Bad Boy and its wonderful! I’ve tried all the PUA stuff (routines, openers, embedded stories etc.) and it NEVER worked. As a matter of fact, on 2 occasions women called me out on a routine they were already familiar with! They’re not stupid — they catch on! IMO the PUA teachings tell you that you’re not good enough to attract beautiful women — so you have to resort to a “bag of tricks” to persuade them to approve of you and want to have sex with you etc. Not a good place to be as a man . . . constantly chasing after women with silly routines that have nothing to do with who you are as a person. Better Than A Bad Boy teaches that you already have what it takes inside you to attract beautiful women . . . that you need to be your best self . . . you need to be a REAL MAN . . . and women will respond! Get a life outside of obsessing over beautiful women (counter-intuitive stuff) and women will take notice! This is cutting-edge stuff — canned routines don’t work anymore! Thanks Dan!
Hi Mike
Thanks so much for sharing your review of the program so far.
Yes, just like in every industry, there are always going to be people who provide quality and those who provide rubbish. These days, all a guy needs to do is search for the PUA/dating guru’s name in Google Images and also type in “girlfriend” as the search term and he will see that most of those dating gurus/PUAs are total frauds. They don’t care if guys succeed or not and they aren’t successful with women in their own life – they just want to make money or be made to feel important because they have a website.
It’s really frustrating for me to be in the same industry as so many fakes/frauds, but I accept that some people are like that – it’s all part of life. As Ben from The Modern Man said in the early days, as we began to build The Modern Man and noticed how flawed the advice of most other “dating gurus” and “PUAs” was, “It will all come out in the wash. The cream will rise to the top and these fraudsters will be revealed for the people they truly are. We just have to keep moving forward with what we are doing and people will eventually come to us to learn. They might want to start off with the magic tricks because it seems easy and there are advertisements about it all over the internet, but they will eventually realize that it doesn’t work and they’ll come searching for something real.”
It’s not your fault that you started with the PUA stuff. Those guys are all over the internet, promising “overnight success” with a magic line or routine. Yet, as I’ve said above – go and look in Google Images and you will see that they are NOT successful with women. Heck, one of the biggest “dating gurus” (I won’t mention his name) has gone and married a below-average looking woman, after he spent years releasing DVD programs about how to pick up ATTRACTIVE women. What a sham!
Anyway, I’m very happy to hear that you’re finally experiencing the results you want by following OUR advice. Our slogan (under our logo) says it all, “Dating Advice That Works.” I look forward to hearing about your success very soon!
Cheers
Dan
P.S. For all the guys reading along with these comments who don’t yet know that we (The Modern Man) go through YEARS of testing before releasing any program on our site, watch this video and listen to this audio to learn what we’ve gone through (and some of the many lessons we’ve learnt along the way about success with women) to make these programs for you.
Before finding this site I was an overly nice guy who didn’t understand how to spark attraction in women. I thought being a nice guy, who was smart, fit, had lots of friends, and dressed well would be enough to get women. However, I eventually found out this was not true. These programs have done so much to show me the importance and the way to be open, fun, edgy, and flirtatious in my interactions with women, whereas previously I was reserved / matter of fact. This has drastically changed the way women react to me.
I originally found this site because I had one woman in mind that I wanted. With the knowledge and skills I gained here, I was able to get her. I have had a few other women and a long term girlfriend since.
The best part is that I didn’t have to turn into some bad boy a-hole. I could still be a good guy at heart, I just had to bring out some of the edginess I was suppressing.
I’ve thoroughly enjoyed my time with the modern man, thanks guys. – Russell , USA
Hi Russell
Thanks so much for sharing your success! Much appreciated.
Yes, a lot of guys don’t realize that they are already good enough for women, but are suppressing a lot of their natural personality. We bring that out in a guy and the results you’ve experienced speak for themselves.
Enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheer
Dan
The information you offer here is information I have been searching for all my life.
Yesterday, I finished going through BTABB, today I was going through Myths Methods and Mindsets. I am yet to use all of the suggestions and methods extensively, but I have already tried to drop a couple in here and there with random women I hardly know or strangers on public transport and I can already see the promise: little sparks of positive reactions. Someone like me may yet experience the promised land of lifelong acceptance, belonging and love!
I will report back when I have has more success, with details.
All of this sounds so amazing. Ive read everything on this page a. I truly beleive that maybe if I can somehow get my boyfriend to read this he will take the time to be a real man in our relationship. I’m so happy I’m crying lol a bit dramatic I know, but I’m actually a really masculine girl. So I need a guy thatll be more masculine than me lol ^^ Thanks for forwarding me here Dan, I’m going to be a new regular on this site for sure.
Hey Sally
Thanks for the positive feedback.
I’m glad to hear that women are secretly wishing that men would learn this stuff. We always hear great feedback from our customers (men), but to also be hearing it a lot from women lately is great. The world would be so much better if men knew how to be men, so women could get on with being women! Good luck with your quest to get your boyfriend to learn. Hopefully I’ll be seeing a success story posted up by you or your boyfriend sometime soon.
Cheers
Dan
Hi dan,
I dont feel confident when i need a haircut or when my clothes don’t look good or fit right. Is there anything to Change this? I have a hard time believing you would have the same level of confidence if you were wearing a dress, for example.
Hi James
Thanks for your question.
That’s because your confidence is based on superficial things and a wishy-washy identity. If you want true, unwavering confidence you have to build the right foundations and grow from there. At the moment, your identity and self-esteem is flimsy and unfocussed.
If you want to get it together and become truly confident, use the Confidence Building System in Dating Power.
Cheers
Dan
P.S. Your comment about being confident wearing a dress: You plan on doing that? James, guys like you often try to make life seem as difficult as possible so you can avoid taking action and moving forward. Guys like you sometimes make comments like, “Okay, this sounds good, but what about if I want to pick up a woman in a shopping mall when she is kissing her boyfriend? Can I do that?” It’s like, “Mate, stop being so ridiculous. Approach women you find attractive, use the techniques to successfully pick the woman up and then get on with enjoying your life together.” Stop looking for excuses not to take action. If you keep doing that, you’ll end up like these guys: http://www.themodernman.com/success/successful_thinking/fear_of_success.html
Hey Dan,
I wondered what to do when you want to attract a girl you already know. Like what is your different approach to that?
Best,
Danny
Hi Danny
Thanks for your question.
Watch this: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/turn-your-female-friend-or-co-worker-into-your-girlfriend.html
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
Is it possible to have two or more life purposes? Such as one being a career you want to build on or enter and another being something like wanting to rise through the levels in a sport?
Hey James
Thanks for your question.
Yes, but as mentioned in the program – it should all lead to an ultimate purpose for you.
For those reading along with the comments and confused about why this topic has been raised: There is a big section of life purpose in Better Than a Bad Boy.
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
I’m writting you from across the world, here in Chile, where i have been desperately looking for a way to get mi ex back, so I previously apologize for my spelling. I broke up with my girlfriend 4 months, we have a child together and we had a relationship of 6 years, where the last year where an escalation of fights and discussions. We always had great times with our son but the atractiveness as a couple slowly died..at least for her. We where early parents, while we still had careers and she finished one year before me..so she start to live the live of a single while I stayed behind, with no money and full of insecurities about her new life. She started to party more often with co-workers and I started to get jealous, to create discussions an she end up dumping me. I also have to mention that to live with our parents never let us to live like a real independant family, take our own choices or just have real independence.
So the worst thing for me happened, another guy from her work start to flirt with her and by now she is seeing that guy..Sometimes we talk about him and she says to me that she is only fooling around, nothing serious, but I known she slept with him more than one time. In this 4 months i’ve been in several scenarios. At first I was the whiny and sad ex-boyfriend who tries to get her back by all means..with letters..reminder her that we where a family..or even i get to talk with her parents to get her to react..only get bad results. Later I start to read all kinds of guides like “get her back in 30 days” and it worked at first..by showing her I no longer care for her and make her believe I had someone else. She was all over me, but that lasted only one weekend where we slept toghether and I jumped to ask for the other guy..she doesn’t want the pressure..I spoil it by asking that cause I showed insecurity. Every time that we had good times and felt like we where progressing I blew it by asking her too early to dump the other guy..when she suposed to not even had a formal relationship. She even told me a few days ago that one of those “good” times she had broken up with the other guy without telling me, but I always finded the way to blew it by rushing things. So I pushed her again everytime to his arms, or at least I felt that way. That particular time happened a month ago..and now i’ve been stayed away and do nothing to get her back and she seems to be quiet relaxed by having a lover with no responsabilities. But at the same time..I can go over her house with the excuse of my son..and if I’m playfool and show no insecurity or discomfort for what she is doing I can get her to sleep with me almost any time. So i’m trapped because i don’t know if what i’m doing is right, everytime I felt like I advance with getting her back..I wonder if she will still be fooling around with the other guy after that, and she is maybe playing us both. But I know her so many years and she is a good person..I refuse to think that way..Is just that the other guy seems to been doing all the things that the alpha male does, plus he is co-worker, he sees her so much more than me. I can’t also avoid to see that he has advantages over me like: He has an own apartment while i’m living with my parents, just like my ex and I know she is maybe excited to live like a single, away from his parents and liabilities, or that she says to me things like “he has more vision than you” like I’m a lost puppet going nowhere. I feel like he’s offering everything I promise at the beggining and I’m afraid that he is not just the rebounce guy. I’m ashamed of the next thing, but I spied her cellphone a couple of times for text messages and she is the one who is looking for him more often..he doesn’t look for her to much and doesn’t say to much like beautiful things…and i can’t understand..why she feel atracted to him. It’s because he’s independent and more accesible to do independent things? Or maybe she is really starting to like him..hope not. On the other hand, like I said..I can get her to sleep with me almost everytime..but after that..she clarifies we are still friends…if I ask her that we try once more to get back..she says that she feels good by herself, and reminds me that she is seeing the other guy. Please help me..because I feel like I’m running out of posibilities and I feel that too much time is passing. I still think that I can get her back if I do everything right..but how do I get the other guy out of the picture..
I know you are going to suggest me to buy your material and I gladly do it, but i’m an early worker with low salary, still living with my parents, I cant afford to spend that kind of money rigth now, cause I Know the answer is in “better than a bad boy” and I will love to have the video, but I can’t..So please help me the most you can for free… please!!! hahaha I promise to buy your video when I can..just help me to get her back..she is the love of my life and I know it was my fault to lose her..
Cheers.
Hey Francisco
Thanks for your comment.
Well, your girlfriend said it perfectly when she said, “he has more vision than you” and when you added “I’m a lost puppet going nowhere.” This is why the core of Better Than a Bad Boy is about being a man of purpose – going after your true potential in life. Rising through the levels of life without fear or hesitation. If you don’t know what your purpose is, watch Better Than a Bad Boy and go through the Purpose Discovery Exercise in the program: http://store.themodernman.com/in/2cf8a89
You cannot fool a woman into thinking you are confident and emotionally secure. Like you have experienced, she will always see through it. If you want real results, you have to REALLY become confident and emotionally secure. You can’t fake your way through life. You have to stand up and be a man. In today’s world, women don’t put up with anything less. They did in previous generations, but the current generation is not afraid to break up (or divorce) and move on if the man isn’t a real man.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan,
I enjoy reading your website, good positive stuff.
I’m in a bit of a pickle. I used to be quite good with the ladies until my last relationship broke down about a year and a half ago. Since then I have no idea what has happened to me, I can still get girls but I find myself nervous when talking to them initially. This has never been a problem for me before, when I lived in Spain after the before mentioned break I was seeing a few girls. My most recent escapade was last night in Bahrain I went to a bar (alone) with a lot of high class women, a few were giving me the eye, but I couldn’t muster the power to go say hi, I don’t know what it was, lack of confidence? Intimidated? I don’t know, I’m a bit older now, balding (it’s shaved) I think about my age a lot, my last gf was 25 and I was 30 at the time. I dunno man any advice would be good. Would this program work for me?
Cheers fella
Hey Bob
Thanks for your question.
Actually, the program for you would be Dating Power http://store.themodernman.com/in/ff7fdd because you need a program that will teach you how to get back to a confidence state of being and you also need a refresher on how to talk to women, flirt with them and avoid messing up the escalation from conversation to kiss to sex.
Better Than a Bad Boy is for guys who need to learn how to be a man.
Cheers
Dan
Hello Dan
ive purchased 2 of your products (the flow) which ive not watched yet and (better than a bad boy) which im in the middle of watching. im finding it great and im learning for sure.
The thing is dan is that i never really have problems picking up women etc.. its more that once ive found one i really like i tend to mess up. if im honest i think i get a bit clingy too early. Do you have a product that you recommend for me?
Also ive attracted recently a really hot girl that im in too, but ive noticed ive become a bit too into her too soon, clingy pehaps already. is there a chance to turn this around or have i blown this one already and need to move on to the next?
cheers
Hey Scott
Thanks for your positive feedback and question.
Yes, the program for you is Better Than a Bad Boy. I’m actually surprised that you would ask the question, since Better Than a Bad Boy goes into specific detail early on in the program about not being needy. Keep watching and you will soon understand exactly how to stop being clingy with women for now and the rest of your life. Better Than a Bad Boy will teach you how to make women cling to you and hope that you don’t leave.
Cheers
Dan
Dan,
I’m trying to figure out if I want a confident woman or a submissive woman. Are you saying that you can change a confident woman so that she’s always submissive? Isn’t that just what she is and what she occasionally wants to be?
Hey Craig
Thanks for your question.
Yes, a confident woman will submit to a man who is stronger than her, mentally and emotionally. Women yearn for a man like that. They will submit because they WANT to. That’s what they fantasize about when they masturbate. They don’t fantasize about wimpy, hesitant men.
Cheers
Dan
Dan,
I am a married man, been with my wife for 8 years. We are on the verge of divorce and at the risk of sounding the dreaded “needy” word, I do not want that to happen. Lots of issues, but the main one is that she has lost respect for me and I’m trying to figure out how to get that back. Any suggestions?
Hey Brian
Thanks for your question.
Yes, watch this video: http://www.themodernman.com/videos/the-3-stages-she-went-through-before-breaking-up-with-you.html Then, if she hasn’t yet broken up with you, watch Better Than a Bad Boy and use the techniques to become the real man she wants you to be. If she has already asked for a divorce, then watch this http://www.themodernman.com/videos/get-your-ex-back-super-system.html and go through the steps of the system. By the 7th step, you and her will be back together for good.
Cheers
Dan
Hey dan. So I FINALLY got around to watching the ocean movies. I mean oceans 11, 12, and 13. And wow I really learned a lot from brad Pitt George clooney and also Matt Damon. It was like I got to see a GGWE in action. Those two were great examples. It was awesome to see how they handled other “dominate” people in interactions and how they didn’t back down to anyone but kept their cool so easily. It was also cool to see how they were the leaders of the group and how they handled problems with such ease when they came up. And Matt damon gave a great example of how not to be. So far I have watched those 3 movies and vicky Christina Barcelona and have really learned a lot. So my question is what other movies do you suggest that I can learn from? I’m going to watch mr. And mrs. Smith to see more of brad Pitt in action. Thanks for the great suggestion.
Phil
Hey Phil
Thanks for your question.
Good to hear that mate. The difference between YOU and another guy watching those movies is that you know about GGWE. (To anyone reading along – GGWE (abbreviated as an acronym here to protect the technique name) is a critical part of being what women refer to as a real man and is explained in detail in Better Than a Bad Boy).
Other movies to watch: Will Smith in “Hitch.”
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan!
Success story for you.
So on Thursday I spent the afternoon watching BTABB as a mental primer before I went out on a pub crawl. I find repeat viewings help keep my mind sets correct and positive to project the best version of myself.
I am toned but slim. I’m fine with that. There was a muscly guy on the train as it arrived at its destination. He just had to look at me & new not to screw with me. I out asserted him.
The pub crawl started at a rooftop bar, I immediately introduced myself to the group leader and within 2 minutes had introduced myself to 5 guys. “Hi I’m Andrew, how are you”. Little later I saw and approached: held court with 2 women, one from Sydney the other from Perth. Unfortunately they bailed before the next pub.
All night I was working the group and talking to everyone introducing myself to everyone without delay.
I got 4 phone numbers, 1 hug and a kiss. I broke the touch barrier with the girls a LOT!! I was dangerous. One girl pulled back from me putting my arm around her waist. I didn’t care. I told her she was pretty and she would be great as a redhead.
Another girl (a black girl) I bought a drink for, she searched me out later, offered her phone number and asked me to remind her to buy me a drink tonight.
Some guy called out I ordered a red so I said: “Yep, I like red”. Then he said he that he “respected that”.
At the next place I sat next to a random girl and introduced myself. Helped her find a train home. 60 seconds: phone number and “SMS me” as she left.
At the last place I was so on fire, that I got a fourth phone number from a off-duty barmaid. Got her laughing, phone number and where she worked.
It was the most epic night I’ve had in a while. This group is going out again tonight…
Cheers,
Andrew
Hey Andrew
Epic indeed! What a night! Congratulations.
Knowing the painful place you were in when you found The Modern Man, I am proud to see where you’re at now. Good on you for believing in yourself and knowing that you are a great man and just need to bring that out in social situations. I know exactly what you would have been feeling as you headed home that night with phone numbers and after having a kiss and getting some hugs. It’s an exciting time in the transformation process! The best thing for you to do now is to say to yourself, “I’m already there. I’ve got this nailed” and use all of your positive experiences to reinforce that belief and your confidence in yourself.
Thanks for sharing your success and enjoy the great times ahead!
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan!
Follow up success story.
2 hour date at my local cafe today. Took lead and displayed confidence at every opportunity. Passed (at least) one of her tests. Arm around her waist many times. Playfully spanked her on the bum while walking just after her cocktail dress blew up in the breeze & I made a flirty comment about it. She nervously laughed (sexual tension?) She didn’t shy away from nor commented on the slap, just kept talking.
During the walk I made a theme of her “earning [stuff] if she was a good girl”. She said at one point, “I won’t ask what I have to do to earn certain things”. I let that through to the keeper as an answer wasn’t necessary.
She seemed at pains to say she only wanted to meet people.
She kissed me on the lips as we were walking back to her car. I didn’t lean in. Told her to do it again. She did. Then she said: “Now I only want to be friends…FOR NOW, I didn’t give you the wrong impression did I?”. I was slow to respond (mistake?). She said “Oh, darn, awkward silence.” I said I understood and am in no rush – just to make her more comfortable. I DIDN’T say “No no no. Not at all. I wouldn’t think of that.” because I do want to move this girl to sex.
My assessment is she IS interested in sex with me, but trying really hard not to come off as too easy. Putting up resistance.
I’m keen to hear your assessment (not only for my benefit, but all the guys reading this). Am I reading the situation accurately?
Cheers,
Andrew
Hey Andrew
Thanks for sharing your success so far and congratulations.
Yes, she is interested (otherwise she wouldn’t have kissed you). However, you need to make the escalation process more comfortable for her. Her comment about the awkward silence tells me that SHE was worrying about those sorts of things. In other words, she’s not that confident, doubts herself a little and doesn’t want to stuff things up.
With this type of woman, you need to have some drinks with her to loosen the vibe up between you and then escalate to sex. If you don’t drink, no problem, just use the sexual escalation techniques from Dating Power: http://store.themodernman.com/products/dating_power.html We explain exactly what to say and do all the way up to the point where you’re in bed with her and take her bra off. We leave you at that point because most guys can pretty much work out what do from there!
Cheers
Dan
…Wow…just…wow. I have a story you would scarcely believe.
I almost didn’t go out tonight. ‘Magic’ is the only word I can think of to even begin to describe it.
I rocked up at a meetup event with a group I’ve been to 3 times before, so I knew some people. I bought a drink and said to a mate, “hold this” as I went outside to call another girl to try and arrange another catchup…left voicemail #1.
Came back inside got my drink from mate & started chatting to the girl he was talking to. She was chatty and responded to my confidence. I said if she treated me good and didn’t hi to me she could buy me a drink. I followed her to the bar and she bought a drink for herself. Kept chatting. Came back to the function room as I continued to make silly little mistakes, one’s that would make her think that I wasn’t listening to her…and she called me on them too, she actually said “you’re really out of it tonight, yet she still didn’t walk off. When I thought I’d lost her some guy came over and they seemed to know each other. Heard her mention ‘boyfriend’… I almost bailed. Stayed there didn’t participate in their conversation. When he left turns out she thought he was creepy: “you could have saved me” she said. “You looked like you were handling him ok” I responded. I said: “do you want to get out of here?”. She suggested a place and I said “let’s go”. So I left a venue her…just the two of us. I had only been there 20 min!
She took me to this awesome little place. Sat together on the Chesterfield. We had so much in common. I bought a round and later she reciprocated. We talked for 3 hours and it seemed like much less. I had my arm over the back of the chesterfield and occasional stroked her hair, which she was fine with.
There were many comfortable silences but it just didn’t matter. I quietly asked of she was having a good time: “Yes”
We exchanged numbers. Walking back to her place in the city I asked if she would like to see me next week. “You’ve got my number”, came the reply – no mention of any boyfriend. As we parted for the night I reiterated that I had a good time, agreed to call her in a couple of days and hugged.
We even glanced back at each other as we walked away! I saw her smile. I’m sure I was too.
I honestly think the “boyfriend” doesn’t exist except to put off the creepy guy.
I simply have to keep moving this forward.
She is 28, I am 38. She asked and I told her. I asked too.
The only thing that concerns me is that she declined my kiss 2 hours in. I said “That’s ok” and didn’t let it bother me. It could have been a test.
Dan,
I’ve been looking into buying batter than a bad boy for a while now, I don’t know if its right for me.
Here’s a little background. I used to suck with women late teens/ early 20’s, I started to have a bit more success after than and had a couple of long term relationships. The last relationship i had was 2 years ago with a really attractive girl, however I could not see it working out so I ended it, it was a horrible break up, I felt guilty etc, and somehow I ended up feeling like the dumpee. After that I have been pretty good at picking up girls at bars etc and a few of her friends (whoops). But they are not women i want to settle down with, the problem is I enjoy everything until the girls become clingy, then I want nothing more with them. Now I’m knocking on 33 and all of a sudden I cant even get a phone number!! I am balding but i’m in no way ugly, kind of Beckham esque (so I’ve been told). There are a few nice looking girls with great personality around my area, but not a huge pool (I live abroad and don’t speak the lingo). There is a lot of competition for the ones that have anything about them.
In a nutshell I want it all, I want women to see me as the first choice, I want to stand out, I don’t just want the short term thing anymore either. Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks
T
Hey Thomas
Thanks for your question.
I looked you up on Facebook using the e-mail address you submitted when leaving the comment. Yes, you do that have that David Beckham look about you. As you know though, looks don’t mean a thing if you don’t have the confidence to back it up.
Essentially, Better Than a Bad Boy is going to help you realize and get clear on:
– The many reasons why you are attractive in ways other than looks.
– What you really want from a relationship with a woman.
– How to get women feeling desperate to be chosen by a guy like you.
At the moment, you’re seeing the hotter girls as the prize. Yet, that is not going to get you the girl. When a girl feels like she is valuable, she wants to get herself a guy who makes her feel lucky to be with him, because HE is so valuable. Value isn’t about looks, money, cars, muscles, etc – it’s about who you are as a man, where you’re going in life, how you make her and others feel when around you, etc.
I do recommend Better Than a Bad Boy for you. If you do get it, please come back here and post up a review or success story when you have one.
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan
My first post, I read your Flow, watched AP and BBTB and they been truly opening.
My mate showed me your site to me last year and I was cautious whether to buy your stuff or not, but decided to take a leap of faith, all I can is mind opening, since gaining the knowledge I’ve now realised cues from women I missed in past well from on I won’t.
My only problem at the moment is I have sibling who’s bad boy and he his one heck of a negative influence, which countered by filling my life with good people.
Anyway on a positive note, been going out every two weeks and reached a milestone in my progress spoke to 3 groups of 2 girls by myself didn’t get numbers but it was an amazing experience.
I know as long as I keep this up, I’ll soon have a success story.
Thanks
Chris
Hey Chris
Thanks for sharing your success so far.
Good to have you on board and I look forward to helping you all the way to bigger and better success stories.
As for your sibling: The way to handle people like that is to stick to your frame of reference about the world. Don’t argue with his negative perspectives unless he is willing to learn and open his mind to new, more positive and forward-moving ways of thinking. If someone is stuck in their ways and is unwilling to change, they are a waste of time and energy.
Become the man that your sibling will look to as a role model. He may never admit it, but when he sees all the success you are having, he will either try to emulate you or he will wish he had the courage to stop behaving in the negative ways that he does.
Cheers
Dan
Hey Dan,
My girlfriend and I of 2.5 years share an apartment together and she recently told me she doesnt feel the same way about me (i.e. loves me as a friend) and said she needs space. The underlying reason she says is because of the conflicts we have had and it has changed her feelings over time. She said that in social situations that I dont stand up for her and that I dont consider her feelings and she feels ‘less than’ – ultimately leading her to saying we see the world differently. This was only something she started saying after we moved in together. I consider myself to be a man of high morals (honest, loyal, committed, trustworthy, respectful etc) however the conflicts that we have had (both small and big) make her angry very quick and she has a hard time letting that anger go and it makes things worse.
She went through and extremely tough upbringing – her mother was very emotionally abusive and she didnt have much friends and spent alot of time alone and I can see her mothers traits in her behaviour and how the underlying anger makes it difficult to accept things.
Ofcourse, I am not perfect and I do my best to understand where she is coming from and try to be a better man everyday. We have even had couples therapy and she was having individual therapy for her anger and sadness but it stopped when we got busy and that didnt help.
I love her very much and want her back but understanding that we both need to look in the mirror and commit to making a change for the better.
Right now, we are sharing the apartment as room mates as she is trying to decide whether she wants to stay or go and she says she feels like we rushed into moving in together and feels like she needs to live on her own and figure out who she is.
I feel very much in limbo here.
Any advise would be great.
Hey Sean
Thanks for your comment.
When a woman says that she needs to figure out who she is, it almost always means that she doesn’t see you leading the way. When a man lacks real purpose in life outside of his relationship with a woman and then makes his woman his purpose in life, it causes the woman to feel like she is what his life is about. Without her, his life would crumble.
Feminine women hate that.
When a feminine woman is made to feel that way in a relationship, it forces her into a more masculine way of being where she feels like the leader, the rock, the thing that everything is leaning on. Feminine women don’t want that on their shoulders.
You said, “I do my best to understand where she is coming from and try to be a better man everyday.” I mean, that is great and all, but it’s not the answer. What you need to do is become a more attractive man (mentally and emotionally) to her.
It sounds like you are already a great man. You said, “I consider myself to be a man of high morals (honest, loyal, committed, trustworthy, respectful etc)” so your character is not a problem. The problem is that she only sees you as a friend because you’re not making her feel sexually attracted.
In the past, women would stay with men for life even where there was no sexual attraction. In today’s world, you’ve got to get it right because women are free to go and find a new man if they please. You’ve got to deepen the love, respect and attraction that a woman feels for you over time.
If you want to learn how to do that (and to get clear on your purpose in life outside of her), I recommend that you watch Better Than a Bad Boy: http://store.themodernman.com/better_than_a_bad_boy.html
When you watch Better Than a Bad Boy, you will also learn how to turn any arguments into an opportunity to make her feel more sexual attraction for you. I call it “The Love Fix” and it’s about responding to her tests and tantrums in a way that actually brings you closer together and turns her on emotionally.
Cheers
Dan
Hi Dan,
I’m 29 and my girlfriend is 28. We have been together for exactly 1 year. My scenario is quite different than most. My girlfriend tried to break up with me last week, but I talked her old out of it. She finally told me everything that was bothering her. She never gave me any signals that she was happy, actually she would tell me that she is extremely happy and never felt like this before. So here is my problem, what do I do if we are still together, but decided on no contact? She said she will contact me when she is ready. She wants me to work on my own life and to work on her own life. Our lives became one, so she lost a piece of herself and I became complacent. How do I implement a NC, if she said do not contact her until she contacts me? I really need help.
Hey Anthony
Thanks for your question.
I don’t recommend that you use the No Contact Rule. People only teach that on Youtube because they don’t know how to teach guys how to re-attract women, so their only solution is to ignore women. You need to re-attract her, not ignore her.
Don’t worry if she said not to contact her. Don’t let her lead the way. You need to be strong and guide her back into a relationship with you.
Watch this: http://www.themodernman.com/blog/how-much-space-should-you-give-your-ex-before-contacting-her.html
Cheers
Dan